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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="section" style="background-color:#f4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Read Time: 4 min 24 sec | Reading Level: 7th Grade</p></div><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.thepourover.org/decaf?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/c2f75ec1-83f3-4395-b44b-8db96a13189f/Decaf_v1.png?t=1771884930"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span><b> April 16, 2026 </b><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>Happy Thursday!</b><br>Today, we’re talking about the war in the Middle East… and why the conflict reaches all the way to America’s gas pumps. For more background on crude oil (Iran’s most valuable natural resource, not a mildly offensive oil), <a class="link" href="https://thepourover.org/explaining-crude-oil/?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">check out our shallow dive here</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">This week’s Decaf is brought to you by <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Baker_0416?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Baker’s new book about raising resilient, capable kids</a> and by <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Dispatch_0416?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Dispatch</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Today’s story was taken from The Pour Over’s <a class="link" href="https://www.web.thepourover.org/p/blockade?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">April 13th</a> and <a class="link" href="https://www.web.thepourover.org/p/peppy-potables-43e8?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">15th emails</a> and re-written at a 7th-grade reading level.</p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>QUOTE OF THE WEEK</b><br><i>“In order to discover the character of people we have only to observe what they love.”</i><br><span style="color:#C0C0C0;"><b>Saint Augustine</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond">READ <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">|</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">WORLD NEWS</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><b>Strait Talk</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Air strikes have quieted in Iran, but tensions between the U.S. and the Islamic Republic are still high.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Last week, the U.S., Israel, and Iran agreed to a two-week pause on the fighting that began 47 days ago. Pakistan helped negotiate a 10-point framework for the ceasefire (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3QqVayz?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">read all 10 points here</a>).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Peace talks began over the weekend but didn’t go anywhere. Vice President JD Vance said Iran <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3Oq7aQg?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">refused to give up</a> its plans to develop nuclear weapons. (The U.S and other countries have tried to stop Iran from having nuclear weapons for a long time.) </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now, conflict has focused on the Strait of Hormuz, a waterway through which ~20% of the world’s oil travels. On Monday, the <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4cnNMLL?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">U.S. Navy began blocking ships</a> from entering or leaving Iranian ports in and around the strait (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4sE5yRb?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">see map</a>). Iran wasn’t happy about it, claiming <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4tpR5cw?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Uncle Sam was acting like a pirate</a>. The oil-rich country threatened the safety of other ports in the Persian Gulf. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The uncertainty of the war, ceasefire, and blockade has sent <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4vyJrOI?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">oil prices yo-yoing</a>. Prices jumped (again) Monday, which could mean higher gas prices around the world.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Pakistan is encouraging both sides to come back to the negotiating table before the ceasefire expires next week. <br><br>__</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>PRAY WITH US</b></span><br><b>Join us in prayer for the Middle East, confident that God hears and grants our prayers when we pray “according to his will” (</b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4txrG0Z?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>1 John 5:14–15</b></a><b>).</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Wonderful Counselor, You are the One who winds down wars and teaches peace (</b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4mzq0kI?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>Isaiah 54:13</b></a><b>). May Your peace rule in the hearts of Iranians, Israelis, and their Middle Eastern neighbors; in diplomats and U.S. officials; and in all members of Christ’s body (</b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3QcHvLF?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>Colossians 3:15-17</b></a><b>). Bring evil plans to nothing and promote the good of the vulnerable, so that people from all nations would see Your goodness and submit to the Prince of Peace.</b></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> REFLECT <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">| RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>How can I model putting my hope and trust in Christ when discussing this story?</b><br>Economic uncertainty is an opportunity for believers to show how faith in Christ changes us. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Because of Iran’s oil resources, headlines are emphasizing the very real, often scary economic upheaval caused by the conflict. But believers can respond to rising prices and uncertainty differently than those who don’t share in the hope of Christ.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Our hope is built on God’s promises, not our financial futures (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4cqGZRH?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Habakkuk 3:17-19</a>; <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3QGfpsc?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1 Timothy 6:17</a>). That means we can be content (and even joyful) in times of lack, giving to others sacrificially and trusting the Lord to meet our needs (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4sBYGnq?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">2 Corinthians 8:1-5</a>; <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4cqm0OL?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Philippians 4:10-14</a>). Our peace is a fruit of the Spirit that shows Christ in us to an anxious world.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What response to this story do I want to model for my children?</b><br>Prayerfulness and peacemaking.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">War brings destruction to everything it touches—lands, people, governments, and economies—but our God is the Great Restorer. As we wait for Him to make everything new, there are (at least) two things we can do:</p><ol start="1"><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Pray that the Middle East would experience a taste of His restoration today and glorify the Messiah Jesus. This week especially, pray for leaders involved in peace talks (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/484Jsjr?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1 Timothy 2:1-2</a>; <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/486FBCh?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">James 5:16</a>).  </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Make peace in your little corner of the world. When we choose to de-escalate, refuse to claim the final word, extend mercy… we show the world what our God is like and push forward His kingdom (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3QcInzV?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Exodus 34:6-7</a>; <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4mwp0xH?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Matthew 5:9</a>).</p></li></ol></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | </span>RESPOND</h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Make a list </b>of three ways God has provided for you and your family in past seasons of financial turbulence, and keep the list somewhere visible this week to remind you of God’s faithfulness.<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Memorize </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3QGfpsc?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1 Timothy 6:17-19</a>: <i>“Instruct those who are rich in the present age not to be arrogant or to set their hope on the uncertainty of wealth, but on God, who richly provides us with all things to enjoy. Instruct them to do what is good, to be rich in good works, to be generous and willing to share, storing up treasure for themselves as a good foundation for the coming age”</i> (CSB).<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Pray for the Middle East to experience Christ’s peace: </b><i>Mighty God, You are never caught by surprise or overpowered. By Your overwhelming strength, work peace across the Middle East. Overcome evildoers; comfort those who are mourning; protect the vulnerable; strengthen those who will rebuild; and bring order from chaos so that Iran and its neighbors will taste and see the goodness of the One True King.</i></p></li></ul></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"> </p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(242, 130, 127);font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"><b>CREAM AND SUGAR</b></span></h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Gen Z Word of the Week: “</b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4mtTa4E?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">You’re delulu</a> if you think pineapple belongs on pizza.” - Someone who’s about to catch these hands.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Family Fun: </b>Try out a new baking recipe together this week, like <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/41Bg3K2?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">this viral healthier dupe for Snickers</a>. If it’s a hit, flex those generosity muscles and share your treats with your neighbors!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Whipped Cream on Top: </b>Making watercolor <a class="link" href="https://thepourover.org/whipped-cream-making-watercolor-painting-look-easy/?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">painting look easy</a>...</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">RECOMMENDED</h1></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What We’re Teaching Our Kids</b><br>How to be capable, thanks to <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Baker_0416?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">this book</a>*</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Parents just want their kids to be happy… but in an age of anxiety and pressure, protecting them from struggles can feel like fighting a losing battle. Counselors David Thomas and Sissy Goff<i> </i>help reframe the narrative. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Their book <i>Capable</i> offers a clinically sound, faith-informed approach to raising kids who believe in their ability to do hard things and face challenges head-on. Their evidence-based guidance equips parents to support rather than rescue. Because the goal isn’t comfort; it’s capability.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">With age-specific exercises combined with biblical grounding, this book is a must-have for your parenting toolkit. <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Baker_0416?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Get a copy from Baker Book House by April 20, and receive 40% off plus free shipping!</a></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What I’m Reading</b><br><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Dispatch_0416?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ceasefire-and-blockade" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Dispatch</a>*</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When the news cycle is exhausting, The Dispatch is a resource I like to turn to. Think of it as an antidote to the outrage machines: fact-based, conservative news and analysis that slows things down to make sense of all the mainstream noise.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">No drama, no boosterism, just solid journalism. With a community of 45,000+ paying members and with writers committed to integrity over ideology, it’s independent journalism worth paying for. 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  <title>April Madness</title>
  <description>Talking to your child about the final buzzer on the college basketball season.</description>
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The far-side four are scheduled to splash back to Earth tomorrow night off the coast of San Diego, ending <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4tCuxFn?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=april-madness" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Artemis II’s 695,081-mile journey</a>. Welcome home, Integrity.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">This week’s Decaf is brought to you by <i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Moody_0409?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=april-madness" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Special Needs Parent</a></i> and the <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/CREN_0409?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=april-madness" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Christian Real Estate Network</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Today’s story was taken from The Pour Over’s <a class="link" href="https://www.web.thepourover.org/p/cancelled-innit?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=april-madness" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">April 8th email</a> and rewritten at a 7th-grade reading level.</p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>QUOTE OF THE WEEK</b><br><i>“God is awesome; he doesn&#39;t need you to be awesome. He wants you to be obedient.”</i><br><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);"><b>Matt Chandler</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond">READ <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">|</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">WORLD NEWS</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="text-decoration:line-through;"><b>March</b></span><b> April Madness</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Michigan and UCLA are the new kings and queens of college basketball.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The Wolverines <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4siF5sh?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=april-madness" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">beat UConn 69-63 in the men&#39;s championship game</a> on Monday. The win caps a remarkable turnaround under second-year head coach Dusty May. The boys from Ann Arbor stood (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4cvxHov?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=april-madness" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">very</a>) tall all year. Their “shortest” player, Elliot Cadeau (6&#39;1&quot;), was <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4vhF7Do?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=april-madness" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">named Most Outstanding Player</a>. He dropped 19 points to give Michigan their confetti shower. (Watch this year&#39;s <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4sfWeTf?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=april-madness" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">&quot;One Shining Moment&quot; here</a>.)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">On the women&#39;s side, the UCLA Bruins <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/41jEjQE?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=april-madness" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">put a bruisin&#39; on South Carolina</a> 79-51 Sunday, with five players scoring double figures. It&#39;s the school&#39;s first-ever women&#39;s trophy and coach Cori Close&#39;s first time cutting the net (<a class="link" href="https://www.ncaa.com/news/basketball-men/article/2019-03-30/why-basketball-teams-cut-down-nets?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=april-madness" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">see why they do that here</a>). She&#39;s led the Lady Bruins for her entire fifteen-season head coaching career. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Off the court, President Trump <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4mgYU1G?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=april-madness" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">signed an executive order on Friday</a> that whistles for new college sports rules. The order limits how many times athletes can transfer schools (one) and how long they&#39;re eligible (five years). It also <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4vh1HMm?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=april-madness" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">limits outside groups from paying athletes</a> to play at a particular school. The move aims to protect women’s and smaller sports from losing funding to big-money programs like football and basketball.<br><br>___<br><br><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVE</b></span><br><b>Sports can be a field where spiritual fruit grows. Through sports, we experience the thrill of victory, resilience from defeat, the beauty of teamwork, and the delight of play. As you watch, cheer, and discuss sports, keep an eternal perspective by focusing on growing Christlike character, not just the scoreboard.  </b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>“</b><i><b>And not only that, but we also boast in our afflictions, because we know that affliction produces endurance, endurance produces proven character, and proven character produces hope. This hope will not disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured out in our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us.</b></i><b>” </b><br><b>Romans 5:3-5 (CSB) (</b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4lyfkCx?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=april-madness" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>read full passage</b></a><b>)</b></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> REFLECT <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">| RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What gospel lesson can be taught through this story?</b><br>Believers measure winning differently than the rest of the world.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Most college athletes experience disappointment and failure more often than victory. For every player who makes the Final Four, there are thousands who don’t even make the tournament. But that doesn’t mean their work was worthless, because (hopefully) their discipline and friendships have shaped them for the better. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In the same way, Christians can expect to face failure and hardship on this side of eternity. But what will matter when Jesus returns is not how many wins and losses you rack up on your score sheet, but who you seek—and who you become—in the process (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4vypsQi?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=april-madness" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">John 17:3</a>; <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/41TBWEf?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=april-madness" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">James 1:2-4</a>).</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What do I want to make sure my kids know in light of this story?</b><br>Give all kinds of work your best effort, for God’s glory.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">March Madness is an opportunity for college athletes to showcase a lifetime of hard work and talent. And it’s easy to marvel at a 6’10” superstar… but God has made you for beautiful, hard things too. You are his workmanship, created to bring Him glory whether you’re doing schoolwork, cleaning your room, practicing piano, changing diapers, or plugging data into a spreadsheet: <i>“We are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared ahead of time for us to do”</i> (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4minUFy?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=april-madness" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Ephesians 2:10 CSB</a>).</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | </span>RESPOND</h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Discuss: </b>What’s something you’re working on that feels hard or discouraging right now?<b> </b>How have you seen Christlike character growing in you through the process?<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Memorize </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/41TBWEf?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=april-madness" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">James 1:2–3</a>, <i>“Consider it a great joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you experience various trials, because you know that the testing of your faith produces endurance” </i>(CSB).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Pray for one another</b>, that you would experience joy and growth in the midst of your hard things.<br></p></li></ul></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(242, 130, 127);font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"><b>CREAM AND SUGAR</b></span></h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Gen Z Word of the Week: </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3QqISGq?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=april-madness" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Keep it 100</a> in your pregame pep talk.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Family Fun: </b>Go outside and play knockout, start a round of <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4sGnuuB?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=april-madness" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">wastepaper basketball</a>, or <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3PWoOvy?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=april-madness" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">shoot some digital hoops</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Whipped Cream on Top: </b>Rushing to <a class="link" href="https://thepourover.org/whipped-cream-rushing-to-get-home-like/?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=april-madness" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">get home like</a>...</p></div><div class="section" 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  <title>Artemis II</title>
  <description>Talking to your child about NASA’s lunar liftoff.</description>
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When Christ hung, and bled, and died, it was God saying to the world, &#39;I love you.&#39;”</i><br><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);"><b>Billy Graham</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond">READ <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">|</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">WORLD NEWS</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><b>Moonbound</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Last night, four astronauts lifted off for a journey around the moon (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4sJpRgK?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=artemis-ii" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">see their flight path</a>).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">NASA’s Artemis II mission launched last night at 6:24 p.m. ET from Kennedy Space Center in Florida (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3PXqYuJ?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=artemis-ii" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">watch them blast off</a>). The ascent marks the first crew headed for the moon since the Apollo 17 mission in 1972.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The mission aims to put the never-before-launched crew ship, named Integrity, through its paces. The far-side four hope to make it 252,000 total miles in about 10 days, rocketing about 4,700 miles past the far side of the moon. Crew members could see parts of the lunar surface that <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/41CTcO2?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=artemis-ii" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">no human has ever laid eyes on</a>. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The flight is a major milestone in NASA’s space race with China. Artemis II is one small step for Uncle Sam putting boots on the Big Cheese by 2028 (outpacing China’s 2030 goal).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Commander Reid Wiseman is leading the crew alongside pilot Victor Glover, mission specialist Christina Koch, and Canadian mission specialist Jeremy Hansen (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4m8B3kH?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=artemis-ii" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">meet the explorers</a>). Riding along is a mascot named Rise, a stuffie designed by a California second-grader and chosen from 2,600 entries across 50 countries (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4dmXUXt?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=artemis-ii" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">see its out-of-this-world hat here</a>). Rise is <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4bIuthc?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=artemis-ii" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">the mission’s official “zero-gravity indicator.”</a><br><br>___<br><br><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVE</b></span><br><b>Even our most ingenious exploratory missions will never carry us beyond God’s boundless creativity. Our most daring leaps into the unknown are just a peek into places God has always been, since the day He spoke them into being.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><b>“Blessed be your glorious name, and may it be exalted above all blessing and praise. You, LORD, are the only God. You created the heavens, the highest heavens with all their stars, the earth and all that is on it, the seas and all that is in them. You give life to all of them, and all the stars of heaven worship you.” </b></i><br><b>Nehemiah 9:5-6 (CSB) (</b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4bKzZQt?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=artemis-ii" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>read full passage</b></a><b>)</b></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> REFLECT <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">| RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What gospel lesson can be taught through this story?</b><br>Journeys around the moon and <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3Qf0qFm?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=artemis-ii" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">images like these from powerful telescopes</a> highlight that the universe is unfathomably big and beautiful… and yet God is still bigger than it all. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The vastness of the universe can’t compare with the megavastness of our God, who spoke the stars and moon into existence and knows all the details we have yet to discover. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But despite our Creator’s overwhelming transcendence, He still cares about the details of your life. He cares about your dreams and fears, He knows your favorite cereal, and He sees when you open the pickle jar for grandma. The God who is far beyond the far side of the moon is also the God who emptied Himself and took on the form of a weak, fragile human <i>and died </i>for you.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What do I want to make sure my kids know in light of this story?</b><br>The awe and even fear with which we approach things like space can teach us about “the fear of the LORD.”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The Bible says that the glimpses of God’s raw power we see in creation are meant to teach us to fear Him: <i>“The heavens were made by the word of the Lord, and all the stars, by the breath of his mouth… Let the whole earth fear the Lord; let all the inhabitants of the world stand in awe of him” </i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4cifkDw?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=artemis-ii" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">(Psalm 33:6-8 CSB)</a><i><b>. </b></i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This isn’t the kind of fear that drives us away from God (one of Scripture’s most frequent commands is “do not be afraid”), <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4djttBp?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=artemis-ii" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">it’s the kind of awe that draws us near</a> and drives out every other fear.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | </span>RESPOND</h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Explore somewhere you’ve never been</b>—a new trail, rooftop view, or a field at night—and share something it shows you about the God who spoke everything into existence.<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Memorize </b><b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4bKzZQt?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=artemis-ii" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Nehemiah 9:6</a></b><i><b>, </b></i><i>“You, LORD, are the only God. You created the heavens, the highest heavens with all their stars, the earth and all that is on it, the seas and all that is in them. You give life to all of them, and all the stars of heaven worship you” </i><i>(CSB).</i><i> </i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Pray </b>that the astronauts would have a safe trip and that their discoveries would draw people to the Lord in worship.<br></p></li></ul></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(242, 130, 127);font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"><b>CREAM AND SUGAR</b></span></h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Gen Z Word of the Week: </b>Mandalorians never remove their helmets. That’s <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3QcObJs?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=artemis-ii" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">canon</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Family Fun: </b>Wishing you could travel someplace exotic? 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  <description>Talking to your child about a fatal accident on a New York runway.</description>
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From a borrowed donkey to an empty tomb, Jesus did what no one else could: He secured our salvation. Join us in reflecting and celebrating with <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/DesiringGod_0327?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Desiring God’s free email devotional, </a><i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/DesiringGod_0327?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">One Week to Save the World</a></i>. Don’t rush past Christ’s death and victorious resurrection!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">This week’s Decaf is brought to you by FamilyLife’s <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/FamilyLife0326?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Resurrection Eggs</a> and <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Moody_0326?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">this book about biblical manhood from Moody Publishers</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Today’s story was taken from The Pour Over’s <a class="link" href="https://www.web.thepourover.org/p/extra-ice?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">March 25th email</a> and rewritten at a 7th-grade reading level. </p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>QUOTE OF THE WEEK</b><br><i>“Our prayers can go where we cannot… there are no borders, no prison walls, no doors that are closed to us when we pray.”</i><br><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);"><b>Brother Andrew</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond">READ <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">|</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">U.S. NEWS</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><b>Runway Crash</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Two pilots were killed and 41 people injured late Sunday in a crash on LaGuardia Airport’s runway.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Just before midnight, an Air Canada Express jet was landing from Montreal, carrying 72 passengers and four crew. The plane crashed into <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4bQru5j?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">a fire truck</a> crossing the runway. Air traffic control had cleared the truck to cross the plane’s path in order to respond to a report of an odor on a nearby plane. Recordings reveal the air traffic controller realizing the mistake and <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4uU2DWU?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">shouting for the truck to stop</a> seconds before the crash.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A flight attendant was ejected over 300 feet from the plane. She was still strapped to her jump seat (which is specifically designed to withstand crashes) and suffered only a fractured leg. Everyone on the truck survived.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">After the crash, LaGuardia <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/41pwoB9?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">closed for 14 hours</a>, cancelling over 600 flights. Officials recovered both black boxes—the devices that record flight data and cockpit audio—and launched a full investigation.<br><br>___<br><br><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>ETERNAL PERSPECTIVE</b></span><br><b>Death highlights the urgency of our mission to share the gospel and love others. We sometimes feel invincible, but God could call us home at any moment.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><b>“He himself gives everyone life and breath and all things… Therefore, having overlooked the times of ignorance, God now commands all people everywhere to repent, because he has set a day when he is going to judge the world in righteousness by the man he has appointed. He has provided proof of this to everyone by raising him from the dead.”</b></i><b> </b><br><b>Acts 17:25, 30-31 (CSB) (</b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4s0sauN?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>read full passage</b></a><b>)</b></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> REFLECT <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">| RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What gospel lesson can be taught through this story?</b><br>Tragic accidents are proof that the world is broken.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Ever since sin entered the world, all of creation has been put under a curse (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4bLYuLT?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Romans 8:20-22</a>). Things that should not happen—like disease, decay, and deadly airline accidents—are now part of everyday life. This is the result of our sin.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The great news is that God came down to fix what we broke. He overcame our sin, and He has prepared a place for us where things like this accident never happen (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4t3g6tC?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">John 14:2-3</a>; <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4bLmrTl?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">16:33</a>).</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>How can I model putting my hope and trust in Christ when discussing this story?</b><br>Riding on an airplane puts us in a position of complete dependence. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Our schedule is set for us, and our journey could be delayed or canceled suddenly; we’re confined to a seat we probably didn’t choose, sitting next to strangers; we can’t maintain the plane’s engine, set its course, or fly it. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">And helplessness is scary, especially when accidents happen. But the weird, upside-down thing about being a Christian is that God says a place of complete dependence on Him (aka trust) is exactly the right place to be. Like little children who implicitly trust good parents, faith ushers us into big peace and overflowing joy (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3PZIG0B?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Psalm 131</a>; <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4bxpUGv?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Matthew 18:1-4</a>).</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | </span>RESPOND</h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Discuss: </b>What areas of your life are you<b> </b>white-knuckling right now?<b> </b>In other words, where does dependence feel most threatening? What would it look like to loosen your grip?<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Memorize </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3O16noL?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">2 Corinthians 5:7</a><b>: </b><i>“We walk by faith, not by sight”</i> (CSB).<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Pray for those affected by the LaGuardia crash:</b><b> </b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Lord of Highest Heaven, today we are brought down low and shaken. Hold us fast, Searching, Knowing, Present One. Hold fast the families mourning those suddenly lost. Hold fast the injured, brought low and broken, who face an enduring trial. Hold fast the anxious who fear the journey over the jet bridge and into a cloudy expanse of helpless dependence.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">We are finite and frail and vulnerable, reliant on Your understanding for our very life and breath. Teach us the wholehearted trust of a little child with a good parent, so that we walk by faith, overflowing with the peace of one who is fully known, seen, and cared for by the Lord of Highest Heaven. Amen. <b>(</b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4szS5dW?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>Psalm 139:7-10</b></a><b>; listen to the full prayer </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4uS7VSK?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>here</b></a><b>.)</b></p></li></ul></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(242, 130, 127);font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"><b>CREAM AND SUGAR</b></span></h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Gen Z Word of the Week: </b>If you steal my cookie, you’re going to <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4dH7jZQ?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">catch these hands</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Family Fun: </b>Read the Triumphal Entry story in Luke 19:28-40 or <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4t3myAL?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">watch this retelling for kids</a>, then act out the story of Palm Sunday with dolls or stuffed animals.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Whipped Cream on Top: </b>Dogs...<a class="link" href="https://thepourover.org/whipped-cream-dogs-or-cowboys/?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"> or cowboys?</a></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">RECOMMENDED</h1></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>How We’re Bringing Easter to Life for Our Kids</b><br>With <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/FamilyLife0326?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Resurrection Eggs</a>*</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Candy-filled baskets and egg hunts are fun, but what if your Easter traditions were fun <i>and</i> meaningful? </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/FamilyLife0326?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Resurrection Eggs</a> are a hands-on way to share the “why” behind the true story of Easter in an engaging way that even your littlest ones will love. Each egg has a figurine inside to discuss as a family (kind of like an Easter-themed Advent calendar your kids will return to again and again), plus activities, a recipe book, a neighborhood egg hunt guide, and more!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">From the cross to the resurrection, give your kids a tangible way to understand this important truth: our faith matters because the tomb was empty. <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/FamilyLife0326?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Get your set on Amazon in time for Easter!</a></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>How We’re Raising Our Boys To Be Men of God</b><br>With the help of <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Moody_0326?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=laguardia-plane-crash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">this book</a>*</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Raising faithful young men in a world full of messages about masculinity, identity, sexuality, and success that constantly contradict Scripture isn’t simple. If that’s something you’ve noticed, then you’ll love <i>72 Questions (and Answers) About Life and Becoming the Man God Designed You to Be.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Written by a father/son duo, this book tackles the real issues guys wrestle with every day—porn, dating, purpose, fear, and spiritual dryness—with clear, biblical answers. 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  <description>Talking to your child about extreme conditions across the States.</description>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="section" style="background-color:#f4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Read Time: 5 min 23 sec | Reading Level: 7th Grade</p></div><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.thepourover.org/decaf?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/c2f75ec1-83f3-4395-b44b-8db96a13189f/Decaf_v1.png?t=1771884930"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span><b> March 19, 2026 </b><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>Happy belated St. Patrick’s Day!</b><br>Hope you avoided getting pinched, ate some Lucky Charms, and celebrated the legacy of the courageous man who brought the good news to the land that would become Ireland. Hear his story of radical forgiveness and faith retold in <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4bsWVSN?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">this podcast for young saints</a>! </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">This week’s Decaf is brought to you by the <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Tyndale_0319?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">NLT Kids </a><i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Tyndale_0319?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">GO Bible</a></i> and <i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Moody_0319?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">A Compelling Faith in a Compromising Culture</a></i>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Today’s story was taken from The Pour Over’s <a class="link" href="https://thepourover.org/all-of-the-above/?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">March 18th email</a> and rewritten at a 7th-grade reading level. </p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>QUOTE OF THE WEEK</b><br><i>“Within the Scripture there is a balm for every wound, a salve for every sore.”</i><br><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);"><b>Charles Spurgeon</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond">READ <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">|</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">WEATHER</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><b>In Like a Lion</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">March’s weather understood the assignment (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3NHwSzs?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">see what we mean</a>), with roughly half of the U.S. under extreme conditions this week.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">On the East Coast, <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4bif479?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">thunderstorms struck from Florida to New Jersey</a>. More than 94M people were under severe weather alerts, and around 34M were under tornado watches. Washington, D.C. was in the heart of the storm’s red zone, so <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4uRFowG?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">federal workers got an early dismissal</a> on Monday.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In the Midwest, a clipper (a fast-moving winter storm system that starts east of the Canadian Rocky Mountains) blew in on Friday. More than <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/47GzIeN?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">70M people faced blustery winds</a>, and hundreds of thousands were without power in Minnesota, Wisconsin, Illinois, and Michigan. After the wind came the snow, making St. Paddy’s day parades more white than green. Over <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4uDAV0a?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">11M Upper Midwesterners were buried</a> in up to 3 feet of snow (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3Npy4Ye?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">see pics of the drifts</a>). </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Meanwhile, a heatwave is blasting through the West. Western Nebraska is currently fighting the largest fire in the state’s history. Four wildfires have <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4bDdWtP?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">burned nearly 800,000 acres</a> of land and killed one person. In Arizona and Nevada, Southwesterners are expecting <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4uxQzdP?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">record-breaking triple-digit temps into the weekend. </a></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">There’s still time for March to go out like a lamb. <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3Neszvs?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Here’s what the </a><i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3Neszvs?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Old Farmer’s Almanac </a></i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3Neszvs?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">predicts</a> for your area.<br><br><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVE</b></span><br><b>When the weather seems like it’s glitching, that doesn’t mean God has lost control or isn’t good. Instead, it reminds us that </b><i><b>all the world </b></i><b>has been broken by sin. The wrongness is in us and our world, not in God. But when Jesus returns, He will make all things right. </b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><b>“For the creation was subjected to futility—​not willingly, but because of him who subjected it​—in the hope that the creation itself will also be set free from the bondage to decay into the glorious freedom of God’s children.” </b></i><br><b>Romans 8:20-21 (CSB)</b><span style="color:rgb(29, 28, 29);"><b> (</b></span><a class="link" href="https://read.csbible.com/?book=romans&chapter=8&utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>read full passage</b></a><span style="color:rgb(29, 28, 29);"><b>)</b></span></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> REFLECT <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">| RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What good news do my kids need to hear in light of today’s news?</b><br>Extreme, unpredictable weather highlights that we are rather small and finite. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">We could respond to that realization with fear and pride, striving to manipulate our circumstances for maximum security and control… but that frantic self-preservation will only leave us exhausted and disappointed. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Instead, we can accept Jesus’s invitation to come to Him for rest: <i>“Come to me, all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, because I am lowly and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light”</i> (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4soyqxq?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Matthew 11:28-30 CSB</a>).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Circumstances like weather, health, or employment can take a turn in an instant. But the one who is yoked to Jesus will have peace, come what may. </p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What response to this story do I want to model for my children?</b><br>Lending a hand. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">With half the country disrupted by harsh conditions, chances are you have neighbors in need. Look for opportunities to serve, whether it’s clearing a fallen branch, sharing groceries or a meal with someone who lost power, or offering a cold drink to those working out in the heat. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Acts of kindness (especially this close to Easter!) often open doors for inviting our neighbors into Christian community, where they can encounter Jesus. That’s the whole point of good works, after all—that others would see believers’ kindness and be awed by God’s goodness (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/477Dm16?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Matthew 5:16</a>; <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4cVCj8a?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Titus 2:11-14</a>; <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4sdlwSM?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1 Peter 2:12</a>).</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | </span>RESPOND</h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Design (or review) your family’s emergency plan. </b>Talk through details like how to use a fire extinguisher, where emergency supplies are kept, and where the family can meet if separated.<b> </b>As you discuss the plan, remember to share your faith that God will take care of your family even when hard things happen.<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Memorize </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4rDyJ68?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Matthew 11:28-29</a>, “C<i>ome to me, all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, because I am lowly and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.” </i>(CSB)<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Pray with us: </b>Father, King of Creation, call your rebellious elements back to order. Provide for those who are disrupted and endangered. Jesus, Stiller of Raging Storms, bring peace and freedom from fear. Grant the rest of faith to those who are exhausted by grasping for control. Spirit, Giver of Life<b>, </b>embolden Your people for courageous kindness among our needy neighbors. Shine Your light and make new again, Lord of Resurrection and Life. Amen.</p></li></ul></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>Want to bring more hard headlines to God in prayer? 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Test your family’s knowledge of cloud types with <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/47362II?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">this quiz</a>! (Need a warm-up? <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3NxoORQ?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Study first here</a>.)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Whipped Cream on Top: </b>Making art with <a class="link" href="https://thepourover.org/whipped-cream-making-art-with-light-and-shadows/?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">light and shadows…</a></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">RECOMMENDED</h1></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>How Our Kids Are Digging into God’s Word</b><br>Using the <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Tyndale_0319?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">NLT Kids </a><i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Tyndale_0319?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">GO Bible</a></i>*</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you struggle to get your kids engaged in God’s Word, this resource is for you. Ready, set, <i>GO Bible</i>! </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The NLT <i>GO Bible</i> teaches kids about God’s plan for them and His power to change hearts, all in an easy-to-understand format. This full-color Bible is filled with 600+ kid-approved resources, a big font and colored text, a 365-day Bible reading plan, and a quick-answer index for your curious kiddos… all alongside the clear, readable New Living Translation. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Whether you’re reading aloud to your kids or they’re reading alone, this Bible will show them that they can do mighty things. <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Tyndale_0319?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Get yours today!</a></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What’s Helping Us Model Bold Faith For Our Kids</b><br><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Moody_0319?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=weather-whiplash" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">This book</a> by Pastor Mike Tatlock*</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Raising kids in today’s culture can feel like navigating a constant tug-of-war between fast-moving headlines and loud opinions. Gospel conversations are only getting more complicated.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That’s why we love <i>A Compelling Faith in a Compromising Culture</i>. Pastor Mike Tatlock challenges believers not to fight louder or hide quieter, but to go deeper. 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  <title>Washington and Jerusalem v. Tehran</title>
  <description>Talking to your child about the widening conflict in the Middle East.</description>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="section" style="background-color:#f4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Read Time: 5 min 21 sec | Reading Level: 7th Grade</p></div><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.thepourover.org/decaf?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/c2f75ec1-83f3-4395-b44b-8db96a13189f/Decaf_v1.png?t=1771884930"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span><b> March 12, 2026 </b><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>It’s Thursday,</b><br>and the headlines weigh heavily. But in the face of difficult news, believers in Jesus have an opportunity to radiate the hope of Christ in our homes and communities. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">So, we just wanted to say we’re glad you’re here—keeping your family (and yourself!) informed, while staying rooted in and reliant on Christ. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">This week’s Decaf is brought to you by the family devotional <i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/IVP_0312?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Faith Foundations</a></i> and by the <i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/BakerPublishing_0312?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Women of the Way</a></i><i> </i>biblical fiction series.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Today’s story was taken from The Pour Over’s <a class="link" href="https://www.web.thepourover.org/p/no-white-flag?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">March 9th</a> and <a class="link" href="https://www.web.thepourover.org/p/toaster-on-wheels?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">11th emails</a> and rewritten at a 7th-grade reading level. </p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>QUOTE OF THE WEEK</b><br><i>“Gather the riches of God&#39;s promises. No one can take away from you those texts from the Bible which you have learned by heart.”</i><br><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);"><b>Corrie ten Boom</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond">READ <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">|</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">WORLD NEWS</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><b>War in the Middle East</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The United States and Israel are almost two weeks into a war with the Islamic Republic of Iran, and the impact is spreading across the Middle East. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here’s what’s happening on the ground:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Washington says its military objectives are “ahead of schedule” and that Iran’s Navy and Air Force are wiped out. President Trump said America hasn’t “won enough” yet.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">On Sunday, the Islamic Republic named a new Supreme Leader. Mojtaba Khamenei will <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4riSsb8?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">take his father’s place leading the country</a>. President Trump said he was “not happy” with the choice.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Iran isn’t backing down. Yesterday, at least <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4uuuJb8?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">three commercial ships were struck</a> in and around the Strait of Hormuz—the narrow sea route through which 20% of the world’s oil supply passes (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4s5crLI?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">see map</a>). Iran claimed responsibility for one of the strikes.</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The war’s death toll is climbing. A <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4lrnxZ2?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">seventh American service member has died</a> in the conflict, and the United Nations says <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4unNYCX?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">nearly 1,300 people have been killed</a> in Iran. Lebanon said at least 570 people have been killed there and nearly <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4dhiNmH?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">700,000 people have been forced to flee</a> from their homes. (Israel has been striking its northern neighbor to try to eliminate Hezbollah, a Lebanon-based terror group that Iran funds.)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Around the world, oil prices have been on a roller coaster. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The price of crude oil (the raw, unrefined state oil is in when it comes out of the ground) spiked to almost $120/barrel Monday. That’s the most expensive it’s been since Russia invaded Ukraine in 2022. Oil got so spendy because of Iran threatening traffic in the Strait of Hormuz. But prices went back down after Trump said <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/40qygJK?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">the conflict could be over “very soon.”</a><br><br>__<br><br><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>CHRISTIAN RESPONSE</b></span><br><b>War brings destruction to everything it touches—lands, people, governments, and economies—but our God is the Great Restorer. As we look forward to God making everything new one day, pray that the Middle East would experience a taste of that restoration today and glorify the Messiah Jesus. </b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><b>“On this mountain… [the LORD of Armies will swallow] up death once and for all. The LORD GOD will wipe away the tears... On that day it will be said, ‘Look, this is our God; we have waited for him, and he has saved us. This is the LORD; we have waited for him. Let’s rejoice and be glad in his salvation.’”</b></i><b> </b><br><b>Isaiah 25:7–9 (CSB)</b><span style="color:rgb(29, 28, 29);"><b> (</b></span><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3OVNdRx?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>read full passage</b></a><span style="color:rgb(29, 28, 29);"><b>)</b></span></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> REFLECT <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">| RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Ask your kids how they feel about this story.</b><br>Does it make them sad? Afraid? Angry? </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Talk about what emotions the war stirs up, then probe what’s behind that feeling. Knowing where our kids are coming from will help us empathize and share the good news of Jesus. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Fear of death? Jesus beat it. Anxiety about money? God promises to provide. Sadness about displacement? God will make everything new and provide an eternal home. The goal is not to give trite answers to life’s biggest problems, but to learn where our kids are, sit with them there, and then speak specific encouragement from Scripture.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What good news do my kids need to hear in light of this bad news?</b><br>War means many unbelievers are suffering and dying without the hope of Jesus (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/40rizBT?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">John 17:3</a>). What can we do with this sadness?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Remember God’s character:</p><ol start="1"><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It’s OK to be sad. The things that sadden God should sadden us. Jesus Himself mourned the suffering and death that gripped the world because of the pain it caused (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4b67mwT?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">John 11:32-35</a>).</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">God will always do right. We don’t have to worry about Him overlooking someone or missing the facts when He judges (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4rkaLwF?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Genesis 18:16-33, esp. v. 25</a>).</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The Lord is generous with mercy. He <i>loves </i>to offer forgiveness, and He <i>eagerly</i> extends His steadfast love (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3Nlq0HL?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Exodus 34:5-8</a>; <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4sFhUbV?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Ezekiel 18:21-23</a>; <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4sbb4LC?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1 Timothy 2:3-5</a>).</p></li></ol><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">God is completely in control—even in times of chaos—and we can trust His goodness.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | </span>RESPOND</h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Learn something about Iran. </b>This Middle Eastern country is so much more than a stage for conflict in the news. <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3NySOwy?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Check out this FAQ</a> and share something lovely that you discover: a tasty food, a stunning vista, an intriguing cultural custom, a surprising historical fact…<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Memorize </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4lur2hw?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">John 17:3</a>, <i>“This is eternal life: that they may know you, the only true God, and the one you have sent—Jesus Christ”</i> (CSB).<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Pray </b>for those who are lost and suffering without hope in the Middle East. Pray that the Lord would pierce the darkness—whether through supernatural, direct appearances to those who are His, or by the courageous witness of His people in the region.</p></li></ul></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"> </p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(242, 130, 127);font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"><b>CREAM AND SUGAR</b></span></h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Gen Z Word of the Week: </b>She got <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4blOIzZ?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">boo’d up</a> during the mission trip.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Family Fun: </b>Watch for fish on this underwater feed at the entrance to a Dutch canal (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4loyKJT?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">learn more here</a>), then <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4rv0iyP?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">ring the doorbell here</a> to notify lock operators to let the fish in. Ding dong!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Whipped Cream on Top: </b>A constructive <a class="link" href="https://thepourover.org/whipped-cream-a-constructive-way-to-make-breakfast/?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">way to make breakfast...</a></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">RECOMMENDED</h1></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>How We’re Turning Family Time into Faith Conversations</b><br>With <i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/IVP_0312?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Faith Foundations</a></i>*</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Deep faith doesn’t happen by accident. And it could happen anywhere… maybe even the dinner table. With <i>Faith Foundations</i>, theology is accessible alongside lasagna night. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This resource is filled with 99 devotions to help your family engage with Scripture and dive into essential truths. Together, you can explore doctrines like sin, salvation, and even the end times through simple approaches and practical steps. Each devotion includes a key Scripture, engaging discussion questions, a family activity, a catechism, and more. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Plus, it makes a great practical pairing to <i>Family Discipleship that Works</i>—a guide to doable family discipleship at home. <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/IVP_0312?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Check out </a><i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/IVP_0312?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Faith Foundations</a></i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/IVP_0312?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"> today.</a> </p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>How the Gospel is Coming to Life</b><br>Through <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/BakerPublishing_0312?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=washington-and-jerusalem-v-tehran" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">these biblical fiction novels</a>*</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Looking for an Easter read that will help you consider what it was like to walk in the time of Jesus? You’ll love the <i>Women of the Way</i> series by Heather Kaufman. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This<i> </i>series follows Mary’s sister Martha, wealthy woman Joanna, and James and John’s mother, Salome, as they try to be faithful to their families, embrace Jesus’s commands, and find their worth. 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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="section" style="background-color:#f4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Read Time: 5 min 06 sec | Reading Level: 7th Grade</p></div><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.thepourover.org/decaf?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=iran-war" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/c2f75ec1-83f3-4395-b44b-8db96a13189f/Decaf_v1.png?t=1771884930"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span><b> March 5, 2026 </b><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>It’s Thursday,</b><br>and the U.S. is six days into a conflict in the Middle East. In seasons like these, the news can become a near-constant source of fear and anxiety… </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">But it’s OK to turn it off. If you could use some help setting healthy boundaries around news media for yourself and your family, TPO’s News Cleanse is for you. <a class="link" href="https://newscleanse.thepourover.org/?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=iran-war" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Sign up for the free 7-week devotional here</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">This week’s Decaf is brought to you by <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/FamilyLife_0305?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=iran-war" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">FamilyLife’s Weekend to Remember</a> and <i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/TheGoodBook_0305?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=iran-war" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">It’s Good to Be a Boy</a></i><i>.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Today’s story was taken from The Pour Over’s <a class="link" href="https://www.web.thepourover.org/p/operation-epic-fury?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=iran-war" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">March 2nd</a> and <a class="link" href="https://www.web.thepourover.org/p/iran-and-beyond?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=iran-war" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">4th emails</a> and rewritten at a 7th-grade reading level.</p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>QUOTE OF THE WEEK</b><br><i>“You have to see Sabbath as a faith act. It&#39;s a decree that I live on God, not on work.”</i><br><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);"><b>Justin Kendrick</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond">READ <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">|</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">WORLD NEWS</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><b>Conflict in Iran and Beyond</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The U.S. and Israel attacked Iran last weekend.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What happened?</b><br>The U.S. and Israel teamed up to launch a surprise attack on Iran just after 9:00 am local time Saturday. Missiles hit political and military sites across the country, including the palace of Iran’s Supreme Leader. <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4l09sl2?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=iran-war" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Ayatollah Khamenei, the 86-year-old who ruled Iran</a> for 35 years, was killed. The strikes also took out at least 49 other top leaders of Iran’s government and military.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Iran struck back, hitting targets all over the Middle East (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4lmrUEV?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=iran-war" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">see a strike map</a>). </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The U.S. said <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/47oCm8N?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=iran-war" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">six servicemembers have been killed</a> in the conflict so far. Iran says it’s <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/470w2ED?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=iran-war" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">lost nearly 1,000 people</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Why did the attacks start?</b><br>Tensions with Iran have been high over Iran building nuclear weapons and violently crushing protests last month. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The White House says the joint strikes have <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4ubgc3F?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=iran-war" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">a few goals</a>:</p><ol start="1"><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Majorly weaken Iran’s military</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Prevent the country from developing nuclear weapons</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Keep Iran from giving money to terror groups in the region</p></li></ol><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Critics are saying the Trump administration’s military <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4rgNZWH?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=iran-war" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">goals are not crystal clear</a>. The big question mark is whether “regime change” (overturning the government) is on Uncle Sam’s agenda.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What’s next?</b><br>President Trump said the fighting could last “four to five weeks” or longer. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Meanwhile, Americans in 14 Middle Eastern countries have been <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3OLE2TG?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=iran-war" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">urged to evacuate</a> because of “serious safety risks.” Oil and natural gas prices are going up, and overall inflation is expected to rise, too. <br><br>—<br><br><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>ETERNAL PERSPECTIVE</b></span><br><b>When our news feed fills with violence and chaos, we’re often swept into a spiral of anxiety. But believers have an anchor in Jesus, whose peace pierces the darkness now and will one day shatter it completely.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);"><i><b>“In him was life, and that life was the light of men.</b></i></span><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);"><b> </b></span><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);"><i><b>That light shines in the darkness, and yet the darkness did not overcome it.</b></i></span><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);"><b>” </b></span><br><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);"><b>John 1:4-5 (CSB) (</b></span><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4ua3jqA?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=iran-war" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>read full passage</b></a><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);"><b>)</b></span></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> REFLECT <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">| RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What good news do my kids need to hear in light of this bad news?</b><br>It seems like just as one conflict in the Middle East reaches a tentative conclusion, another bursts violently onto the scene. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When the prophet Isaiah was caught up in a similar cycle of Middle East violence nearly 3,000 years ago, God pulled back the curtain on a very good, verrrry long future:<i> “He will settle disputes among the nations and provide arbitration for many peoples. They will beat their swords into plows and their spears into pruning knives. Nation will not take up the sword against nation, and they will never again train for war”</i> (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4cnkRJv?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=iran-war" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Isaiah 2:4 CSB</a>).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">War is not forever. A peaceful King is coming, and the seat of His kingdom will be smack dab in the middle of the Middle East. He’ll interrupt the raging of the world’s most turbulent region, commanding stillness with the same ease that quieted storms and undid sicknesses and death.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Why is God’s peace taking so long?</b><br>This conflict has been raging for thousands of years, and it may continue to drag on. That doesn’t mean God has forgotten His promise or doesn’t care about the region&#39;s people. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The Bible says God’s timing for Jesus’s return is set by His <i>mercy</i>: <i>“With the Lord one day is like a thousand years, and a thousand years like one day. The Lord does not delay his promise, as some understand delay, but is patient with you, not wanting any to perish but all to come to repentance”</i> (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4shGIqu?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=iran-war" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">2 Peter 3:8-9 CSB</a>).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">His “delay” furthers His mission of inviting others to come to Him for life. While you wait for His plan to unfold, trust His character and align your mission with His.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | </span>RESPOND</h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Look at this</b><b> </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4b3zDmd?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=iran-war" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">map of the Middle East</a>…</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/d9e7602f-a558-4a66-9a93-22430360e217/image.png?t=1772653172"/></div></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Choose a country,</b><b> </b>learn the basic facts about its population (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3P2s9Zr?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=iran-war" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">this site can help</a>), then pray for that country specifically (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/40JjZHX?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=iran-war" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">try this prayer guide</a>).<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Memorize</b><b> </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4ctcXye?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=iran-war" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">John 1:5</a>, “<span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);"><i>That light shines in the darkness, and yet the darkness did not overcome it.”</i></span><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);"> (CSB).</span><br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Pray for the Middle East:</b><b> </b>Mighty God, You are never caught by surprise or overpowered. By Your overwhelming strength, work peace across the Middle East. Overcome evildoers; comfort those who are mourning; protect the vulnerable; strengthen those who will rebuild; and bring order from chaos so that Iran and its neighbors will taste and see the goodness of the One True King.</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>Burdensome news often leaves us overwhelmed and speechless. 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  <description>Talking to your child about violence in Mexico.</description>
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Lay any burden on me, only sustain me. And sever any tie in my heart except the tie that binds my heart to Yours.”</i><br><span style="color:#C0C0C0;"><b>David Livingstone</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond">READ <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">|</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">WORLD NEWS</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><b>Cartel Chaos</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Mexico is recovering from a wave of violence. It all started on Sunday when Mexican security forces killed one of the country’s most-wanted cartel bosses, “El Mencho.”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A drug cartel is a group of people who sell drugs illegally to make big money, often using violence to protect their business. Nemesio Oseguera Cervantes (“El Mencho”) headed up the <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4s3AcDE?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=cartel-chaos" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Jalisco New Generation Cartel (CJNG)</a>. The CJNG is one of America’s biggest suppliers of the drugs fentanyl, meth, and cocaine, and the U.S. has labeled it a terror organization.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The U.S. and Mexico shared information for months to track down the drug lord, before there was <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/40gTLN3?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=cartel-chaos" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">a breakthrough this weekend</a>. Mexican authorities followed one of El Mencho’s romantic partners to his hideout. Oseguera Cervantes was shot in a gunfight with security forces and died in custody on the way to the hospital.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The cartel struck back violently. <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4rDXG2o?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=cartel-chaos" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">CJNG blocked 250+ roads and burned cars</a> across 20+ states in Mexico. Over 70 people were killed in the operation and the violence that followed. That number includes 25 Mexican National Guard members, the alleged mastermind of CJNG’s response, and more than 30 additional suspected cartel members. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Thousands of security forces were deployed to quiet the unrest. Monday, authorities said all roadblocks had been cleared. Tuesday, normal flight schedules resumed across tourist destinations like Puerto Vallarta, Cancún, and Cozumel (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4kYOe7c?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=cartel-chaos" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">see map</a>).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">__</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>ETERNAL PERSPECTIVE</b></span><br><b>Christians live as strangers and exiles in our home countries, whether that temporary home is peaceful, disorderly, or somewhere in between. Seek the good of the land you’re passing through while eagerly anticipating the coming of your permanent home. </b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><b>“This is what the LORD of Armies, the God of Israel, says to all the exiles I deported from Jerusalem to Babylon: ‘Build houses and live in them. Plant gardens and eat their produce… Pursue the well-being of the city I have deported you to. Pray to the LORD on its behalf, for when it thrives, you will thrive.’” </b></i><br><b>Jeremiah 29:4-7 (CSB) (</b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3OwGgpP?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=cartel-chaos" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>read full passage</b></a><b>)</b></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> REFLECT <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">| RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>How can I model putting my hope and trust in Christ when discussing this story?</b><br>Do not fear! The news is notorious for amplifying scary and tragic stories because they’re what keep audiences coming back. But for believers in Jesus, fear is never the appropriate response.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Why not? First, there’s God’s explicit command/encouragement all over the Bible: <i>“Fear not!” </i>In all kinds of intimidating, intense, tragic situations, God’s presence strengthens believers to face hard things with faith (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/47b7msN?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=cartel-chaos" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Deuteronomy 31:6</a>; <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4tX3O7c?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=cartel-chaos" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Isaiah 41:10</a>; <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3MZgoSZ?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=cartel-chaos" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Revelation 1:17</a>). </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Plus, there’s His promise of a good, reallllly long future in His presence. If I believe that my soul is safe with Jesus, no matter what happens to my body on earth (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4sbf5PO?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=cartel-chaos" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Matthew 10:28</a>), why should anything in the news make me anxious? From the perspective of eternity, suffering is short and just a preparation for future joy.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What response to this story do I want to model for my children?</b><br>You were not made to bear the emotional weight of every hard headline that reaches you from across the world. You’re finite… and that’s not a design flaw.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4rMqTYX?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=cartel-chaos" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Matthew 25</a>, Jesus calls His followers to feed the hungry, clothe the naked, care for the sick, and visit the imprisoned. But He isn’t assigning each individual Christian an impossible checklist. He’s describing the kind of love His people will be known for—a collective identity, not a solo mission.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So when you hear about hard things in distant lands, thank God for His body, the Church, and pray that He would equip local believers to serve boldly in their homelands for His glory.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | </span>RESPOND</h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>In moments of anxiety, </b>choose a habit that speaks hope into fear. Suggestion: sing a song that’s chock full of Scripture, <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4aC8Hez?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=cartel-chaos" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">like this one</a>.<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Memorize </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4ce3ISz?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=cartel-chaos" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Isaiah 41:10</a>, <i>“Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be afraid, for I am your God. I will strengthen you; I will help you; I will hold on to you with my righteous right hand”</i> (CSB).<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Pray </b>for deliverance from fear in your own life, and pray that believers in Mexico would be strengthened for the hard work of peacemaking in their communities.</p></li></ul></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"> </p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(242, 130, 127);font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"><b>CREAM AND SUGAR</b></span></h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Gen Z Word of the Week: </b>My dog <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4c8FzwC?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=cartel-chaos" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">clocked</a> the peanut butter jar opening from three rooms away.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Family Fun: </b>Tell a <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/40tJQU7?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=cartel-chaos" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">chain story</a> together around the table at dinnertime or before bed.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Whipped Cream on Top: </b>Winter can be long... <a class="link" href="https://thepourover.org/whipped-cream-enjoy-the-snow/?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=cartel-chaos" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">enjoy the snow</a>.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">RECOMMENDED</h1></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>How Blended Families Are Finding Hope</b><br>With help from this <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/FamilyLife_0226?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=cartel-chaos" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">FamilyLife marriage event</a>*</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">For blended families, the journey to “becoming family” is beautiful, but often challenging. 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  <title>Kicking off Lent</title>
  <description>Talking to your child about Ash Wednesday.</description>
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We have a suggestion: replace toxic news habits with spiritually healthy ones with <b>TPO’s News Cleanse</b>—a free, 10-minute Sunday devotional for the season of Lent. <a class="link" href="https://newscleanse.magic.thepourover.org/?email={{email}}&utm_source=tpoexplains&utm_medium=newscleanse&utm_campaign=feb12" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Join us here</a> and feel Christ’s peace overcome your anxiety. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">This week’s Decaf is brought to you by <i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Baker_0219?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Daystar Dogs </a></i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Baker_0219?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">series</a> and <i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/IVP_0219?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Raising Kids in a Sexually Broken World</a></i>.</p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>QUOTE OF THE WEEK</b><br><i>“Humility is the beginning of true intelligence.”</i><br><span style="color:#C0C0C0;"><b>John Calvin</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond">READ <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">|</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">RELIGION</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><b>Ash Wednesday</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Lent—not to be confused with lint, the fuzz in your belly button—began yesterday on Ash Wednesday.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It’s a major season on the Christian calendar. Christmas gets a lot of hype these days (for a good reason). But throughout the history of the Christian church, <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4qDhiCh?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Easter has been the most important celebration of the year</a>. And just like Advent is a season of preparation for Christmas, Lent is a season of preparation for Easter.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">“Lent” comes from the Old English word for spring, the season when days lengthen, and everything becomes new. It’s a 40-day period of repentance (turning away from sin) and remembering and practicing Jesus’s humility to get ready for Easter’s renewal. Christians have been practicing Lent since the early church.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Why 40 days? The number 40 reflects biblical moments of preparation and testing. Jesus fasted 40 days in the wilderness (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3OvB6tZ?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Matthew 4</a>), Israel wandered 40 years in the desert (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4tKlZgi?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Joshua 5:6</a>), Moses spent 40 days on Mount Sinai (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3OkWeTS?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Exodus 34</a>), and the flood’s rain lasted 40 days and nights (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4aXO6RV?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Genesis 7:12</a>). </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But if you count the days from February 18th to April 5th (Easter this year), it’ll add up to 46… That’s because Sundays don’t count. Sunday is always a celebration of the resurrection, so God’s people take a break from repentance to remember Jesus’s victory.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Lent typically involves fasting from a food or habit (like TV or social media) to limit distractions or highlight idols. But it’s not just about giving things up. Lent also invites believers into practices like prayer, worship, generosity, and Scripture reading. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Ash Wednesday (aka The “Day of Ashes”) kicks the season off. Historically, believers receive ashes on their foreheads as a symbol of grief and death. The ash is spread in the shape of a cross as a reminder that Jesus has ultimately defeated death.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">__</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVE</b></span><br><b>Whether Lent has a place on your calendar or not, practices of humility are nonnegotiables in the life of believers. How are you humbly drawing near?</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><br><i>“</i><i><b>God resists the proud but gives grace to the humble. Therefore, submit to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Be miserable and mourn and weep. Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to gloom. Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will exalt you.”</b></i><br><b>James 4:6-10 (CSB) (</b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/46XrqyG?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>read full passage</b></a><b>)</b></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> REFLECT <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">| RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What gospel lesson can be taught through this story?</b><br>Observing Lent is not commanded in the Bible, but repentance is. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4tEH3Ff?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Colossians 2:16</a> warns against passing judgment on people based on what religious traditions they engage in. But practices like repentance, confession, prayer, and fasting—the cornerstones of Lent—<i>are </i>commanded in Scripture (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4702cjg?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">James 4:7-10</a>; <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4rTvOXB?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">5:16</a>; <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3MQvbze?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Romans 12:11-12</a>; <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4cATFHa?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Matthew 6:16-18</a>). Just like the New Year might give a person renewed focus on a goal like improving fitness, a special season of focus on spiritual disciplines can help us recalibrate for healthy rhythms of engaging in them all year long.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you have been neglecting habits of prayer and humility or find yourself too distracted to enter God’s presence, Lent could be an opportunity to re-engage alongside other believers and seek the Lord.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What might my kids misunderstand about this story?</b><br>Lent is not just a Catholic tradition. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">While the majority of Lent observers in America today are Catholic, the season of humble heart preparation for Easter dates back to the early church. Believers from many different traditions throughout history and around the world have used Lent to draw near to the Lord.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It’s biblical to be wary of religious traditions that don’t engage the heart. When we’re just going through the motions in spiritual practices, Jesus’s solution isn’t to ditch the discipline. His call is to focus on our Father, aligning our hearts with what our bodies are doing (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4kOGWTA?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Matthew 6:1-18</a>; <a class="link" href="https://read.csbible.com/?book=matthew&chapter=23&utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">23:1-28</a>). </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Lent becomes twisted when it’s a performance for others or an attempt to earn salvation. But when spiritual discipline helps us quiet distractions and humble ourselves before God, it’s valuable training in holiness.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | </span>RESPOND</h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>If you plan to engage in Lent, </b>discuss your plan and how you hope it will help you focus your attention on Jesus.<b> </b><b>If you don’t engage in Lent, </b>discuss a practical step you can take to grow in confession, repentance, or prayer.<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Memorize </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4aKevS3?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">James 4:6</a>, <i>“God resists the proud but gives grace to the humble”</i> (CSB).<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Pray </b>for eyes to see places of sin in your life and the courage and strength to cut sin out (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/46gl90T?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Matthew 5:29-30</a>).</p></li></ul></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"> </p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(242, 130, 127);font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"><b>CREAM AND SUGAR</b></span></h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Gen Z Word of the Week: </b>Dad got major <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4aCEivh?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">aura points</a> when he drained that half-court shot.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Family Fun: </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4rqLNNe?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Seed a Resurrection Garden</a> and watch it grow during Lent!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Whipped Cream on Top: </b>Making an <a class="link" href="https://thepourover.org/whipped-cream-origami-velociraptor/?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">origami... velociraptor</a>.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">RECOMMENDED</h1></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>How We&#39;re Teaching Our Littles about Big Emotions</b><br>With <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Baker_0219?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=kicking-off-lent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">these picture books</a>*</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Your kiddos might be little, but their feelings often aren’t. 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  <description>Talking to your child about a week full of sports.</description>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="section" style="background-color:#f4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Read Time: 4 min 44 sec | Reading Level: 8th Grade</p></div><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.thepourover.org/decaf?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/6b1fcce0-1aa5-4485-9af2-cc57ce0dab1a/Decaf.png?t=1740523795"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span><b> February 12, 2026 </b><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>Happy Thursday!</b><br>It’s day 4 of our weeklong campaign for World Concern, a Christian relief and development organization transforming the lives of people in extreme poverty. For every Decaf referral made, we’re giving $2, <i>and</i> we’re matching the first $10k given directly to World Concern.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Today, we’re fighting the water crisis that impacts 1 in 4 people globally. <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/WorldConcern_0211_CopyA_?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Click here to give a water filter today</a>, or <a class="link" href="{{rp_referral_hub_url}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">share Decaf with your friends</a> to join the fight! </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">This week’s Decaf is brought to you by <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/IVP_0212?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Sensate Saga</a><i> </i>and <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Moody_0212?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Elite Seat</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Today’s story was taken from The Pour Over’s <a class="link" href="https://www.web.thepourover.org/p/super-seahawks?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">February 9th</a> and <a class="link" href="https://www.web.thepourover.org/p/intragalactic-to-do-list?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">11th emails</a> and rewritten at an 8th-grade reading level.</p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>QUOTE OF THE WEEK</b><br><i>“Since peace is alone the gift of God, and as it is He who gives it, why should we be afraid? His unspeakable gift in His beloved Son is the ground of no doubtful hope.”</i> <br><span style="color:#C0C0C0;"><b>Michael Faraday</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond">READ <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">|</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">SPORTS</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><b>Sports Sports Sports</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Fans around the world have been cheering on athletes from the grass to the ice this week.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Stateside on Sunday, the Seattle Seahawks <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4rE43SX?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">swooped to victory in Super Bowl LX (60)</a>. The game started as a bit of a yawn, with no touchdowns in the first three quarters. Ultimately, Seattle’s defense stood out, forcing eight punts and six sacks and even scoring a touchdown. The game ended 29-13, and Kenneth Walker III became the first running back to win MVP in 28 years.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Celebrities were all over the commercials (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3O3lrCd?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">watch some of the best and worst ads here</a>) and the halftime stage. Puerto Rican pop star Bad Bunny sang (almost) completely in Spanish and transformed the field into Little San Juan (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4rK7w2c?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">see photos here</a>). Lady Gaga and Ricky Martin joined in, and <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4abvE8f?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">a couple got married during the show</a>! Meanwhile, TPUSA’s alternative “All-American Halftime Show” featuring Kid Rock drew 6.1M live viewers on YouTube. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But the weekend wasn’t all about football. The opening ceremonies of the 2026 Winter Olympics began Friday in Northern Italy. Team USA is sitting in third place in the overall medal count after 5 days of sport on all kinds of frozen water.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">On the snow, Alpine skiing veteran <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4qnsW4c?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Lindsey Vonn crashed</a> just 13 seconds into the women’s downhill final. Medics airlifted her off the mountain with a broken leg, and her fellow American, Breezy Johnson, took home gold. Americans also medaled in <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4txBW9y?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">men’s </a>cross-country skiing, <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4kwXAqn?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">men’s</a> and <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3OjRu0A?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">women’s freestyle skiing</a>, and <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4bKcLKF?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">women’s team skiing</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">On the ice, “Quad God” Ilia Malinin landed the first legal Olympics backflip in 50 years (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/46pYK18?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">watch here</a>). Team USA won <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3OaygdJ?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">figure skating team gold</a>, plus medals in <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4qvgRdm?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">doubles curling</a> and <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4amdAZb?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">women’s luge</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Today at 12:30 p.m., snowboarders will carve toward the podium in women’s halfpipe finals. And Friday at noon, Ilia Malinin will spin for gold in the men’s figure skating finals. <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4qvDdLC?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Watch here</a>.  </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">__</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>CHRISTIAN RESPONSE</b></span><br><b>Whether you feel like you can’t get past life’s defense or you’re topping the podium, Jesus gives believers reason to be content—and even rejoice! There may be bad days ahead, but there are even more good ones coming in the kingdom of Jesus. Meanwhile, He offers us his presence, power, and peace. </b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><b>“I will bless the LORD at all times; his praise will always be on my lips. I will boast in the LORD; the humble will hear and be glad. Proclaim the LORD’s greatness with me; let us exalt his name together.”</b></i><br><b>Psalm 34:1-3 (CSB) (</b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3ZtH4ht?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>read full passage</b></a><b>)</b></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> REFLECT <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">| RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What do I want to make sure my kids know in light of this story?</b><br>With sports streaming 24/7, it’s easy to get hooked and lose sight of what’s right in front of us. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Sports are fun, but an overdose will lead to tough withdrawal. Parents have an opportunity to set healthy boundaries around streaming to set our kids up for success, keeping the big things big and the small things small.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But the goal is not just less sports viewing. It’s more Jesus. Replacing lesser things with weightier things will help train our kids (and us!!) to keep our affections on Jesus, allow hobbies to be hobbies, and focus on our mission of loving God and our neighbors (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4rONiof?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Matthew 22:34-40</a>; <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4rK7TtC?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Hebrews 12:2</a>).</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What response to this story do I want to model for my children?</b><br>Gratefulness for everyday gifts.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Major cultural events like the Super Bowl and the Olympics have a way of bringing loved ones—and even entire countries—together. Whether you’re enjoying sports with friends and family, turning off the coverage for moments of rest, or unplugged from sports altogether, it’s worth pausing to thank God for the ordinary gifts of friendship and food and fun that we easily overlook:</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>“Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good; his faithful love endures forever. Let the redeemed of the LORD proclaim that he has redeemed them from the power of the foe… Let them give thanks to the LORD for his faithful love and his wondrous works for all humanity. Let them offer thanksgiving sacrifices and announce his works with shouts of joy” </i>(<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4chdLpM?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Psalm 107:1-2, 21-22 CSB</a>).</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | </span>RESPOND</h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Add gratitude </b>to your family conversation habits. Around the dinner table or on the way home from school, share a part of your day that was challenging and something you’re grateful for.<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Memorize </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4chdLpM?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Psalm 107:1-2</a><b> </b><i>“Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good; his faithful love endures forever. Let the redeemed of the LORD proclaim that he has redeemed them” </i>(CSB).<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Pray </b>for wisdom to set healthy boundaries around sports (and other) streaming in your home, and pray that the Lord would grow your love for Him so that it eclipses lesser things.</p></li></ul></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"> </p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(242, 130, 127);font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"><b>CREAM AND SUGAR</b></span></h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Gen Z Word of the Week: </b>The <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4bM7nGZ?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Blade Angels</a> ate and <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3OBurOU?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">left no crumbs</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Family Fun: </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4rbgZ2C?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Sing “Turn Your Eyes”</a> as a family. If you have a musician, ask them to lead you.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Whipped Cream on Top: </b>Ripples on <a class="link" href="https://thepourover.org/whipped-cream-ripples-frozen-lake/?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">a frozen lake...</a></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">RECOMMENDED</h1></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What We’re Not Worried about Our Tweens Reading</b><br>This middle-grade <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/IVP_0212?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">novel</a> by pastor Don Everts*</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Finding clean, quality fiction for your preteens shouldn’t be as hard as it is. That’s why we love <i>The Sensate Saga</i>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>Oscar and the Mystery of the Glowing Orbs</i> is the first in the three-book series and follows Oscar—the new kid who resigns himself to solo lunches on the bleachers until everything changes. Oscar begins seeing glowing orbs… and he’s not the only one with a mysterious ability.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Whether the librarian knows your kid by name or you’re looking for a family read, you’ll love this series. It weaves together themes of family, wonder, and faith, so you can rest knowing your kids are stepping into a story that’s fun <i>and</i> meaningful. <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/IVP_0212?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Get the first book today!</a></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p><hr class="content_break"><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);"><b>What Our Tween Girls Are Loving</b></span><br><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);">The </span><i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Moody_0212?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Elita Brown</a></i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Moody_0212?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"> book series</a><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);">*</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);">Middle school is hard—filled with new trials, temptations, and burgeoning hormones. What kids read and fill their minds with during this time matters. That’s why we love the </span><i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Moody_0212?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Elita Brown</a></i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Moody_0212?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=winter-s-super-olymbowl" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"> series</a><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);">. </span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);">In book 3 of the series, Elita is pulled between the popularity she craves and the life she loves—facing viral attention, friendship struggles, and self-doubt. 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  <title>Flags and Foam Fingers</title>
  <description>Talking to your child about the Olympics and the Super Bowl. </description>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="section" style="background-color:#f4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Read Time: 4 min 25 sec | Reading Level: 7th Grade</p></div><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.thepourover.org/decaf?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=flags-and-foam-fingers" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/6b1fcce0-1aa5-4485-9af2-cc57ce0dab1a/Decaf.png?t=1740523795"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span><b> February 5, 2026 </b><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>Happy Thursday!</b><br>Today, we’re talking about the iconic sporting events going down this weekend. Need a warm-up? We suggest some stretching while you <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3MbBhK8?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=flags-and-foam-fingers" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">watch this figure-skating GOAT carve up the ice</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">This week’s Decaf is brought to you by our friends at <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Flowkey_Feb?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=flags-and-foam-fingers" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">flowkey</a> and <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/FamilyLife_0205?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=flags-and-foam-fingers" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">FamilyLife</a>.</p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>QUOTE OF THE WEEK</b><br><i>“The learning of the Christian man ought to begin with the fear of God.” </i><br><span style="color:#C0C0C0;"><b>Thomas Cranmer</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond">READ <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">|</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">SPORTS</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><b>The Big Game(s)</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Grab your flags and your foam fingers—it’s a big weekend for sports fans. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Tomorrow, the 2026 Winter Olympics begin in Italy. Hundreds of athletes will compete for more than 110 gold medals across 16 sports, including fan favorites like figure skating, alpine skiing, ice hockey, and snowboarding. The Milan Cortina Games will take place across northern Italy over two and a half weeks.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The Stars and Stripes are hoping for more medals after <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4rBHQFc?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=flags-and-foam-fingers" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">finishing fifth in Beijing’s overall medal count in 2022</a>. A strong women’s figure-skating trio and the return of NHL hockey players may give Team USA the boost it needs. <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4bCAxbp?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=flags-and-foam-fingers" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">See more storylines to watch here</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Stateside on Sunday, nearly 100 million Americans are expected to tune into Super Bowl LX (that’s 60). The Seattle Seahawks will take on the New England Patriots at 6:30 ET in Santa Clara, CA. The big <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4avDw4i?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=flags-and-foam-fingers" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">game is expected to be tight</a>—both teams rank near the top of the NFL in scoring on offense and defense.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Puerto Rican rapper Bad Bunny will take the field at halftime, but he’ll have competition. Turning Point USA, the organization founded by late conservative activist Charlie Kirk, is hosting an <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4qdttpd?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=flags-and-foam-fingers" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">“All-American Halftime Show.”</a> Kid Rock is headlining, promising “great songs for folks who love America.”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Humor and celebrities are expected to dominate commercials, which cost as much as $10M for a 30-second slot. <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4adFk0q?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=flags-and-foam-fingers" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Preview some ads here</a> (we recommend the mayonnaise). <br><br>__<br><br><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>ETERNAL PERSPECTIVE</b></span><br><b>Sports are a beautiful picture of the Christian life. Elite athletes practice with focus and discipline, orienting their entire lives around their sport. For Christians who run with endurance on Jesus’s narrow way, there’s a golden prize on the other side of the long, grueling, sometimes mundane discipline. </b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><b>“Don’t you know that the runners in a stadium all race, but only one receives the prize? Run in such a way to win the prize. Now everyone who competes exercises self-control in everything. They do it to receive a perishable crown, but we an imperishable crown.”</b></i><b> </b><br><b>1 Corinthians 9:24-25 (CSB) (</b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4qYdCvR?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=flags-and-foam-fingers" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>read full passage</b></a><b>).</b></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> REFLECT <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">| RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What do I want to make sure my kids know in light of this story?</b><br>Our kids will see and hear things at the Olympics and the Super Bowl that don’t line up with godly values… and it shouldn’t surprise us that the world is worldly (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3Zim39f?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=flags-and-foam-fingers" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1 Corinthians 5:9-10</a>). Values like modesty, humility, and self-control are distinctly countercultural. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Instead of becoming frustrated when your kids are confronted with the ways of the world, use these moments as opportunities to disciple them. Share how a life with Jesus is different and why it’s <i>so much better. </i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Contrasting life in the Spirit with life in the flesh not only teaches our kids how to relate with God; it teaches them how to relate with people who don’t know Him. When we look behind the worldliness and see broken, hurting people rather than enemies to confront, we’re positioned to love our neighbors.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What gospel lesson can be taught through this story?</b><br>Athletes experience disappointment and failure more often than victory.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">For every Olympian who gets the gold, there are dozens who trained their hardest and didn’t make the podium. For every football player who gets a Super Bowl ring, there is another who came <i>this close </i>and missed it (plus thousands more who couldn’t make the big game).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Believers in Jesus find purpose and meaning beyond what we’re able to achieve. Our identity is not wrapped up in what we do; it’s found in seeking and knowing Jesus: <i>“If anyone else thinks he has reason for confidence in the flesh, I have more… But whatever gain I had, I counted as loss for the sake of Christ. Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord” </i>(<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4axoATh?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=flags-and-foam-fingers" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Philippians 3:4-8, ESV</a>).</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | </span>RESPOND</h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Read this story </b>about <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4rx80c3?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=flags-and-foam-fingers" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">the end of a Christian athlete’s Olympic dreams</a> to your kids, then discuss: What did you think of her story?<b> </b>Is there anything you’re disappointed about? What could you learn from Vera about responding to disappointment?<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Memorize </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3MpVbkK?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=flags-and-foam-fingers" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Philippians 3:7-8</a>, <i>“But whatever gain I had, I counted as loss for the sake of Christ. Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord”</i> (ESV).<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Pray </b>that God would help you share the gospel with your kids when you’re confronted with worldliness, that He would grow your love for hurting nonbelievers, and that He would give you endurance and faith to respond to failure.</p></li></ul></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"> </p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(242, 130, 127);font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"><b>CREAM AND SUGAR</b></span></h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Gen Z Word of the Week: </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4afLi0U?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=flags-and-foam-fingers" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Olympic curling</a> is my <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4r5sysq?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=flags-and-foam-fingers" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Roman Empire</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Family Fun: </b>Cook together! Sports are nothing without good snacks. 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The small wins keep my kids (and me) motivated.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Plus, their Family Plan includes five profiles, so we can all learn at our own pace.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Flowkey_Feb?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=flags-and-foam-fingers" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Check it out and make some music together</a> this year!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>Xan Sibley</b> | Writer</p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p><hr class="content_break"><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>How We’re Investing in Our Marriages</b><br>With a getaway from <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/FamilyLife_0205?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=flags-and-foam-fingers" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">FamilyLife</a>*</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Whether you’re walking through a tough season or simply want to grow closer—whether you need rescue or refreshment—a short getaway with your spouse could be the turning point your marriage needs.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">At Weekend to Remember, you’ll get practical help and hope-filled encouragement paired with real-life tools to bring home with you. 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  <description>Talking to your child about a second fatal shooting by ICE.</description>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="section" style="background-color:#f4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Read Time: 5 min 07 sec | Reading Level: 7th Grade</p></div><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.thepourover.org/decaf?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=minneapolis-updates" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/6b1fcce0-1aa5-4485-9af2-cc57ce0dab1a/Decaf.png?t=1740523795"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span><b> January 29, 2026 </b><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>QUOTE OF THE WEEK</b><br><i>“It often takes the darkness of a storm to show us the light of God&#39;s presence.”</i><br><span style="color:#C0C0C0;"><b>Tony Evans</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond">READ <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">|</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">U.S. NEWS</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><b>Second Fatal Minneapolis Shooting</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Federal officers <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4sYqjIz?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=minneapolis-updates" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">fatally shot a man</a> during an immigration operation in Minneapolis on Saturday. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">His name was Alex Pretti, a 37-year-old U.S. citizen and ICU nurse. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What happened? </b><br>Videos show Pretti filming ICE agents with his phone. Pretti appears to try to help a woman who was pushed to the ground by an ICE agent. An officer appears to pepper-spray Pretti in the face and pull him to the ground. Several agents surround Pretti, then multiple gunshots are fired.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The videos have fueled different accounts of whether the officer’s actions were justified.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What are the dueling accounts?</b><br>On Saturday, DHS Secretary Noem said Pretti’s actions were “domestic terrorism.” She said <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4sQhv7w?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=minneapolis-updates" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Pretti had a “semi-automatic handgun”</a> and suggested he intended to “kill law enforcement.” Noem said the officer “fired defensive shots” after Pretti “violently resisted” being disarmed.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Minnesota Governor Walz (D) <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3NKip5p?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=minneapolis-updates" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">called the DHS’s account “nonsense.”</a> He demanded President Trump remove the “3,000 untrained agents” from Minnesota so they don’t “kill another American.” <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3LTBrWy?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=minneapolis-updates" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Pretti’s parents say</a> that their son was “clearly not holding a gun when attacked.” </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This week, the White House has <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4alV3vO?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=minneapolis-updates" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">softened its defense of the Border Patrol agents</a>, and the two who fired their guns have been <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/45E5UP4?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=minneapolis-updates" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">placed on administrative leave</a>. Officials say they want to “let the facts and the investigation lead.” </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What now?</b><br>President Trump is <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4qJ8GLh?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=minneapolis-updates" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">replacing the controversial head of Minneapolis ICE ops</a> with a more moderate leader. Trump and Democratic leaders in Minneapolis are now talking and cooperating. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Federal officials are investigating the shootings of Renee Good and Alex Pretti. Governor Walz says Minnesota will also <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3O9Fwqa?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=minneapolis-updates" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">“conduct independent investigations.”</a><br><br>__</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>RADIATE HOPE</b></span><br><b>Believers can help calm tension in our communities by meeting anger with compassion and humility. Whether you’re out demonstrating, mourning with a frustrated friend in your living room, or watching from the sidelines, you are in a place to share hope. </b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><b>“The darkness is passing away and the true light is already shining. The one who says he is in the light but hates his brother or sister is in the darkness until now. The one who loves his brother or sister remains in the light, and there is no cause for stumbling in him.” </b></i><br><b>1 John 2:8-10 (CSB) (</b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4q6BH2r?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=minneapolis-updates" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>read full passage</b></a><b>)</b></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> REFLECT <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">| RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What do I want to make sure my kids know in light of this story?</b><br>One reason the unrest, violence, and fear in Minneapolis is upsetting is because it&#39;s a jarring departure from our typical experience.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">While we mourn it and seek to calm the tension in our communities, allow the unrest to remind you of all the brothers and sisters in Christ around the world for whom violence and fear are a daily experience. Their homelands are chaotic; they fear for their lives when they gather for worship; their families are not safe.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Hebrews tells us to <i>“Remember… the mistreated, as though you yourselves were suffering bodily”</i> (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3MexHyZ?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=minneapolis-updates" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">13:3 CSB</a>). Pray for them and give thanks for the good news of Jesus, which promises a good ending and comfort while we wait. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>Not sure how to pray for persecuted believers? </i><a class="link" href="https://pray.thepourover.org/p/praying-the-news-a-headline-that-rattled-me?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=minneapolis-updates" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Check out this prayer</a>.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What might my kids misunderstand about this story?</b><br>We can’t do much about most of what is in the news. And that’s okay.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When my only options to get involved in an issue are to contact my representative or pray, then it’s time to accept that I can’t impact the situation directly. A Senator could do something, and God could do something… but <i>we alone </i>can’t. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">God has placed you and me in positions to make a real impact in many lives and situations… they’re just rarely in the news. To make a meaningful difference in our own spheres of influence—even if that sphere is just within our own families—sometimes we have to do nothing about the news.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | </span>RESPOND</h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Make a list </b>of the people and situations you <i>do </i>have influence over: family, friends, teammates, coworkers, neighbors… Consider the impact you are having currently and decide on <i>one step </i>you can take to show Jesus to them.<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Memorize </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/49M8ipl?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=minneapolis-updates" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1 John 2:8-10</a><b> </b><i>“The darkness is passing away and the true light is already shining. The one who says he is in the light but hates his brother or sister is in the darkness until now. The one who loves his brother or sister remains in the light, and there is no cause for stumbling in him” </i>(CSB).<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Pray with us: </b>Good Shepherd, we come to You in a dark valley; lead us beside quiet waters and still our burdened souls. With Your goodness and mercy, relentlessly pursue those who are mourning. Lead law enforcement in paths of righteousness, that they will be fearless when confronting wolves but discerning and gentle when they meet lambs. Still the anxiety, anger, and fear in Minneapolis and across the country. Give investigators insight and give courts discernment, and grow Your people’s faith that You will soon right every wrong. May we be beacons of light and hope while we wait on You. Amen.</p></li></ul></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"> </p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(242, 130, 127);font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"><b>CREAM AND SUGAR</b></span></h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Gen Z Word of the Week: </b>Patrick Mahomes gets a first down, and the <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/46hY0ek?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=minneapolis-updates" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">announcers can’t stop glazing him</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Family Fun: </b>Test your family’s world geography with “<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4a1hJAh?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=minneapolis-updates" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">What on earth?!</a>”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Whipped Cream on Top: </b>When mom tells you to <a class="link" href="https://thepourover.org/whipped-cream-put-your-coat-on/?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=minneapolis-updates" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">put your coat on...</a></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">RECOMMENDED</h1></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What’s Helping Us Lead Small Group</b><br>Resources from <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/FamilyLife_0129?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=minneapolis-updates" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">FamilyLife</a>*</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you’re stepping into small group leadership this year (or quietly feeling that nudge), this one’s for you. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">FamilyLife wants to make gathering people around God’s Word simpler, not heavier. So they’re giving the Decaf fam <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/FamilyLife_0129?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=minneapolis-updates" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">25% off all small group kits and workbooks</a> during their January sale. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You don’t need to have all the answers to be equipped for leadership. Above all, you need a willingness to say “yes.” God often uses open Bibles, honest conversations, and piled-on couches to do far more than we plan.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Heads up: this sale ends January 31st. If 2026 is your year to gather people around faith, Scripture, and real life-on-life discipleship… FamilyLife’s resources are a great place to start. <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/FamilyLife_0129?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=minneapolis-updates" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Check them out</a>!</p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p><hr class="content_break"><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>A New Rhythm We’re Adding This Year</b><br>Piano lessons that fit our life, thanks to <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Flowkey_0129?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=minneapolis-updates" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">flowkey</a>*</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">My five-year-old daughter has been asking to learn piano, and this year we decided to finally say yes, without committing to an unsustainable schedule.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It’s doable with flowkey. Their step-by-step lessons, real-time feedback, and kid-friendly song library turn practicing into something that actually feels fun. She gets quick wins that build confidence, and I get to cheer her on from the kitchen while juggling snacks and siblings.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The family plan includes five profiles, so everyone can learn at their own pace. 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  <description>Talking to your child about the U.S.’s Arctic ambitions.</description>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="section" style="background-color:#f4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Read Time: 5 min 44 sec | Reading Level: 7th Grade</p></div><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.thepourover.org/decaf?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=greenland" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/6b1fcce0-1aa5-4485-9af2-cc57ce0dab1a/Decaf.png?t=1740523795"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span><b> January 22, 2026 </b><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>Happy Thursday!</b><br>Today, we’re talking about the world’s largest island. But before you reach for your sunnies and flip flops… We’ll set the scene with <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/49JzJPh?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=greenland" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">this traveler’s tour of the Arctic wonderland</a>. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Grab your thermal underwear—let’s talk Greenland. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">This week’s Decaf is brought to you by the <i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Tyndale_0122?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=greenland" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Life Application Study Bible</a></i> and the <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Balance_0122?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=greenland" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Balance budget app</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Today’s story was taken from The Pour Over’s <a class="link" href="https://www.web.thepourover.org/p/gridiron?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=greenland" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">January 19th</a> and <a class="link" href="https://www.web.thepourover.org/p/alpine-awkwardness?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=greenland" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">21st emails</a> and rewritten at a 7th-grade reading level.</p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>QUOTE OF THE WEEK</b><br><i>“Go wisely and slowly. Those who rush stumble and fall.”</i><br><span style="color:#C0C0C0;"><b>William Shakespeare</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond">READ <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">|</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">WORLD NEWS</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><b>Greenland</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">President Trump has been talking about turning Greenland into Red-White-and-Blue-land.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The massive island sits in the Arctic Circle between North America, Russia, and Europe (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/49yzIPB?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=greenland" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">see map here</a>). Greenland is a territory of Denmark, and it’s home to ~57,000 people (roughly the population of Key West, FL). The population mostly governs itself, but it relies on Denmark for defense, funding, and relations with other countries.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Why does President Trump want this not-so-green hunk of ice? Two main reasons:</p><ol start="1"><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It sits between Russia and the States… who are not besties. Trump says Greenland’s strategic location will help the U.S. defend itself. </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Greenland is flush with rare-earth minerals, which are key for all kinds of tech production.</p></li></ol><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Things got real on Saturday. President Trump announced <span style="color:rgb(16, 16, 16);">the U.S. is going to tax eight European nations 10%</span> until they make a deal for America to purchase Greenland. He said, “<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3NrsEvy?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=greenland" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">world peace is at stake</a>.” <span style="color:rgb(16, 16, 16);">In response, Greenlanders said </span><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4jRTetP?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=greenland" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">their land is “not for sale,”</a><span style="color:rgb(16, 16, 16);"> and the U.S.’s European allies stood behind the islanders. </span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(16, 16, 16);">The disagreement was the iceberg in the room as President Trump headed to Switzerland to meet with world leaders this week. Yesterday, his </span><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3NGhu5X?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=greenland" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">tariff threats thawed</a><span style="color:rgb(16, 16, 16);"> after meeting with a leader of NATO (an alliance that includes the States and many European nations). Mr. Trump said the leaders “formed the framework of a future deal” that includes defense and mineral rights. He said tariffs are off the table.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(16, 16, 16);">The </span><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3LZbKUq?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=greenland" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">stock market warmed at the news</a><span style="color:rgb(16, 16, 16);">, with tech companies like Nvidia leading the comeback.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">__</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>ABOVE ALL, LOVE</b></span><br><b>Most of us have very little control over geopolitics.  But all of us have control over how we show up for our loved ones, those we’ve recently met, those we pass by, and even those we’d rather avoid. Invest in what you can control—and do so with love.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>“</b><i><b>Love one another deeply as brothers and sisters. Take the lead in honoring one another. Share with the saints in their needs; pursue hospitality. Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse.</b></i><b>”</b><br><b>Romans 12:10, 13-14 (CSB) (</b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4sQjEjH?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=greenland" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>read full passage</b></a><b>)</b></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> REFLECT <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">| RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What gospel lesson can be taught through this story?</b><br>World leaders’ fight over Greenland is fundamentally a fight for control of resources and security. We (probably) can’t relate to managing complicated matters of state, but we all wrestle with the impulse to fight for control.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">God&#39;s design is not for us to be the master controllers of our lives, but to be people of faith (Proverbs 3:5-6; <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3ZmVVtI?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=greenland" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Mark 10:13-16</a>)<i>.</i> That means trusting in His will, even when it&#39;s uncomfy, not as glamorous, or leads straight to suffering. Walking in faith requires us to give up our control, trust God, and be willing to say, <i>“not my will, but yours be done” </i>(<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4pVOJ2P?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=greenland" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Luke 22:42, NIV</a>).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When you’re overcome by the desire to take the reins, pray for faith (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3YTHSvF?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=greenland" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Luke 11:9-13</a>).</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>How can I model loving an enemy when discussing this story?</b><br>By trying to understand them so you can grow empathy and compassion.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">President Trump says his priority is safety and security. That’s not a bad thing to want—it&#39;s the government&#39;s job to create a safe environment in which its people can flourish.  World leaders want to maintain peaceful international relationships. Greenlanders want to preserve their sense of home; their identity, history, and culture are all wrapped up in this Arctic package.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Which priorities have the most weight in any given scenario is where believers need wisdom. But as we exercise that wisdom, curiosity about others will make us better decision-makers and grow our love.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | </span>RESPOND</h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Look up Greenland </b>on Google Earth or <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4qyZeKA?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=greenland" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">in an encyclopedia</a>. Pick one thing about the land or culture that surprises you, and share it with each other.<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Memorize </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4qznhJp?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=greenland" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Proverbs 3:5-6</a>, <i>“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not rely on your own understanding; in all your ways know him, and he will make your paths straight” </i>(CSB). Need some help? <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/49ArdDu?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=greenland" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Use this song</a>!<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Pray </b>for President Trump and other world leaders to have wisdom and empathy in their discussions about Greenland this week: <i>“Lord and Master, you have given these rulers the power of sovereignty through your own mighty power… Grant unto these leaders health, peace, unity, and stability, so they can administer without failure the government you have given them. For you—Heavenly Master and King of the Ages—you give ordinary people glory, honor, and power over all things in this world. Direct their leadership in a way that is good and well pleasing in your sight.” </i>Clement of Rome, page 127 in <i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3NVlgIM?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=greenland" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Fount of Heaven: Prayers of the Early Church</a></i><i>.</i></p></li></ul></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"> </p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(242, 130, 127);font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"><b>CREAM AND SUGAR</b></span></h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Gen Z Word of the Week: </b>“<a class="link" 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  <title>ICE in Minneapolis</title>
  <description>Talking to your child about the fatal ICE shooting in Minneapolis.</description>
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For more peace, pray with us below… and <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4aVVqht?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">watch this live underwater reef cam</a>. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">This week’s Decaf is brought to you by our friends at <i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/TBR_0115?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Bible Recap for Kids</a></i> and <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Balance_0115?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">the Balance budget app</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Today’s story was taken from The Pour Over’s <a class="link" href="https://www.web.thepourover.org/p/ice-shooting-food-pyramid-venezuela-tankers-seized?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">January 9th</a> and <a class="link" href="https://www.web.thepourover.org/p/protests?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">12th emails</a> and rewritten at a 7th-grade reading level.</p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>QUOTE OF THE WEEK</b><br><i>“If I am fully known and not rejected by God, how much more ought I to extend grace to my neighbor, whom I know only in part?”</i><br><span style="color:#C0C0C0;"><b>Jen Wilkin</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond">READ <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">|</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">U.S. NEWS</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><b>ICE Shooting</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A federal immigration agent shot and killed a woman in Minneapolis last Wednesday, and protests erupted across America. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The ICE agent shot 37-year-old Renee Good, a U.S. citizen. Good&#39;s car was partially blocking a neighborhood street as she protested a raid by ICE agents. Footage shows agents approaching her car, ordering her to get out, and trying to open the car door. Good accelerated, running into an agent who was in front of her car. That agent shot through the windshield, killing Good.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">DHS says the agent later went to the hospital to be treated for “<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3NnOShO?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">internal bleeding</a>.” Whether his life was in danger has been <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3NjJg8k?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">passionately debated</a>. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The White House is standing behind the agent. They say he’s an experienced agent who had recently been injured by a car. They say Good used her car as a weapon after “stalking” agents all day. Others say the agent was not in real danger. Minneapolis Mayor Jacob Frey (D) said <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3Nj3grK?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">ICE was bringing “the opposite” of “safety.”</a> He colorfully demanded that agents leave the city.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Over <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4559NMC?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">a thousand “ICE Out for Good” protests</a> were held across the nation over the weekend. They were showing support for Good and protesting ICE raids like the one in Minneapolis. About 1,000 more immigration agents joined the ~2,000 already deployed to the area. Monday, the state of Minnesota and the Twin Cities announced they’re <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/49lJjsO?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">taking the Trump administration to court</a> over the White House’s “federal invasion.”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">__<br><br><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>ABOVE ALL, LOVE</b></span><br><b>Believers have an opportunity to be anchors of love and peace during days of division and contention. Approach sensitive conversations with humility, curiosity, and grace, pursuing justice in a way that shows God’s Spirit at work in you. </b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><b>“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. The law is not against such things. Now those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit.”</b></i><br><b>Galatians 5:22–25 (CSB) (</b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3Lp491m?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>read full passage</b></a><b>)</b></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> REFLECT <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">| RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Ask your kids what they have already heard about this story.</b><br>Chances are, they’ll surprise you. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Ask questions to gauge understanding: “What have your friends been saying about this?” or “What have you seen online?” Ask questions to cultivate curiosity and compassion: “What do you think motivates the people supporting Renee, and what motivates the people supporting the agent(s)?” Ask questions about what’s next: “What does this story make you want to do?”</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What do I want to make sure my kids know in light of this story?</b><br>When something divisive happens, taking a side is less important than having empathy and compassion for both sides.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It’s OK to have a stance on contentious issues… but more opinions in a noisy, tragic moment is not what the world needs from believers. The world needs comfort, humility, compassion, and hope (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4bzLsm5?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Colossians 3:12-17</a>). </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The courts will sort out justice, and we can hold them accountable to do so. But setting ourselves against some of our neighbors on a divisive issue makes it harder to love and draw near to them (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/49yDiYv?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Luke 10:25-37</a>). We’re on the side of the kingdom of heaven, where love trumps knowledge (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4jQLHvd?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1 Corinthians 8:1</a>; <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3YGaNDh?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">13:1-13</a>; <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4pFPm0b?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">2 Corinthians 5:20</a>).</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | </span>RESPOND</h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Learn together. </b>What gaps in your knowledge did you notice as you discussed this story? Do a little digging, then share what you learned with each other. Did your findings change how you see this story?<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Memorize </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3LdPIgA?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Colossians 3:12-14</a>, “<i>Therefore, as God’s chosen ones, holy and dearly loved, put on compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience, bearing with one another and forgiving one another if anyone has a grievance against another. Just as the Lord has forgiven you, so you are also to forgive. Above all, put on love, which is the perfect bond of unity</i>” (CSB).<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Pray with us for everyone affected by this tragedy: </b>Good Shepherd, we come to You to still our burdened souls. Minister to Renee’s family as their world rips apart. Give ICE agents and local law enforcement peace to carry out their duties with faithfulness and integrity. Quiet anxiety, anger, and fear across the country. And protect believers from our enemy, whose seeds of hatred grow into weeds of discord that choke out our fruitfulness for Your kingdom.</p></li></ul></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"> </p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(242, 130, 127);font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"><b>CREAM AND SUGAR</b></span></h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Gen Z Word of the Week: </b>“You tuck your sweatshirt into your jeans? That’s so <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4qRQQVY?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Ohio</a>.” (Sorry, Ohioans.)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Family Fun: </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3LvaAjq?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Create a custom typing test here</a> using <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/45dgTib?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Colossians 3</a> or another Bible passage you’re studying. Test your WPM to see whose fingers are fastest in the family!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Whipped Cream on Top: </b><a class="link" href="https://thepourover.org/whipped-cream-long-lost-siblings/?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Long-lost siblings…</a></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">RECOMMENDED</h1></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>How We’re Helping Our Kids Understand the Bible</b><br>With <i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/TBR_0115?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=ice-in-minneapolis" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Bible Recap for Kids</a></i>*<br><br>If you want your kids to actually understand (and <i>love</i>) the Bible for themselves, <i>The Bible Recap for Kids</i> is a great place to start! </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This 365-day, self-led guide through Scripture helps kids ages 8-12 understand not only what they’re reading, but why it matters. 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  <title>Venezuela</title>
  <description>Talking to your child about the U.S. capture of former Venezuelan President Maduro.</description>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2026 10:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="section" style="background-color:#f4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Read Time: 4 min 53 sec | Reading Level: 7th Grade</p></div><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.thepourover.org/decaf?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/6b1fcce0-1aa5-4485-9af2-cc57ce0dab1a/Decaf.png?t=1740523795"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span><b> January 8, 2026 </b><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>Happy Thursday!</b><br>Are you planning a new fitness schedule, more consistent devotional practices, or some practice tickling those piano keys this year? You’re not alone. <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4pzMz8N?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Here’s what Americans are resolving for 2026</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">We’re praying that in all your running, reading, recitals, and regular ol’ routines, you become more like Jesus this year.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">This week’s Decaf is brought to you by our friends at <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/FamilyLife_0108?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">FamilyLife’s Weekend to Remember</a> and the <i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Tyndale_0108?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Boys</a></i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Tyndale_0108?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"> and </a><i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Tyndale_0108?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Girls Life Application Study Bibles</a></i>.</p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>QUOTE OF THE WEEK</b><br><i>“In faith there is enough light for those who want to believe and enough shadows to blind those who don&#39;t.”</i><br><span style="color:#C0C0C0;"><b>Blaise Pascal</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond">READ <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">|</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">WORLD NEWS</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><b>Captured in Caracas</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The U.S. captured Venezuelan President Nicolás Maduro in a surprise raid on Saturday.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">President Trump <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3N4WtSn?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">said the dictator and his wife, Cilia Flores, were seized</a> during a “large-scale strike” in the capital of Caracas. Special forces breached the steel doors of their H home to catch them off guard. The couple was choppered to a U.S. Navy vessel, then flown to New York (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4jrQGCj?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">see their journey</a>). </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The U.S. estimates that <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/49cRibI?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">75 Venezuelan and Cuban security forces and some civilians were killed</a> in the confrontation at Maduro’s home. No Americans died, but seven were injured. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Why did the U.S. want Maduro?</b><br>The U.S. is accusing him of helping drug traffickers, planning illegal drug sales, and breaking weapons laws.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In 2020, the U.S. said Maduro <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4qCDiha?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">helped run the Cartel de los Soles</a>, a drug-trafficking network that allegedly moved massive amounts of cocaine into the States. Then, Maduro remained in power after Venezuela’s 2024 election, even though most people agree he actually lost by a lot. In August, the Trump admin <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3Lr4UH4?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">said it would pay $50 million</a> for info leading to Maduro’s arrest.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>How are people responding to the capture?</b><br>Videos showed Venezuelans taking to the streets to celebrate Maduro’s capture (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4stLfqL?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">watch here</a>). </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Democrats in Congress call Trump’s Venezuela plan “vague,” illegal, and a <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4bnnw5i?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">distraction from issues</a> on the home front. Republicans are defending Trump’s <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4qMlCzO?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">“decisive and justified”</a> operation. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What’s next?</b><br>President Trump said the U.S. will take control of Venezuela’s oil (they have a lot) and <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4jJsN9L?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">“run the country”</a> until an election. Venezuela’s Vice President, Delcy Rodríguez, was sworn in as acting president. She didn’t like Maduro’s “kidnapping” but promised to cooperate with Trump.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Maduro and his wife appeared in court in New York on Monday. They pleaded “not guilty,” and Maduro said he’s “still president.” The couple will remain in custody in Brooklyn, with another hearing scheduled for March and a full trial expected in 2027.<br><br>__</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>ETERNAL PERSPECTIVE</b></span><br><b>Political chaos doesn’t intimidate the King of kings. Uncertain times are an opportunity for believers to demonstrate our faith in His good leadership. </b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><b>“God ascends among shouts of joy, the LORD, with the sound of a ram’s horn. Sing praise to God, sing praise; sing praise to our King, sing praise! Sing a song of wisdom, for God is King of the whole earth. God reigns over the nations; God is seated on his holy throne.”</b></i><b> </b><br><b>Psalm 47:5–8 (CSB)</b><span style="color:rgb(29, 28, 29);"><b> (</b></span><a class="link" href="https://read.csbible.com/?book=psalm&chapter=47&utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>read full passage</b></a><span style="color:rgb(29, 28, 29);"><b>)</b></span></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> REFLECT <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">| RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>How can I model putting my hope and trust in Christ when discussing this story?</b><br>Regime change stirs up fear, anxiety, and anger. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Believers have an opportunity to radiate hope in Christ our King, who can’t be toppled in an overnight raid. His rule is steady, and His plan is not shaken by even the biggest world news. His unchallenged power means that ultimately, all will be well with us and our world.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Shine Christ&#39;s light into the tense corners of your community this week: <i>“You are the light of the world... No one lights a lamp and puts it under a basket, but rather on a lampstand, and it gives light for all who are in the house... Let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father”</i> (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4qMlZdG?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Matthew 5:14-16 CSB</a>).</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What do I want to make sure my kids know in light of this story?</b><br>Venezuelans are facing uncertainty, and <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4psSCfm?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Americans’ confidence in government is trending down</a>. How can we respond when life takes an uncontrollable turn?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">God’s will for you is not that you accomplish certain things: the best college, dream job, picture-perfect family. For those goals, a good government is pretty important. God’s will for your life is that you <i>become more like Jesus </i>(<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3LpsSm6?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1 Thessalonians 4:3</a>)<i>. </i>You don’t need a stable government for that. What you need is the presence of the God who uses hard times to shape you into someone marked by endurance, character, and hope (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3YxXy7E?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Romans 5:3-4</a>).</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | </span>RESPOND</h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Discuss: </b>Has your life taken any uncontrollable turns? What is your next small step for becoming more like Jesus in that circumstance?<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Memorize </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4jB67bE?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1 Thessalonians 4:3</a>, “<i>For this is God’s will, your sanctification</i>” (CSB).<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Pray for Venezuela and for your own heart: </b>King of kings, You sit enthroned over all creation, and nothing in this world happens apart from Your hand. When world events shock us, settle us with reminders of Your sovereignty. King of glory, give Venezuelan and American leaders the wisdom to make decisions that bring glory to You and good to Your people. King of peace, help American and Venezuelan leaders seek peaceful resolutions. And when those around us are overwhelmed by today’s events, help us to lovingly share the peace that comes from knowing You as our good, almighty, eternal Lord and Savior. Amen.</p></li></ul></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"> </p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(242, 130, 127);font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"><b>CREAM AND SUGAR</b></span></h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Gen Z Word of the Week: </b>My resolution is to <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/49me6EE?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">get boo’d up</a> this year.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Family Fun: </b>TPO writers Bailey and Peter can name 30 state capitals in two minutes. Can you beat their score? <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4pulMuy?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=venezuela" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Print this map</a> and time yourself writing in the capitals. 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  <title>New Year, Same Faithful God</title>
  <description>Talking to your child about the origins of New Year’s Day.</description>
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But early calendars often followed <i>the moon’s phases</i>. Without careful adjustments, lunar months could drift through the seasons. July would end up with winter weather, and January would bring summer’s heat.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So, in 46 B.C., Emperor Julius Caesar took the whole Roman Empire solar. His Julian calendar had 365 days and a leap year every four years (so, 365.25 days per year). <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4pIC1F9?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-same-faithful-god" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">January 1st was set as the calendar’s beginning</a> to honor Janus, the Roman god of beginnings.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The Julian calendar was a big improvement, but it wasn’t perfect. It actually takes 365.242199 days for the Earth to orbit the sun, meaning Julius’s calendar would be off by 1 day every 128 years. This time, the Catholic Church stepped in to set the dates straight. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In 1582, Pope Gregory XIII and some mathematicians created the Gregorian calendar. They <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/44AnQcX?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-same-faithful-god" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">subtracted some dates and made new rules for leap years</a>. Catholic countries adopted their leader’s calendar quickly, while others took hundreds of years. Great Britain and its colonies didn’t hop on board until 1752! (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4qoaJnD?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-same-faithful-god" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">See who adopted the calendar when.</a>) Frankly, it was a mess.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">While many cultures celebrate the new year on different dates (like Lunar New Year in East Asia or Rosh Hashanah in Judaism), the Gregorian calendar is now the international standard for governments.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><br>__</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVE</b></span><br><b>A new year often makes us look ahead with resolutions, goals, and the pursuit of new habits. But Scripture reminds us of something even better: new beginnings don’t depend on a calendar date, but on the God who makes everything new. </b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><b>“Because of the LORD’s faithful love we do not perish, for his mercies never end. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness!”</b></i><br><b>Lamentations 3:22-23 (CSB) (</b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4s6Ld80?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-same-faithful-god" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>read full passage</b></a><b>)</b></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> REFLECT <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">| RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What do I want to make sure my kids know in light of this story?</b><br>A new year isn’t meaningful just because the calendar changes. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It’s meaningful because it’s an opportunity to celebrate God’s faithfulness, maintaining order in His creation and sustaining us through all of life’s seasons. The Lord has carried the earth on its path around the sun yet again; He’s seen us through spring, summer, fall, and winter; He’s guided us in the big and in the ordinary parts of our lives.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">No matter what this year brings, God walks with us, guides us, and gives us new mercies every single morning. Give thanks for His faithfulness.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What gospel lesson can be taught through this story?</b><br>We love dreaming about the “new me” that comes when we change the calendars, make resolutions, and get our fresh dose of willpower at the start of each year. But our willpower can’t <i>quite</i> make us who we want to become. Only the Holy Spirit can truly make us new.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Because of Jesus’s life, death, and resurrection, we become new creations (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4j2nq4W?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-same-faithful-god" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">2 Corinthians 5:17</a>). The Spirit gives us power for a life of love, joy, and peace (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4s6LqIk?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-same-faithful-god" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Galatians 5:22-23</a>). A new year helps us remember the bigger truth of the gospel: God is making all things new—including us!</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | </span>RESPOND</h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Sing </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4s1PxFH?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-same-faithful-god" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>“Great Is Thy Faithfulness”</b></a><b> together, celebrating God’s goodness. Then, as you </b><b>make your resolutions</b><b>, consider how the “new year, new you” can align with the new heart God has given you.</b><br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Memorize </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4s6Ld80?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-same-faithful-god" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Lamentations 3:22-23</a>, <i>“Because of the LORD’s faithful love we do not perish, for his mercies never end. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness!” </i>(CSB).<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Offer a prayer like</b> this one: “<i>Open our eyes and our hearts, O Lord, to your words and truth… Prepare our bodies for the labors of this year. Give us strength and health to complete them. Prepare our minds for the demands of this year. Grant us clarity, creativity, and discernment. Prepare our souls for those sorrows and joys and celebrations and disappointments we will encounter, that every circumstance would serve only to draw us nearer to You. May our words, our choices, and our actions this year be offered as true expressions of worship.</i>”<b> </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3MKxyn2?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-same-faithful-god" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Every Moment Holy, Volume I</a>, adapted from “The Hours: Daybreak.”</p></li></ul></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"> </p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(242, 130, 127);font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"><b>CREAM AND SUGAR</b></span></h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Gen Z Word of the Week: </b>We’re going into 2026 with <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4jbW8ta?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-same-faithful-god" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">main character energy</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Family Fun: </b>Want to test your calendar knowledge? <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3YznIXx?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-same-faithful-god" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Take this quiz</a> (no judgment if you give up after question 10).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Whipped Cream on Top: </b>His New Year&#39;s resolution <a class="link" href="https://thepourover.org/whipped-cream-new-year-eat-healthy/?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-same-faithful-god" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">is to eat healthier...</a></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">RECOMMENDED</h1></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Who’s Helping Us House Hunt</b><br>A brother/sister in Christ from <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/CREN_0101?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-same-faithful-god" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Christian Real Estate Network</a>*</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Buying or selling a home isn’t just another late-night impulse buy… it’s one of the biggest financial decisions you’ll ever make. 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It’s invaluable to partner with someone who’s not only knowledgeable on the home-buying process, but views your move as ministry. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Put your home-buying decision in godly hands… <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/CREN_0101?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-same-faithful-god" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">find your Christian Realtor® today!</a></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What We’re Brewing</b><br>Kingdom impact, with <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Collide_0101?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-same-faithful-god" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Collide Coffee</a>*</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If your church (or morning routine) runs on coffee, here’s a way to make every cup do more: Collide Coffee, a Christian company committed to excellent, ethically sourced beans <i>and</i> meaningful ministry impact. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">They’ve committed 20% of their profits to GO Ministries, supporting life-changing, local-led medical work in the Dominican Republic—from preventative screenings to children’s vitamins, prenatal care, dental services, and more.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It’s the go-to coffee for churches wanting something theologically aligned <i>and</i> good on the taste buds. 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  <title>The Gift of God With Us</title>
  <description> Talking to your child about the true meaning of Christmas.</description>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="section" style="background-color:#f4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Read Time: 5 min 11 sec | Reading Level: 6th Grade</p></div><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.thepourover.org/decaf?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-gift-of-god-with-us" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/6b1fcce0-1aa5-4485-9af2-cc57ce0dab1a/Decaf.png?t=1740523795"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span><b> December 25, 2025 </b><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>Merry Christmas!</b><br>In this edition of Decaf, we’re celebrating the greatest gift ever given—God Himself, come to be with us.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">This week’s Decaf is brought to you by our friends at <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/FamilyLife_1225?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-gift-of-god-with-us" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">FamilyLife </a>and <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Millye_1002?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-gift-of-god-with-us" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Millye Hale Ministries</a>.</p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>QUOTE OF THE WEEK</b><br><i>“The Son of God became a man to enable men to become sons of God.”</i><br><span style="color:#C0C0C0;"><b>C.S. Lewis</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond">READ <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">|</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">HISTORY</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><b>The First Christmas</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It’s one of the most famous stories ever told… and the best, because it really happened. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Over 2,000 years ago, Caesar Augustus ordered a census of the entire Roman Empire, requiring everyone to return to their family’s hometown to be counted (Luke 2:1-5). That’s why Joseph and Mary traveled about 90 miles from Nazareth to Bethlehem (the city of Joseph’s ancestor, King David).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">With no guest rooms available, they found shelter in the place where animals were kept, and that’s where Jesus was born. Shepherds nearby saw angels announcing, “<i>Today in the city of David a Savior was born for you.”</i> They hurried to see the baby and spread the news.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3XZVCEK?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-gift-of-god-with-us" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Months, or even years later</a>, wise men (or magi) from the East followed a star to find the child. They brought gifts of <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/44DG2lX?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-gift-of-god-with-us" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">gold, frankincense, and myrrh</a>, and worshipped Him.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Historians believe Jesus was born between 6 and 4 B.C. And probably not in December. <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4p1DYeM?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-gift-of-god-with-us" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Early Christians later chose that date</a> to celebrate the Light of the World coming during the darkest time of year. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Christmas is the good news—the best news—that Immanuel, God Himself, came to earth to be with us.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">__</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVE</b></span><br><b>At Christmas, we celebrate far more than a birthday. We celebrate God keeping His promise… something He always does. Jesus is proof that God doesn’t stay distant. He entered our broken world to bring light, peace, and salvation. </b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><b>“The Word became flesh and dwelt among us. We observed his glory, the glory as the one and only Son from the Father, full of grace and truth.”</b></i><br><b>John 1:14 (CSB) (</b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4qcDWBK?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-gift-of-god-with-us" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>read full passage</b></a><b>)</b></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> REFLECT <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">| RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What do I want to make sure my kids know in light of this story?</b><br>That Christmas is about receiving the greatest gift: Jesus Himself.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Every other gift, no matter how exciting, points back to Him. Because Jesus came, lived the perfect life, died the death we deserve, conquered death, and remains at the right hand of His Father, we can know God personally. The same God who spoke the stars into being chose to dwell among us… and now, through His spirit, He dwells within us (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4s0lHRH?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-gift-of-god-with-us" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1 Corinthians 3:16</a>).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Remind your kids that God’s love isn’t something they have to earn. It’s freely given through Jesus (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4apHf40?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-gift-of-god-with-us" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Ephesians 2:8-9</a>).</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What response do I want to model for my children?</b><br>Worship, gratitude, and joy. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let your family see you pause and reflect on what God has done. Before presents or family gatherings, take time to pray together and thank God for His presence in your life. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When you give gifts, talk about how giving mirrors the heart of the Giver, who gave His Son for us (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4s6ZTE5?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-gift-of-god-with-us" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">John 3:16</a>). Remind your kids that every good gift, including the <i>best </i>gift of Jesus, is a reason to rejoice.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | </span>RESPOND</h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Take time to reflect on</b> all the ways the gift of “God with us” changes our lives, now and forever.<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Memorize </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4qcDWBK?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-gift-of-god-with-us" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">John 1:14</a>, <i>“The Word became flesh and dwelt among us. We observed his glory, the glory as the one and only Son from the Father, full of grace and truth” </i>(CSB).<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Offer a prayer like</b> this one: <i>“Almighty God, you have given your only-begotten Son to take our nature upon him, and to be born [this day] of a pure virgin: Grant that we, who have been born again and made your children by adoption and grace, may daily be renewed by your Holy Spirit; through Jesus Christ our Lord, to whom with you and the same Spirit be honor and glory, now and for ever. Amen.”</i> <br><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/44X8T4X?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-gift-of-god-with-us" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Book of Common Prayer,</a> Page 600</p></li></ul></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"> </p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(242, 130, 127);font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"><b>CREAM AND SUGAR</b></span></h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Gen Z Word of the Week: </b>That horse-drawn sleigh ride <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/45jU9Np?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-gift-of-god-with-us" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">slays</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Family Fun: </b>The whole family can join in on <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4aXzkeg?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-gift-of-god-with-us" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">these reindeer games</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Whipped Cream on Top: </b>Hope you like <a class="link" href="https://thepourover.org/whipped-cream-christmas-corgi/?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-gift-of-god-with-us" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">your present!</a></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">RECOMMENDED</h1></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What We’re Getting Our Small Group Leaders</b><br><i>FamilyLife’s </i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/FamilyLife_1225?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-gift-of-god-with-us" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Small Group Studies</a>*</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Socks are great, but the greatest gift of Christmas is that God stepped into our world with hope, healing, and connection. There’s no better place to share it than in a small group!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you’ve sensed a nudge to lead one, take heart. God doesn’t ask for perfection, just a willing “yes.” You don’t need a seminary degree or a catalog-ready house—open Bibles and honest conversation are more than enough.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let FamilyLife handle the rest. Their biblical, easy-to-use studies strengthen relationships and spark growth.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>Psst…</i> Get early access to <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/FamilyLife_1225?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-gift-of-god-with-us" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">25% off all small group materials with code THEPOUROVER25</a>… make 2026 the year of “yes”!</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);"><b>How We’re Parenting Biblically</b></span><br><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);">With </span><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);"><i>Groundwork</i></span><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);"> from </span><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Millye_1002?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-gift-of-god-with-us" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Millye Hale Ministries</a><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);">*</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);">Parenting is an opportunity to shape hearts. 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  <description>Talking to your child about shootings in Rhode Island and Sydney, Australia. </description>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="section" style="background-color:#f4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Read Time: 4 min 08 sec | Reading Level: 7th Grade</p></div><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.thepourover.org/decaf?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/6b1fcce0-1aa5-4485-9af2-cc57ce0dab1a/Decaf.png?t=1740523795"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span><b> December 18, 2025 </b><span style="color:rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family:"Lucida Grande", "Trebuchet MS", Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><b>───────</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>Happy Thursday!</b><br>If you’re still knockin’ out your Christmas list, we’re not judging.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">We’re here to help ya out. <a class="link" href="https://thepourover.org/giftguide2025/?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Shop TPO’s Christmas Gift Guide</a> full of meaningful gifts you’ll love to give!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">This week’s Decaf is brought to you by our friends at <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/ForwardEdge_1218?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Forward Edge</a> and <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/QAVA_1218?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">QAVA</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Today’s story was taken from The Pour Over’s <a class="link" href="https://thepourover.org/shooting-in-sydney/?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">December 15th</a> and <a class="link" href="https://thepourover.org/persons-of-interest/?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">17th emails</a> and rewritten at a 7th-grade reading level.</p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b>QUOTE OF THE WEEK</b><br><i>“Go wisely and slowly. Those who rush stumble and fall.”</i><br><span style="color:#C0C0C0;"><b>William Shakespeare</b></span></p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond">READ <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">|</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">WORLD</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><b>Persons of Interest</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Authorities are investigating mass shootings in Rhode Island and Australia.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">On Saturday afternoon, a gunman <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4qdBVFE?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">opened fire at Brown University</a> in Providence, Rhode Island. He killed two students and injured at least nine others inside an engineering building. Police took a suspect into custody Sunday morning but later released him. The FBI is offering a reward for information about a person of interest (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4aWARRP?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">see the wanted poster</a>).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The next morning in Sydney, Australia, there was <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/45aruu7?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">a terrorist attack at Bondi Beach</a>. At least 16 people were killed, and more than 40 were injured. Father and son shooters targeted more than 1,000 Jewish people gathered for a Hanukkah celebration. Police shot both gunmen at the scene, killing one. Police also found and removed bombs from a nearby vehicle.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A 43-year-old shop owner is being praised for his bravery. Video shows Ahmed al Ahmed tackling one of the shooters and taking his weapon (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4qiL9QY?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">watch the heroic but frightening moment here</a>). Ahmed is recovering from gunshot wounds.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Australia’s prime minister says the attackers were <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/44yfXok?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">motivated by ideas from the Islamic State</a>, an extremist group. This was the country’s largest mass shooting in nearly 30 years.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">__</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>PRAY WITH US</b></span><br><b>Eternal Father, draw near to Australia and Rhode Island with comfort for those who are mourning. Mighty God, heal the critically wounded and traumatized. Wonderful Counselor, give governments wisdom to respond and bring justice. Prince of Peace, hasten the coming of your Kingdom, where hatreds cease, and tears are no more. Amen.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><b>“The people walking in darkness have seen a great light… For a child will be born for us, a son will be given to us, and the government will be on his shoulders. He will be named Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Eternal Father, Prince of Peace. The dominion will be vast, and its prosperity will never end.” </b></i><br><b>Isaiah 9:2, 6-7 (CSB) (</b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/44uWoNz?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>read full passage</b></a><b>)</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>Burdensome news often leaves us overwhelmed and speechless. Praying the News, TPO’s new Sunday newsletter, offers a Scripture-focused prayer over one headline every week. </i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4o5eVHu?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Join us in prayer</a><i>.</i></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> REFLECT <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">| RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What gospel lesson can be taught through this story?</b><br>Stories like these interrupt Christmas cheer with the inescapable darkness of this world.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But darkness and violence aren’t incompatible with Christmas—they’re the reason for it. Jesus was born during the rule of a violent king and forced into exile in Egypt, only to suffer violence at the hands of His own people (and their oppressors) at the cross.  </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Emmanuel enters into our darkness to overcome it (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/44ymj7f?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">John 1:5</a>). His mission is to “<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3MEOwTK?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">disperse the gloomy clouds of night</a> and death’s dark shadows put to flight.” When He died and rose again, evil lost its power (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4aWd8RR?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Colossians 2:15</a>). And soon, He’ll banish its presence forever.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What do I want to make sure my kids know in light of this story?</b><br>Your kids can be part of pushing back darkness.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Ahmed’s bravery is a spot of brightness in a tragic situation. Although most of us will never be confronted with a shooter to tackle, we have small opportunities every day to shine light in bleak places—a kind word for a friend being bullied; an expression of gratitude to interrupt a cycle of complaining; a gentle response to a harshly spoken word; a compassionate prayer for those who are mourning this season.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Pushing back darkness takes courage. Pray that the Spirit would empower us for His work.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | </span>RESPOND</h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Sing </b>“<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3MF8WvP?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">O Come, O Come, Emmanuel</a>” together.<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Memorize </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/44sLEiU?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">John 1:4-5</a>, <i>“In him was life, and that life was the light of men. That light shines in the darkness, and yet the darkness did not overcome it”</i> (CSB).<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Pray </b>for the communities affected by these tragedies to know the comfort of Emmanuel and pray for courage to push back darkness in your own community.</p></li></ul></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"> </p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(242, 130, 127);font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"><b>CREAM AND SUGAR</b></span></h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Gen Z Word of the Week: </b>Light-up sweaters are my Christmas <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3MIiAOb?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">aesthetic</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Family Fun: </b>Is cruising to see Christmas lights on your list of traditions? <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4qcDMdz?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Turn it into an I-Spy adventure</a>!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Whipped Cream on Top:  </b><a class="link" href="https://thepourover.org/whipped-cream-omnomnomnomnom/?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Omnomnomnomnom…</a></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">RECOMMENDED</h1></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What We’re Giving</b><br><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/ForwardEdge_1218?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=brown-and-bondi-beach" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">A Christmas celebration for kids in need</a>*</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">For some children around the world, Christmas isn’t “the most wonderful time of the year.” It’s just another day to wonder whether they’ll have food or clean water.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Forward Edge is changing that with Christ-centered programs led by incredible local leaders. 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  <title>Scam Swirling</title>
  <description>Talking to your child about fraud investigations in Minnesota.</description>
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Reports say that a scam within social services <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4plmFGr?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=scam-swirling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">stole hundreds of millions of dollars</a> that taxpayers had paid the government. A children’s food distribution organization, a program for seniors with disabilities, and services for children with autism were reportedly <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3YbqDFF?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=scam-swirling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">caught up in the corruption scheme</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Dozens of people have been charged with fraud (lying to get money). Some have been accused of giving stolen money to an Islamic terrorist organization in Somalia, a majority Muslim country in East Africa. They deny it.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">President Trump <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4rJhyBA?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=scam-swirling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">blamed “Somali gangs” for “terrorizing” Minnesota</a> (most of the fraud defendants are of Somali descent). And he blamed the state’s Democratic governor, Tim Walz, for not addressing the scandal.  </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Republicans in the House of Representatives are <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/44enMPS?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=scam-swirling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">investigating the Governor</a>. The U.S. Treasury is looking into whether money went to terrorists. Walz says he “welcomes” the investigations.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">__</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVE</b></span><br><b>Unless you live in Minnesota, there’s probably not much you can do about these allegations and investigations. What you </b><i><b>can </b></i><b>do is audit your own integrity with the resources God has entrusted to you. Are you using your time and money in a way that pleases Him, or are you using it for your own comfort?</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><b>“Don’t neglect to do what is good and to share, for God is pleased with such sacrifices.” </b></i><br><b>Hebrews 13:16 (CSB) (</b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/44lUW00?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=scam-swirling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>read full passage</b></a><b>)</b></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> REFLECT <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">| RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What do I want to make sure my kids know in light of this story?</b><br>Minnesota was responsible for protecting taxpayer money, and its apparent failure stings even more because funds were intended to help those in need. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Human oversight seems to have failed here, but God’s oversight won’t. Nothing escapes His notice—even secret schemes: <i>“God will bring every act to judgment, including every hidden thing, whether good or evil”</i> (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3KtdO6C?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=scam-swirling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Ecclesiastes 12:14 CSB</a>).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Judgment can feel like a scary word, but it’s actually very good news. God’s judgment is His promise to set everything right. And God’s people have no need to fear—not because we’re good enough on our own, but because Jesus <i>“rescues us from the coming wrath”</i> (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4iTXZ5B?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=scam-swirling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1 Thessalonians 1:10 CSB</a>).</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>How can I model loving an enemy when discussing this story?</b><br>Showing compassion to strangers.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When we bear the name “Christian,” how we speak about and behave toward immigrants—criminal or not—reflects on Christ. Don’t make assumptions about strangers’ stories; show curiosity and compassion (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4npjDzG?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=scam-swirling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Leviticus 19:33-34</a>); and speak about foreigners, fellow image-bearers of God, with dignity and respect.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Believers in Jesus know what it’s like to live in a land that’s not our own: <i>“Dear friends, I urge you as strangers and exiles to abstain from sinful desires that wage war against the soul. Conduct yourselves honorably among the Gentiles, so that when they slander you as evildoers, they will observe your good works and will glorify God on the day he visits”</i> (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/48dmHKP?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=scam-swirling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1 Peter 2:11-12 CSB</a>).</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | </span>RESPOND</h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Share Christmas joy </b>with a near-stranger in your life. New kid in class? New coworker? Neighbor who just moved in? Show compassion and hospitality by sharing your Christmas cookies, making them a card (ideas below), or inviting them to church or dinner. <b> </b><br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Memorize </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/44lUW00?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=scam-swirling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Hebrews 13:16</a>, <i>“Don’t neglect to do what is good and to share, for God is pleased with such sacrifices” </i>(CSB).<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Pray </b>for justice and peace in Minnesota,<b> </b>and that God’s people would lead the way in showing compassion and hospitality to strangers.</p></li></ul></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"> </p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(242, 130, 127);font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"><b>CREAM AND SUGAR</b></span></h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Gen Z Word of the Week: </b>“My brother’s <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3MAO2Og?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=scam-swirling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">beige flag</a> is that he pours his milk before his cereal.”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Family Fun: </b>What’s better than getting a Christmas card? Getting a <i>homemade</i> Christmas card! <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3KEF95O?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=scam-swirling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Check out these craftable cards</a> you can make with your kids (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/3KEF95O?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=scam-swirling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">see #4</a> for a footprint snow creature who doesn’t remotely resemble a snowman).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Whipped Cream on Top: </b><a class="link" href="https://thepourover.org/whipped-cream-choo-choo/?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=scam-swirling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Choo choo!</a></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">RECOMMENDED</h1></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Who We’re Blessing This Christmas</b><br><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/VOM_1211?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=scam-swirling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Children of Persecuted Christians</a>*</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Through Voice of the Martyrs’ global network of front-line workers, you can help provide Christmas Care Packs to children in hostile areas and restricted nations. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Each $35 pack is customized for kids’ regions and includes a children’s Bible in their language (for many, their very first Bible!), clothing, school supplies, hygiene items, Christian books, and a toy. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Give a gift that shows Christ’s love to these children, helps them experience the joy of Christmas, and reminds them they are not forgotten by the global body of Christ. <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/VOM_1211?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=scam-swirling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Sponsor a Christmas Care Pack today</a>!</p></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What Our Kids Are Watching</b><br>Low-stimulation shows from <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/Yippee_1009?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=scam-swirling" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Yippee TV</a>*</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Not every show needs flashing lights and chaotic songs. 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  <description>Talking to your child about violence against service members in D.C.</description>
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Specialist Sarah Beckstrom, 20, died on Thanksgiving, and Staff Sgt. Andrew Wolfe, 24, remains in “<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4pQyuo4?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=national-guard-shooting" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">serious condition</a>.”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The service members were patrolling near the White House as part of President Trump’s plan to control crime. A man reportedly “came around the corner” and “immediately started firing.” Other Guard members exchanged fire with the shooter and caught him. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The suspect is a 29-year-old Afghan national with no criminal history. When American troops withdrew from Afghanistan in 2021, he came to the U.S. <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/48ptIGZ?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=national-guard-shooting" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">under a special program for Afghans</a> who helped U.S. forces. He was part of a CIA-led group fighting terrorism. His motive for targeting the National Guard is unknown.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">After the attack, President Trump promised to &quot;permanently pause migration from all third-world countries.” The U.S. also <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/489klMG?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=national-guard-shooting" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">stopped all decisions about asylum</a> (a process that lets people from other countries stay in America for safety). Then, Defense Secretary Hegseth said <a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/48lN5k8?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=national-guard-shooting" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">500 more National Guard members</a> will be sent to the capital. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>Want to learn more about how the National Guard works? Check out this </i><a class="link" href="https://www.web.thepourover.org/p/so-how-does-the-national-guard-work?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=national-guard-shooting" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">TPO Explains article</a><i> (or </i><a class="link" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8ooaK3DTOhs&utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=national-guard-shooting" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">video</a><i>). </i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">__</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>ETERNAL PERSPECTIVE</b></span><br><b>We live in a world that’s broken by sin. Even as we work to promote justice and healing here on earth, we can rest in the knowledge that a day is coming when sin will be impossible and regret will be a distant memory.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><b>“I lift my eyes toward the mountains. Where will my help come from? My help comes from the LORD, the Maker of heaven and earth.”</b></i><b> </b><br><b>Psalm 121:1-2 (CSB) </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4iurFG3?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=national-guard-shooting" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>(read full passage)</b></a></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> REFLECT <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">| RESPOND</span></h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What do I want to make sure my kids know in light of this story?</b><br>If this story makes you sad or angry… that’s okay. Aching over what’s wrong in the world isn’t a sign of weak faith; it’s often the sign of a soft, alive heart that longs for God’s promises to come true.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The Bible is full of God’s people pointing to those promises and asking, “When?”. Scripture says we’re <span style="text-decoration:line-through;">allowed</span> encouraged to bring our sadness and questions straight to God and say, “You promised peace and justice… but I’m not seeing it yet! Do something!” (see: Psalm 10, 13, 79).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So if you feel heavy after stories like this, pay attention… and bring it to the God who promises a <i>good </i>future.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What response to this story do I want to model for my children?</b><br>Seeing people as God sees them is a habit—a discipline of love.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Model for your kids a way of engaging hard stories that refuses to dehumanize. Instead of sorting names in the news into “good” and “bad,” teach your kids that God created every person, sees their pain, and stays with them long after headlines fade.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Loving people as God loves them trains our hearts in compassion, which comes from our compassionate God: “<i>The LORD ​— ​the LORD is a compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger and abounding in faithful love and truth, maintaining faithful love to a thousand generations, forgiving iniquity, rebellion, and sin. But he will not leave the guilty unpunished”</i> (<a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/48PKyA7?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=national-guard-shooting" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Exodus 34:6-7 CSB</a>).</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="read-reflect-respond"><span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">READ |</span> <span style="color:rgb(192, 192, 192);">REFLECT | </span>RESPOND</h1><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><hr class="content_break"></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Discuss: </b>What hard thing is making you sad or angry? Which promise from God gives you hope?<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Memorize </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/48PKyA7?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=national-guard-shooting" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Exodus 34:6-7</a>, “<i>The LORD ​— ​the LORD is a compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger and abounding in faithful love and truth, maintaining faithful love to a thousand generations, forgiving iniquity, rebellion, and sin. But he will not leave the guilty unpunished”</i> (CSB).<br> </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Pray </b>as an instinctive family response to hard news. Pray for those grieving, harmed, causing harm, shaken families, and leaders making hard decisions. Ask God for comfort, repentance, protection, peace, and wisdom.</p></li></ul></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h5 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><i>For further reflection and a prayer about the National Guard shooting in your inbox Sunday, </i><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/47iETlo?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=national-guard-shooting" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">subscribe here to Praying the News</a><i>.</i></h5></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"> </p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#F4f4f4;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:16.0px 16.0px 16.0px 16.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(242, 130, 127);font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"><b>CREAM AND SUGAR</b></span></h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Gen Z Word of the Week:  </b><a class="link" href="https://links.thepourover.org/4peM3gV?utm_source=decaf.thepourover.org&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=national-guard-shooting" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">ate… but not the food</a>. 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