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  <title>#159: people remember people</title>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><hr class="content_break"><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">👋<i> Welcome to the 159th issue of </i><i><b>Open Loops</b></i><i>, a weekly letter on clarity, growth, and building a life that feels like yours.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>My name is </i><i><b><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=159-people-remember-people" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Reza</a></b></i><i>, and each week I share what I&#39;m reading, building, and working through to help you turn confusion into conviction in life and work.</i></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/91806535-c039-40ae-92b4-628f3c913be8/image.png?t=1789104616"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="5-links">🔗 5 links</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">After winning the Nobel Prize, Albert Camus wrote to his childhood teacher to say how much his help had mattered. Pick someone whose encouragement you still remember and tell them what it helped you do. <a class="link" href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2014/11/19/albert-camus-letter-teacher/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=159-people-remember-people" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Albert Camus’s Letter of Gratitude</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Before offering advice, ask, “What matters most to you here?” and help them choose on those terms. <a class="link" href="https://www.avabear.xyz/p/bridging-the-gap?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=159-people-remember-people" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">bridging the gap</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>5-minute walks every half hour </b>reduced post-meal blood sugar spikes by 58% compared with sitting all day. Try giving your next work break a walking route. <a class="link" href="https://www.cuimc.columbia.edu/news/rx-prolonged-sitting-five-minute-stroll-every-half-hour?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=159-people-remember-people" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Rx for Prolonged Sitting</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Try giving your interests different levels of commitment: <b>one craft to master, a few subjects to study, and other skills to learn as you need them.</b> That gives you a way to choose what deserves daily practice and what can stay occasional. <a class="link" href="https://samuelrinko.substack.com/p/how-to-manage-multiple-interests?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=159-people-remember-people" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">How to Manage Multiple Interests</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Make time for dinner.</b> Sit down to eat and put your phone away, even when you’re eating alone.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Encourage people’s enthusiasm.</b> When someone lights up about a hobby, ask them more.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Use the good things.</b> Light the candle or wear the coat you’ve been saving for a special occasion.</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://nicolasfairford.substack.com/p/my-completely-unreasonable-rules?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=159-people-remember-people" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">My Unreasonable Rules for Life</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="Sleep properly and go for walks" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/77c7c8e8-fdad-448e-8955-0e40429aea9a/9123ee1e-6edc-477a-8ffb-8d5d924e8cb4_640x123.png?t=1789102255"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="from-threads">🧵 From Threads</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.threads.com/share/GgLuSR1XK/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=159-people-remember-people" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/4da7384f-ee05-44f4-ad86-0edfe8919ea5/image.png?t=1789100278"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="Light in human form" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/b63f6389-d41d-4091-aa56-4fd756340b23/e8a7f9a5-8c55-4555-a2e0-24b6fddc632c_1080x1350.webp?t=1789102257"/></div><hr class="content_break"><blockquote align="center" class="twitter-tweet"><a href="https://twitter.com/pingu4ll/status/2093371206158393590?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=159-people-remember-people"><p> Twitter tweet </p></a></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-quote">💬 One quote</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="Create like no one’s watching" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/b481b060-8636-4027-8160-56b9a2b94556/b4d524e1-9732-4789-aeb1-a770bae8c302_1799x1199.png?t=1789102256"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-book">📚 One book</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/marketing-rebellion/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=159-people-remember-people" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="Marketing Rebellion by Mark Schaefer book cover" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/b69cb9c8-3a4b-4b50-886e-80a15fa32805/marketing-rebellion.png?t=1789099952"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If there’s one thing you should remember from this book, it’d be:</p><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The story a customer repeats matters more than the message a company sends.</b> Trust grows from how a business behaves, how its people show up, and whether customers feel understood.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Here’s another three:</b></p><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">→ <i>Read my full bookshelf note on </i><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/marketing-rebellion/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=159-people-remember-people" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b><i>Marketing Rebellion</i></b></a><i>.</i></p><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/6b8e70b7-4e61-4509-80c7-f9d9cfd98b67/Arc_2026-09-11_00.47.25.png?t=1789102113"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-question">❓ One question</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Whose advice have you actually put to use, and what happened?</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Till next time 👋</p><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://instagram.com/rezadotso?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=159-people-remember-people" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" 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strategy, and a launch with more shape.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="get-foundation-33-for-free">✨ Get Foundation 33 for free</h3><div class="section" style="background-color:#fafafa;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://get.reza.so/l/foundation-33?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=159-people-remember-people" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Foundation 33</a> is my curated list of 33 books for clarity, identity, and building a life that feels like yours. 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  <title>#158: who brings you back to yourself</title>
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  <pubDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2026 04:22:03 +0000</pubDate>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">👋<i> Welcome to the 158th issue of </i><b><i>Open Loops</i></b><i>, a weekly letter on clarity, growth, and building a life that feels like yours.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>My name is </i><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=158-who-brings-you-back-to-yourself" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b><i>Reza</i></b></a><i>, and each week I share what I&#39;m reading, building, and working through to help you turn confusion into conviction in life and work.</i></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/35d78eda-b07a-4dea-8d99-7d00225760a8/image.png?t=1788494868"/></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b><i>Welcome to the 174 of you who’ve hopped on since last week; I appreciate your attention! </i></b>🙏</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">After last week’s letter, a reader wrote that Open Loops feels like walking into a favourite boutique: there’s always something thoughtful to take home, for yourself or someone you love. That made my day. I want this to be a small collection that stays with you, not another thing competing for your attention.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let’s dive in!</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="5-links">🔗 5 links</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Seneca&#39;s line about taking yourself wherever you go <b>makes fresh starts a little more revealing.</b> A new job, city, or holiday can change the setting, while the patterns waiting for you there still deserve your attention. <a class="link" href="https://austinkleon.substack.com/p/the-very-thing-that-drove-you-away?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=158-who-brings-you-back-to-yourself" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Austin Kleon</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In the Japanese tea ceremony, <i>ichigo ichie</i> treats every gathering as something that will not happen again, even with the same people in the same room. It changes a coffee run or familiar dinner when you remember that <b>this particular version of it only happens once.</b> <a class="link" href="https://nesslabs.com/newsletter/fleeting-encounters?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=158-who-brings-you-back-to-yourself" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Ness Labs</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>Shutter Island</i>, <i>Memento</i>, and <i>Eternal Sunshine</i> only make sense after their scenes are rearranged. A career can feel just as scrambled in the middle, when the detours haven’t had time to reveal their place. <a class="link" href="https://archeronline.substack.com/p/twists-and-transitions-on-the-vocations?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=158-who-brings-you-back-to-yourself" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Career Archetypes</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">C.S. Lewis thought books and music are only “the scent of a flower we have not found.” <b>The things that move you can be a clue to what you’re actually longing for.</b> <a class="link" href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2026/09/01/c-s-lewis-longing/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=158-who-brings-you-back-to-yourself" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Marginalian</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Nearly 2,000 students assumed Californians must be happier than Midwesterners because of the weather. Their own reported life satisfaction was the same, which is a useful check on whatever shiny variable has taken over your comparison. <a class="link" href="https://www.sahilbloom.com/newsletter/the-focusing-illusion-a-science-backed-life-trap?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=158-who-brings-you-back-to-yourself" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Sahil Bloom</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/a132c1b2-b929-4bba-9f65-8338eb56b5ae/image.png?t=1788494808"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="from-threads">🧵 From Threads</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.threads.com/@rezadotso/post/DckWU3dm_sJ?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=158-who-brings-you-back-to-yourself" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/436929ee-aeba-426a-8b13-7dcab97fdb08/Arc_2026-09-03_22.05.36.png?t=1788487550"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/600fce4a-05ab-41bb-8973-40215ae5f694/image.png?t=1788494426"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-quote">💬 One quote</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-book">📚 One book</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.reza.so/bookshelf/nonviolent-communication?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=158-who-brings-you-back-to-yourself" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/ee0f47b1-d7d2-426a-bebf-67219828705b/nonviolent-communication.jpg?t=1788486839"/></a></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Marshall Rosenberg&#39;s four-part model gives a hard conversation a better place to initiate from: what happened, what you feel, what you need, and the action you&#39;re asking for.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The model brings concrete language to a moment when agreement is far away.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>A few ideas from the book</b></p><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">→ <i>Read my full bookshelf note on </i><a class="link" href="https://www.reza.so/bookshelf/nonviolent-communication?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=158-who-brings-you-back-to-yourself" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b><i>Nonviolent Communication</i></b></a><i>.</i></p><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/08e17f38-2413-4723-b27d-f0a3ad660331/image.png?t=1788494934"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/00f0b68b-9535-460d-a1bb-c11b909c97e9/image.png?t=1788494765"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">Speak naturally. 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  <title>#157: getting more done is the trap</title>
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    <dc:creator>Reza Saeedi</dc:creator>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><hr class="content_break"><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">👋 <i>Welcome to the 157th issue of </i><i><b>Open Loops</b></i><i>, a weekly letter on clarity, growth, and building a life that feels like yours.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>My name is </i><i><b><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=157-getting-more-done-is-the-trap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Reza</a></b></i><i>, and each week I share what I&#39;m reading, building, and working through to help you turn confusion into conviction in life and work.</i></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/2cdba454-8145-4a89-a625-0aa41b1476f0/image.png?t=1787888292"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="4-links">🔗 4 links</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A woman built a stable remote job, a nice apartment, and a life with almost no friction, then couldn’t understand why she felt empty. <b>Sometimes the life designed to keep you safe also keeps you from wanting anything strongly enough to feel alive.</b> <a class="link" href="https://www.ask-polly.com/p/im-not-feeling-excited-about-the?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=157-getting-more-done-is-the-trap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Ask Polly</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Alan Watts describes life as a game of hide-and-seek: <b>we forget what we are, then go looking for it in roles, goals, and other people’s approval.</b> Growth can be less about constructing a better self and more about recognizing who has been there all along. <a class="link" href="https://share.snipd.com/episode/e4d5c45d-3ec7-45d4-a4c0-2d01aac35c8d?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=157-getting-more-done-is-the-trap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Alan Watts Being in the Way</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A Zoom workshop shut off after 40 minutes because the host’s credit card had expired. When 90% of the audience rejoined, <b>he learned something no survey could tell him</b>: they had actually wanted to stay. <a class="link" href="https://www.jasonfeifer.com/accidental-experiment/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=157-getting-more-done-is-the-trap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Jason Feifer</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Most artists start by copying the people they admire. Oliver Sacks believed imitation is how we learn the craft; originality comes later, when those influences combine into something of our own. <a class="link" href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2017/11/09/oliver-sacks-the-river-of-consciousness-the-creative-self/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=157-getting-more-done-is-the-trap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Marginalian</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="you-get-about-4000-weeks-getting-mo">🎙️ You get about 4,000 weeks. Getting more done is the trap.</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="true" class="youtube_embed" frameborder="0" height="100%" src="https://youtube.com/embed/-IC06FI7Uds" width="100%"></iframe><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>You can also catch it on </i><a class="link" href="https://open.spotify.com/show/0346eRaTQfFiOdLClHwVSW?si=160bf632c1764143&utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=157-getting-more-done-is-the-trap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i>Spotify</i></a><i> and </i><a class="link" href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/open-loops/id6800997430?uo=4&utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=157-getting-more-done-is-the-trap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i>Apple Podcasts</i></a><i>.</i></p><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="from-threads-this-week">🧵 From Threads this week</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.threads.com/@rezadotso/post/DcZvvTMD19w?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=157-getting-more-done-is-the-trap" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/36289927-fc54-4bed-ade7-432ccc213546/image.png?t=1787884001"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/25df6adb-9007-4b31-a776-a69f58482383/image.png?t=1787888323"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-quote">💬 One quote</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The curious paradox is that when I accept myself as I am, then I change.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"><b><i>Carl Rogers</i></b></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/380b0b4f-d512-4518-9e08-98310d0929ea/image.png?t=1787888003"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-book">📚 One book</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/the-prophet/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=157-getting-more-done-is-the-trap" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran book cover" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/fec38159-f027-45fe-b216-3e57bc86cde8/the-prophet.jpg?t=1787929101"/></a></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This week’s book is <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/the-prophet/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=157-getting-more-done-is-the-trap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>The Prophet, by Kahlil Gibran</b></a>. It reads less like a book of answers and more like a set of reminders about the parts of life we keep trying to simplify.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Again and again, Gibran holds two truths together: joy and sorrow, love and freedom, reason and passion.<br><br>The tension is where the book comes alive.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>A few ideas from the book</b></p><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">→ <i>Check out my full bookshelf note on </i><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/the-prophet/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=157-getting-more-done-is-the-trap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b><i>The Prophet</i></b></a><i>.</i></p><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/9ccca0a6-ade4-4382-94cb-2d94c25aee4e/image__42___1_.png?t=1787888076"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-question">❓ One question</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If the next year looked exactly like the last month, what would bother you most?</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="till-next-time">Till next time 👋</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.instagram.com/rezadotso?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=157-getting-more-done-is-the-trap" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/11ce41d6-48d0-4bd6-b7db-0745686d27e0/image.png?t=1735692265"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="should-we-work-together">🤝 Should we work together?</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Outside the newsletter, there are two ways to work together: <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/coaching/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=157-getting-more-done-is-the-trap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Clarity Coaching</a> for life and career decisions, and <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/founders/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=157-getting-more-done-is-the-trap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">GTM advisory</a> for startups that need a sharper story, clearer strategy, and a launch with more shape.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="get-foundation-33-for-free">✨ Get Foundation 33 for free</h3><div class="section" style="background-color:#fafafa;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://get.reza.so/l/foundation-33?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=157-getting-more-done-is-the-trap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Foundation 33</a> is my curated list of 33 books for clarity, identity, and building a life that feels like yours. 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  <title>#156: what you miss while seeking</title>
  <description>Notes on the things that are not the song, the stories already in your life, and making the introduction.</description>
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  <pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2026 04:57:05 +0000</pubDate>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><hr class="content_break"><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">👋 <i>Welcome to the 156th issue of </i><i><b>Open Loops</b></i><i>, a weekly letter on clarity, growth, and building a life that feels like yours.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>My name is </i><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=156-what-you-miss-while-seeking" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i><b>Reza</b></i></a><i>, and each week I share what I&#39;m reading, building, and working through to help you turn confusion into conviction in life and work.</i></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/c46b4643-2016-46d0-8f96-9f0c148432bb/image.png?t=1787283728"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="4-links">🔗 4 links</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Rick Rubin cannot read music or work a soundboard. In the studio, he lies barefoot on the floor, eyes closed, and listens. His job is to remove the things that are not the song. <a class="link" href="https://oanaleonteofficial.substack.com/p/the-creative-power-of-invisibility?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=156-what-you-miss-while-seeking" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Architecture of Meaning</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">After a chapter, close the book and stare at the wall. Write the core idea from memory, connect it to something you know, find another place it applies, then decide when you will return to it. Four small checks turn content into knowledge. <a class="link" href="https://evakeiffenheim.substack.com/p/how-to-turn-information-into-knowledge?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=156-what-you-miss-while-seeking" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Lifelong Learning Club</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The Midnight Library imagines a shelf for every alternate version of a life. When you are stuck, calculating the perfect choice just keeps you in the library. Pick one small experiment and see what the next chapter gives you. <a class="link" href="https://nextplayso.substack.com/p/getting-unstuck?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=156-what-you-miss-while-seeking" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">next play</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">At a party, the person who knows the fewest people is usually pretending to be absorbed by their phone or the drinks table. Make the introduction, then add one useful detail. It costs almost nothing and turns a room into a kinder place. <a class="link" href="https://nicolasfairford.substack.com/p/my-completely-unreasonable-rules?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=156-what-you-miss-while-seeking" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Notes from Nicolas</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/7005f90e-2fd0-488a-9853-8adedd44ec8e/upload_36751d27558928c1.jpg?t=1787281604"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="from-threads-this-week">🧵 From Threads this week</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.threads.com/@rezadotso/post/DcG_iceEcjq?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=156-what-you-miss-while-seeking" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/9e679a6f-5f79-4632-a043-f5e46b6a278f/image.png?t=1787281809"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/d743f618-1205-4d30-8af4-9bcb1a4b10ec/image.png?t=1787283601"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-quote">💬 One quote</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When someone is seeking, it happens quite easily that he only sees the thing that he is seeking; that he is unable to find anything, unable to absorb anything, because <b>he is only thinking of the thing he is seeking</b>, because he has a goal, because he is obsessed with his goal.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Seeking means: to have a goal; but <b>finding means: to be free, to be receptive, to have no goal</b>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">For in striving towards your goal, you do not see many things that are under your nose.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"><b><i>Hermann Hesse</i></b></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/0d4f3496-11a8-4f85-b728-059e5f8b7335/upload_8a58f5d9bf8891cc.jpg?t=1787281604"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-book">📚 One book</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/storyworthy/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=156-what-you-miss-while-seeking" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/145ec6a5-eafc-4815-b612-1b826a03d599/storyworthy.jpg?t=1787281604"/></a></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This week&#39;s book is <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/storyworthy/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=156-what-you-miss-while-seeking" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>Storyworthy, by Matthew Dicks</b></a>. It is the antidote to the idea that your life needs to be more dramatic before it is worth telling.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The material is already there. You just need to find the small moment when your understanding changed.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>A few ideas from the book</b></p><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-question">❓ One question</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What part of your life has become a role you perform, rather than a place you live from?</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="till-next-time">Till next time 👋</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://reza.so?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=156-what-you-miss-while-seeking" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/11ce41d6-48d0-4bd6-b7db-0745686d27e0/image.png?t=1735692265"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="should-we-work-together">🤝 Should we work together?</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Outside the newsletter, there are two ways to work together: <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/coaching/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=156-what-you-miss-while-seeking" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Clarity Coaching</a> for life and career decisions, and <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/founders/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=156-what-you-miss-while-seeking" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">GTM advisory</a> for startups that need a sharper story, clearer strategy, and a launch with more shape.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="get-foundation-33-for-free">✨ Get Foundation 33 for free</h3><div class="section" style="background-color:#fafafa;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://get.reza.so/l/foundation-33?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=156-what-you-miss-while-seeking" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Foundation 33</a> is my curated list of 33 books for clarity, identity, and building a life that feels like yours. A good place to start if you want a more intentional reading path.</p></div><hr class="content_break"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/powered-by?publication_logo=https%3A%2F%2Fmedia.beehiiv.com%2Fcdn-cgi%2Fimage%2Ffit%3Dscale-down%2Cformat%3Dauto%2Conerror%3Dredirect%2Cquality%3D80%2Fuploads%2Fpublication%2Flogo%2Fff37200d-d471-440f-b2bf-f741421b6d44%2FSquare_logo.png%3Fv%3D1789528803&publication_name=Open+Loops&utm_campaign=cff48e57-6305-4055-b36a-d37f5021e1e0&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=open_loops">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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  <title>#155: stop trying to be someone</title>
  <description>Notes on identity, the work no one sees, and the boundaries that keep us close</description>
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  <pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2026 04:51:14 +0000</pubDate>
  <atom:published>2026-08-14T04:51:14Z</atom:published>
    <dc:creator>Reza Saeedi</dc:creator>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><hr class="content_break"><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">👋 <i>Welcome to the 155th issue of </i><i><b>Open Loops</b></i><i>, a weekly letter on clarity, growth, and building a life that feels like yours.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>My name is </i><i><b><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=155-stop-trying-to-be-someone" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Reza</a></b></i><i>, and each week I share what I&#39;m reading, building, and working through to help you turn confusion into conviction in life and work.</i></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/da86ddc6-7b9b-463c-a4a7-1335c8a5a257/080_6dd6c733-762e-44af-be72-47ae1d5a04ea_640x816.png?t=1786680295"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="on-my-mind">☁️ On my mind</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">We live in an incredible age of identity construction.<br><br>LinkedIn asks us to turn our career into a beautiful narrative. Instagram asks us to turn our life into an aesthetic. Dating apps ask us to compress our personality into freaking prompts.<br><br>Even self-improvement can become an identity. You can become the person who meditates, the person who wakes up at 5 a.m. The person who runs marathons, the person who reads 50 books a year.<br><br>None of this is bad. I love ambition. I love working on myself.<br><br>But I think there is a subtle trap here.<br><br>You can become so good at constructing the person you want to be that you stop asking whether that person is actually you.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="3-links">🔗 3 links</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">David Attenborough&#39;s life&#39;s work now fits inside a search box: around 5,000 episodes across 90 series, from <i>Zoo Quest</i> in 1954 to <i>Secret Garden</i> in 2026. A legacy this large was built one curious question at a time. <a class="link" href="https://attenborough-100.vercel.app/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=155-stop-trying-to-be-someone" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Attenborough at 100</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Austin Kleon&#39;s post-launch rhythm included a diary on tour, Friday trips to answer mail from his PO box, and one handmade mixtape every month. The work that keeps a creative life alive is often smaller than the work everyone sees. <a class="link" href="https://austinkleon.substack.com/p/summer-check-in?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=155-stop-trying-to-be-someone" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Austin Kleon</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When a friend&#39;s name lighting up your phone starts producing anxiety instead of warmth, the problem may be everything you&#39;ve agreed to without ever saying what you need... Boundaries aren&#39;t only how relationships end; they&#39;re often what lets them keep going. <a class="link" href="https://www.ask-polly.com/p/most-of-my-friendships-were-toxic?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=155-stop-trying-to-be-someone" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Ask Polly</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/7d22587b-c363-4afb-b824-3c3e314659cc/042_a8c7e166-2766-41c1-855b-fa6479a4df78_357x362.png?t=1786681266"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="4-timeless-ideas-from-rumi-on-becom">🎙️ 4 timeless ideas from Rumi on becoming who you really are</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Being reminded of these 4 lines from Rumi in an old journal entry (2022) became a useful way to think about the identities we keep adding…<br><br>In the first episode of the <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/podcast/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=155-stop-trying-to-be-someone" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>Open Loops podcast</b></a>, I explore why movement creates clarity, how labels can start choosing for us, and what we notice when we loosen our grip on the story.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><iframe allow="accelerometer; 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  <title>#154: the work you come back to</title>
  <description>Notes on strange ideas, changing your mind, and going off-script</description>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><hr class="content_break"><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">👋<i> Welcome to the 154th issue of </i><b><i>Open Loops</i></b><i>, a weekly letter on clarity, growth, and building a life that feels like yours.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>My name is </i><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=154-the-work-you-come-back-to" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b><i>Reza</i></b></a><i>, and each week I share what I&#39;m reading, building, and working through to help you turn confusion into conviction in life and work.</i></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/e11cd4b2-d60f-4270-8d19-589f6f2d55d1/059_1e4351a9-aca2-41e5-9445-b5bda2384d7d_1080x1351.png?t=1786074083"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="on-my-mind">☁️ On my mind</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>You can’t compete with someone who’s having fun.</b><br><b>They’ll put in more time without calling it sacrifice.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You can work hard without loving it… You can get good at it. You can do it well. You can even be proud of it. But you still watch the clock. And when the day is over, the best part is that it’s finally over.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Then there’s the work you love… It can still frustrate you. You still make things you don’t like. Some days, nothing comes together. But you don’t spend the whole time wishing you were somewhere else.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You want to see what happens next. So you give it another hour. Then another week. Then another year.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You get good because you stayed with it. You get great because you kept coming back.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Over time, you shape the work. And the work shapes you.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="5-links">🔗 5 links</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Once you know what people respond to, it’s tempting to keep giving them more of it. But the next thing they love might be the piece that feels a little off-brand when you hit publish. <a class="link" href="https://sublimeinternet.substack.com/p/humanmaxxing-henrik-karlsson-110?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=154-the-work-you-come-back-to" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Sublime</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You can’t always explain the work that will matter to you while you’re still doing it. Some choices look great from the outside long before they feel good from the inside. <a class="link" href="https://mindmud.substack.com/p/callings?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=154-the-work-you-come-back-to" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Molly Mielke</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That opinion you posted years ago doesn’t have to keep running the show. <b>Life gives you new information, and you’re allowed to let it change you.</b> <a class="link" href="https://madeleinedore.substack.com/p/on-contradiction?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=154-the-work-you-come-back-to" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Dailyness</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Twenty minutes with an article outside his field gave Alex McCann four writing ideas, a product feature, and three new conversations. <b>The right kind of detour is part of the work.</b> <a class="link" href="https://thestillwandering.substack.com/p/the-death-of-hustle-culture?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=154-the-work-you-come-back-to" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Still Wandering</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You don’t have to turn every early thought into content. S<b>pend enough time doing the work</b> that, when you finally share it, you can save someone else a few steps. <a class="link" href="https://share.snipd.com/episode/0da380ed-390c-48b5-887d-4131124373c4?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=154-the-work-you-come-back-to" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Alex Hormozi</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="from-threads-this-week">🧵 From Threads this week</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.threads.com/@rezadotso/post/DblUJFdkd3T?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=154-the-work-you-come-back-to" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/81994f2f-d363-4f6e-a8e4-c94a7f73bd6c/image.png?t=1786070570"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/cbc3f271-2a20-4f1b-9d05-154c70927b7a/026_d4a0f59e-a579-43e1-92e3-4e8a907a05ad_720x459.png?t=1786073997"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-quote">💬 One quote</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-book">📚 One book</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/the-obstacle-is-the-way/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=154-the-work-you-come-back-to" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/26fe0075-748a-4cee-b988-bfcb81a3c3ef/the-obstacle-is-the-way.jpg?t=1786071490"/></a></div><div id="section" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This week&#39;s book is <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/the-obstacle-is-the-way/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=154-the-work-you-come-back-to" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>The Obstacle Is the Way, by Ryan Holiday</b></a>. It&#39;s easy to turn Stoicism into a personality where nothing gets to you and every setback becomes a chance to prove how tough you are… This book gave me a more useful version.<br><br>Getting rejected still sucks. Plans still fall apart. But neither one automatically means you&#39;re behind or that you&#39;re on the wrong path.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>A few ideas from the book:</b></p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Separate the facts from the story</b> you added before you decide what the moment says about you.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Don&#39;t let panic make the problem look like the whole map. Slow down and find the next available move.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Put your energy where you still have agency</b>: your judgment, your next action, and the story you keep repeating.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Treat the first thought as information, not a verdict. Give it some time before you build an identity or a plan around it.</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">→ <i>Check out my full bookshelf note on </i><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/the-obstacle-is-the-way/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=154-the-work-you-come-back-to" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i>The Obstacle Is the Way</i></a><i>.</i></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="from-the-feed">📱<span style="font-size:20px;"><b> From the feed</b></span></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The people you react to hardest, love or irritation, are usually showing you what’s already in you…</p><blockquote align="center" class="instagram-media"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/Dbmdeudxfhm/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=154-the-work-you-come-back-to"><p dir="ltr" lang="en"> Instagram post </p></a></blockquote><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/5fd7c380-0cb1-4fe2-b32c-cc6c173b7b5e/049_17def28e-a251-4f74-b0d7-8c626966ccdf_622x191.png?t=1786074055"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-question">❓ One question</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="till-next-time">Till next time 👋</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.instagram.com/rezadotso?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=154-the-work-you-come-back-to" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/11ce41d6-48d0-4bd6-b7db-0745686d27e0/image.png?t=1735692265"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="should-we-work-together">🤝 Should we work together?</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Outside the newsletter, there are two ways to work together: <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/coaching/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=154-the-work-you-come-back-to" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Clarity Coaching</a> for life and career decisions, and <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/founders/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=154-the-work-you-come-back-to" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">GTM advisory</a> for startups that need a sharper story, clearer strategy, and a launch with more shape.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="get-foundation-33-for-free">✨ Get Foundation 33 for free</h3><div class="section" style="background-color:#fafafa;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://get.reza.so/l/foundation-33?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=154-the-work-you-come-back-to" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Foundation 33</a> is my curated list of 33 books for clarity, identity, and building a life that feels like yours. A good place to start if you want a more intentional reading path.</p></div><hr class="content_break"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/powered-by?publication_logo=https%3A%2F%2Fmedia.beehiiv.com%2Fcdn-cgi%2Fimage%2Ffit%3Dscale-down%2Cformat%3Dauto%2Conerror%3Dredirect%2Cquality%3D80%2Fuploads%2Fpublication%2Flogo%2Fff37200d-d471-440f-b2bf-f741421b6d44%2FSquare_logo.png%3Fv%3D1789528803&publication_name=Open+Loops&utm_campaign=85402c48-a61f-4d18-9712-239f585f7925&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=open_loops">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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  <title>#153: 90,000 hours</title>
  <description>Notes on meaningful work, a calendar that&#39;s yours, and a first rate version of yourself</description>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">👋 <i>Welcome to the 153rd issue of </i><b><i>Open Loops</i></b><i>, a weekly letter on clarity, growth, and building a life that feels like yours.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>My name is </i><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=153-90-000-hours" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b><i>Reza</i></b></a><i>, and each week I share what I&#39;m reading, building, and working through to help you turn confusion into conviction in life and work.</i></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/7f7222c8-5a3a-4a19-9198-ad4ffbb99fdd/image.png?t=1785468818"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="on-my-mind">☁️ On my mind</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">We spend one-third of our lives working.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Nearly 90,000 hours.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>To do work that matters, it’s important to ask:</b></p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">How much are you learning?</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What are you doing that only you can do best?</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">How much of your work is in alignment with your personal values?</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Would people miss what you do if you stopped doing it tomorrow?</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What are you trying to change? What does change mean to you?</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Do you wake up everyday excited to keep adding to what you built yesterday?</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You might not know the answer to all of them, but it’s important to keep questioning…</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">They’lll bring you more clarity. And get you gradually closer to working on the <i>right</i> things.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="4-links">🔗 4 links</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="from-threads-this-week">🧵 From Threads this week</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.threads.com/@rezadotso/post/DbKQZi7jk_y?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=153-90-000-hours" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/8529842a-9027-4f8d-94a4-c39b24d369d6/image.png?t=1785468746"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/7cadb2b8-310d-44e8-bc7f-d46df5e2ab77/image.png?t=1785469028"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="from-the-feed">📱 From the feed</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Starting to share some of the raw lessons from working in the trenches last 12 years…</p><blockquote align="center" class="instagram-media"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DbHelY8RanZ/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=153-90-000-hours"><p dir="ltr" lang="en"> Instagram post </p></a></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-quote">💬 One quote</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-book">📚 One book</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/the-power-of-your-subconscious-mind/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=153-90-000-hours" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="The Power of Your Subconscious Mind by Joseph Murphy" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px 10px 10px 10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/f128f7d5-374d-483f-ac3c-2b7e51709230/the-power-of-your-subconscious-mind.jpg?t=1785463855"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">/</p><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This week&#39;s book is <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/the-power-of-your-subconscious-mind/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=153-90-000-hours" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Power of Your Subconscious Mind, by Joseph Murphy</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It&#39;s an old one, heavy on prayer and affirmations, and it repeats itself. I read it for a single idea rather than the packaging: the mind you talk to all day is building the life you&#39;ll live in.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A few that stuck with me:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The sentence you repeat about yourself all week is the one you&#39;re training yourself to believe. <b>Worth hearing what you&#39;ve been repeating.</b></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Your mind doesn&#39;t catch the joke in &quot;I&#39;m such an idiot.&quot; It just files it.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The charm in your pocket has no power. Believing in it changes how you show up, and that&#39;s the part doing the work.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Someone&#39;s remark takes five seconds. <b>The replay you run for </b></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>the next hour is the part that costs you.</b></p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Check out my full bookshelf note on <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/the-power-of-your-subconscious-mind/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=153-90-000-hours" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Power of Your Subconscious Mind</a>.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="100-genius-side-hustle-ideas">100 Genius Side Hustle Ideas</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://thehustle.co/side-hustle-ideas-database-1step?utm_medium=email-media-newsletter&utm_source=the-hustle&utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_content=incentivized-beehiiv&utm_term=Version-A&_bhiiv=opp_3b85ce4b-5c8f-4782-8afe-06f2f85ad3d9_7e116862&bhcl_id=cf8259b7-664d-4949-bed8-dac6faf4873c_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/4151ba66-1db2-4349-8f6b-0e2f75f2ba90/Hustle_Incentivized_Signup_Ads_Project_2_Project_2_Opt_5.png?t=1745627807"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Don&#39;t wait. 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  <title>#152: the thing you don&#39;t have to force</title>
  <description>Notes on the work you don&#39;t have to force, small things worth noticing, and How To Love.</description>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">👋 <i>Welcome to the 152nd issue of </i><b><i>Open Loops</i></b><i>, a weekly letter on clarity, growth, and building a life that feels like yours.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>My name is </i><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=152-the-thing-you-don-t-have-to-force" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b><i>Reza</i></b></a><i>, and each week I share what I&#39;m reading, building, and working through to help you turn confusion into conviction in life and work.</i></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/387cdff2-85a6-47a3-b67f-eff34c43b3ec/image.png?t=1784862811"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="on-my-mind">☁️ On my mind</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You&#39;ll always do better work on the project you can&#39;t stop thinking about than the one you have to force yourself back to.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>When you&#39;re genuinely excited, you wake up already in it.</b> You find the time without bargaining for it. You do the parts nobody&#39;s watching.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When you&#39;re not, every step costs you something. And people can feel that in the process. And in the result.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So if you have to talk yourself into it every morning, you already have your answer.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">And if you can&#39;t wait to get to it, you have the one thing that&#39;s almost impossible to fake.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="4-links">🔗 4 links</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="from-threads-this-week">🧵 From Threads this week</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.threads.com/@rezadotso/post/DbCk4NvG2G5?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=152-the-thing-you-don-t-have-to-force" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/0c19c86f-799d-4f32-afab-b3bc4454d20e/Arc_2026-07-23_22.40.00.png?t=1784862062"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/9619637d-c5b7-46e0-844d-60514edb6e79/image.png?t=1784862704"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="from-the-feed">📱 From the feed</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Prayer and worry can&#39;t really occupy the same space, and noticing which one I&#39;m actually doing has been useful.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><blockquote align="center" class="instagram-media"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DadFgkhx4r_/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=152-the-thing-you-don-t-have-to-force"><p dir="ltr" lang="en"> Instagram post </p></a></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-quote">💬 One quote</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-book">📚 One book</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/how-to-love/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=152-the-thing-you-don-t-have-to-force" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="How To Love by Thich Nhat Hanh" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px 10px 10px 10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/250ebf50-1f1a-4352-8185-3bf54ad08a78/how-to-love.jpg?t=1784861463"/></a></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This week&#39;s book is <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/how-to-love/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=152-the-thing-you-don-t-have-to-force" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">How To Love, by Thich Nhat Hanh</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Despite the title, it’s less so about relationships, and more about attention. It&#39;s small, almost pocket-sized, and it reads more like a set of reminders.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A few that stuck with me:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You can care about someone deeply and still <i>not</i> understand them. <b>Understanding takes asking what they&#39;re actually going through.</b></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Most of us go around like a pot looking for its lid, sure the missing piece is out there. But the empty feeling came with YOU, and it leaves with you too.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>When someone treats you badly, it&#39;s usually their own pain, not a plan to hurt you. </b>Worth checking before you fire back.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The right people make you more yourself. If you shrink around someone, that&#39;s worth noticing.</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Check out my full bookshelf note on <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/how-to-love/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=152-the-thing-you-don-t-have-to-force" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">How To Love</a>.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="wake-up-smarter-about-ai">Wake Up Smarter About AI.</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://forwardfuture.ai/newsletter?utm_campaign=f6c178f4-9377-48e4-90be-1db85ee83517&utm_term={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_source=beehiiv&utm_medium=004&_bhiiv=opp_e5df9c2e-ca7b-4f63-b8f8-55b92ace8494_ebea6468&bhcl_id=698eda9e-b3d9-49f7-a043-d9e6c979bf6f_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/25b61b40-2e81-4dbe-ac57-cd3a5b9c4bdb/Beehiiv_creative_004.png?t=1779127064"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The president of OpenAI. The CEO of Google. The founder of LinkedIn. We talk to the people building AI. Every morning, we put what they told us <a class="link" href="https://forwardfuture.ai/newsletter?utm_campaign=f6c178f4-9377-48e4-90be-1db85ee83517&utm_term={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_source=beehiiv&utm_medium=004&_bhiiv=opp_e5df9c2e-ca7b-4f63-b8f8-55b92ace8494_ebea6468&bhcl_id=698eda9e-b3d9-49f7-a043-d9e6c979bf6f_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">in your inbox.</a></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What they&#39;re actually worried about. What they&#39;re betting on. What&#39;s coming next. 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  <title>#151: the day you plant isn&#39;t the day you harvest</title>
  <description>Notes on time, Ferguson&#39;s discipline, and watching before you fix.</description>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">👋 <i>Welcome to the 151st issue of </i><i><b>Open Loops</b></i><i>, a weekly letter on clarity, growth, and building a life that feels like yours.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>My name is </i><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=151-the-day-you-plant-isn-t-the-day-you-harvest" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i><b>Reza</b></i></a><i>, and each week I share what I&#39;m reading, building, and working through to help you turn confusion into conviction in life and work.</i></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/acbf1c09-ecfa-415c-ad84-5f87348c0043/image.png?t=1784260328"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="on-my-mind">☁️ On my mind</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A thought that&#39;s been sitting with me all week: the day you plant the seeds is never the day you harvest.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Some part of me still expects them on the same day. Do the work, see the result. Send the thing, hear back. Change the habit, feel different by Friday.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But almost nothing works on that timeline. You put something in the ground, and then comes a stretch where nothing above the surface moves, and it&#39;s easy to assume nothing below it is either.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Most of what I&#39;m proud of grew out of seasons that felt exactly like that. Unremarkable. No proof yet. The harvest came later, and only because I kept watering a patch of dirt that gave me nothing back for a while.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="4-links">🔗 4 links</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/a11d70ce-a11b-4917-95ef-50a8347e9ce7/image.png?t=1784258656"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="from-threads-this-week">🧵 From Threads this week</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.threads.com/@rezadotso/post/Da0PY3Gm1yS?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=151-the-day-you-plant-isn-t-the-day-you-harvest" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/9a4ff5fd-b1ab-49d0-91a9-1d4bbec23980/image.png?t=1784259572"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">Turn AI into Your Income Engine</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://offers.hubspot.com/make-money-with-ai?utm_medium=email-media-newsletter&utm_source={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_campaign=creator&utm_content=beehiiv&utm_term=version-a&_bhiiv=opp_487b86b3-f825-4cf4-bee2-2778ad7aace4_64797c8f&bhcl_id=b9c10788-924a-449b-b72f-d5263410146c_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img class="image__image" style="border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/9b229be9-9203-452f-8300-e1b0d1851d7c/MakeMoneyAI_V1.png?t=1744398973"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Ready to transform artificial intelligence from a buzzword into your personal revenue generator?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">HubSpot’s groundbreaking guide &quot;<a class="link" href="https://offers.hubspot.com/make-money-with-ai?utm_medium=email-media-newsletter&utm_source={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_campaign=creator&utm_content=beehiiv&utm_term=version-a&_bhiiv=opp_487b86b3-f825-4cf4-bee2-2778ad7aace4_64797c8f&bhcl_id=b9c10788-924a-449b-b72f-d5263410146c_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">200+ AI-Powered Income Ideas</a>&quot; is your gateway to financial innovation in the digital age.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Inside you&#39;ll discover:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A curated collection of 200+ profitable opportunities spanning content creation, e-commerce, gaming, and emerging digital markets—each vetted for real-world potential</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Step-by-step implementation guides designed for beginners, making AI accessible regardless of your technical background</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Cutting-edge strategies aligned with current market trends, ensuring your ventures stay ahead of the curve</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Download your guide today and unlock a future where artificial intelligence powers your success. Your next income stream is waiting.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://offers.hubspot.com/make-money-with-ai?utm_medium=email-media-newsletter&utm_source={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_campaign=creator&utm_content=beehiiv&utm_term=version-a&_bhiiv=opp_487b86b3-f825-4cf4-bee2-2778ad7aace4_64797c8f&bhcl_id=b9c10788-924a-449b-b72f-d5263410146c_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Get Your Guide</a></p><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-quote">💬 One quote</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-book">📚 One book</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/leading/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=151-the-day-you-plant-isn-t-the-day-you-harvest" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="Leading by Alex Ferguson and Michael Moritz" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px 10px 10px 10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/5d085763-09e6-4408-883c-c882d45b461c/leading.jpg?t=1784255835"/></a></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This week&#39;s book is <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/leading/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=151-the-day-you-plant-isn-t-the-day-you-harvest" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Leading, by Alex Ferguson</a>. I didn&#39;t expect a football memoir to read like a sharp book on leadership. I think this gap is exactly what makes it land.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A few ideas from the book:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Discipline is the boring floor that every impressive thing stands on. The talent people admire only compounds because something unglamorous underneath it showed up every single day.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A manager makes sure the work gets done. <b>A leader acts like the whole outcome is theirs to answer for, even the parts they never touched</b>, and people can feel which one you are fast.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Wins let everyone keep their story intact, so they teach you almost nothing. It&#39;s the losses that hand you honest footage.</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Check out my full bookshelf note on <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/leading/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=151-the-day-you-plant-isn-t-the-day-you-harvest" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Leading</a>.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17f21e60-07c2-404a-a040-a15897d48b1e/image.png?t=1784259856"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-question">❓ One question</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="till-next-time">Till next time 👋</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://reza.so?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=151-the-day-you-plant-isn-t-the-day-you-harvest" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/11ce41d6-48d0-4bd6-b7db-0745686d27e0/image.png?t=1735692265"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="should-we-work-together">🤝 Should we work together?</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This newsletter is where I think out loud each week. The rest of my work is with people at real inflection points: <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/coaching/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=151-the-day-you-plant-isn-t-the-day-you-harvest" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Clarity Coaching</a> for life and career decisions, and <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/founders/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=151-the-day-you-plant-isn-t-the-day-you-harvest" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">GTM advisory</a> for startups that need a sharper story and a launch with more shape.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="get-foundation-33-for-free">✨ Get Foundation 33 for free</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://rezasaeedi.gumroad.com/l/foundation-33?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=151-the-day-you-plant-isn-t-the-day-you-harvest" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Foundation 33</a> is my curated list of 33 books for clarity, identity, and building a life that feels like yours. 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  <title>#150: do it first</title>
  <description>Notes on time, work that fits, and a calm mind</description>
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  <pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2026 03:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
  <atom:published>2026-07-10T03:00:00Z</atom:published>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">👋 <i>Welcome to the 150th issue of </i><i><b>Open Loops</b></i><i>, a weekly letter on clarity, growth, and building a life that feels like yours.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>My name is </i><i><b><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=150-do-it-first" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Reza</a></b></i><i>, and each week I share what I&#39;m reading, building, and working through to help you turn confusion into conviction in life and work.</i></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/05e9b2ae-d596-47d3-bfc2-9ce7cbfeaf61/Arc_2026-07-09_22.24.17.png?t=1783650281"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="on-my-mind">☁️ On my mind</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Life is short, but you act like it&#39;s infinite.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You answer emails the moment they land. You sit through meetings that could&#39;ve been a note. You handle tasks for others before your own.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You&#39;ll get to the workout later. You&#39;ll write tomorrow. You&#39;ll take that trip when things calm down.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But things rarely calm down on their own. Time keeps moving, even when you&#39;re not.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So pick the one thing that matters to you. Do it first, before the day fills up with everyone else&#39;s.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="5-links">🔗 5 links</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="from-threads-this-week">🧵 From Threads this week</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.threads.com/@rezadotso/post/DaaW1shm-04?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=150-do-it-first" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/1c0ab61c-7163-4100-ade2-0679dbed1955/image.png?t=1783647977"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/8d82abc5-3d26-4b9c-92cc-032993261628/Arc_2026-07-09_22.24.28.png?t=1783650317"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-quote">💬 One quote</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-book">📚 One book</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/the-hard-thing-about-hard-things/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=150-do-it-first" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="The Hard Thing About Hard Things by Ben Horowitz" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/2d44ece0-9534-4c3b-9c6c-5f2b1fd6f2d2/the-hard-thing-about-hard-things.jpg?t=1783644245"/></a></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This week&#39;s book is <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/the-hard-thing-about-hard-things/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=150-do-it-first" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Hard Thing About Hard Things, by Ben Horowitz</a>. Most books on building tell you how to set the goal, hire the people, draw the org chart. <b>This one is about everything that happens after, when the goal gets missed, the great hires turn entitled, and the chart you drew stops matching how people actually talk.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A few ideas from the book:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">There&#39;s no formula for the hard part. Books and frameworks handle the easy ninety percent; the gut-wrenching call that only you can make is exactly the part no playbook will hand you.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The struggle isn&#39;t a sign you took a wrong turn. It&#39;s the actual texture of building anything real, so the sooner you stop waiting for it to pass, the sooner you can work inside it.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Great gets mistaken for talent. Most of the time it&#39;s just whoever refused to quit on the day quitting would have been completely reasonable.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In a crisis, your attention decides more than the plan does. Fixate on every way it could fall apart and you drift toward the fall, so hold your focus on where you&#39;re actually trying to end up.</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/the-hard-thing-about-hard-things/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=150-do-it-first" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Check out my full bookshelf note on The Hard Thing About Hard Things.</a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-question">❓ One question</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="should-we-work-together">🤝 Should we work together?</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This newsletter is where I think out loud each week. The rest of my work is with people at real inflection points: <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/coaching/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=150-do-it-first" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Clarity Coaching</a> for life and career decisions, and <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/founders/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=150-do-it-first" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">GTM advisory</a> for startups that need a sharper story and a launch with more shape.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="get-foundation-33-for-free">📚️ Get Foundation 33 for free</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://rezasaeedi.gumroad.com/l/foundation-33?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=150-do-it-first" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Foundation 33</a> is my curated list of 33 books for clarity, identity, and building a life that feels like yours. 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  <title>#149: the things you can&#39;t force</title>
  <description>Notes on unforced moments, real attention, and seeing people clearly</description>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">👋<i> Welcome to the 149th issue of </i><b><i>Open Loops</i></b><i>, a weekly letter on clarity, growth, and building a life that feels like yours.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>My name is </i><span style="color:inherit;"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=149-the-things-you-can-t-force" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #000000"><b><i>Reza</i></b></a></span></span><i>, and each week I share what I&#39;m reading, building, and working through to help you turn confusion into conviction in life and work.</i></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/fa8c09b8-cfb2-432e-81d6-c23fa6ef479e/Screenshot-2026-June-27-rKSPGOjF.png?t=1782599687"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="on-my-mind">☁️ On my mind</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You don&#39;t lack ambition. You lack alignment.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You feel it every day… The work that pays but drains. The meetings that look important but feel empty. The days packed with tasks no one remembers.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Careers break when they stop reflecting who you are. You keep pushing through the emptiness. Optimizing for things that don&#39;t matter to you.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But the solution isn&#39;t another pivot… It&#39;s getting honest about what gives you energy. Some come alive when they build. Some when they teach. Some when they connect ideas.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Listen closely to figure out yours.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Alignment isn&#39;t a leap. It&#39;s a shift from performing a role to expressing who you already are.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That&#39;s where your best work lives.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This week I recorded a podcast I hadn&#39;t over-prepared for, and it turned into the most natural conversation I&#39;ve had in months. Then a friend sent a short, kind note that landed harder than anything I&#39;d been working on.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Both of these were unplanned!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I keep seeing the pattern: the moments that matter are the ones I couldn&#39;t engineer. The more I try to manufacture them, the more they slip.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The work is to show up prepared enough, then get out of the way and let the unforced thing happen.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="4-links">🔗 4 links</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.threads.com/@rezadotso/post/DaBJ0pgGt2Q?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=149-the-things-you-can-t-force" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/e72617ac-1acf-45a4-93a9-865732bbefa6/image.png?t=1782599735"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-quote">💬 One quote</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-book">📚 One book</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/anything-you-want/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=149-the-things-you-can-t-force" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="Anything You Want by Derek Sivers" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/3f2e6ff5-e9ae-4c2a-a5df-187472a8b58d/image.png?t=1782479027"/></a></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This week&#39;s book is <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/anything-you-want/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=149-the-things-you-can-t-force" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Anything You Want, by Derek Sivers</a>. Forty short lessons from building and selling CD Baby, most of them about staying honest with yourself.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A few ideas from the book:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If a yes isn&#39;t immediate and full-body, treat it as a no. Most of your calendar is half-yeses you were too polite to decline.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A business is just a small world you get to set the rules for. If the rules feel wrong, you wrote them, and you can rewrite them.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Starting with no money isn&#39;t the handicap. It forces you to find out if anyone actually wants the thing before you can hide behind a budget.</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Check out my full bookshelf note on <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/anything-you-want/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=149-the-things-you-can-t-force" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Anything You Want</a>.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="your-admin-savior">Your Admin Savior</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://catchagent.ai/?utm_source=beehiiv&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_content=primary_story&_bhiiv=opp_b0c43c3b-9c12-467e-8dc0-64c3b5203c07_89ab3304&bhcl_id=80e8e794-87ad-4ea0-b433-e350541fa012_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/02886bb9-2249-4f74-9b36-3bb54480e57e/Catch_BrandWorlds_20260310_Catch_BrandWorlds__7.jpg?t=1781096051"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://catchagent.ai/?utm_source=beehiiv&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_content=primary_story&_bhiiv=opp_b0c43c3b-9c12-467e-8dc0-64c3b5203c07_89ab3304&bhcl_id=80e8e794-87ad-4ea0-b433-e350541fa012_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Catch</a> is an AI agent focused solely on administrative tasks. We don’t write code, create images, or analyze data. Our single mission is to build the most advanced agent you can trust to delegate your daily workload, expertly handling scheduling, reminders, email, and travel logistics.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Genuinely proactive, <a class="link" href="https://catchagent.ai/?utm_source=beehiiv&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_content=primary_story&_bhiiv=opp_b0c43c3b-9c12-467e-8dc0-64c3b5203c07_89ab3304&bhcl_id=80e8e794-87ad-4ea0-b433-e350541fa012_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Catch</a> operates with the initiative of a human employee. It is available wherever you already are, working seamlessly over the phone, WhatsApp, and iMessage to keep your day moving forward. Because true delegation requires absolute peace of mind, Catch is built on highly secured infrastructure and is fully SOC 2 compliant, ensuring your data is always protected.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Test <a class="link" href="https://catchagent.ai/?utm_source=beehiiv&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_content=primary_story&_bhiiv=opp_b0c43c3b-9c12-467e-8dc0-64c3b5203c07_89ab3304&bhcl_id=80e8e794-87ad-4ea0-b433-e350541fa012_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Catch</a> today to see how it handles the friction in your workflow.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><a class="link" href="https://catchagent.ai/?utm_source=beehiiv&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_content=primary_story&_bhiiv=opp_b0c43c3b-9c12-467e-8dc0-64c3b5203c07_89ab3304&bhcl_id=80e8e794-87ad-4ea0-b433-e350541fa012_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Set up Catch today!</a></i></p><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-question">❓ One question</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="should-we-work-together">🤝 Should we work together?</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This newsletter is where I think out loud each week. The rest of my work is with people at real inflection points: <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/coaching/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=149-the-things-you-can-t-force" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Clarity Coaching</a> for life and career decisions, and <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/founders/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=149-the-things-you-can-t-force" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">GTM advisory</a> for startups that need a sharper story and a launch with more shape.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="get-foundation-33-for-free">✨ Get Foundation 33 for free</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://rezasaeedi.gumroad.com/l/foundation-33?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=149-the-things-you-can-t-force" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Foundation 33</a> is my curated list of 33 books for clarity, identity, and building a life that feels like yours. A good place to start if you want a more intentional reading path.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/powered-by?publication_logo=https%3A%2F%2Fmedia.beehiiv.com%2Fcdn-cgi%2Fimage%2Ffit%3Dscale-down%2Cformat%3Dauto%2Conerror%3Dredirect%2Cquality%3D80%2Fuploads%2Fpublication%2Flogo%2Fff37200d-d471-440f-b2bf-f741421b6d44%2FSquare_logo.png%3Fv%3D1789528803&publication_name=Open+Loops&utm_campaign=a7a4e551-1681-4e06-b912-67034f72101a&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=open_loops">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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  <title>#148: the signal you keep ignoring</title>
  <description>Notes on intuition, deciding faster, and doing the work that matters</description>
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  <pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2026 04:16:37 +0000</pubDate>
  <atom:published>2026-06-05T04:16:37Z</atom:published>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">👋<i> Welcome to the 148th issue of </i><b><i>Open Loops</i></b><i>, a weekly letter on clarity, growth, and building a life that feels like yours.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=148-the-signal-you-keep-ignoring" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i>My name is Reza, and each week I share what I&#39;m reading, building, and working through to help you turn confusion into conviction in life and work.</i></a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;border-style:solid;border-width:2px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#FBC956;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/91665324-b1f3-4d6f-a290-2c472e57ab98/Rabbit_Hole_Issue_61__12_.webp?t=1780631506"/></div><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="on-my-mind">☁️ On my mind</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="3-links">🔗 3 links</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.threads.com/@rezadotso/post/DZI96eEjyZC?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=148-the-signal-you-keep-ignoring" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/23dfa5db-482a-470d-b632-b29bb358a246/image.png?t=1780632684"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-question">❓ One quote</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/5a605e63-bbed-4f30-810a-9a38ec414490/Rabbit_Hole_Issue_61__14_.webp?t=1780631524"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-book"><span style="font-size:18px;"><b>📚 One book</b></span></h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/leaders-eat-last/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=148-the-signal-you-keep-ignoring" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/2bb76ef9-7a7c-4cd0-b5c2-c02751484fc3/image.png?t=1780632534"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This week&#39;s book is Leaders Eat Last, by Simon Sinek. I came to it skeptical, the title sounds like a LinkedIn quote nobody thinks about twice. What changed my mind is that Sinek doesn&#39;t argue leadership as a virtue, he argues it as biology: <b>a team pulls together or falls apart based on whether people feel safe from each other.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">After years around founders, I&#39;ve watched it go both ways. The teams that felt protected took bigger risks and recovered faster, and the ones that didn&#39;t spent their best energy watching their own backs.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A few ideas from the book:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Leadership has almost nothing to do with your title.</b> You can outrank everyone and lead no one, or hold no authority and lead the whole room.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When people feel they have to guard against their own team, they stop facing the competition. All that survival energy turns inward.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Burnout isn&#39;t usually about workload. It&#39;s about how little say people have over how they work. Hand someone the decision, not just the task.</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If the leaders above you won&#39;t protect people, protect them sideways. The culture you&#39;re waiting for starts the moment someone stops waiting.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">→ Check out my <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/leaders-eat-last/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=148-the-signal-you-keep-ignoring" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">full bookshelf notes</a> on Leaders Eat Last</p><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="bad-news-is-good-business-we-never-">Bad news is good business. We never bought in.</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.thedailyupside.com/?utm_source=beehiiv&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&_bhiiv=opp_5dd1054f-ae65-4934-a875-7cecfe534b61_ed96e4e4&bhcl_id=0f42db67-dff7-43e7-89ab-aa089d65133b_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/ac93146a-7dcc-46ea-8eea-8578b3574540/3.png?t=1778682464"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Every morning, financial news follows the same script. Headlines panic, coverage catastrophises, and somewhere inside the noise is the story that actually matters — the one that tells you where the opportunity sits, not just where the fear is pointing.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Most sources have stopped looking. The alarm is easier to sell.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://www.thedailyupside.com/?utm_source=beehiiv&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&_bhiiv=opp_5dd1054f-ae65-4934-a875-7cecfe534b61_ed96e4e4&bhcl_id=0f42db67-dff7-43e7-89ab-aa089d65133b_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Daily Upside</a> was created by Wall Street insiders for readers who crave real insight over recycled anxiety. Five minutes of global business and finance, before the noise sets the agenda — just the facts, context, and analysis your decisions need.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Join 1M readers — including managing directors and principals at some of Wall Street’s largest institutions — who trust The Daily Upside to filter through the chaos.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The upsides are always there. We’ll find them before breakfast.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><a class="link" href="https://www.thedailyupside.com/?utm_source=beehiiv&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&_bhiiv=opp_5dd1054f-ae65-4934-a875-7cecfe534b61_ed96e4e4&bhcl_id=0f42db67-dff7-43e7-89ab-aa089d65133b_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Start reading for free today</a></i></p><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;border-style:solid;border-width:2px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#FBC956;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/f4950b4a-7f38-4f28-89cd-c44a78ec4d2a/Rabbit_Hole_Issue_61__15_.webp?t=1780632333"/></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/e871d207-7a5b-4e82-ad19-afe73450f2f0/image.png?t=1766014861"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-question">❓ One question</h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What&#39;s a small experiment you&#39;ve been putting off because you wanted it to be a confident plan first?</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="till-next-time">Till next time 👋 </h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.instagram.com/rezadotso?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=148-the-signal-you-keep-ignoring" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/11ce41d6-48d0-4bd6-b7db-0745686d27e0/image.png?t=1735692265"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="should-we-work-together">🤝 Should we work together?</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This newsletter is where I think out loud each week. 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  <title>#147: wellness isn&#39;t a dashboard</title>
  <description>Notes on awareness, slowing down, and the friends you keep meaning to live closer to</description>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/3998e5de-cc0c-4f44-aa2a-d9b364959609/image.png?t=1780022620"/></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">👋<i> Welcome to the 147th issue of </i><b><i>Open Loops</i></b><i>, a weekly letter on clarity, growth, and building a life that feels like yours.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=147-wellness-isn-t-a-dashboard" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i>My name is </i></a><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=147-wellness-isn-t-a-dashboard" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b><i>Reza</i></b></a><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=147-wellness-isn-t-a-dashboard" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i>, and each week I share what I&#39;m reading, building, and working through to help you turn confusion into conviction in life and work .</i></a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="on-my-mind"><b>☁️ On my mind</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/79704d5b-ddcf-439c-94e8-f61c6cef4375/image.png?t=1780022849"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="5-links">🔗<b> 4 links</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/4cdd2169-2ebc-44c6-ada7-546b30abbd2b/image.png?t=1780022972"/></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.threads.com/@rezadotso/post/DYyS-8DlE3O?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=147-wellness-isn-t-a-dashboard" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/029cdebe-42c4-4025-b568-5f1fa581c185/image.png?t=1780023772"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-quote">💬<b> One quote</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-book"><b>📚 One book</b></h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/awareness/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=147-wellness-isn-t-a-dashboard" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/0d58e300-f0a3-4cd5-b97f-075c8b59f24c/awareness.jpg?t=1780022415"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This week&#39;s book is <b><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/awareness/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=147-wellness-isn-t-a-dashboard" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #006ab1">Awareness, by Anthony de Mello</a></b>. I just published the bookshelf note for this one, and it rearranged something in me.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It&#39;s a transcription of a retreat de Mello gave, and it reads like someone grabbed you by the collar and said: you&#39;re asleep, and everything you call suffering is proof.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">He was a Jesuit priest and psychotherapist, and the whole book has the energy of him talking to a room full of people who came looking for comfort and instead got shown they don&#39;t need it. The core argument is simple: <b>you&#39;re unhappy because you&#39;re clinging to illusions you were programmed to believe as a child, and the moment you see them clearly, they dissolve.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It&#39;s quickly become one of my new favorites, sitting right next to <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/meditations/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=147-wellness-isn-t-a-dashboard" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Meditations by Marcus Aurelius</a> on the small shelf of books I actually return to. They&#39;re doing the same job from different angles. Marcus is the inside of a mind disciplining itself in real time. De Mello is the voice of someone outside that mind, pointing at the strings being pulled and asking you to look. One is the practice. The other is the wake-up.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A few ideas from the book:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You&#39;re not depressed, you&#39;re experiencing a depression. The feeling isn&#39;t you. It&#39;s weather. You&#39;re the sky.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What you&#39;re aware of can&#39;t control you.</b> What you don&#39;t see runs your life.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Nobody ever rejects you, they reject their image of you.</b> The same goes for acceptance.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Happiness is your default state. You don&#39;t need to add anything. You need to drop things.</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">→ Check out my full bookshelf note on <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/awareness/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=147-wellness-isn-t-a-dashboard" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #006ab1">Awareness</a>.</p><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="become-an-ai-expert-in-just-5-minut">Become An AI Expert In Just 5 Minutes</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://subscribe.thedeepview.com/?utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_source=beehiiv&utm_medium=newsletter&_bhiiv=opp_afc02227-d992-4fbb-bc6b-f24106649c21_12ba3285&bhcl_id=39cab7db-39de-4f46-9e5e-12b5fdadaef7_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/92c7ce90-e2c8-4d1a-a474-b31fa3759647/Vintage_11.png?t=1757641001"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you’re a decision maker at your company, you need to be on the bleeding edge of, well, everything. 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It’s totally free, wildly informative, and trusted by 600,000+ readers at Google, Meta, Microsoft, and beyond.</p><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/aceea7d9-f68e-483a-aeb4-61eeec9a9978/image.png?t=1780022944"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-question"><b>❓ One question</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="till-next-time">👋<b> Till next time</b></h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://reza.so?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=147-wellness-isn-t-a-dashboard" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/0cb3760f-0587-47de-bd95-eb6bf20b0d6c/image.png?t=1778431472"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="should-we-work-together">🤝<b> Should we work together?</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This newsletter is where I think out loud each week. The rest of my work is with ambitious people and founders at inflection points:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/coaching/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=147-wellness-isn-t-a-dashboard" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #81a1c1"><b>Clarity Coaching</b></a> for life and career decisions.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/founders/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=147-wellness-isn-t-a-dashboard" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #81a1c1"><b>GTM advisory</b></a> for startups that need a sharper story, cleaner strategy, and a launch with more shape.</p></li></ul><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="get-foundation-33-for-free">✨<b> Get Foundation 33 for free</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://rezasaeedi.gumroad.com/l/foundation-33?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=147-wellness-isn-t-a-dashboard" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #81a1c1">Foundation 33</a> is my curated list of 33 books for clarity, identity, and building a life that feels like yours. 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  <title>#146: fear of the work</title>
  <description>Self-created stress, the lightness after letting go, and a Ram Dass story worth sitting with</description>
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    <dc:creator>Reza Saeedi</dc:creator>
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You&#39;re carrying the fear of the work. The work is the actual decisions, the actual conversations, the actual judgment calls.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The fear of the work is the part you&#39;ve been calling responsibility. The shoulders rising. The jaw setting. The walking-into-rooms-already-defended. None of that is what the work asked for.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The people who&#39;ve done this a while have learned to separate the two. They make the same decisions you&#39;d make. They have the same stakes you have. They&#39;ve just stopped carrying the second load. The lightness isn&#39;t a gift or a personality. It&#39;s what&#39;s left once you put down the weight that was never the work.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px 10px 10px 10px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/2f2ac157-20d1-40a0-a973-7f58cf19a582/Screenshot-2026-May-24-5uryK1kc.png?t=1779658468"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="5-links">🔗<b> 3 links</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><blockquote align="center" class="twitter-tweet"><a href="https://twitter.com/george__mack/status/2051334328303669498?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=146-fear-of-the-work"><p> Twitter tweet </p></a></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px 10px 10px 10px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/c4ec2ba8-6b3c-4379-9615-13b60fea3fe0/Screenshot-2026-May-24-bOQVZPy6.png?t=1779658604"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-quote">💬<b> One quote</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="the-hustle-claude-hacks-for-markete">The Hustle: Claude Hacks For Marketers</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://thehustle.co/how-to-use-claude-like-a-power-user-1step/?utm_medium=email-media-newsletter&utm_source=the-hustle&utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_content=incentivized-beehiiv&utm_term=Version-L&_bhiiv=opp_caa3cedb-a17a-40ab-ac61-9ca35874bdcb_17ac2339&bhcl_id=55ae2842-883f-4431-b1f4-3c6dc6cfbca5_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/ec96f989-649b-4f78-8046-c65fd2b42683/2A_1920x1080.png?t=1763752507"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Some people use Claude to write emails. Others use it to basically run their entire business while they play Wordle.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This isn&#39;t just ChatGPT&#39;s cooler cousin. It&#39;s the AI that&#39;s quietly revolutionizing how smart people work – writing entire business plans, planning marketing campaigns, and basically becoming the intern you never have to pay.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://thehustle.co/how-to-use-claude-like-a-power-user-1step/?utm_medium=email-media-newsletter&utm_source=the-hustle&utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_content=incentivized-beehiiv&utm_term=Version-L&_bhiiv=opp_caa3cedb-a17a-40ab-ac61-9ca35874bdcb_17ac2339&bhcl_id=55ae2842-883f-4431-b1f4-3c6dc6cfbca5_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Hustle&#39;s</a> new guide shows you exactly how the AI-literate are leaving everyone else behind. Subscribe for instant access.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://thehustle.co/how-to-use-claude-like-a-power-user-1step/?utm_medium=email-media-newsletter&utm_source=the-hustle&utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_content=incentivized-beehiiv&utm_term=Version-L&_bhiiv=opp_caa3cedb-a17a-40ab-ac61-9ca35874bdcb_17ac2339&bhcl_id=55ae2842-883f-4431-b1f4-3c6dc6cfbca5_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Get our Claude playbook</a></p><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-book"><b>📚 One book</b></h3><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px 10px 10px 10px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/1992dcac-ae25-404d-8882-61662b60e209/alchemy.jpg?t=1779656339"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This week&#39;s book is <b><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/alchemy/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=146-fear-of-the-work" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #3794ff">Alchemy, by Rory Sutherland</a></b>. Most books about business and marketing try to make things more logical. This one does the opposite. Rory Sutherland makes the case that the biggest breakthroughs in business, design, and human behavior come from the irrational, the psycho-logical, the stuff that doesn&#39;t survive a spreadsheet.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A few ideas from the book:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Most problems aren&#39;t logical, they&#39;re psycho-logical. Solve for feeling, not just function.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Being slightly bonkers is a negotiating strategy. Predictable people are easy to game.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Surveys ask people to predict their own behavior. They can&#39;t. Watch what they do instead.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Context isn&#39;t a side variable. It&#39;s often the main one. Change it before you change the message.</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">→ Check out my full notes on <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/alchemy/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=146-fear-of-the-work" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #3794ff">Alchemy</a>.</p><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.threads.com/@rezadotso/post/DYWFys8lL-u?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=146-fear-of-the-work" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/d13de184-b3f8-462f-a7b6-9d83051b51ca/image.png?t=1779658974"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-question"><b>❓ One question</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="till-next-time">👋<b> Till next time</b></h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://reza.so?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=146-fear-of-the-work" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/0cb3760f-0587-47de-bd95-eb6bf20b0d6c/image.png?t=1778431472"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="should-we-work-together">🤝<b> Should we work together?</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This newsletter is where I think out loud each week. The rest of my work is with ambitious people and founders at inflection points:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/coaching/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=146-fear-of-the-work" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #81a1c1">Clarity Coaching</a></b> for life and career decisions.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/founders/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=146-fear-of-the-work" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #81a1c1">GTM advisory</a></b> for startups that need a sharper story, cleaner strategy, and a launch with more shape.</p></li></ul><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="get-foundation-33-for-free">✨<b> Get Foundation 33 for free</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://rezasaeedi.gumroad.com/l/foundation-33?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=146-fear-of-the-work" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #81a1c1">Foundation 33</a> is my curated list of 33 books for clarity, identity, and building a life that feels like yours. 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  <title>#145: nobody knows</title>
  <description>Notes on permission, care that becomes control, and the social cost of being honest</description>
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  <pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2026 03:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
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    <dc:creator>Reza Saeedi</dc:creator>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px 10px 10px 10px;border-style:solid;border-width:2px 2px 2px 2px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#FBC956;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/c347879d-9583-4e87-ba9a-3a3918f4e339/Rabbit_Hole_Issue_61__7_.webp?t=1778812846"/></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">👋<i> Welcome to the 145th issue of </i><b><i>Open Loops</i></b><i>, a weekly letter on clarity, growth, and building a life that feels like yours.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=145-nobody-knows" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i>My name is </i></a><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=145-nobody-knows" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b><i>Reza</i></b></a><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=145-nobody-knows" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i>, and each week I share what I&#39;m reading, building, and working through to help you turn confusion into conviction in life and work .</i></a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="on-my-mind"><b>☁️ </b><a class="link" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DYOMacNkQWa/?img_index=1&utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=145-nobody-knows" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>On my mind</b></a></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">There is no one at the top who knows.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The CEO is guessing. The expert is guessing. The mentor is guessing. The friend you trust most is guessing. The author of the book you&#39;ve been waiting to finish is guessing. Every person in the chain you&#39;ve been waiting for permission from is improvising in exactly the same way you&#39;d be, if you stopped waiting for permission to do it. The only difference between them and you is that they stopped waiting for someone above them to make the call. They learned to make it themselves, knowing they might be wrong, knowing they&#39;d have to make another one tomorrow.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The chain you&#39;ve been waiting on isn&#39;t a chain. There was never a top. It was always just you, at every step, with whatever information you have, choosing whether or not to move.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px 10px 10px 10px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/f9784b11-776a-4e7a-8850-260952b08a70/Rabbit_Hole_Issue_61.webp?t=1778812881"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="5-links">🔗<b> 5 links</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px 10px 10px 10px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/84aba17c-fa1e-4632-85e6-c6242cf9e05e/Rabbit_Hole_Issue_61__4_.webp?t=1778812916"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-quote">💬<b> One quote</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.threads.com/@rezadotso/post/DYOlCoRlBFn?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=145-nobody-knows" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/f23ef651-b21e-4be1-a491-6a2891587a05/image.png?t=1778812486"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-book"><b>📚 One book</b></h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/the-almanack-of-naval-ravikant/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=145-nobody-knows" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/6cde0f26-9ff5-4fa4-b1dc-40985c76f743/the-almanack-of-naval-ravikant.jpg?t=1778811862"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This week&#39;s book is <b><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/the-almanack-of-naval-ravikant/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=145-nobody-knows" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #81a1c1">The Almanack of Naval Ravikant, by Eric Jorgenson</a></b>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This is less of a book and more of a compass. What hit me wasn&#39;t the individual ideas. It was the integration: <b>Naval doesn&#39;t separate getting rich from getting happy from getting free.</b> They&#39;re the same project, built on clear thinking, specific knowledge, long-term games, and an honest relationship with what you actually want.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A few ideas from the book:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">No one in the world is going to beat you at being you.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Desire is a contract you make with yourself to be unhappy until you get what you want.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you can&#39;t decide, the answer is no.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Retirement is when today is complete in and of itself.</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Check out my full bookshelf note on <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/the-almanack-of-naval-ravikant/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=145-nobody-knows" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #81a1c1">The Almanack of Naval Ravikant</a>.</p><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/379b8636-3450-4889-ab57-3bd12955873d/Rabbit_Hole_Issue_61__3_.webp?t=1778812952"/></div><hr class="content_break"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="10-k-steps-is-a-myth-try-this-inste">10K Steps Is a Myth–Try This Instead</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://simple.life/survey/walking/?utm_source=affiliateemail&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=beehiiv&utm_content={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&adgroup_id=newsletter&utm_term=primary&safe=true&_bhiiv=opp_15ad6c92-e42e-42cb-9997-77093aba44db_1aefd021&bhcl_id=1a7613c4-41e5-4fe9-8081-7db9a4ba09dc_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/10e22dde-e90d-4312-b73a-39cdb7527e17/35_1.png?t=1778773562"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When motivation is lacking, jumping into heavy routines is the fastest way to burn out. That’s why millions of people are turning to walking as the foundation of their fitness journey.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Walking lets you enjoy the outdoors, clear your head, and practice mindfulness. It’s simple, sustainable, and can support lasting weight loss if you know how much you need. The “10,000 steps a day” rule is outdated; everyone’s lifestyle is different.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">With <a class="link" href="https://simple.life/survey/walking/?utm_source=affiliateemail&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=beehiiv&utm_content={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&adgroup_id=newsletter&utm_term=primary&safe=true&_bhiiv=opp_15ad6c92-e42e-42cb-9997-77093aba44db_1aefd021&bhcl_id=1a7613c4-41e5-4fe9-8081-7db9a4ba09dc_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Simple</a>, you’ll get access to habit-based coaching that’s helped users lose over 18 million pounds. <a class="link" href="https://simple.life/survey/walking/?utm_source=affiliateemail&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=beehiiv&utm_content={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&adgroup_id=newsletter&utm_term=primary&safe=true&_bhiiv=opp_15ad6c92-e42e-42cb-9997-77093aba44db_1aefd021&bhcl_id=1a7613c4-41e5-4fe9-8081-7db9a4ba09dc_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Take the quiz</a> to discover your personalized walking target.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><a class="link" href="https://simple.life/survey/walking/?utm_source=affiliateemail&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=beehiiv&utm_content={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&adgroup_id=newsletter&utm_term=primary&safe=true&_bhiiv=opp_15ad6c92-e42e-42cb-9997-77093aba44db_1aefd021&bhcl_id=1a7613c4-41e5-4fe9-8081-7db9a4ba09dc_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Take the Quiz</a></i></p><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-question"><b>❓ One question</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="till-next-time">👋<b> Till next time</b></h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://reza.so?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=145-nobody-knows" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/0cb3760f-0587-47de-bd95-eb6bf20b0d6c/image.png?t=1778431472"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="should-we-work-together">🤝<b> Should we work together?</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This newsletter is where I think out loud each week. The rest of my work is with ambitious people and founders at inflection points:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/coaching/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=145-nobody-knows" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #81a1c1"><b>Clarity Coaching</b></a> for life and career decisions.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/founders/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=145-nobody-knows" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #81a1c1"><b>GTM advisory</b></a> for startups that need a sharper story, cleaner strategy, and a launch with more shape.</p></li></ul><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="get-foundation-33-for-free">✨<b> Get Foundation 33 for free</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://rezasaeedi.gumroad.com/l/foundation-33?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=145-nobody-knows" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #81a1c1">Foundation 33</a> is my curated list of 33 books for clarity, identity, and building a life that feels like yours. 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  <title>#144: what survives the mood</title>
  <description>Notes on ego, trust, and work that does not split you in two</description>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;border-style:solid;border-width:2px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#FBC956;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/758fa5c5-1333-4e67-9e45-c7091738b1bd/The_Rabbit_Hole_Issue_59__1_.jpg?t=1772100418"/></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">👋<i> Welcome to the 144th issue of </i><b><i>Open Loops</i></b><i>, a weekly letter on clarity, growth, and building a life that feels like yours.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=144-what-survives-the-mood" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i>My name is </i></a><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=144-what-survives-the-mood" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b><i>Reza</i></b></a><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=144-what-survives-the-mood" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i>, and each week I share what I&#39;m reading, building, and working through to help you turn confusion into conviction in life and work .</i></a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="on-my-mind"><b>☁️ On my mind</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Some longings disappear once the mood passes. Others get quieter and stay.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I don&#39;t think every pull deserves to become a plan. Some of it is borrowed ambition. Some of it is avoidance. Some of it is just the nervous system asking for novelty.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But the thing that keeps returning after the performance drops, after the explanation stops working, after the practical version of you has made its case, usually carries information.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It may not be an instruction yet. <b>It may simply be the first honest sign that a more expansive reality is trying to make contact.</b></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/58f03d47-738e-4a58-9975-7d93390bfc75/Advaxebbmv3x.jpg?t=1778429763"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="5-links">🔗<b> 5 links</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/8c43e9a0-dd39-417f-97da-30070aadd285/Are.na_Image_9ce672c5.jpeg?t=1778431699"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-quote">💬<b> One quote</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-book"><b>📚 One book</b></h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/the-courage-to-be-disliked/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=144-what-survives-the-mood" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/2dc054d6-0ad9-4740-8af4-18db007b3b5c/the-courage-to-be-disliked.jpg?t=1778427812"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The useful part of this book is the way it separates <b>freedom from approval.</b></p><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It’s not about becoming indifferent to people. It is about noticing how much of a life can get organized around managing what other people might think.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A few ideas from the book:</p><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">→ Check out my full bookshelf note on <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/the-courage-to-be-disliked/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=144-what-survives-the-mood" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #81a1c1">The Courage To Be Disliked</a>.</p><hr class="content_break"><blockquote align="center" class="twitter-tweet"><a href="https://twitter.com/rumilyrics/status/2042234071934263322/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=144-what-survives-the-mood"><p> Twitter tweet </p></a></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.threads.com/@rezadotso?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=144-what-survives-the-mood" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/5d60c9b6-6482-4ecb-bb7b-984bfdb51bfb/image.png?t=1778432069"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/92dcab4e-5ac0-4c05-984c-313b489ad2b9/Arc_2026-05-10_17.01.03.png?t=1778428980"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="adhd-management-designed-for-how-yo">ADHD management designed for how your brain actually works</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://try.getinflow.io/quiz/?utm_medium=email&utm_source=beehiiv&utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_content=secondary_duolingo2&_bhiiv=opp_a9abfa12-9668-4fef-bac6-d3514ab51878_9374e4b6&bhcl_id=db3c5308-ceb5-4b68-b2d1-fa61ccb0c312_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/9fa5fe70-9262-4988-8f69-585036ee617b/Version_E__Secondary_.png?t=1776802155"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Most ADHD apps are just glorified timers. Inflow is different - built by people with ADHD, backed by clinical psychologists, using CBT-inspired strategies. Learn to manage time blindness, burnout, overwhelm, and procrastination in <a class="link" href="https://try.getinflow.io/quiz/?utm_medium=email&utm_source=beehiiv&utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_content=secondary_duolingo2&_bhiiv=opp_a9abfa12-9668-4fef-bac6-d3514ab51878_9374e4b6&bhcl_id=db3c5308-ceb5-4b68-b2d1-fa61ccb0c312_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">5-minute daily modules</a>. Real tools, real change.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><a class="link" href="https://try.getinflow.io/quiz/?utm_medium=email&utm_source=beehiiv&utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_content=secondary_duolingo2&_bhiiv=opp_a9abfa12-9668-4fef-bac6-d3514ab51878_9374e4b6&bhcl_id=db3c5308-ceb5-4b68-b2d1-fa61ccb0c312_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Take the free quiz.</a></i></p><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="one-question"><b>❓ One question</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="till-next-time">👋<b> Till next time</b></h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://reza.so?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=144-what-survives-the-mood" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/0cb3760f-0587-47de-bd95-eb6bf20b0d6c/image.png?t=1778431472"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="should-we-work-together">🤝<b> Should we work together?</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This newsletter is where I think out loud each week. The rest of my work is with ambitious people and founders at inflection points:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/coaching/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=144-what-survives-the-mood" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #81a1c1">Clarity Coaching</a></b> for life and career decisions.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/founders/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=144-what-survives-the-mood" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #81a1c1">GTM advisory</a></b> for startups that need a sharper story, cleaner strategy, and a launch with more shape.</p></li></ul><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="get-foundation-33-for-free">✨<b> Get Foundation 33 for free</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://rezasaeedi.gumroad.com/l/foundation-33?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=144-what-survives-the-mood" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #81a1c1">Foundation 33</a> is my curated list of 33 books for clarity, identity, and building a life that feels like yours. 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  <title>#143: what keeps calling</title>
  <description>Notes on longing, control, and AI as leverage</description>
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    <dc:creator>Reza Saeedi</dc:creator>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;border-style:solid;border-width:2px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#FBC956;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/758fa5c5-1333-4e67-9e45-c7091738b1bd/The_Rabbit_Hole_Issue_59__1_.jpg?t=1772100418"/></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">👋<i> Welcome to the 143rd issue of </i><b><i>Open Loops</i></b><i>, a weekly* letter on clarity, growth, and building a life that feels like yours.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=143-what-keeps-calling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i>My name is Reza, and every week I sift through 100+ books, articles, podcasts, and way too many tweets to bring you the best in this newsletter.</i></a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>*Well, almost weekly… The last couple of months have been inconsistent. I&#39;ve been on the move since November, and the rhythm of this newsletter has been the first thing to wobble. I’ll aim to maintain the weekly cadence going forward. If this is your first time here, welcome!</i></p><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="on-my-mind">💭 <b>On my mind</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="on-presence"><b>On presence</b></h3><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I loved this framing of <a class="link" href="https://read.isabelunraveled.com/p/confidence?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=143-what-keeps-calling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #83c3ff">confidence without extraction</a>. You&#39;re not trying to get proof from the person in front of you. You&#39;re just there, interested and uncollapsed.</p></li></ul><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Eurydice&#39;s piece on <a class="link" href="https://eurydicelives.substack.com/p/defensiveness-is-revealing?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=143-what-keeps-calling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #83c3ff">defensiveness</a> is such a useful tell. Not because it makes someone bad, but because it shows where approval is still acting like oxygen. Security is quieter than that. It doesn&#39;t need to win every room.</p></li></ul><hr class="content_break"><blockquote align="center" class="twitter-tweet"><a href="https://twitter.com/theJayAlto/status/2019524913514836273?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=143-what-keeps-calling"><p> Twitter tweet </p></a></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="on-control"><b>On control</b></h3><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I kept thinking about <a class="link" href="https://www.avabear.xyz/p/bookbear-local-42026?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=143-what-keeps-calling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #83c3ff">this codependency passage</a>. Control is care after it loses trust. It tells itself it is protecting the person, the situation, the outcome. But mostly it blocks the one thing that might actually help: everyone having room to move.</p></li></ul><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Tyler Denk&#39;s almost-sale story of beehiiv gets at the founder version of this. Everyone can be smart and still have different incentives. Sometimes the hardest part is not ignoring advice, but remembering that no one else has to live inside the consequence with you. Worth reading: <a class="link" href="https://mail.bigdeskenergy.com/p/we-almost-sold?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=143-what-keeps-calling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #83c3ff">We almost sold</a>.</p></li></ul><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.threads.com/@rezadotso/post/DXdbuuwidXx?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=143-what-keeps-calling" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/a252bdb5-dc71-4a92-9af1-21f535e028f1/Arc_2026-05-02_18.03.20.png?t=1777741487"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/021728c2-3ef0-43a3-9a7b-e222819453b5/image.png?t=1772429782"/></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;border-style:solid;border-width:2px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#FBC956;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/329444ff-cff4-4d66-ba8f-7194830fc447/Explore_Are.na_Image.jpg?t=1772104190"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="on-curiosity"><b>On curiosity</b></h3><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I liked Yew Jin&#39;s case for <a class="link" href="https://yewjin.substack.com/p/always-be-curious?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=143-what-keeps-calling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #83c3ff">protecting some part of your life from usefulness</a>. Spend most of your time on the obvious core, sure. But keep a little room for wandering. The thread with no immediate payoff is often the one that changes the shape of everything later.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The smallest relational gestures are usually the ones that make a door feel open. I liked the image of <a class="link" href="https://jayyanginspires.beehiiv.com/p/the-ultimate-guide-to-building-a-network-online?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=143-what-keeps-calling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #83c3ff">pebbling</a>: send the article, share the note, tell someone what their work made you notice.</p></li></ul><hr class="content_break"><blockquote align="center" class="twitter-tweet"><a href="https://twitter.com/Timmysofine/status/2026047802728489172?s=20&utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=143-what-keeps-calling"><p> Twitter tweet </p></a></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="all-things-ai"><b>On AI</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Also I’m curious…</p><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/d2b57473-1915-4850-aa25-2c1066366efa/The_Rabbit_Hole_Issue_59__3_.jpg?t=1772100434"/></div><hr class="content_break"><blockquote align="center" class="twitter-tweet"><a href="https://twitter.com/tferriss/status/2028467165536358849?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=143-what-keeps-calling"><p> Twitter tweet </p></a></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="100-claude-code-hacks-to-ship-code-">100+ Claude Code hacks to ship code 10X faster</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://magic.beehiiv.com/v1/5f7ce6e3-9a71-416b-99a7-606c5f7e2447?email={{email}}&redirect_to=https%3A%2F%2Fcodenewsletter.ai%2Fforms%2F14166360-de71-46c4-8722-878d417fab5c&utm_source=beehiiv&utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&redirect_delay=3&_bhiiv=opp_1d607e7b-0cce-4bc6-a796-244f6d315eea_94e90c2e&bhcl_id=470d0111-940b-404d-8b00-15d158a2ab65_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/10ca4da5-f215-41e6-bbfa-f6276a153949/100%2B_Claude_Code_hacks_to_ship_10x_faster__in_2026_-_1200_X_600_V4__1_.jpg?t=1777043239"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Top engineers at Anthropic and OpenAI say AI now writes 100% of their code.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you&#39;re not using AI, you&#39;re spending 40 hours doing what they do in 4.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">These <a class="link" href="https://magic.beehiiv.com/v1/5f7ce6e3-9a71-416b-99a7-606c5f7e2447?email={{email}}&redirect_to=https%3A%2F%2Fcodenewsletter.ai%2Fforms%2F14166360-de71-46c4-8722-878d417fab5c&utm_source=beehiiv&utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&redirect_delay=3&_bhiiv=opp_1d607e7b-0cce-4bc6-a796-244f6d315eea_94e90c2e&bhcl_id=470d0111-940b-404d-8b00-15d158a2ab65_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">100+ Claude Code hacks</a> fix that and help you ship 10x faster.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Sign up for The Code and get:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">100+ Claude Code hacks used by top engineers — free</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The Code newsletter — learn the latest AI tools, tips, and skills to code faster with AI in 5 minutes a day</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://magic.beehiiv.com/v1/5f7ce6e3-9a71-416b-99a7-606c5f7e2447?email={{email}}&redirect_to=https%3A%2F%2Fcodenewsletter.ai%2Fforms%2F14166360-de71-46c4-8722-878d417fab5c&utm_source=beehiiv&utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&redirect_delay=3&_bhiiv=opp_1d607e7b-0cce-4bc6-a796-244f6d315eea_94e90c2e&bhcl_id=470d0111-940b-404d-8b00-15d158a2ab65_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Claim your free playbook</a></p><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="from-the-bookshelf">📚️ From the bookshelf</h3><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/d538b530-187c-429d-9720-d57a399d79ef/image.png?t=1777741579"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This week&#39;s book is <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/flow/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=143-what-keeps-calling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Flow, by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi</a>. I keep coming back to the way it reframes happiness: not as ease, but as <b>full engagement with something just hard enough to ask for your whole attention.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A few ideas from the book:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The quality of your life depends on the quality of your attention.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The best moments are often chosen difficulty, not ease.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Flow is easier to enter when the goal is clear, feedback is immediate, and the challenge matches your skill.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Attention is finite, so the best of it has to be protected.</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Check out my full bookshelf note on <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/bookshelf/flow/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=143-what-keeps-calling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #83c3ff">Flow</a>.</p><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="till-next-time">Till next time 👋 </h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.instagram.com/rezadotso?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=143-what-keeps-calling" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/11ce41d6-48d0-4bd6-b7db-0745686d27e0/image.png?t=1735692265"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="should-we-work-together"><b>Should we work together?</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This newsletter is where I think out loud each week. The rest of my work is with ambitious people and founders at inflection points: <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/coaching/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=143-what-keeps-calling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Clarity Coaching</a> for life and career decisions, and <a class="link" href="https://reza.so/founders/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=143-what-keeps-calling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">GTM advisory</a> for startups that need a sharper story, cleaner strategy, and a launch with more shape. If either feels relevant, we should connect!</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="get-foundation-33-for-free"><b>Get Foundation 33 for free</b></h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://rezasaeedi.gumroad.com/l/foundation-33?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=143-what-keeps-calling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: #83c3ff">Foundation 33</a> is my curated list of 33 books for clarity, identity, and building a life that feels like yours. 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  <title>#142: coming back to yourself</title>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">👋<i> Welcome to the 142nd issue of </i><i><b>Open Loops</b></i><i>, a weekly newsletter on clarity, growth, and building a life that feels like yours.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>Every week I sift through 100+ books, articles, podcasts, and (way too many) tweets to bring you the best in this newsletter.</i></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;border-style:solid;border-width:2px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#FBC956;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/832679cc-b2da-4f5f-b916-4bb0c3e7824c/Rabbit_Hole_Issue_59.webp?t=1771691385"/></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Hey hey! 👋 It&#39;s been five weeks since the last issue. It&#39;s good to be writing again.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Two things pulled my attention away and led to the pause.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Firstly, back in Iran, my people have been fighting for a better life. When it&#39;s your home, you don&#39;t just follow along from a distance. You check your phone before you&#39;re fully awake. You call family and friends. You read about streets you grew up on in the news. I woke up anxious a lot of mornings and carried that weight through the day. Watching and being unable to do much is its own particular kind of hard.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Around the same time, I&#39;d also been on the move. Since November, I&#39;ve been working remotely, moving between cities on a kind of pilgrimage. Asking whether the life I&#39;d been building in Toronto was actually the one I wanted.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Bali was one of the places I knew I had to experience along the way. This is where I&#39;m writing from right now.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I had a hunch this island would offer something specific: what it actually means to simply be. To exist before you produce. To go back to the roots of being alive.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The hunch was right. The stillness here clears the noise until what actually matters rises back to the surface.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What kept coming back for me was this: the cycle of learning, sitting with it until it becomes yours, then sharing it in a way that helps others realize their most aligned self… that’s what I was born to do.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This newsletter is one of the ways I live it out. And it&#39;s never going to go away.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Iran&#39;s still on my mind every moment of everyday. Sharing my truth and writing this newsletter is too.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">With that, let&#39;s jump into this week&#39;s musings.</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;border-style:solid;border-width:2px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#FBC956;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/1b3f008d-ade3-4fbd-809a-dbc25acb26ca/image.png?t=1771676503"/></div><hr class="content_break"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The friction you feel when choosing yourself over external demands isn’t a bug; it’s proof you’re actually doing it.</p><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">And yes, you can do this and <i>still</i> be an amazing friend, lover, sister, son, partner, grandchild, employee, leader, founder, artist, whatever role you are engaged in. In fact, you can be a much better version of all of those things when you have genuinely tended to yourself.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Self-care that doesn’t disrupt anything isn’t self-care, it’s just efficient people-pleasing.</p><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;border-style:solid;border-width:2px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#FBC956;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/9c84af5b-52c5-4221-a380-0aded154bd78/image.png?t=1771689146"/></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The discomfort you feel when owning your ambition isn’t a sign you’re doing it wrong, it’s the friction of choosing alignment over approval. Notice who stays when you stop dimming.</p><hr class="content_break"><blockquote align="center" class="twitter-tweet"><a href="https://twitter.com/BigBearF1/status/2020508707235287279?_bhlid=0a7a63282a3339822afe97afaad264ad5ab4aa09&utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=142-coming-back-to-yourself"><p> Twitter tweet </p></a></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="your-entire-business-should-work-as">Your Entire Business Should Work as One</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://kajabi.com/start-14-day-trial-today/?utm_medium=paid-newsletter&utm_source=beehiiv&%2F%3Futm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&_bhiiv=opp_7600297f-d697-466d-b7b4-973f5271070e_63992c4d&bhcl_id=514aa811-b5c5-488a-8bfb-0a985d67d8ba_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/c53c2522-ac61-4e69-8699-602ffb27280e/Primary_2_Beehiiv.png?t=1768429162"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Most experts aren&#39;t limited by their expertise. They&#39;re slowed by scattered tools that don&#39;t connect. Starter platforms, point solutions, and mismatched workflows create chaos, cap revenue, and dilute credibility.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://kajabi.com/start-14-day-trial-today/?utm_medium=paid-newsletter&utm_source=beehiiv&%2F%3Futm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&_bhiiv=opp_7600297f-d697-466d-b7b4-973f5271070e_63992c4d&bhcl_id=514aa811-b5c5-488a-8bfb-0a985d67d8ba_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Kajabi</a> is the operating system for human expertise. Identity, strategy, products, marketing, payments, and client transformation all working together in one place.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">No more guessing. No more fragmentation. No more ceiling on your growth.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Clarity replaces confusion. Simplicity replaces complexity. 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  <title>#141: the quiet work of being</title>
  <description>Showing up gently, your own truth, gratitude before more</description>
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  <pubDate>Sat, 10 Jan 2026 17:25:11 +0000</pubDate>
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    <dc:creator>Reza Saeedi</dc:creator>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><hr class="content_break"><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">👋<i> Welcome to the 141st issue of </i><b><i>Open Loops</i></b><i>, a weekly newsletter on clarity, growth, and building a life that feels like yours.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=141-the-quiet-work-of-being" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i>My name is </i></a><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=141-the-quiet-work-of-being" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i>Reza</i></a></span><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=141-the-quiet-work-of-being" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i> and each week, I sift through 100+ books, articles, podcasts, and (way too many) tweets to bring you the best in this newsletter.</i></a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;border-style:solid;border-width:2px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#FBC956;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/180770a7-5f4c-4986-a003-dae4ff0425e7/Explore_Are.na_Image.jpg?t=1767887212"/></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;border-style:solid;border-width:2px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#FBC956;" 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  <title>#140: the path is the point</title>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><hr class="content_break"><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">👋<i> Welcome to the 140th issue of </i><b><i>Open Loops</i></b><i>, a weekly newsletter on clarity, growth, and building a life that feels like yours.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=140-the-path-is-the-point" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i>My name is </i></a><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=140-the-path-is-the-point" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i>Reza</i></a></span><a class="link" href="https://reza.so/?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=140-the-path-is-the-point" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i> and each week, I sift through 100+ books, articles, podcasts, and (way too many) tweets to bring you the best in this newsletter.</i></a></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/f734c297-d19f-46ef-8b34-7796a7ac3152/Cover.jpg?t=1766798753"/></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;border-style:solid;border-width:2px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#FBC956;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/2c13a5eb-17c0-4826-978e-5f22511d45d1/Are.na_Block_33807212.jpg?t=1767375578"/></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:center;" id="get-my-annual-review-template">📝 Get my Annual Review template</h2><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://get.reza.so/l/annual-review?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=140-the-path-is-the-point" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;border-style:solid;border-width:2px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#FBC956;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/79099aa2-b8ac-452c-b391-ab9eac2bb467/Gemini_Generated_Image__9__2.jpeg?t=1766795409"/></a></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The year you don&#39;t examine is the year you&#39;re destined to repeat.</b></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><div class="button" style="text-align:center;"><a target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow noreferrer" class="button__link" style="" href="https://get.reza.so/l/annual-review?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=140-the-path-is-the-point"><span class="button__text" style=""><b>Reflect on 2025</b></span></a></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.threads.com/@rezadotso/post/DSrl4z5DqgK?utm_source=letters.reza.so&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=140-the-path-is-the-point" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/65cbef17-6a41-4f96-a9ff-61777b02ca81/img_-_saEMNqNn_2x.png?t=1767375704"/></a></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;border-style:solid;border-width:2px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#FBC956;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/a118a31b-3801-407f-8c1a-4c305f2ebe04/Block_36236738.jpg?t=1767375625"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="find-therapy-that-works-25-off-your">Find therapy that works - 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