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  <title>IN OUR SPRING CLEANING ERA</title>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/669d3fa6-9ba3-4145-9b14-1db8a736d72b/viabbz18.png?t=1761938459"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome">WELCOME</h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Hello and happy (?) Income Tax Day! I’m home from Los Angeles, where I had the time of my life! The weather was perfect and for a few days, I got to step out of the day-to-day and just<i> be</i>. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now, here’s the wonderful thing about stepping away: when you come back, you view everything from a different perspective. You see what’s working, what’s not, and where you’ve been letting things slide. That’s why we’re talking about a spring audit today. Spring buying season is the time to metaphorically clean house. What are you doing in your business that’s actually producing? What are you keeping out of habit that isn’t paying you anymore? And what do you need to tighten up so you can move faster, cleaner, and more profitably over the next 90 days? This is about doing what works, on purpose, and letting the rest go.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Also, now that I’m back home and back in it, I’m rehearsing for <i>Dancing Stars of Atlanta 2026</i>. I’m currently sitting at about 80% of my fundraising goal, which means I’ve got just enough pressure to make it interesting. Anyway, let’s all put on our dancing shoes and get right to it!</p><blockquote class="tiktok-embed" cite="https://www.tiktok.com/@glenndabaker/video/7577787137353911582" data-video-id="7577787137353911582"><section><a target="_blank" title="@glenndabaker" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@glenndabaker?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=in-our-spring-cleaning-era" rel="noreferrer"> @glenndabaker </a><p>Support me as I take to the dance floor to support Alzheimer’s! You can support me from the link in my bio to donate today! #GlenndaBaker ... See more</p></section></blockquote><div class="button" style="text-align:center;"><a target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow noreferrer" class="button__link" style="" href="https://act.alz.org/site/TR/Gala/GA-Georgia?pg=personal&px=25632269&fr_id=19246&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=in-our-spring-cleaning-era"><span class="button__text" style=""> My fundraising page! </span></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">STORYTIME WITH GLENNDA</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="time-for-spring-cleaning">Time for Spring Cleaning</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Happy April 15th, y’all. What better a day to talk about an audit? (Don’t panic, I mean a good kind of audit, and not the go-to-jail-because-you-have-a-shady-accountant kind.) <b>With spring buying season upon us, this is the perfect time to take stock of where your year’s heading. </b>The spring season is when everything kicks into gear as we begin spring cleaning, shaking off the dust from a long winter. As those flowers emerge from the earth and the trees begin to bud, it feels like everything is fresh, new, and exciting, so let’s capitalize on all that blossoming hope and momentum. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you want to make real money this spring, it’s time to run a true audit on your business. Take a hard look at what’s working, what’s wasting your time, and what has no business accompanying you into Q2.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Start with the Bottom Line</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>First, look at your credit card statements because those don’t lie. Go line by line and ask yourself if each charge produced a return in the first quarter. </b>If you subscribed to something, paid for something, downloaded something, and that something didn’t make you money, time’s up. It either produced or it didn’t.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If it didn’t, dump it. It’s just that simple.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now, a quick caveat is that <b>there’s a difference between a tool not working and you not working it.</b> Some of these platforms are incredibly powerful, but they require effort, consistency, and intention. If you didn’t use it, you don’t get to blame it. But if it’s just sitting there quietly billing you every month while you ignore it, that’s just bleeding profits.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Mind the Clock</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here’s the real audit: examining your time expenditure. <b>I want you to track one full week of your life like you’re billing hours as an attorney. </b>Every showing, every listing appointment, every conversation that moves a deal forward, I want you to mark as green.<b> </b>If it’s something you don’t have to do, mark that time as yellow. If it’s something you hate, make it red. The point is, I want you to log it all because this will give you a visual representation of where you spend your precious time creating that green.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What you’ll find is that most agents who think they’re working full-time are nowhere close. They’re busy, they’re distracted. Maybe they’re reacting but they’re not producing. <b>Where your time goes will explain exactly why your income looks the way it does.</b> Spring is not the season to be casually productive. It’s the season to be precise, so think <i>green</i>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The Things You Keep</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now, here’s what you don’t throw out in a pique of spring cleaning: <b>no matter how shiny the new technology gets, you must keep the fundamentals that actually build credibility. </b>For me and my business, I will never stop previewing houses. Ever. Because there’s no substitute for being in the property, understanding how it lives, and seeing what the photos and the specs can’t tell you.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let me tell y’all how this actually plays out in real life: I was sitting at a listing appointment with <b>a seller who’d already looked online and convinced himself where his house should land among the comps. One of the properties he kept coming back to was a house listed higher than his, </b>sitting on seven and a half acres. In his mind, more land equals more value. End of story.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Guess what? I did not agree. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">He looks at me and says, <i>“But Glennda, that house is on seven acres. I have two. Mine should be worth less.” </i>Now, I’d been in that other house. I didn’t just click through it online. I’d walked it, studied it, and understood how it lived in real life. So I said, “Let’s slow down and actually compare apples to apples. Yes, that property has seven and a half acres. But only about three of those acres are usable in any meaningful way. The rest isn’t buildable, and it’s not functional. <b>That space is just land on paper. That extra acreage doesn’t even make the house feel more private.</b> The way the lot’s positioned, the outdoor space sits right next to the neighbor’s backyard.”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What looked impressive on a listing sheet didn’t translate into real value for a buyer. </b>Then I took him through his own house. He has two acres. While it’s a smaller number, the layout works. The space creates privacy where it matters, so if he wants to sit nekkid by his pool, no one will see him. His outdoor spaces feel <i>intentional.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Then inside his house, I explained what nobody can get from a spreadsheet. The floor plan of the other place was choppy. Oh, my stars, the other kitchen was pretty but it was barely functional, like no one had ever heard of the work triangle. The way the home lived day-to-day wasn’t nearly as strong. <b>On paper, one house looks like the winner (more acreage, higher price) but in reality, his two-acre property delivers a better living experience.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When I explained it that way, I could see the shift happen in real time. <b>The seller stopped anchoring to the number of acres. He started understanding how buyers actually think. </b>As agents, that’s the moment when we win the listings. When we make something click that the sellers couldn’t see before, that’s how we earn their trust and establish our credibility.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This is why previewing matters. This is why knowing your market matters. Because if I hadn’t been in that house, my only play would be to argue numbers. Instead, I had the benefit of explaining reality. <b>Buyers pay for how a house feels, functions, and lives.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The same holds true with farming. I don’t care how many people try to convince you that you don’t need a farm anymore. Trust me, you do.<b> If you don’t know a neighborhood inside and out, you’re always going to be a step behind the agent who does. </b>The difference now is that the old-school discipline of farming can be paired with tools that make it exponentially more powerful. What used to require binders, photos, and glue-sticks-with-Glennda now can live in your database, populated with real-time data, mortgage insights, and market activity. It’s the same practice, but now it moves faster and hits harder if you actually use it, no arts or crafts required.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The Case for Old School</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Of course, there are the “old fashioned” tactics people love to dismiss, like open houses. The temptation may be to Marie Kondo those right out of your business. But if you think open houses don’t work, you’re doing them wrong. <b>The agents who win are the ones who take something that used to be passive and turn it into a fully leveraged event.</b> Instead of sitting and waiting, they’re broadcasting, targeting, inviting, and following up. Those agents are stretching that one open house across multiple time frames and platforms. That’s the pattern you should be looking for in your audit; not what’s old versus new, but what’s being underutilized versus fully leveraged.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">As you do your spring clean/audit, the takeaway is simple.<b> Cut what isn’t producing. Fix what you’ve been using halfway. Get honest about how you spend your time. Double down on the habits that actually make you credible in the eyes of your clients. </b>The agents who win in the spring market are the ones who align with what works and execute it at a higher level.</p><blockquote align="center" class="instagram-media"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/DWzBZ6aEV17/?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=in-our-spring-cleaning-era"><p dir="ltr" lang="en"> Instagram post </p></a></blockquote><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now, if you’re interested in turning your spring effort into even more green, I’m breaking it down step by step at my next PowerSuite session. I’ll walk you through exactly how to get focused, get efficient, and get paid in <i>this</i> market, not the one you wish you had!</p><div class="button" style="text-align:center;"><a target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow noreferrer" class="button__link" style="" href="https://yourpowersuite.com/check-out-page?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=in-our-spring-cleaning-era"><span class="button__text" style=""> Join my PowerSuite! </span></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="estate-agent-growth-program">ESTATE AGENT GROWTH PROGRAM</h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I want to talk to y’all about Estate Media’s agent growth program. In it, you have access to agents operating at an elite level, in multiple markets, with different styles and different approaches. Now, I realize we may not be selling the same product you are. Maybe we’re not in your city, or we have a different business model. <b>The point is to listen, learn, take what works, and make it yours.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The agents who win in this business aren’t the ones waiting for an experienced person to hand them a perfect, customized plan over a white table cloth lunch meeting. <b>The ones who pay attention, put in the work, and build something that actually fits them are the ones who win!</b></p><div class="button" style="text-align:center;"><a target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow noreferrer" class="button__link" style="" href="https://calendly.com/estate-media-socials-team/20min?month=2026-04&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=in-our-spring-cleaning-era"><span class="button__text" style=""> Book a Free Consultation </span></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glennda-bought-grandmas-house">GLENNDA’S GURU</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome-rory-golod">Welcome, Rory Golod!</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I’m so delighted to share my conversation with <a class="link" href="https://www.instagram.com/rorygolod/?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=in-our-spring-cleaning-era" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Rory Golod </a>today! Rory’s the President of Growth at Compass International, which means he’s in the trenches, helping support and scale a network of over 340,000 real estate professionals across their brands.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Rory’s been recognized as one of <i>Crain’s</i> <i>New York</i> 40 Under 40, but what matters more to me is how he thinks. Rory’s firmly in the camp that technology should support the agent, <i>not </i>replace them. He’s a strong voice when it comes to protecting agent choice, especially around how we market listings and serve our clients. I welcome you to enjoy our conversation about growth, about leverage, and about how to use the tools we have without losing the human edge that actually closes deals!</p><iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="true" class="youtube_embed" frameborder="0" height="100%" src="https://youtube.com/embed/bgnLQLmpImI" width="100%"></iframe><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Thank you, Rory!</p><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDAISM</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Today’s Words of Wisdom </h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDA BAKER & ASSOCIATES</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="this-ones-a-keeper">Speaking of Green…</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I’ve been featuring a ton of lock-and-leave homes lately. Well, this one’s not your turn-key, move-in-ready, everything’s-already-been-done-for-you kind of house. The home at <a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/6140-michelle-lane-douglasville-ga-30135-862443516751f237d0c92507a6800b3b?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=in-our-spring-cleaning-era" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">6140 Michelle Lane in Douglasville, GA</a> is what I call an <i>opportunity property</i>. It’s been a long-term rental and it’s been lived in hard. Will you need a vision and a contractor? Oh, my stars, yes. But if you know what you’re looking at, you can see it immediately: the bones are there, the square footage is there, and that half-acre lot gives you room to actually create value.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This home is all about <i>where it can go tomorrow.</i> You’re in an established Douglasville neighborhood with easy access to I-20, shopping, schools, all the things that keep demand steady. The pretty houses? Those are already priced. This is where you create the margin. So if you’re a weekend warrior, a seasoned investor, or somebody who knows how to buy right and build equity, this is the kind of property you don’t overthink. You run your numbers, you trust your eye, and you go to work to make it turn green.</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/6dde738a-ee94-4612-ba43-8a335649c046/house1.jpg?t=1776187781"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p><a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/6140-michelle-lane-douglasville-ga-30135-862443516751f237d0c92507a6800b3b?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=in-our-spring-cleaning-era" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">6140 Michelle Lane, Douglasville, GA</a></p></span></div></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/69da0069-d18f-437c-bea0-0be6b2517c89/House2.jpg?t=1776187798"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/ab4a7eb2-c214-4dae-936f-b0abd5a4e922/House3.jpg?t=1776187827"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/6304f4a5-66bc-488f-91c3-04a1d921257b/House4.jpg?t=1776187842"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/ef103a4d-bd68-4755-b85e-accfffeb60f0/House5.jpg?t=1776187868"/></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=5c441349-5a5c-45e9-876a-57d8bae4f3b5&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=her_real_estate">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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  <title>WHO&#39;S IN YOUR EAR MATTERS MORE THAN WHO&#39;S IN YOUR PIPELINE</title>
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There was no big, dramatic speech or anything so much as I just modeled their behavior.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Learning from a mentor helps you adjust your aim. That’s the key because once your aim is right, you’re so much more effective. This week, we’re going to cover mentorship, because if you’re paying attention to the right person, the entire trajectory of your own journey changes.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So let’s get into it before they serve those breakfast sandwiches that I love!</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/291ca88e-0f23-4d46-8bd9-45bac62dd62e/IMG_0055.jpg?t=1775571975"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>The birthday boy!</p></span></div></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">STORYTIME WITH GLENNDA</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="the-education-of-miss-glennda-baker">The Education of Miss Glennda Baker</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">As I watch Lucas sleep in the seat next to me, I find myself thinking about one of the earliest lessons I ever learned in this business. That message wasn’t flashy or inspirational in the way people like to package things now, especially on social media. The lesson I learned was simple. Practical, really, because <b>it came from watching someone who was doing it better than I was. </b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">People are convinced they need a formal agreement when it comes to mentorship, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. Many times, mentorship doesn’t present as a senior person with a vested interest in your success, who sits you down and tells you exactly what to do at three prescribed times per week. (If you actually have this, consider yourself fortunate indeed.) <b>So much of mentorship comes from just paying attention. </b>You’ve got to approach everything with a willingness to learn, especially when nobody’s tasked with teaching you.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When I got into real estate, I’d been assigned a mentor. Back then, formal mentorship was required. What that means was, a senior person was assigned to me… and they took half my commission. My first real check was $2,100, and by the time everyone else got paid, I walked away with $525. At that stage in my life, I didn’t fully understand how to use the mentor I’d been assigned to. <b>While I had access to someone successful, I didn’t understand how to leverage the access the way I should have. That’s on me.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Not long into my tenure, what changed the equation for me in terms of a mentor was something a little less obvious than going to a restaurant and having heartfelt conversations about my goals.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What did I do? Well, I moved my desk.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When I first started and was thrown into the bullpen, I was told I could sit anywhere. But after being at that brokerage for a spell, I began to notice who stood out in the office. The woman who was number one was there every single day, unlike a lot of the agents who I rarely saw. Oh, my stars and stripes, she was never not on the phone! She was perpetually in the middle of a deal.<b> I thought it was interesting that while everyone else treated the office like it was optional, she treated it like it was a business. And I thought, </b><b><i>I need to do what she’s doing.</i></b> So I went to the broker and asked if I could move my desk right outside her office, so I could hear every word out of her mouth.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>My education came from eavesdropping because that agent never formally agreed to mentor me.</b> She probably didn’t even realize what I was doing. But, oh, did I listen and watch. I paid strict attention to how she spoke to buyers, how she handled sellers, heck, how she talked to other agents! I’d make notes about how she structured her day. Anytime she asked me to do something, I said yes, whether it was holding an open house or putting together a listing presentation. <b>If she were to say, </b><b><i>“Hey, Glennda, can you make me five copies?”</i></b><b> I’d make six, keeping one extra copy for myself.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here’s the part people often miss when they hear that story: I didn’t just watch <i>her</i>. Oh, no.<b> I paid attention to </b><i><b>everyone </b></i><b>who was doing well. </b>The number two agent had a completely different style than that first lady. Another agent ran her business in a way that felt more natural to me. Someone else had a better system for follow-up. I started collecting all of it, helping myself to everyone’s best practices. <b>I took the most powerful pieces of what I saw, and I adjusted them until they fit me, my personality, my market, and my clients. I called this process “Glenndafying.” </b>I wasn’t <i>imitating</i> so much as I was adapting. There’s more than one way to succeed. So when you’re getting started, your job is to figure out how to make the best strategies work for you. <b>The key is listening to people who are actually doing the work at a high level.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">One of the best decisions I ever made (and at the time it felt insane) was paying $900 in the early 90s to shadow an agent in Spartanburg, South Carolina. $900 was real money then, especially as a struggling single mom. <b>I showed up expecting him to sit me down and share all his secrets.</b> Instead, from 8:00 in the morning until noon that day, this man who looked like Howdy Doody and had once worked as Jimmy Carter’s Secret Service agent, made phone calls. He hit every expired listing and For Sale by Owner. He picked up that damn phone a million times, each call using the same script and cadence. At noon, he had lunch brought in. Then from one o’clock on, he went on five appointments. At six o’clock, he went home. And that was <i>it</i>. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I remember sitting there saying, “Well, where’s the part where you teach me something?” In my head, I was asking, <i>Why did I spend almost two months’ rent to be here?!</i> </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That man looked at me dead in the eye and said, “I just did.” Did I mention he’d done 367 transactions the year before?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You know what? That day stripped away every single illusion I had about this business. There’s nothing romantic about it. The glamor of showing a luxury listing is maybe a tiny portion. <b>What I learned from these mentors is that you succeed by doing the same things, over and over again</b>. You make the calls. You go on appointments. You do the things that nobody wants to do, whether it’s showing a cheap rental in Smyrna or fixing a faulty lock box in Dacula, because <b>that’s what the top performers have in common: focus, discipline, and consistency.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Real mentorship entails exposing yourself to that standard. <b>You’ve got to get close enough to see what’s actually required, not what people pretend is required on social media.</b> I promise y’all do not need to reinvent the wheel. Instead, find people who are already getting the results you want, study them, and then <i>Glenndafy </i>their habits to fit your business.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That’s why I want to mention Estate Media’s agent growth program. In it, you have access to agents operating at an elite level, in multiple markets, with different styles and different approaches. Now, I realize we may not be selling the same product you are. Maybe we’re not in your city, or we have a different business model. <b>The point is to listen, learn, take what works, and make it yours.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The agents who win in this business aren’t the ones waiting for an experienced person to hand them a perfect, customized plan over a white table cloth lunch meeting. <b>The ones who pay attention, put in the work, and build something that actually fits them are the ones who’ve learned how to </b><b><i>Glenndafy.</i></b></p><div class="button" style="text-align:center;"><a target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow noreferrer" class="button__link" style="" href="https://calendly.com/estate-media-socials-team/20min?month=2026-04&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=who-s-in-your-ear-matters-more-than-who-s-in-your-pipeline"><span class="button__text" style=""> Book a Free Consultation </span></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glennda-bought-grandmas-house">GLENNDA’S GURU</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome-krista-watterworth-alterman">Welcome, Krista Watterworth Alterman!</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I could not be more delighted to welcome this week’s guru, <a class="link" href="https://www.instagram.com/kristahome/?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=who-s-in-your-ear-matters-more-than-who-s-in-your-pipeline" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Krista Watterworth Alterman</a>! Krista’s the real deal. She’s an award-winning designer and the founder of Krista + Home. If y’all have ever wondered why some homes just feel expensive the minute you walk in, that’s her lane.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Krista’s built a business around making spaces beautiful <i>and</i> intentional. I’m talking about how every detail works and nothing feels thrown together. She’s worked on everything from high-end residential to large-scale developments, and what I love most is that she understands how design actually impacts how a home lives and how it sells. So I can’t be more excited to share our chat!</p><iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="true" class="youtube_embed" frameborder="0" height="100%" src="https://youtube.com/embed/AAhm3QJTkzI" width="100%"></iframe><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Thank you, Krista!!</p><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glennda-bought-grandmas-house">GLENNDA BOUGHT GRANDMA’S HOUSE</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome-krista-watterworth-alterman">So Close to the Finish Line!</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Oh, my stars, Grandma’s house almost finished!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Of course, it’s the little things at the end that’ll get you. I thought I could get away with leaving the driveway as-is, just clean it up and call it a day. But then I ran an AI rendering to play around with the landscaping. Wouldn’t you know it, the house looked so good in that image that the driveway suddenly looked like the piece that was dragging it down. Once I saw it, I couldn’t unsee it. So now we’re doing the driveway.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">We’re also swapping out the mantle, painting the brick, and tightening up all the final details. Again, this is not the glamorous part but it’s the part that makes the whole thing feel finished and worth what it should be worth.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That’s the difference between <i>done</i> and <i>done right</i>.</p><blockquote align="center" class="instagram-media"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DWy76UPp9Sv/?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=who-s-in-your-ear-matters-more-than-who-s-in-your-pipeline"><p dir="ltr" lang="en"> Instagram post </p></a></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDAISM</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Today’s Words of Wisdom </h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDA BAKER & ASSOCIATES</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="this-ones-a-keeper">The Smart Move</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">My listing at <a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/34-arbor-end-se-smyrna-ga-us-30080-10725932?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=who-s-in-your-ear-matters-more-than-who-s-in-your-pipeline" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">34 Arbor End SE in Smyrna, GA, </a>is a home that just makes sense. First of all, the Hillsdale community is dialed in. I’m talking clean, consistent, and taken care of in a way you notice the second you pull in. The landscaping, the amenities, the overall feel, it’s solid across the board. That matters more than people think.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When you step inside, this is exactly what a first-time buyer or smart downsizer is looking for. Updated, open, easy. No projects, no “we’ll get to it,” just move in and start living your life. Now, the location is where this place really earns its keep. You’re right there, whether it’s the Battery, Smyrna Market Village, everything you want to do on a Tuesday night or a Saturday afternoon without having to plan your whole day around traffic. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">At this price point, FHA approved and no rental restrictions, this is the kind of property I’ve been selling for years where I always think, <i>I should’ve just bought every single one of these when I had the chance. </i>It’s that kind of smart.</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/dce78ec1-dc7f-4c97-9072-98ab6ddb7447/condo1.jpg?t=1775577058"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p><a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/34-arbor-end-se-smyrna-ga-us-30080-10725932?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=who-s-in-your-ear-matters-more-than-who-s-in-your-pipeline" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">34 Arbor End SE, Smyrna, GA</a></p></span></div></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/4c76c52b-bdd4-4f24-aec7-5d8573fe46e9/condo2.jpg?t=1775577075"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/57e1ba5e-7070-4805-bef2-0ff5c2e32ebc/condo3.jpg?t=1775577092"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/846eb742-605a-4c45-820a-2992260c3a6f/condo4.jpg?t=1775577106"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/159a1a88-fcb0-43c9-8b37-b09fe769c2cb/condo5.jpg?t=1775577122"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/3fe41cac-1d61-4b29-ad13-90e0ad860701/condo6.jpg?t=1775577136"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/f5006e8f-bfc4-4e97-82bd-e2525f1e2987/condo7.jpg?t=1775577149"/></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=bf211956-e8b4-47da-9b00-07cb51f4bc1e&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=her_real_estate">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/669d3fa6-9ba3-4145-9b14-1db8a736d72b/viabbz18.png?t=1761938459"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome">WELCOME</h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Hello and welcome!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It’s Easter week, and for the first time in a long time, I’m not hosting my usual client event at my house. Apologies in advance for not posting shots of me and the Easter Bunny. It’s Lucas’s birthday, so he and I are heading to Los Angeles to see the Lakers, the Clippers, and the Dodgers and I’m not missing that for anything! </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now, before I get on that plane, I want to talk about something I see agents struggling with every single day, and the issue is not what they think it is. There’s a perception that they have a time problem, but that’s not it. The issue is with alignment. And until they get honest about that, no planner, no system, no “time blocking” is going to fix what’s actually going on in their business. So let’s get right into it!</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/1409f8ec-f46e-4cb3-9058-7947f4a1658b/easter.webp?t=1774885659"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>And Happy Passover, too!</p></span></div></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">STORYTIME WITH GLENNDA</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="the-room-where-it-happened">The Alignment Gap</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Not a week goes by where I don’t hear a new agent say, “Oh, Glennda, I’d love to do X, Y, or Z, but there just aren’t enough hours in the days.” <b>When I was first starting out, this was me, too. I had so much going on and I didn’t know how to manage it all. I figured I just needed to manage my time better. </b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">However, now that I’ve been selling real estate since Jesus was a baby, I can say this: <b>overwhelmed agents don’t have a time problem. Oh, no. They have a </b><i><b>decision</b></i><b> problem. </b>And if you’ve been in this business awhile, y’all know exactly what I mean, especially when it comes to buyers.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Early on, I had no idea how to tell the difference between someone who was a real buyer and someone who just liked looking at houses.</b> Let me tell you, there are a whole lot of folks who are in the “just like looking at houses” camp. Instead of going through specific criteria to find a home, they’re building a vision board and trying to picture their life inside of it. Now, if something absolutely perfect were to fall in their laps, sure, they’d <i>consider </i>buying it. Maybe. But until then, I was their Saturday entertainment. Josh Flagg talks about this in his book <a class="link" href="https://www.amazon.com/Deal-Secrets-Mastering-Art-Negotiation/dp/1400230438/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.-Uy57-qtEVmLjAjlDV1nlrI5a1vRbbP0dfG2w1oz2kJEmNf2ZFCblpafkt4DVec4ssfrVFIAEBrDsSg5fwhIlqHCKwjP9Gq96mHajov4AgTziYlaN34ZusHfRBi-82hv.53WT3c1nmlM9LUcmmKbvGE7foY7kANxzred547SviOc&qid=1774885892&sr=8-1&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=mind-the-gap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i>The Deal.</i></a> He worked with an older gentleman who was wealthy as could be, so he could absolutely afford everything Josh showed him. But that guy could never pull the trigger when something seemingly perfect came up and Josh couldn’t figure out why. Finally, Josh’s grandmother Edith sat Josh down and said, “The only place this man is moving to is the cemetery.”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I had a couple like that many years ago. (Let’s call them Bobby and Susie.) I showed Bobby and Susie hundreds—no lie—of houses over the years. The heavens somehow parted and I found a house that was perfect for them, and I do mean perfect. This place checked every box in spades. I’m talking primary on the main, pool already there, the right neighborhood, and practically turnkey. This home was everything Bobby and Susie had told me they wanted at the price they wanted to pay. So we’re standing in the kitchen, and I’m thinking, <i>Whew, this is it! This is the one.</i> <i>Finally! </i>And then Bobby looked at me and said, “Eh, I’m just not sure.”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I think I may have snapped because I told Susie, “If y’all don’t make an offer on this house, it will be easier for you to find a new husband than it will be to find a new home.” <b>That’s the moment I realized I wasn’t dealing with a housing problem. I was dealing with a </b><i><b>gap</b></i><b>. There was a gap between their expectations and reality that I could not fill for them. </b>No amount of showing, explaining, negotiating, or time was going to fix it.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You see, this is where agents get themselves into trouble. We think if we just keep working, keep showing, keep trying, eventually we’ll land the plane. But this isn’t about our efforts. It’s about alignment. <b>If the alignment isn’t there, all the effort in the world won’t save us.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now here’s where it gets expensive in terms of our time and commitment. I know firsthand that the longer we work with someone like that, the harder it is to walk away. We can’t help but think about how much of ourselves we’ve already invested. I mean, the weekends, the evenings, hell, the gas money! And that’s not to mention the cognitive load of carrying these people around in our damn heads. <b>But we’re conditioned to try to win, so we don’t want to “lose” them to another agent. So, we stay in it. And in it… and in it. </b>This is how our time gets decided for us.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Out of thousands of homes sold, I’ve had two buyers where I can honestly say there was nothing I could have done to make them happy. </b>I showed seventy-one houses to the first lady. <i>Seventy-one.</i> From one end of the city to the other. I’m not kidding. We looked at homes from Dallas to Dacula. (If y’all know anything about Atlanta traffic, this just gave you palpitations. It would have been quicker to drive to Michigan.) This lady ended up buying a house no one in her family liked and she blamed me for it. She says I forced her into it. Obviously, that’s not true, yet I knew the minute she wrote the offer that she was buying out of desperation. <b>The homes not purchased with conviction are always the ones that come back to bite you (meaning </b><b><i>me</i></b><b>) in the butt.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The hard-won truth here is that some people are never going to be buyers. And some of these people are never going to be happy. Our job is to be able to clock this as quickly as possible, which all comes down to asking the right question. </b>Most agents will say something like, “What’s it going to take for you to buy this house?” No, ma’am, that’s the wrong question. It&#39;s wrong because you’re negotiating hypotheticals you can’t control, namely price, concessions, conditions.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The magic lies in asking the right question. So the </b><b><i>real </i></b><b>question is, “What happens if you don’t buy?” </b>This is where you’ll find the truth. If nothing happens if they don’t buy, if their life doesn’t change, if there’s no consequence to waiting, <i>they’re not buying</i>. Not only are they not buying today, there’s a good chance they’re not buying <i>ever</i>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">However, if they say something like, “Ugh, then we’re stuck in this terrible rental another year,” or “Our costs are going up,” or “We’re missing out on equity,” well, now you’ve got something real to work with. <b>It’s human nature for people to not move toward pleasure nearly as quick as they move away from pain. </b>Once you understand that, you start making better decisions with your time.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here’s the part that’s actually exciting: in the old days, we had to physically take people everywhere to suss all of this out. There was no other way. Used to be, there was only one photo on a listing. There was no map and you couldn’t get a sense of the street, the neighbors, the layout, etc. Until you pulled up out front, you didn’t know if the house next door had three cars in the driveway until you saw it with your own eyeballs. I used to send people out with a map book and say, “Go drive by first,” because that was the only filter we had.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Back then, even with serious buyers with real pain points and a driving need, I might have shown them fifty houses before we got to the one. Fifty damn houses. That’s because the process demanded it. </b>We didn’t have technological efficiencies yet. Fortunately, that’s all different now.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I love that my buyers can see everything before they ever step foot inside a home. They can walk through a house virtually, asking questions and having them answered in real time. They can measure spaces, compare layouts, and understand the flow. Oh my stars, they can even strip the furniture out and look at the bones of the house! <b>It used to be our job was to help them imagine what their life could be like there if they were to, say, knock down that wall and open up the space. But now with a click, they can figure out if a king bed fits, how tall the ceilings are, and what the kitchen really looks like without someone else’s MacKenzie Childs ceramics collection all over it. </b>Plus, buyers can compare one home to another without spending their entire Saturday in the backseat of my car.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The process of elimination is now online, not onsite, and this is a game-changer. </b>As agents, instead of spending our time ruling things out, we’re spending our time moving things forward. We’re not covering those surface-level questions over and over again. Instead, we get to have those higher-level conversations about value, risk, timing, and strategy. <b>The days of being a tour guide are over; we’re in our trusted advisor era now.</b> </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I love that the agent is no less important, given all the new tools. Actually, we get to be more important in the areas where it counts. <b>All the busywork, like the endless driving, the opening doors, the explaining what could go where is being handled earlier in the process. </b>By the time a buyer reaches out, they’re more informed and more intentional. Spoiler alert: <i>intentional buyers don’t waste our time.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Buyers no longer need to be taken to twenty houses to figure out what they want. They’ve already done the work to narrow it down. <b>They show up ready to make decisions, not just gather information, which makes the conversations we have completely different.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The biggest time drain has never been the work itself. We’ve all lost countless hours to misalignment, whether it’s showing the wrong houses or chasing down the wrong criteria. </b>The more that gets filtered out upfront and the more clarity buyers have before they ever pick up the phone, the less time gets wasted on both sides. That’s why I could not be more excited about the new <a class="link" href="https://Homes.com?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=mind-the-gap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Homes.com</a> Ai tools!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So no, it’s not that we don’t have enough hours in the day. The issue has <i>always</i> been a decision problem. What’s so exciting is that the better the information gets, the faster our buyers can make the <i>right</i> decisions.</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/02134ebb-8ae2-4f1b-b490-b43858d451a1/HDC_Display_HomesAI_ANIMATED_728x90.gif?t=1774382397"/></div><div class="button" style="text-align:center;"><a target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow noreferrer" class="button__link" style="" href="https://www.homes.com/solutions/homes-ai?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=mind-the-gap"><span class="button__text" style=""> Tap into Homes Ai </span></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDAISM</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Today’s Words of Wisdom </h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDA BAKER & ASSOCIATES</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="this-ones-a-keeper">The Center of Buckhead</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let me share something about Buckhead; people don’t just buy here for the square footage. Oh, no. They buy here for the lifestyle that comes with the address. <a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/3040-peachtree-road-nw-1013-atlanta-ga-us-30305-10719741?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=mind-the-gap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Unit 1013 at Ovation I at 3040 Peachtree Road NW in Atlanta</a> drops you right in the middle of it without asking you to pay a million dollars for the privilege!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This condo is steps from the St. Regis, across from Buckhead Village, and surrounded by the kind of restaurants, shopping, and nightlife that make a random Tuesday feel like an occasion. Grab coffee, meet friends for dinner, pop into a boutique, and be back home before your car even cools down. (If you bother to use it at all.) That’s the magic of this location: everything you want is right outside your door. The best part is that when you come home, you’ve got a quiet little courtyard-facing retreat that feels like you’ve slipped out of the chaos. Buckhead done right is access when you want it, peace when you need it, and a price point that frankly doesn’t make sense for what you’re getting!</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/84cbea19-ade7-4993-87ff-6a2cce5c87cb/buck1.jpg?t=1774886978"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/cb00fb41-702e-47ed-92f5-3449cb3416db/Buck2.jpg?t=1774886992"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/fe88e0af-17fe-4ef3-8a96-4778551d6f98/Buck3.jpg?t=1774887005"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/7b064032-f678-45d6-bf00-3d9e5bdaa3f0/Buck4.jpg?t=1774887020"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/b259bd68-98c0-495d-8341-310b35073f13/Buck5.jpg?t=1774887037"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/97afe136-6751-442a-a006-2b5bb140930d/buck6.jpg?t=1774887049"/></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=b8db9281-5ea1-4f11-9486-81bd7c1c3c13&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=her_real_estate">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/669d3fa6-9ba3-4145-9b14-1db8a736d72b/viabbz18.png?t=1761938459"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome">WELCOME</h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Hey y’all! Happy Wednesday!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I’m home from Nashville, but mentally, I feel like I’m still there. I can’t stop thinking about the event. We hosted In Charge last week and let me say this—this was not a conference in the way people are used to. We gathered sixty women who showed up ready to work and have real conversations. Together, we took a hard look at where they’re playing small in a business they already know how to win.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So today I want to talk about what I saw, what surprised me, and what actually shifts when women stop waiting and start taking charge. Because whether you’re running a team or just getting started, that’s the lever that changes everything.</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/3aa5340a-8a8d-4b0e-ba3e-1a7cdb1a09bf/brandon-jean-o1Bxf1tX9t0-unsplash__1_.jpg?t=1774378266"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>Wish you were here! Photo by <a class="link" href="https://unsplash.com/@bjean05?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: rgb(118, 118, 118)">Brandon Jean</a> on <a class="link" href="https://unsplash.com/photos/city-lights-during-dawn-o1Bxf1tX9t0?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: rgb(118, 118, 118)">Unsplash</a></p></span></div></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="the-reality-of-real-estate">THE REALITY OF REAL ESTATE</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="the-room-where-it-happened">They Don’t Search the Way They Used to</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">One of our big points of discussion in Nashville is how much everything’s changed in the past few years. <b>What I notice more than anything is that buyers just aren’t shopping the way they did even two years ago. </b>It used to be that buyers would endlessly scroll listings and save dozens and dozens. Then they’d call me and I’d spend half my day answering the same five questions. <i>“Glennda, how big is the bedroom? Will my couch fit? What’s the kitchen </i>actually<i> like?” </i>And then we’d get there in person and realize they weren’t even close to being serious about the place.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Well, the times they are a-changing. <b>What I’m seeing now (and what we talked about in Nashville) is that buyers are coming in more informed, more specific, and honestly, way more impatient. </b>They don’t want to “browse” so much as they want to refine and get this over with already. They want to know exactly what they’re walking into before they ever step foot in the house because they’re tired of wasting time. I feel like this is where this next phase of search is going.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What’s so great is that <a class="link" href="https://Homes.com?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=in-charge-energy-only" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Homes.com</a> just rolled out Homes Ai. I love how buyers are actually using it. The days of typing in filters are as over as when we’d use a cassette tape to record the song we liked off the radio. <b>Instead, buyers are talking to Homes Ai like they’d talk to us. They can say, “Find me a three-bedroom in Atlanta,” and then follow up with, “Narrow it down to something walkable.”</b> With Homes Ai, they can ask super specific questions like, “Will my nana’s dining room table fit with enough room to include her sideboard, too?” Because they don’t even want to bother to see a place if it means they can’t use their inherited dining set for Thanksgiving.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>This is what I call a whole different level of engagement. </b>Your buyers can walk through a home virtually <span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);font-family:Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;font-size:14.6667px;">with Matterport 3D Tours</span>, where they can ask questions in real time. Better yet, they can strip out the furniture out to view the space clean, so they’re seeing the <i>space </i>and not someone else’s taste. They can compare one kitchen to another. And how about this? <i>They even get their questions answered in their own language.</i> <b>I’m talking about a round-the-clock open house, with no fresh cookies required. </b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">By the time buyers reach out to us, they’re not making those surface-level queries. They’re asking the real questions that only we can answer. When they engage with us, it&#39;s about what will actually move a deal forward. <b>That’s because the lead still comes to the listing agent.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I’ll tell you right now, there are a whole lot of platforms that have zero problem wedging themselves in the middle between you and your clients. <a class="link" href="https://Homes.com?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=in-charge-energy-only" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Homes.com</a> isn’t trying to do that. They’re trying to make the buyer smarter and send them directly to you, prepped and ready. I feel like that’s a shift worth paying attention to.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>If</b> <b>buyers are getting sharper before they ever call us, our job gets a whole lot more interesting… and a whole lot more efficient!</b></p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/02134ebb-8ae2-4f1b-b490-b43858d451a1/HDC_Display_HomesAI_ANIMATED_728x90.gif?t=1774382397"/></div><div class="button" style="text-align:center;"><a target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow noreferrer" class="button__link" style="" href="https://www.homes.com/solutions/homes-ai?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=in-charge-energy-only"><span class="button__text" style=""> Tap into Homes Ai </span></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">STORYTIME WITH GLENNDA</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="the-room-where-it-happened">The Room Where It Happened</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Because I have been selling real estate since Jesus was a baby, I’ve been going to real estate conferences just as long. Over the years, I realized that the more events I attended, the more I noticed what was missing on those stages.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Or, rather, <i>who</i>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The hard and fast truth is that sixty-seven percent of real estate agents are women. Y’all, we are </b><i><b>literally the majority of this business</b></i><b>, but on every conference stage, it’s a sea of men running the show, with maybe one token woman. </b>That disparity absolutely denies the fact that it’s we women out there every day, listing houses, showing property, negotiating deals, and keeping the clients together when they want to fall apart.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Worse yet, look at who’s perceived as holding the industry’s power. I’m telling y’all, it’s the same story as the representation on stage. Pull up any “Top 50” or “Top 100 Most Powerful People in Real Estate” list, and we’ve got to scroll to even find a woman. Sometimes we don’t see one until we’re twenty names in! Or how about the C-suite across brokerages? It’s the same damn pattern because 95% of the CEOs are men. <b>I cannot square the circle of how an industry that’s overwhelmingly powered by women ends up being led, publicly represented, and directed almost entirely by </b><b><i>men</i></b><b>.</b> (Mind you—it’s not that I don’t love men, as evidenced by my three marriages.)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What really gets stuck in my craw is that the person making the business run and holding the relationships together is almost always a woman. So why is she not on the stage? Why isn’t she being quoted? How come we’re not seeing her positioned as the authority? I think a lot of women don’t even question this because we’ve been trained to defer. Or we just assume someone else has the answer. We tend to listen to whoever has the microphone. <b>But when you actually sit with the numbers, this disparity should bother you.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It bothered me enough to finally build something where that dynamic doesn’t exist. <b>I was inspired to create a space </b><b><i>where the people doing the work are also the people leading the conversation</i></b>. Because if sixty-seven percent of the industry is women, then the future of the industry should look like women, too. I reached a point where I was done sitting in rooms that didn’t reflect the reality of the business, so <a class="link" href="https://www.instagram.com/kellyanneharris/?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=in-charge-energy-only" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Kelly Anne Harris</a> and I did something about it.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What we put together in Nashville for In Charge was intentionally small. We wanted a group that felt intimate. <b>People kept telling us how great it was that they could actually talk to each other, that they weren’t just sitting in the dark taking notes.</b> They had the time and space to have conversations that didn’t feel surface-level. I love that the women who showed up made a real commitment to be there. Oh, my stars and stripes, they came from all over, from Canada to New Mexico! These women booked flights and hotels and rearranged their schedules to be a part of our Power Suite. That told me that they weren’t just dabbling; they came because they were <i>invested</i>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">We structured the day around working sessions, whether it was video, wealth building, listings, or relationships. We talked through real scenarios and not just theory for theory’s sake. <b>We gave people information they could take home and immediately use. </b>The video conversation stuck with me more than I expected. So many women want to do it, and they know it matters, but they hesitate right at the starting line. They’re too worried about how they sound, how they look, whether they have the right setup. I was there myself six years ago, so this was a tangible reminder of how long people can stagnate in a space, even when they’re otherwise moving forward in their business.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">One of the most valuable things that came out of the entire event for me was the listing workshop. Let me tell y’all, I did not expect to be sitting there mesmerized the way I was. <b>This agent got up and walked us through her process, and before she even got into the “how,” her numbers told the story. </b>She went on eighty-two listing appointments and took eighty of them, and seventy-eight of those actually sold.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I think we all know <i>that’s not normal</i>. Even at a high level, that’s not normal.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So I’m sitting there thinking, <i>What are you doing differently?</i> The answer is her certainty. <b>She walks into every appointment 100% convinced that she’s the best option. There’s no internal debate, no “pick me” energy radiating off her. </b><i>Of course</i> they’re going to choose her because she knows deep in her bones that she’s the best option.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When she sits down at her appointment, she tells them, “I’m excited to be here. Sell me your house.” I had never heard that before, and it stopped me cold, because it shifts the entire conversation. <b>The seller’s got to articulate what they have, what they think it’s worth, and what matters about it. </b>It immediately puts her in a position of control without ever having to say it out loud. She also doesn’t send anything in advance. Instead, she brings everything with her and handles it right there at the table, which means there’s no chance for the energy to fall off after she leaves. Once she has the listing, she stays on it. It’s just that simple.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What I took from her session wasn’t just a new line, although I <i>absolutely </i>used it on my first appointment once I got back. <b>Instead, this was a reminder that </b><b><i>confidence is tangible</i></b><b>. </b>It shows up in how you walk in, how you ask questions, how you move the conversation forward. There’s no magic trick there. She just decided she was the standard, and then she built a process that reflects that.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Over the course of the day, we also had conversations that had nothing to do with scripts or strategy. The group talked about losing a parent, going through a divorce, trying to rebuild while still showing up professionally every day. Hearing someone say they watched my story during a hard time in her life and it helped her keep going mattered so much to me.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The name “In Charge” came from a pretty simple idea. You are in charge of your life and your business. That sounds obvious, but I don’t think we always operate that way. </b>There’s a lot of deferring, a lot of waiting. We often default to allowing someone else to set the direction. But this was about recognizing and owning your own power and as we progressed, I could feel people starting to step out of old habits into better default settings.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">By the end of the day, what I took away wasn’t just that the event programming worked. Instead, the whole room worked. The size, the structure, the mix of experience, the willingness to be direct with each other was lightning in a bottle. People were there to build something, not just talk about it. <b>It’s my experience that when you get that many women who are serious about their business in one place, the total becomes greater than just the sum of all its parts.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When women own their power and decide it’s high time that <i>they’re</i> in charge, everything changes.</p><blockquote align="center" class="instagram-media"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/DWHCZvUEiPk/?igsh=MWlxMXM4eGtmOGNsYw%3D%3D&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=in-charge-energy-only"><p dir="ltr" lang="en"> Instagram post </p></a></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDAISM</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Today’s Words of Wisdom </h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDA BAKER & ASSOCIATES</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="this-ones-a-keeper">She’s a Peach</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Listen, if you’ve been waiting for something juicy to hit Midtown, this is it, because this condo at <a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/1080-peachtree-street-ne-1904-atlanta-ga-us-30309-10712916?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=in-charge-energy-only" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1080 Peachtree Street NE #1904 in Atlanta, GA</a>, is a peach in every sense of the word. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Sitting right on the curve of Peachtree at 1010 Midtown, you’re steps from everything, whether it’s coffee, dinner, Piedmont Park, or the Beltline. With a walk score of 91, you can live your life without ever reaching for your keys! </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Inside, you’ve got walls of glass, a full-length balcony, and those skyline views that remind you exactly why you chose the city in the first place. It’s fresh, it’s bright, it’s updated, and the building itself gives you that full-service, lock-and-leave lifestyle people are chasing right now. This is Midtown living the way it’s supposed to be: easy, connected, and sweet as can be!</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/13b31dfb-cf60-4c84-bb42-488102c5d1f9/peach1.jpg?t=1774379480"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p><a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/1080-peachtree-street-ne-1904-atlanta-ga-us-30309-10712916?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=in-charge-energy-only" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1080 Peachtree Street NE, #1904, Atlanta, GA</a></p></span></div></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/79dcfe8c-d145-4d7c-8a97-ad9807947569/peach2.jpg?t=1774379540"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/a86955aa-5bd5-46c1-bd7a-0f43cb17b9c5/peach3.jpg?t=1774379553"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/0d7714a9-5c26-47f7-81ba-a354846381f5/peach4.jpg?t=1774379570"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/9bde183b-2afd-4d53-9d0e-f4ba808092e4/peach5.jpg?t=1774379582"/></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=705aaf0f-faa8-4c13-8407-f20f31b5d188&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=her_real_estate">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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  <title>THE MYTH OF BEING &quot;BUSY&quot;</title>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/669d3fa6-9ba3-4145-9b14-1db8a736d72b/viabbz18.png?t=1761938459"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome">WELCOME</h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Good morning, y’all! By the time you’re reading this, I’ll be in Nashville, getting ready to speak at my In Charge event, standing in front of a room full of women who are serious about building their businesses. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now, if there’s one topic that always gets people fired up (myself included), it’s the difference between being <i>busy </i>and being <i>productive</i>. Let me be clear: this industry is full of busy agents. Oh, my stars, are their calendars packed! Every damn minute, they’re posting, filming, networking, attending events, checking their likes, and refreshing their comments. They go on and on about how slammed they are. But when you look at the scoreboard at the end of the month, the closings don’t match the activity.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Activity can make you <i>feel </i>productive. It can even make you <i>look </i>productive. (Maybe that would even be okay if you had a corporate job and a salary.) But the truth is, there’s a huge difference between doing things that <i>look</i> like work and doing the things that <i>actually generate business</i>. So today I want to talk about agents who stay busy all day long… and the agents who actually get deals done.</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/08a01d0a-1c2c-46d3-abb4-c7494854b013/kermit.webp?t=1773761420"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">STORYTIME WITH GLENNDA</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="busy-is-an-activity-productive-is-a">Busy Is an Activity; Productive Is a Result</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">There’s an ocean of difference between being <i>busy</i> in real estate and actually being <i>productive</i>. A lot of agents get the two confused. Too many, because I see this every single day. People fill their calendars with activity and convince themselves they’re working hard, but when you look at the scoreboard at the end of the month, there’s a big ol’ goose egg.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Maybe you’re asking, “<i>What’s the actual difference, Glennda?” </i> <b>Well, being </b><i><b>busy</b></i><b> is doing things that look like work. Being </b><i><b>productive </b></i><b>is doing things that actually lead to a closing. </b>So, let’s get into it.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>You’ve Got to Go Deeper</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I see so many agents who focus on the surface work. They’re creating content, talking about luxury properties, branding themselves as luxury agents, filming videos, counting likes and views, and calling that their job. But when you peek behind the curtain, they haven’t actually previewed any luxury homes, save for the one they filmed on caravan for TikTok. They don’t know who built these places and they couldn’t tell you the difference between laminate, LVP, or hardwood flooring. <b>They’re curating an image that makes them look like they’re working instead of doing the work that actually builds expertise and generates business.</b> OMS, does this make me crazy! People will crow about how many views their video got, yet they can’t tell you how many houses came on the market in their area this week, or how many went under contract.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Of course, social media has made this problem ten times worse because we all feel pressure to go along with it.</b> Listen, I get it. We don’t want to feel like we’re being left behind. The problem is that often in content creation, people perform being successful instead of actually <i>becoming </i>successful. It’s so easy to create the illusion of a thriving business online. You see agents calling themselves number one in their market and selling courses about how to build a real estate brand. But when you fact-check how many houses they’ve actually sold, the answer is sometimes one or two. That’s not productivity; that’s writing fiction. (FYI, I prefer sexy cowboys in <i>my </i>fiction.) A lot of newer agents fall into that trap because it feels safer than doing the real work.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Productivity Makes Lousy Content</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The real work in this business is uncomfortable sometimes, and it sure as hell isn’t glamorous. <b>Productivity means asking people if they want to buy or sell a house. It means learning the inventory inside and out. It means understanding why buyers are buying and why they’re not buying. It means analyzing how many homes it takes to show a buyer before they go under contract. It’s studying your market every single day.</b> I promise y’all that productive agents aren’t obsessing over their Instagram engagement metrics. No, ma’am. They’re paying attention to the data that moves their business.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">One of the simplest examples of productivity is something people overlook completely: answering the phone. I was sitting at my desk working on my presentation for In Charge and my phone rang. I could have ignored it because I was busy, but I picked it up. The person on the other end was an investor who found me on social media and wanted to talk about a property he’d just renovated. That phone call turned into a million-dollar listing appointment. If I hadn’t answered, he’d likely have called the next agent on his list. That’s the difference between being busy and being productive. <b>Productive agents do the small, simple things that create real opportunities.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Another huge part of productivity is raising your real estate intelligence. </b>Every single day I look at the houses coming on the market. All of them. <i>“But what if there’s 200 houses, Glennda?”</i> you might ask. Then I look at 200 houses; it’s just that simple.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I do this every single day because I want to know what’s new, what’s interesting, what’s overpriced, and what’s an opportunity. When I look at what’s new, I’m constantly asking myself, “Who could I sell this house to?” <b>When you comb through what’s new consistently, something powerful happens: you can speak intelligently about real estate anywhere you go. </b>If I sit down at dinner, at a soccer game, or at a PTA meeting and someone asks what I do, I can immediately start talking about a property that just came on the market around the corner and why it’s interesting.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That kind of knowledge builds credibility instantly. People can tell that you know what you’re doing, and credibility is what turns conversations into clients.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>How It Works in Real Life</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A man called me one morning and wanted to see a listing. I couldn’t get there right that minute, but I told him I could meet him later that day. So, we’re chatting a little on the phone and I ask where he lives now. He tells me his neighborhood and that his house just went on the market this week. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now here’s where the difference between busy and productive shows up. <b>Because I look at the homes that come on the market every damn day, I already knew exactly which house he was talking about.</b> I said, “Oh, is it the white brick one around $1.7 million?” There was a pause on the other end of the line, and then he said, “How do you know my house?”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">He assumed I must have looked it up after he told me his name. But the truth was, I hadn’t. I already knew it because I study the inventory.<b> I knew his house had come on the market earlier that week. I remembered thinking it was a beautiful property and unusually large for that area. </b>When I told him that, he was stunned. He said, “My house didn’t come on the market today.” And I said, “No, but it came on the market this week. I remember it.”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>That moment right there is where credibility is born.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What’s ironic is that I hadn’t sold a house in that exact pocket recently. I didn’t have a billboard in his neighborhood. <b>But because I could immediately speak intelligently about his property and his market, he knew he was dealing with someone who truly understands real estate.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That’s the power of doing the real work. It’s not glamorous. Nobody’s filming a reel about it. <b>But when you consistently study the inventory, when you understand what’s happening in your market, you can walk into any conversation and demonstrate expertise without even trying. </b>One of the biggest advantages a productive agent has is something that costs absolutely nothing: knowledge. When you truly know your market, you walk into every conversation with authority. That authority turns casual conversations into business opportunities, even if you’re just sitting at the bar at Canoe, having dinner.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Because nothing accelerates trust faster than proof.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When people see that you already know the houses, the prices, the trends, and the opportunities, they don’t wonder whether you’re the right agent. They’re confident that you are.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The Three Things That Actually Grow a Real Estate Business</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you’re committed to stop being busy and start being productive, here’s where to start today:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Ask for business. </b>Talk to everyone you know and ask if they’re buying, selling, or know someone who is.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Preview homes. </b>Five houses a day, five days a week.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Study the market.</b> Know inventory better than anyone else in the room.</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That’s it. You don’t need another ring light or another “day in the life of a luxury agent” video. You just need real estate. Case in point, one of my friends did $153M in sales last year and I suspect she couldn’t even tell you what an Instagram <i>is.</i> Now, that’s not to say that I don’t sometimes sit up at night in a cold sweat, calculating the commission on $153M and wondering what the hell I’m doing. But then I recall that I really like what I’m doing and that we have different business models.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">My point is, busy agents are chasing activity, whether it’s posting, networking, attending events, or creating content, and they’re calling it work. They are doing themselves a disservice if their goal isn’t to become a social media star. <b>Productive agents are building knowledge, relationships, and opportunities that lead directly to transactions. They know their market better than anyone else in the room, they talk to people about real estate constantly, and they ask for the business.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When you focus on those things, you don’t have to pretend to be successful. The results speak for themselves.</p><blockquote class="tiktok-embed" cite="https://www.tiktok.com/@glenndabaker/video/7260842877545188650?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7593758748951250487" data-video-id="7260842877545188650"><section><a target="_blank" title="@glenndabaker" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@glenndabaker?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-myth-of-being-busy" rel="noreferrer"> @glenndabaker </a><p>If you’re trying to figure out how to be productive, try the 20/10 rule… #Glen#GlenndaBakerl#RealEstatea#AtlantaRealEstatee#TimeBlockingg#... See more</p></section></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glennda-bought-grandmas-house">GLENNDA’S GURU</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome-quiana-shont-watson">Welcome, Quiana Shonté Watson!</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Today I’m just thrilled to welcome my friend, <a class="link" href="https://www.instagram.com/quianawatson_/?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-myth-of-being-busy" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Quiana Shonté Watson</a>! Quiana is a true powerhouse of a broker, a team leader, and an industry advocate. She’s known for combining sharp business strategy with a deep commitment to mentorship and community impact. She’s the founder of Watson Realty Co., and she’s helped hundreds of families navigate the path to homeownership.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Quiana’s the kind of leader who’s shaping the future of the whole industry. She’s served in leadership roles with the Atlanta Realtors Association and the National Association of Realtors, advocating for professional standards, housing access, and opportunities for the next generation of agents. Quiana’s story is about vision, persistence, and using your success to open doors for others, so please enjoy!</p><iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="true" class="youtube_embed" frameborder="0" height="100%" src="https://youtube.com/embed/AAhm3QJTkzI" width="100%"></iframe><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Thank you, Quiana!</p><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glennda-bought-grandmas-house">GLENNDA BOUGHT GRANDMA’S HOUSE</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">The Finish Line Is in Sight!</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Quick update on Grandma’s house: we’re in the final stretch, y’all! <b>Let me just say this: renovations always find one more way to keep you humble.</b> The latest surprise was that new fence to the tune of about $5,600, which was not exactly the line item we were hoping to add this late in the process. But otherwise we’re getting very close. The stairs are going in, the bathroom is nearly finished, and the rest of the punch list is getting shorter by the day.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The thing is, when I’m done? I’m not actually done. Because I look at every single listing that comes on the market every day, I have a very clear sense of what’s happening around us and what buyers are responding to right now. <b>That’s one of the biggest advantages when you’re doing a project like this—you’re not guessing about the market. You’re watching it in real time.</b> So while Grandma’s house has had its share of surprises along the way, the timing of this project and the momentum in the surrounding area make me very optimistic about where we’re headed once it hits the market.</p><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDAISM</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Today’s Words of Wisdom </h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDA BAKER & ASSOCIATES</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="this-ones-a-keeper">The Smartest Buy</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let me tell you why this house at <a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/1649-beecher-street-sw-atlanta-ga-30310-7c441cd5526f7a0a7bbbb50ab4132af1?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-myth-of-being-busy" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1649 Beecher Street NW in Atlanta, GA</a>, is such a smart buy right now. When people talk about real estate being about location, <i>this is exactly what they mean</i>. Westview and the greater West End corridor are in the middle of one of the most exciting growth stories in Atlanta! I’m talking historic homes, a real neighborhood feel, and at the same time you’ve got serious investment pouring into the area. Between the BeltLine’s Westside Trail, Lee + White Food Hall, the new pickleball club, the Enota Park expansion, and the massive One West End development, the energy over there is undeniable. <b>When you buy into a neighborhood that’s gaining momentum like this, you’re not just buying a house; you’re buying into where the city is headed.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What I love about this particular home is that it gives you both character and peace of mind. A lot of charming older bungalows come with a long list of “someday we’ll need to fix that.” Not here. T<b>he big-ticket items are already handled, meaning a tankless water heater, newer HVAC systems, roof, encapsulated crawl space, so you can actually enjoy the house instead of constantly budgeting for the next repair. </b>In a neighborhood that’s rising this fast, finding a move-in-ready property with this much space and this much charm is exactly the kind of opportunity buyers should be paying attention to!</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/a4264acf-6f61-4666-8925-0d277bcf271c/beech1.jpg?t=1773765741"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p><a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/1649-beecher-street-sw-atlanta-ga-30310-7c441cd5526f7a0a7bbbb50ab4132af1?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-myth-of-being-busy" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1649 Beecher Street NW, Atlanta, GA</a></p></span></div></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/ad737fe1-4272-4856-93b6-b8774c3dd446/Beech2.jpg?t=1773765757"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/8f165f69-2a9a-4d94-a4b6-407148cf7230/Beech3.jpg?t=1773765769"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/422f48f9-4a26-4c65-b345-999e52ea7160/Beech4.jpg?t=1773765784"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/c7847a9d-4e44-455d-9cfa-368e1b5d17a8/beech6.jpg?t=1773765803"/></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=6c55940b-05aa-4596-b78e-448e1ca85e13&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=her_real_estate">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/669d3fa6-9ba3-4145-9b14-1db8a736d72b/viabbz18.png?t=1761938459"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome">WELCOME</h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Happy Wednesday! </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let me tell y’all something most agents don’t want to hear: your next deal probably isn’t coming from a lead you haven’t met yet. No, ma’am. That lead is <i>sitting inside your phone right now</i>. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Most agents are so busy chasing strangers that they completely ignore the people who already know them, trust them, and have done business with them. That’s a huge mistake. That’s why we’re taking today about how to turn your existing database into a true referral machine. Trust me, you want the kind of network that keeps your business growing even when the market gets tough, so let’s get right into it!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now, if you want to go deeper into how I actually build these systems inside my own business, I still have a few seats left for my <b>In Charge</b> event. We spend two days digging into exactly how to take control of your business, your pipeline, and your growth. If you’ve been thinking about coming, this is your sign to grab one of those last spots!</p><div class="button" style="text-align:center;"><a target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow noreferrer" class="button__link" style="" href="https://app.gohighlevel.com/v2/preview/vchQpXSWyDy5iE4Yqs9d?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=step-into-your-power-suite"><span class="button__text" style=""> Join Us! </span></a></div><iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="true" class="youtube_embed" frameborder="0" height="100%" src="https://youtube.com/embed/WYTplJsR5sg" width="100%"></iframe><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">STORYTIME WITH GLENNDA</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="be-their-ruby-slippers">Be Their Ruby Slippers</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Every agent’s heard the phrase “work your database.” In fact, this is one of the oldest pieces of advice in real estate for a damn good reason. However, over the years I’ve seen that agents often misunderstand what that <i>actually </i>means. They think it means sending a monthly email, posting market updates on social media, or maybe calling once a year to ask if anyone they know is thinking about buying or selling.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That’s not working your database; that’s barely touching it.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Your Past Wins Predict Your Future Success</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In my business, about sixty-three percent of my transactions come from past clients or people connected to past clients. SIXTY-THREE. <b>That means the majority of the homes I sell can be traced back to relationships I’ve already built. </b>The reason for that is simple as can be because I don’t treat a closing as the end of a relationship. Instead, I treat it as the beginning of the next phase.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A serious error agents make is that they sell someone a house and then move on. <b>They’re so focused on finding the next deal that they forget about the people who already trusted them once.</b> Banks do the same thing. They give the toaster to the new customer while ignoring the people who <i>have been loyal for years</i>. (FYI, this makes my head spin around and snot fly out my nose. Where is MY toaster?)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The true opportunity in real estate is with the clients who already know you, already trust you, and already had a good experience working with you.</b> If you think about it, it’s a little like that moment in <span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"><i>The Wizard of Oz</i></span> when Glinda tells Dorothy, “You’ve always had the power to go back to Kansas.” Dorothy spent the whole journey looking for something she <i>already possessed</i>. I see agents do the same thing every day. They’re chasing brand-new leads while the most powerful part of their business has been sitting right there in their database all along.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The Three-Piece Rule</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When I close a transaction, my goal is three pieces of business that grow out of it. <b>First, I want that client to refer someone to me. Second, I want another piece of business to come from that relationship, whether it’s when they move again or when someone in their circle needs help. Third, I want a review that helps future clients trust me before we’ve even met.</b> If you think about each closing as the seed for multiple opportunities, your business starts to grow in a much more predictable and powerful way.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now, maintaining those relationships doesn’t mean constantly asking for referrals. <b>In fact, the harder you ask for referrals, the more uncomfortable the interaction becomes. </b>No one wants that, starting with me. You should never, ever have to <i>ask </i>for a referral. The real key to getting those referrals is simply staying connected in a genuine way. The good news is that it’s easier than it’s ever been. Just like Dorothy discovering the answer wasn’t somewhere over the rainbow, it was right where she started.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Engage in a Little Light Stalking</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">As complicated as being an agent in 2026 has become, here’s where we have it so easy: <b>most of your clients are already telling you what’s happening in their lives. It’s right there on Facebook and Instagram. </b>They’re posting about vacations, kids graduating, engagements, babies, job changes, and all the other milestones that tend to trigger housing decisions. I call these the “D’s” of real estate: diamonds, diapers, divorce, debt, and downsizing. When you pay attention to those moments, you don’t need to manufacture a reason to reach out. You already have one!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">No one’s better at this than Elizabeth on my Diamond Squad. She’s the queen of reaching out. I’m still marveling at how one check-in phone call to an old client led to multiple new sales, all because she was paying attention to a client she’d loved.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Start the Conversation</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Instead of calling someone with a script that says, “Hello, [awkward pause while you insert name], do you know anyone who might be thinking about buying or selling in the next thirty days?” Ugh. I just can’t. That gives me secondhand shame.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Instead, you reach out as the person </b><i><b>who actually noticed something in their life</b></i><b>.</b> Maybe you saw that they’re planning a trip to Rome, so you tell them about that fabulous place you had <i>cacio e pepe</i> in Trastevere. (This is the Italians’ elevated twist on macaroni and cheese and it is <i>to die for</i>.) Or maybe their child just graduated kindergarten and you send a small celebration gift. <b>Those touches aren’t about selling real estate in that moment; they’re about showing that you’re paying attention to what matters to them.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">On my team, we do something I call a “houseversary.” Every time we close on a home, we add the closing date to our calendar as a repeating annual event. On that date each year, we reach out to celebrate the anniversary of the day they got their house and we send cupcakes. This is so simple, but people remember it because almost no one else does it.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Keep It Organized</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Of course, staying connected also requires a little organization.<b> Over the years I’ve learned that my database must be a record of relationships. We tag our clients with details about how they worked with us, where they live, what stage of life they’re in, and what connections they might have. </b>That way, if we’re hosting an event for families with kids or something relevant to a specific neighborhood, we know exactly who might appreciate an invite.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When you do this consistently, referrals happen naturally. When someone sends me a client, my only goal is to take exceptional care of that person. I’m not thinking about what they expect in return. I’m thinking about protecting the trust they placed in me by making that referral in the first place. <b>Take the best care of them and the person who referred you becomes even more confident recommending you again in the future.</b> What I love more than anything is when one of my old clients calls me for something random, like they need to get their pool deck redone. No, I do not have a pool deck side hustle. But nothing makes me happier than when people think of anything real estate adjacent, I’m the first person who pops into their head!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Of course, real estate relationships don’t always work out the way you expect. Sometimes someone you helped tremendously chooses another agent when it’s time to sell. (There’s a couple of people I’m still smarting over, but I won’t name names.) Sometimes a referral you thought you had never materializes. That’s just part of the business. <b>But the people who truly value the relationship will come back to you again and again, and they’ll bring others with them.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Bottom Line</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The lesson in all of this is just so simple: your database is not just a marketing list. It’s a community of people whose lives you were part of during one of the most significant decisions they’ve ever made.</b> And if you take care of that community, you’ll realize something that Dorothy eventually figured out too: the real power to grow your business was never somewhere else. It was with the people who were already in your world all along.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you stay connected to those people in a real and meaningful way, your business will grow almost effortlessly. <b>When clients feel like they have a genuine relationship with their agent, they don’t just remember you when it’s time to move. They think of you anytime someone they care about needs help.</b> </p><blockquote align="center" class="instagram-media"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/DVQ4wMXEY6G/?igsh=MXIweTZpYno1N3Z6Yg%3D%3D&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=build-an-iron-clad-referral-network"><p dir="ltr" lang="en"> Instagram post </p></a></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glennda-bought-grandmas-house">GLENNDA BOUGHT GRANDMA’S HOUSE</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Seeing the Forest for the Trees</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Remember last week when I was crying about having to remove thirteen trees? Well, that number is now up to sixteen. But… oh, my stars and stripes, does this open up the front of the house! Writing that check hurt a little (okay, a LOT), but it’s one of things that I will be ever grateful for because no one wants that 2:00 am call when a big ol’ Georgia pine takes out the tenants’ entire garage roof.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I’ve also had work done on the pool deck, plus I’ve put in a new fence. We’ve gotten so much done here it’s like a whole new house. It will be completed shortly and I cannot wait to show y’all the finished project! We’re seeing the light at the end of the tunnel here and that is always exciting!</p><blockquote align="center" class="instagram-media"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/DVqleFVjp5n/?igsh=MWY4eTF5aG52M3oybQ%3D%3D&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=build-an-iron-clad-referral-network"><p dir="ltr" lang="en"> Instagram post </p></a></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDAISM</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Today’s Words of Wisdom </h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDA BAKER & ASSOCIATES</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="this-ones-a-keeper">We Have Resort at Home</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Some people are looking for a place to call home. Now, if you’re looking for more than just a home, check out <a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/2480-flint-creek-drive-cumming-ga-us-30041-10704405?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=build-an-iron-clad-referral-network" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">2480 Flint Creek Drive in Cumming, GA</a>. This place doesn’t just feel like a house&#39;; it feels like a resort you get to call home. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">From the moment you walk in and spot that staircase and millwork, you know you’ve arrived at a five-star destination. The layout’s incredible for real life, whether you’ve got extended family staying with you or you’re hosting a house full of friends. The finishes are exactly what you’d expect in a home of this caliber. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">However, the magic really happens outside. Between the pool, the outdoor kitchen, and those covered porches, this is the kind of place where summer weekends turn into staycations and evenings stretch a little longer because nobody wants to go inside. When you add in everything Creekstone Estates offers—from the tennis courts to the lake and walking trails—you start to realize this isn’t just luxury living. This is resort living, every single day!</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/dd390afd-2615-4942-8b0b-e1f44c3090c4/flint_1.jpg?t=1773161680"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p><a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/2480-flint-creek-drive-cumming-ga-us-30041-10704405?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=build-an-iron-clad-referral-network" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">2480 Flint Creek Drive, Cumming, GA</a></p></span></div></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/80530a33-9a95-4cc1-8456-dda45bc28968/flint2.jpg?t=1773161692"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/dfef1fed-d8c6-4436-bc79-d665d38c059b/flint3.jpg?t=1773161705"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/0041dc25-8c8e-41c4-b2d5-5b9c58719372/flint4.jpg?t=1773161718"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/1614b2dc-42d2-4a75-8bc5-940810d7ad15/flint5.jpg?t=1773161729"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/b9001101-f74c-4fa3-a3bc-d09148943df4/flint6.jpg?t=1773161746"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/561f54c4-7b80-4cba-afc7-d5986c079941/flint7.jpg?t=1773161762"/></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=cb7f0183-777b-495d-9a89-b532de3402ff&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=her_real_estate">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/669d3fa6-9ba3-4145-9b14-1db8a736d72b/viabbz18.png?t=1761938459"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome">WELCOME</h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Hello and welcome! Buckle up, because I’m about to put on my coaching hat. Not the cute one for pictures, even though there’s a representation of that below. I’m talking about my real coaching cap where I look everyone in the eyes and say, “If you want different results, you’re going to have to do something different.” Because we’re talking about goal setting today, meaning real, measurable, deadline-attached goals that move your business forward whether the market’s hot, cold, or acting like it needs a hug and a nap.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now before I head down to Destin to recharge these batteries and get my mind right for our In Charge event in Nashville, I’ve been doing some thinking. Rest is important. Reflection is important. But clarity? Clarity’s <i>everything</i>. The fastest way to get clarity in your business is to decide exactly what you’re aiming at. You can’t hit the target if you don’t first pick it.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So, we’re covering what it actually takes to set goals that <i>work</i>. I’m talking about the kind that build momentum, up confidence, and create a career you don’t need a vacation from… even though I fully intend to enjoy this one before we crank it up in Nashville!</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/78deb944-f82b-4eb9-a6df-0bd1ed89293a/Coach_G.png?t=1772567575"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>My real team uniform would have stars on it, but y’all get the idea.</p></span></div></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">STORYTIME WITH GLENNDA</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="taking-a-test-drive-real-estatestyl">#Goals</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I think we could all use a pep talk right about now, so here goes. <b>When the news starts making me feel like I’m a tiny boat adrift in an angry ocean, there’s one thing I can always do to get my sea legs back: I set goals for myself.</b> </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now, I’m not talking about those vague aspirations you jot in your calendar app on January 1st and forget by Valentine’s Day. When I say “goals,” I’m talking about the ones you want to achieve so bad that they keep you up at night.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Of course, it’s only natural when you have a goal like that, it should scare you a little. </b>Because the thing is, if you don’t go after those goals, nobody else is coming to hand them to you, especially in the beginning. If you’re a baby agent right now, I’ll level with you: starting out is <i>hard</i>. Starting out in this market? Oh, my stars and stripes, it’s so much harder. Inventory’s tight, the rules keep changing, buyers have no sense of urgency, and sellers still think they should receive pandemic prices. I know firsthand how easy it would be to sit back and say, “You know what? Maybe I’ll wait and make my move when things settle down.”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Here’s what no one tells new agents the pre-licensing courses: </b><i><b>things never settle down</b></i><b>. </b>We will perpetually be on the cusp of an election or a recession rumor. The market will always be mercurial. There will never not be new tech that experts declare, “This will change real estate as we know it!” <b>If you’re waiting for perfect conditions, I promise you’ll be waiting forever.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That’s why I always say that the best time to start goal-setting was yesterday. The second-best time is today.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let me be clear when I talk about goals. I don’t mean pie-in-the-sky, manifesting your way to winning the Nobel Prize for Real Estate, especially as that does not exist. (I’d sure like to be considered when it does, though.) While I admit no one loves a vision board and a glitter pen more than I do,<b> just wishing is not working. What changed my life was </b><i><b>deciding</b></i><b>.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When my marriage was ending, I could have curled up in a ball and waited for the storm to pass. Instead, I said, “Fine. If everything’s burning down, I’ve got to figure out how to build something from the ashes.” <b>I gave myself three months to get my broker’s license after the divorce was final. Three months. Not “someday.” Not “when I feel like a damn human again.” </b>Three months. You know what that was? A solid, tangible goal that I could work toward every day.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I’d be fibbing if I said this was the most peaceful, distraction-free time of my life. Y’all… I was so scared and emotional and exhausted. But I channeled all those big feelings into my goal because it gave my pain an escape route. When I felt like spiraling, I studied. When I found myself obsessing, I made myself focus. There was an awful lot of positive self-talk back in those days, as I’d have to reassure myself that every chapter I completed was a brick in the foundation of my next chapter. <b>That deadline forced me to move forward when all I wanted to do was wallow in a bathtub full of white wine. </b>When I passed that test, it was so much more than just a license. It was proof that I could rebuild.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let me be clear that I didn’t wake up that very next morning as “Glennda Baker, Real Estate Mogul.” But what I had were the tools that I would use to build. I opened my brokerage in a home office, and my first listing was a neighbor. <b>I started off with very small wins, yet I treated those small wins like they were the necessary step to the bigger wins </b><b><i>because they were</i></b><b>.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">There’s no magic bullet, save for that big dreams are built on boring discipline. Like Taylor Swift says, <b>“We live in a world where everyone wants to know about the end result, but no one wants to hear about the ten years of hard work it took to get there.”</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Everybody wants to be the top producer. Nobody wants to make the extra call at 7:30 p.m.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Everybody wants the commission check. Nobody wants to knock the last door when it’s humid and their hair has given up.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Goals aren’t magic. They’re math.</b> If you want to sell one house per month, it’s key that you understand your numbers. How many appointments does it take you to secure a listing? How many listings convert to sales? If it takes ten appointments to get one listing and ten listings to close one deal, then five appointments a month ain’t gonna cut it. A light calendar = a light pipeline.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The math doesn’t lie. The math doesn’t give a single flying fig about your mood or your mental state of mind. <b>If you’re not hitting your goal, it’s because the inputs aren’t high enough yet. Increase the activity, improve the skill, or both.</b> </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The magic is that the math improves as you do. </b>When you first start, maybe it’ll take ten appointments to land that listing. But after you’ve stumbled through enough presentations, <i>you get better</i>. You’ll have the lived experience of refining your scripts. You’ll have learned to anticipate objections before they come out of someone’s mouth. And guess what? Suddenly it takes eight appointments to land that listing. Then six. Then five. My friend, you are compounding confidence!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now let’s talk about that thief of joy: comparison. That one will eat y’all alive if you let it. If you’re new and you’re looking at seasoned agents thinking, “I’ll never be that,” stop it. Every one of them had a first day and an awkward listing presentation. I guarantee they’ve had those first deals that nearly fell apart in escrow. <b>You are not behind; you are </b><i><b>beginning</b></i><b>. </b>If you’re dead set on comparison, compare yourself to who you were last quarter, not who someone else is this decade. Set goals that make you stretch but not snap. <b>If you declare, “I’m going to sell ten houses this month” when you’ve never sold a single one, you’ve bypassed ambition and arrived at self-sabotage. </b>Start with one. Hit it. Then raise the bar because momentum’s addictive.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Once you start making your numbers, don’t get comfortable. When I met my sales goals and became one of the top female brokers in Atlanta, I could have said, “Welp, that’s enough for me.” Instead, in 2020, I said, “What if I put some videos online?” That was another goal involving metrics and discipline. I started off with one video, then another. I put them out with consistency, and I held myself accountable and… y’all saw how that turned out. <b>Goals are not a season so much as they are a lifestyle.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So, here’s what I want you to do:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Decide what </b><b><i>you</i></b><b> actually want, not what sounds good on your LinkedIn profile. </b>What would you love more of? Income? Freedom? Stability? Brand recognition?</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Make your goal specific. </b>“More money” is not a goal because it’s too vague. It could mean $10 or $10,000. “An additional $150,000 in gross commission this year” is a goal.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Reverse-engineer that goal. </b>If your average commission is X, how many closings do you need? How many listings? How many appointments? How many conversations per day? Put the numbers on paper.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Schedule the actions, not just the outcome.</b> You cannot schedule a closing, but you can schedule ten calls. You can schedule two pop-bys. You can schedule one coffee meeting.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Check yourself daily. </b>Most people skip this part and that’s a mistake. You must be accountable to yourself. Did you hit your activity metric today? If not, why? Was it truly impossible, or did you doomscroll instead of dial? Be honest. Nobody grows from self-delusion.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Share your goal.</b> Tell your mama. Tell your best friend. Tell your broker. Accountability makes procrastination a lot less comfortable.</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The life you want won’t fall into your lap. But it’s absolutely within reach if you’re willing to be consistent when nobody’s clapping. <b>I still wake up some mornings and think, “Is this really my life?” The only reason I have the luxury of asking myself that question is because years ago, I stopped waiting and started setting goals with deadlines attached.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You do not need perfect timing. You need a decision. You do not need endless motivation. You need measurable action. Dream big, always, but also roll up your sleeves and do the math. Wishing might show you the pathway, but only disciplined goals will carry you down it. Now go out there and goal-get!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If this all sounds great, but you need a little jump-start, I’ve got your covered. Come join me at In Charge in Nashville, because I have a couple of seats left!</p><div class="button" style="text-align:center;"><a target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow noreferrer" class="button__link" style="" href="https://app.gohighlevel.com/v2/preview/vchQpXSWyDy5iE4Yqs9d?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=step-into-your-power-suite"><span class="button__text" style=""> Join Us! </span></a></div><iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="true" class="youtube_embed" frameborder="0" height="100%" src="https://youtube.com/embed/WYTplJsR5sg" width="100%"></iframe><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glennda-bought-grandmas-house">GLENNDA’S GURU</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome-danielle-garofalo">Welcome, Danielle Garofalo!</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I am so excited to introduce my guru <a class="link" href="https://www.instagram.com/daniellegarofalo/?hl=en&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=coach-glennda-is-here" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Danielle Garafolo</a> today! Danielle’s the founder of TBD and the host of <i>Solve Before You Sell</i>, which is streaming on The Academy via Fireside. If you haven’t tuned in yet, OMS, you’re missing out on a masterclass in strategy! She talks about leverage and solving the problems <i>before</i> they become price reductions. She’s the kind of operator who understands that preparation is profit.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I’m just thrilled to feature leaders who actually move the needle in this industry, and Danielle’s one of them. She’s proof that when you take control of the process, you take control of the outcome, so please enjoy our chat!</p><iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="true" class="youtube_embed" frameborder="0" height="100%" src="https://youtube.com/embed/N4zIUZk14EA" width="100%"></iframe><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Thanks, Danielle!</p><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glennda-bought-grandmas-house">GLENNDA BOUGHT GRANDMA’S HOUSE</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Heavy Sigh</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Okay… there’s a reason I always build in an extra 20% when I set my budget to rehab a rental property. And there are plenty of times I don’t need that cushion.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This is not one of those times.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I am so sad to report that I can’t stain the concrete floors in the basement of Grandma’s House like I planned. There’s just too much damage. So, we’re having to put down LVP instead. (Am I the only one who can’t help of thinking about Lisa Vanderpump with those initials? I bet she’d be all, “Don’t you dare walk all over me, darling.” But I digress.) </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In the scheme of things, the pivot is not a big deal, but it took my plan to pay about $2400 and, like magic, will now cost $8000. Plus trying to sand these floors kicked up an entire Dust Bowl of grit, so now we’ll have to deep-clean. Again.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I had the arborist out because I planned to take down three threes. Well… three trees has turned into <i>thirteen </i>and I swear I could hear a cash register chiming for every tree that arborist marked. And then one of the neighbors marched on over and told me, “You’re going to have to take down that tree out front because the roots are disrupting the waterflow on the public street. You’d better add that one to your list.” Y’all do not even want to imagine the going price for removing thirteen trees, but it rhymes with “plenty thousand.”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So now I’m <i>still </i>taking down thirteen trees and not fourteen. (I said what I said.)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Still even with setbacks, everything is progressing, Grandma’s House looks amazing, and we’ll have it ready soon for tenants who’ll love it!</p><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDAISM</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Today’s Words of Wisdom </h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDA BAKER & ASSOCIATES</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="this-ones-a-keeper">When Perfection Matters</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Oh my stars, not all homes in Lancaster are created equal, and this one proves it. Tucked on a private cul-de-sac in the coveted Estates section, just four miles from Lake Lanier, this immaculate original-owner home at <a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/7119-branch-creek-cove-flowery-branch-ga-us-30542-10698343?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=coach-glennda-is-here" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">7119 Branch Creek Cove in Flowery Branch, GA</a>, sits on arguably one of the best lots in the entire neighborhood. I’m talking woods, stream, space, and zero shortcuts. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The floor plan is the one everybody wants: true guest suite on the main, private office with French doors, and a kitchen that doesn’t just open… it <i>flows</i>. There’s a massive island, six-burner gas cooktop, custom everything, and wood floors throughout. Upstairs, the primary suite is a full-blown retreat, and the closet? Baby, it’s Khloé Kardashian level with built-ins for jewelry, shoes, belts, the works. Add in a pre-planned terrace level with epoxy floors, a second covered patio, smart home features, and meticulous care down to every manual and paint chip, and you’ve got something you simply cannot replicate at this price. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This isn’t just a house. 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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/669d3fa6-9ba3-4145-9b14-1db8a736d72b/viabbz18.png?t=1761938459"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome">WELCOME</h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Hello! I’m writing this on Monday and I’m not going to lie to y’all: I’m a little tired today. It’s been one of those full-throttle weeks where the coffee barely keeps up. I’ve been the kind of busy that reminds me why I love this business. But let say this: being a bit under the weather has never stopped me from selling houses. I figure if Taylor can run across a football field for three and a half hours a night in heels for 149 shows, then I can certainly look alive in my appointments. We don’t get to cancel the tour just because we didn’t get eight hours.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This week I want to talk about something big—your reputation. In this business, your name is your tour date. It’s your brand. And whether you like it or not, people are Googling you before they’re calling you. Long before they schedule, they scroll. We live in a world where everyone has a platform and the internet’s written in permanent marker. That’s why managing your online reputation isn’t optional. You don’t have to be in your Reputation Era to understand this: what you put out there echoes. The question is, are you writing your own narrative, or are you allowing someone else remix it?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let’s get into it.</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/4477c9cd-b179-4355-9f5f-179928c8f87b/reputation.jpeg?t=1771876225"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>AI would not allow me to superimpose myself into a one-legged sparkle-snake bodysuit, which feels like a missed opportunity. </p></span></div></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">STORYTIME WITH GLENNDA</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="taking-a-test-drive-real-estatestyl">Big Reputation</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;">This week I found myself going down a social media rabbit hole where a couple of agents hosted an open house that went awry. A woman came in, after having received an emailed invitation to tour the open house. There was some kind of confrontation with the agent’s husband. The woman says she was asked to leave and escorted out—by the very man who sent her the open house invite.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;">Now, those agents are getting </span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"><i>dragged</i></span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"> online because they look kind of terrible in the scenario, as it was laid out in the invitee’s posts. But like most things on the internet, we have one side of the story and 900,000 opinions. It’s quite possible that they handled it poorly, but we weren’t there so we don’t actually know. </span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"><b>Here’s what we do know: once the narrative’s online, we can’t and don’t control how fast it spreads.</b></span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"><b>We live in a review-based, experience-driven, screenshot-forever world. </b></span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;">There are no blank spaces anymore. Once something’s posted, it’s subject to public consumption. And in real estate, your name is your business. </span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"><b>Your reputation is your currency.</b></span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;">Before we rush to judgment, (although again, it does not look great for those agents) let’s play devil’s advocate for a minute. Open houses are not inherently safe environments. We’re often alone in empty properties with strangers and every one of us has felt the bad vibes at one time or another. Here in Atlanta, an agent was murdered while sitting an open house for some new construction. If an agent genuinely feels unsafe, the smartest move is not confrontation; it’s distance. Step outside and call your broker or your office. Get someone there with you because you must protect yourself first.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"><b>But even if you were right, even if you were protecting yourself, even if there is more to the story, the court of public opinion does not care a whit about nuance.</b></span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"> No, ma’am. Once the dragging starts, it moves fast. If your castle is crumbling overnight, do not bring a knife to a gunfight. </span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"><b>When you’re getting barbecued online, you have two options: you can give context, or you can take responsibility. </b></span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;">That’s it.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"><b>If it were me and I’d felt unsafe, I’d record one calm, factual video. I’d explain the sequence of events and why I made the decision I made. And then I’d never speak about it again.</b></span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"> You do not argue with user_12345 who doesn’t even have a profile photo. Don’t fight with the bots. Say your piece once and then get back to work.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;">Because tomorrow, fortunately, someone else will say something even more stupid and the mob will move on.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"><b>I tell potential clients all the time to “Google Glennda” before we work together. And I mean it. I want them to see the good, the bad, and the ugly.</b></span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"> If my personality, my opinions, my videos, or my occasional use of the f-bomb is not for them, then we’re not a fit. And that is perfectly fine because what’s seen online is a real representation of me. A lot of agents try to look flawless online. </span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"><b>But the internet does not reward safe; it rewards real. Authentic reputation beats curated perfection every time.</b></span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;">Now, let’s go back to the good ol’ days of MySpace for a minute. A woman left an absolutely unhinged voicemail for a man who dumped her. After what happened next, I suspect he may have deserved it, but that’s not the point. Instead of him perhaps learning from the experience, he posted that voicemail to his MySpace account and it went viral as hell. The woman tried to get it removed and was told that the moment she left that message, it became his property. He could do whatever he wanted with it.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;">Let that sink in.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"><b>The moment you post something online, it’s no longer private.</b></span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"> If you rant about a competitor, it’s public. If you talk politics, it’s there and open to the court of public opinion. If you brag, shade, complain, or posture, you’ve put it in the center of the town square. As parents, we warn our kids that nothing on the internet ever truly disappears (and also to never send nekkid pics), but we have to remember that the same rule applies to us. We are not exempt.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;">What about bad reviews? Well, we had buyers once leave us a couple of one-star reviews because our seller would not remove junk from a basement. Those reviews hurt. We responded professionally and gave context. Then we called our clients and simply said, “Hey, we need you.” Nineteen positive reviews came in and buried those one-stars. That is strategy. </span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"><b>While we can’t control when someone leaves a negative review, we can control how much positive social proof surrounds it.</b></span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"> This is a reputation economy. If we’re not out here, intentionally building goodwill, we won’t have that cushion of grace when something goes sideways.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;">And sometimes, you mess up. Even me. I once posted a video about an agent who cost me a whole lot of money. I believed every word I said. But putting it on social media reflected worse on me than it did on her, so I took it down. Then I picked up the phone and I apologized to that agent. Not because I didn’t believe what happened, but because publicly barbecuing someone damaged my own brand. </span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"><b>Taking responsibility is not weakness. It’s leadership.</b></span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;">There’s a lesson here that even pop culture has figured out. When Taylor Swift stepped into her Reputation Era, she didn’t pretend that nothing had happened. She leaned in. She owned the narrative. And when she re-recorded the Taylor’s Version of her albums, she did that to reclaim ownership. That’s the real takeaway for us. </span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"><b>We may not control what someone says about us, but we can control our version.</b></span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"><b>If something negative hits, say your piece once. Provide context or take responsibility. </b></span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;">Then flood the zone with value, posting real and helpful content. Post content that shows who you actually are. </span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"><b>You combat negativity by being consistently visible and consistently useful, not by hiding.</b></span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;">My rule of thumb is this: before I hit </span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"><i>publish</i></span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;">, I ask myself whether I’d stand by those words if they were read out loud in a courtroom. If the answer is yes, I post it. If the answer is no, </span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;"><i>delete</i></span><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;">.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Aptos, sans-serif;">This business is hard enough without handing someone else the microphone to define you. Own your name and protect your safety. Build your reviews as you control your version. And then get back to selling houses.</span></p><iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="true" class="youtube_embed" frameborder="0" height="100%" src="https://youtube.com/embed/FM2wMtWNN6E" width="100%"></iframe><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glennda-bought-grandmas-house">GLENNDA BOUGHT GRANDMA’S HOUSE</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Humming Along!</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Y’all, Grandma’s house is coming along so good I can hardly stand it!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I swear, what started as a little rental project has turned into a full-blown glow-up. I’m doing a collaboration with Floor & Decor, so we’ve got beautiful materials going in, and The Container Store is handling all the closets. Let me tell you something, there’s nothing that makes a house feel more put together than good closets. People don’t even realize how much they want them until they see them done right.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The LVP is already in, and it looks fantastic. It’s durable, pretty, and practical, all the things I need in a rental home. And downstairs? We’re grinding down the concrete in the basement so I can stain it and have that clean, modern concrete floor look. It’s going to feel intentional, not like an afterthought. I want this house to be cute, functional, and easy to live in. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This is what I live for in real estate. There’s nothing more satisfying than taking something with good bones and giving it a whole new life. Grandma’s house is getting refreshed, elevated, and set up to serve somebody really well. And I’m having the best time watching it all come together!</p><blockquote align="center" class="instagram-media"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/C7MAvSIODj5/?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=look-what-you-made-me-do"><p dir="ltr" lang="en"> Instagram post </p></a></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDAISM</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Today’s Words of Wisdom </h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDA BAKER & ASSOCIATES</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="this-ones-a-keeper">Lock and Leave</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let me tell y’all why I love this townhome at <a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/3408-waters-edge-trail-roswell-ga-us-30075-10690456?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=look-what-you-made-me-do" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">3408 Waters Edge Trail in Roswell, GA.</a> This place is the very definition of lock and leave living. You can pull into that garage, shut the door, and not worry about a single thing!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Fresh paint, new counters, updated backsplash; yep, it’s already done. No projects waiting on you. No honey-do list haunting your weekend. You’ve got a gated community, amenities that rival a resort, and a townhome that lives big but maintains easy. Three finished levels, private suites for everybody, and that terrace level that can flex into whatever your life needs right now. And the best part? When you’re ready to head to the beach, the mountains, or just dinner on Canton Street, you turn the key and go. That’s freedom. That’s convenience. That’s the kind of lifestyle people crave.</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/02ed7721-f605-490b-ba9d-2c41a441d785/town1.jpg?t=1771880274"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/a612b36b-a3b3-4a75-9c19-42b08a4101d4/town2.jpg?t=1771880288"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/bbf63fe6-dc8b-468a-8dca-672b3107cb7c/town_3.jpg?t=1771880300"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/9b35ec4c-53e0-483b-9805-5e4993173a41/town4.jpg?t=1771880317"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/564a6cb6-64b1-4483-9c6e-9fc3ad0a2d69/town5.jpg?t=1771880329"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/08c27fbd-9045-4f46-9c3c-431834640868/town6.jpg?t=1771880344"/></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=503e0d63-5395-43ca-8745-5e7e2ba444bb&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=her_real_estate">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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  <title>THE COST OF WAITING</title>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/669d3fa6-9ba3-4145-9b14-1db8a736d72b/viabbz18.png?t=1761938459"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome">WELCOME</h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Hello and welcome! I’m writing this on the Day of the Fire Horse. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If y’all are confused, the Fire Horse is one of the twelve animals in the Chinese zodiac cycle that marks their Lunar New Year. That means each year (and even each day) carries the energy of a specific animal and element. The Fire Horse is bold and decisive. It’s fast-moving. The Fire Horse does not sit around wondering if it should maybe leave the barn. No, ma’am. That horse takes off running without hesitation.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Why does that matter for real estate? Because it feels like the right metaphor for what I’m seeing in the market right now.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I cannot tell y’all how many buyers I’ve watched fall in love with a house, sleep on it, call their cousin, poll their group chat, wait for “a sign”… and then call me two days later when it’s gone. Or worse, when it sold for more than they would have paid. That’s why today we’re going to chat about the real cost of waiting, and why the most expensive decision your clients will ever make might be the one they didn’t.</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/e63cf7ac-0eb5-4219-ade8-8b8ec50abe0c/f396c3b4-85de-442c-969d-ab29b89bc6e1.png?t=1771349731"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>Me, right now.</p></span></div></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">STORYTIME WITH GLENNDA</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="taking-a-test-drive-real-estatestyl">He Who Hesitates…</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I have been seeing this way too much lately. Buyers are just sitting on the sidelines, convinced that if they wait just a <i>leetle </i>bit longer, the perfect house at the perfect price with the perfect interest rate is going to magically appear. (Heavy sigh.) Meanwhile, sellers are holding out for the same kind of offer, with all the perfect factors in <i>their </i>corner. <b>And every-damn-body is thinking that standing still isn’t the same as losing ground. </b>Spoiler alert: it is.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Swipe Right Society</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Y’all, here’s the thing about today’s buyers: they’ve become conditioned by the swipe mindset, whether it’s dating apps or streaming services. </b>They’re converts to Amazon Prime’s Church of the Overnight Delivery. Let me ask this—if everything is available all the time, why on earth would they feel any sense of urgency about anything?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Think about it this way: when folks in my generation were kids, if we wanted to watch our favorite show, we had to plan our whole Wednesday night around it. We had to be home and ready. There was no, “Eh, I’ll catch it later.” You caught it <i>now</i> or it did not get caught!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But today if Bob doesn’t do it for you on Tinder, Bill will pop up tomorrow, and what if you like Bill better? You may have missed him if you didn’t wait! Buyers are treating houses the exact same way. There’s no sense of urgency. <b>They think if 123 Banana Street isn’t perfect, they’re confident that 456 Banana Street will hit the market tomorrow. </b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">And that mindset is costing them.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The Math Ain’t Mathing</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I have a buyer who I’ve been working with for two years. Two. Years. <b>They’re so afraid of making the wrong decision that they’ve made no decision at all, convincing themselves that’s the smart play.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let me show y’all what “safe” looks like on paper: their budget is $500K. If they had bought two years ago, their interest rate would have been somewhere between 4.75-5%. Instead, they’ve been renting at roughly $2,000 a month. That’s $50K in rent they paid to someone else, and it’s money they’ll never see again.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Meanwhile, that $500K house has sure as heck climbed to $550K. Before we factor in any other math, that’s already an additional $50K out of pocket before they’ve signed a single sheet of paper. Now, if you add in a significantly higher interest rate, they’re looking at a six-figure consequence for a decision they thought wasn’t costing them anything.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>As Tony Robbins says, </b><b><i>“Don’t kid yourself. If you’re not improving, you’re sliding back.” </i></b>While my buyers stood still, the market kept on marching forward. They have lost years of equity-building, and years of making small improvements that add big value. And guess what? Other people are now living in the houses they passed on!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Bravado Is Not a Strategy</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Buyers aren&#39;t the only ones playing this game. Sellers do it too, and it&#39;s just as painful to watch. I had a seller who received an offer on Day Two. Day. Two. It was for $720,000, with $10,000 in closing costs, just slightly under his asking price. Mind you, this wasn’t a lowball. This was a real, serious offer with committed buyers. <b>My seller said to me, </b><i><b>“Well, Glennda, we just listed and we got this offer so fast, so surely something better is coming.” </b></i>While I can give advice, I can’t make anyone take it, so he didn’t accept the offer. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let me tell you something—that offer was in October. Five months later, he&#39;s fielding offers between $650,000 and $675,000. <b>He won the battle of his pride and lost $45,000 to $70,000 in the process.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I&#39;ve seen the same story play out on the buyer side. A couple wanted a house worse than they wanted to take their next breath. They made offer after offer, just wearing down that seller, and finally got the sellers to drop the price by $25,000. The caveat was, they attached a contingency that the seller ultimately refused to accept. By the time their condo went under contract, the home they wanted sold to a different buyer. So they won the battle but lost the war.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>“Not Enough” Is Keeping You Broke</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">There&#39;s something deeper going on here, and I think about it a lot. <b>We live in a </b><b><i>you&#39;re not enough</i></b><b> culture. You’re not pretty enough, not rich enough, not boo-ed up enough. And that bleeds straight into how people make (or don’t make) real estate decisions.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I had a buyer walk away from a $500,000 house because the closet wasn&#39;t big enough to hold everything she&#39;d ordered from Amazon. Let me say that again. She passed on what is likely the single largest asset she will ever own because of a closet that couldn&#39;t fit her $29.99 Dokotoo sweaters. Oh, my stars, y’all… <b>we’ve been so conditioned to look for the next best thing that we can&#39;t recognize a good thing when it&#39;s standing right in front of us with a lockbox on the door.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>When Should You Wait?</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now, I always want to show all sides of the argument, so there are smart times to wait. If your marriage is shaky, <i>don&#39;t buy a house.</i> If you&#39;re carrying serious debt, get that handled first. If you&#39;re about to pop the question, let her be part of the decision. <b>The only time waiting makes real sense is when a major life decision in another area has to come first. </b>But if your life is stable and your reason for waiting is &quot;something better might come along&quot;? That&#39;s not strategy. Oh, no. It’s fear.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Now What?</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It feels like homeownership used to be treated like a long game. The people who played it that way won. Back when we had to plan our TV watching, everything felt like more of a long-term commitment. What we’re seeing is those people who could commit are the ones who’ve been at their jobs for decades, and it’s paid off for them. I mean, the average UPS driver who stayed at their job for 25 years? They’re sitting on a paid-off beach house in the Florida panhandle right now. <b>Yet stability isn&#39;t a bygone era, because it’s still how wealth gets built.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The market isn&#39;t waiting for the buyers to <i>feel </i>ready. It’s up to us to help them find that mindset, otherwise someone else is going to buy that house. Someone else is going to build that equity. Someone else is going to make the decision they’re afraid to make.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The cost of waiting is real. The only question is whether they’re willing to keep paying it.</p><blockquote align="center" class="instagram-media"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/CTUgnznnwbg/?igsh=dHpnMG9yaG9zZWNp&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-cost-of-waiting"><p dir="ltr" lang="en"> Instagram post </p></a></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glennda-bought-grandmas-house">GLENNDA BOUGHT GRANDMA’S HOUSE</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">I’m Floored</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Quick little Grandma House update for y’all! I just went to Floor & Decor to look at LVP again. I had originally picked out a floor that would match the existing kitchen tile because I wasn’t planning to replace the kitchen floor. In my mind, that felt practical. Then I talked to my son-in-law who actually installs LVP. He said, <i>“Glennda, why don’t you just change the kitchen floor, too? It’s not that much more, and then you can pick whatever you really want.”</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Well, that stopped me in my dang tracks because he was right. I was making a design decision based on an old constraint. I realized I was trying to force the rest of the house to match something that I didn’t even love, just because it was already there. And that’s not how you create something cohesive. That’s how you end up compromising room by room.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Sometimes the smartest move isn’t sticking with the original plan. Sometimes it’s stepping back, reassessing the foundation, and giving yourself permission to do it right the first time.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">More next week!</p><blockquote align="center" class="instagram-media"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/DU0zS6lEfOU/?igsh=MnNoMnFpeGtydWJk&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-cost-of-waiting"><p dir="ltr" lang="en"> Instagram post </p></a></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDAISM</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Today’s Words of Wisdom </h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDA BAKER & ASSOCIATES</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="this-ones-a-keeper">Better Than New!</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This house at <a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/4815-briscoe-drive-cumming-ga-us-30028-10690366?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-cost-of-waiting" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">4815 Briscoe Drive in Cumming, GA</a>, is the kind of place that makes you question why you’d ever wait on a builder. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Set on the largest lot in the neighborhood and tucked into a quiet cul-de-sac, it already offers something the new construction can’t: space, privacy, and maturity. The landscaping is established. The upgrades are done. The money’s already been spent… and you’re not the one writing those checks. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Inside, you get hardwoods throughout, custom built-ins, designer lighting, a dramatic floor-to-ceiling tiled fireplace, and a truly finished kitchen with top-tier appliances with a walk-through butler’s pantry that you’ve got to see to believe. The twelve-foot panoramic doors open to a covered porch overlooking wooded privacy, <i>not </i>a construction zone. And while builders in the neighborhood are discounting base models, this home delivers completed enhancements, energy-efficient construction, and flexibility in the floorplan without the timeline delays, punch lists, or surprise costs. In a market where new construction prices are adjusting, this resale gives you the upgrades for free, the lot you can’t replicate, and the ability to move in now: no waiting, no compromise. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So, no hesitation!</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/19bdd8cb-4689-49b0-8038-a4d2858d4c1c/Brisco_1.jpg?t=1771352808"/><div class="image__source"><a class="image__source_link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/4815-briscoe-drive-cumming-ga-us-30028-10690366?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-cost-of-waiting" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><span class="image__source_text"><p>4815 Briscoe Drive, Cumming, GA</p></span></a></div></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/01d7414b-9741-4e22-801a-01ffa125dfb0/Brisco_2.jpg?t=1771352878"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/98c04564-bb8f-427e-ac9e-0d1baa32e3b9/Brisco_3.jpg?t=1771352889"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/d33b3071-f76f-4b42-91b1-2722d58faf8c/Brisco_4.jpg?t=1771352902"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/56a47fac-2ded-464d-b014-a320d6672a1b/Brisco_5.jpg?t=1771352913"/></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=bce66be4-298c-44c9-88e5-31c3af456233&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=her_real_estate">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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I’m talking about business, power, confidence, and putting yourself in spaces that actually move the needle.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This is exactly why this week, I want to talk about <a class="link" href="https://www.instagram.com/yourpowersuite?igsh=MWF0NWdvN3hmeWN5NQ%3D%3D&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=step-into-your-power-suite" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Power Suite</a> and an <a class="link" href="https://app.gohighlevel.com/v2/preview/vchQpXSWyDy5iE4Yqs9d?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=step-into-your-power-suite" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">event I’m throwing in Nashville</a> that’s been percolating in my head for a while now. This didn’t come from a random brainstorm or a cute name on a vision board. Oh, no. This came from watching way too many smart, capable women play small or wait for permission they don’t need. Power Suite is about creating the <i>right</i> room. The kind where conversations are real and you step out a little taller than when you walked in.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So today, I’m pulling back the curtain on how this idea came together and what I actually want people to <i>feel</i> when they’re in that space. Because sometimes the most powerful move you can make, whether it’s right before Valentine’s Day or any day, is choosing yourself.</p><blockquote align="center" class="instagram-media"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUHFNwQk6Y5/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link"><p dir="ltr" lang="en"> Instagram post </p></a></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">STORYTIME WITH GLENNDA</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="taking-a-test-drive-real-estatestyl">The 67 Percenters</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I’ve been in enough rooms to know when something’s off, and for years this feeling has been something I couldn’t shake. I would walk into industry events, conferences, panels, or places with big stages and bright lights. <b>Yet somehow in all of these spaces, it’s the men who seem to be holding the microphone… in an industry that is overwhelmingly made up of women.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Do y’all understand that women are 67% of the industry? But we sure as hell aren’t represented on 67% of those stages.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What galls me is that behind almost every one of those men is a woman making the business actually run. <b>So often, we’re the ones keeping the plates spinning. We’re holding it together and doing the work. And yet we’re not equally represented. </b>That frustration led my friend <a class="link" href="https://www.instagram.com/kellyanneharris?igsh=MWtuZW90bGV0NmpkYw%3D%3D&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=step-into-your-power-suite" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Kelly Anne Harris</a> and me to the idea of Power Suite.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This power disparity goes deeper than just the industry. I want you ladies to think about this: <b>how many of us were taught to give our power away without even realizing that’s what we were doing?</b> </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Let me be crystal clear that I am not pointing fingers or assessing blame. Instead, I’m illuminating what I did wrong in my marriage.</b> I told myself my ex was smarter than me with money. So, I defaulted to the idea that he was more qualified to make financial decisions, that he was better at seeing the big picture. Instead of stepping up and owning my power, I deferred to him because I thought that’s what a good wife did. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">For example, back when Netflix was a brand new public company, I wanted to invest $5,000 of <i>the money</i> <i>that I had earned my damn self</i> in what I thought would be a big thing. But he didn’t like the idea, so we didn’t invest <i>the money that I had earned my damn self</i> in that stock. If y’all would like to do the math, that $5,000 investment would have been worth <i>(deep breath, Glennda)</i>… $2,000,000 today. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">By deferring to him, even though he was <i>dead-ass</i> wrong, I thought I was being practical and responsible. Instead, this decision made me financially vulnerable.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>When I look back and realize how many decisions I didn’t make because I didn’t trust myself, it’s sobering.</b> I wanted to invest and take those risks. I had ideas and gut feelings. Yet I ignored them because I’d convinced myself I wasn’t the “money person.” That cost me more than I ever realized at the time. Not just financially, but in confidence, in agency, and in ownership of my own life.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Power Suite is my answer to that old version of myself. </b>We’re not here to teach women how to sell houses better, or how to improve as a mortgage professional. Most of us already know already know how to do the job, backwards and in heels. What we don’t always know is how to stand in our authority. <b>I want to help guide women on how to stop defaulting to someone else’s voice.</b> I want to be part of the conversation where we talk about learning to show up without shrinking or apologizing.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When Kelly Anne and I asked women what they actually wanted from this community, the answer wasn’t more tactics or better scripts. Over and over again, we heard one word: <i>confidence</i>. Women are looking for the confidence to speak and lead. They want the confidence to trust themselves and just go ahead and buy the stock already.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Our In Charge event is not about competition. We’re not drawing brokerage lines or deferring to titles. Oh my stars, we’re not even pretending we’ve all got it figured out. <b>Our In Charge event is basically a safe room. We’re creating a protected space where women can ask questions without being made to feel stupid. </b>It’s where we can share what’s working without being judged. Most importantly, this will be where we’ll gather the tools to build financial independence our damn selves.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That’s why we’re coming to Nashville for our first event. <b>We’re creating a place to plug in, power up, and make decisions from confidence instead of fear. The best part is that y’all don’t have to earn your seat at the table because </b><i><b>you already belong there</b></i><b>. </b>If you’ve ever felt like you were waiting your turn or watching other people leverage <i>your</i> ideas while you stayed quiet, this room was built with you in mind. If you’re ready to stop giving your power away and start owning it, I want you there with us. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Come to Nashville. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Come sit in the room and be a part of the conversation.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Come step into your power with us. </p><div class="button" style="text-align:center;"><a target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow noreferrer" class="button__link" style="" href="https://app.gohighlevel.com/v2/preview/vchQpXSWyDy5iE4Yqs9d?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=step-into-your-power-suite"><span class="button__text" style=""> Join us! </span></a></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/42314b7a-b3b3-4374-b749-1284cf3403dd/quote-i-did-everything-he-did-but-backwards-in-high-heels-ginger-rogers-55-41-20.jpg?t=1770750237"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glennda-bought-grandmas-house">GLENNDA’S GURU</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome-jonathan-spears">Welcome, Jonathan Spears!</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">We haven’t had a guru for the past couple of weeks, which is why I’m extra excited to share my chat with <a class="link" href="https://www.instagram.com/jonathanmspears/?hl=en&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=step-into-your-power-suite" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Jonathan Spears </a>today! Oh, my stars and stripes, this is one of those conversations that makes you sit up straighter. Now, Jonathan has never been interested in average, and it shows. He started college before he could legally drive (!), graduated with a business degree at nineteen (!!), cut his teeth in foreclosure resales, and then absolutely took over the luxury market along Florida’s Emerald Coast (!!!). </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">He’s built a $2 billion team, ranked among the top in the country, but what makes this conversation worth your time is how intentionally he thinks about growth, service, leadership, and legacy. This is basically a TED Talk on how discipline, market mastery, and a relentless work ethic actually translate into long-term success (without losing your family/soul/mind), so y’all are going to love this one!</p><iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="true" class="youtube_embed" frameborder="0" height="100%" src="https://youtube.com/embed/1JpZJQtLEdM" width="100%"></iframe><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Thanks, Jonathan!</p><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glennda-bought-grandmas-house">GLENNDA BOUGHT GRANDMA’S HOUSE</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">And Now She’s in a Fight </h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here’s the latest on the grandma house I bought! The good news is that the house update is moving right along. Progress is being made and every day I can see exactly how cute and comfortable it’s going to be when it’s done. This house will be a lovely home for someone and that makes me so happy.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That said, if y’all think buying a rental is all charm and passive income, allow me to lovingly disabuse you of that notion. All was going well… and then I got the call. My insurance was canceled. Um, <i>what</i>? “Well,” they explained, “It’s because the roof is curling and the pool isn’t operational.” And yes, I already knew this <i>because I disclosed it and I paid for the policy anyway. </i>That company happily cashed my check, sent an inspector out later, and then said, “Hold up, Glennda, never mind. You’ve got until February 26 to fix it all or you’re out.”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This is the part of real estate nobody puts on Instagram. When you buy an “easy” house, be prepared for hard surprises. So I called my roofer and I called my pool guy. I handled it. This is where having a deep bench matters. This is where relationships, reliability, and experience save you. I didn’t panic so much as I pivoted.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here’s the real lesson: bumps in the road like this are the cost of building wealth. (Ironically, a new roof and pool repair kind of put that $3,000 I didn’t want to spend on cabinet painting and wallpaper removal into perspective.) The process isn’t always pretty or convenient. But when you understand the game and you’re willing to roll with the occasional punch, it’s absolutely doable.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Grandma’s house is still a great deal and it’s still moving forward. This is still a solid investment. But having my insurance cancelled reminded me—loudly—that owning property means owning the problems, too.</p><blockquote align="center" class="instagram-media"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUd0E7_kUz5/?igsh=aGx0NXN2dTg5dmZk&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=step-into-your-power-suite"><p dir="ltr" lang="en"> Instagram post </p></a></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDAISM</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Today’s Words of Wisdom </h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDA BAKER & ASSOCIATES</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="this-ones-a-keeper">A Bridge to the Future</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Some houses are a stop along the way. This one at <a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/1015-wiley-bridge-road-woodstock-ga-us-30188-10686801?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=step-into-your-power-suite" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1015 Wiley Bridge Road in Woodstock, GA</a>, is bridge to more space, more freedom, and a smarter long-term play. Sitting right where Woodstock, Roswell, and Milton all meet, this fully renovated brick ranch bridges the gap between location and land. And let me tell y’all, opportunities like this do not come around often in North Atlanta. Built in 1972 but completely reimagined, this home gives you the solid bones of classic construction with the look and feel of 2026. Roof, electrical, plumbing, kitchen, baths, flooring, paint, driveway… it’s all been done for you! </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Inside, the layout bridges easy everyday living with effortless entertaining. One-level living on the main floor, a finished terrace level with a rec room and wine cellar below, and a covered back porch that runs the full length of the house. And outside? This is where the bridge really pays off. Set far back from the road, no HOA breathing down your neck about the hue of your Christmas lights, nearly four usable acres, excellent pool site potential, tons of parking, and room to expand, entertain, or just enjoy the luxury of space. This property bridges independence with convenience!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">For anyone waiting for a home that connects land, location, lifestyle, and long-term upside, consider this your crossing. This is the bridge you’ve been looking for.</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/e3474a27-a6b5-4b2d-b01a-d9d247b128a9/home1.jpg?t=1770751798"/><div class="image__source"><a class="image__source_link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/1015-wiley-bridge-road-woodstock-ga-us-30188-10686801?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=step-into-your-power-suite" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><span class="image__source_text"><p>1015 Wiley Bridge Road, Woodstock, GA</p></span></a></div></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/bdcbe89e-2b3c-44de-b5ca-ab7f46633a8d/home2.jpg?t=1770751816"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/5bb1832d-8ed1-432d-8670-0ab8bd0fd324/home3.jpg?t=1770751838"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/bbfd6070-9793-40c4-a4aa-462b1d254969/home5.jpg?t=1770751862"/></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=54dafb0c-1283-4eb8-8c80-4506047f3f37&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=her_real_estate">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/669d3fa6-9ba3-4145-9b14-1db8a736d72b/viabbz18.png?t=1761938459"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome">WELCOME</h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">Hello from New York City, where the temps are cold but my heart is warm. I am having the time of my life at Inman Connect! If y’all are not coming up to introduce yourselves and to hug me, I am going to be so upset. By the time this newsletter hits your inbox, I’ll have already held my session on short form video, so I hope everyone walked out of there with an action plan and some pep in their step!</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">Today I want to cover something that strikes fear deep in the heart of every agent… a client armed with unsolicited advice. Whether it’s a terrible TikTok or a dad with a moisture meter he has no clue how to work, I’m covering how to navigate this particular speedbump. So let’s get right to it!</span></p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/bf7e32c5-7e8f-4ae7-9bdb-1e6104e7de40/IMG_7890.jpeg?t=1770145054"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>This could be you and me right now!</p></span></div></div><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">STORYTIME WITH GLENNDA</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="taking-a-test-drive-real-estatestyl">“If It Were Me, I’d…”</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Let me share something I’ve learned after years in real estate: everybody has a Boomer dad with an opinion. </b>Or, everybody has a friend who “just sold a house.” Now, thanks to the internet, everybody also has TikTok. And every one of these entities has thoughts and suggestions on how <i>my</i> buyer should proceed.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Listen, I’m not mad about it: I love anything that piques curiosity. <b>I love clients who want to understand the process, so I will happily explain the </b><i><b>why</b></i><b> behind every single recommendation I make. </b>Educated clients make better decisions, hard fact. But there’s always moment, often right around inspections or negotiations, when that client leans in and says, “Well, I saw this guy on TikTok say…” or “My friend thinks we should…” Or when said dad shows up to the inspection with his own stepladder and a tiny flashlight. You know, in case the professional inspector who’s been doing this thirty years might have forgotten these items.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Oh, my stars. We have all been there.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I bet y’all just felt an adrenaline spike thinking about how a well-meaning loved one is about to mess up six months of careful negotiations because he watched an episode of <i>This Old House</i> and now fancies himself an expert.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Here’s the plain truth: real estate advice without context is just noise. </b>It’s a whole lot of hot air. TikTok doesn’t know the street my buyers are looking at, okay? And unless their dad is Josh Flagg, that man doesn’t know today’s buyer psychology. The client’s coworker doesn’t know what <i>actually</i> worked in their deal versus what sounds good in the retelling, especially because it was <i>fifteen years ago</i>. In real estate, that’s an entire lifetime. <b>The only people who are standing inside </b><b><i>this </i></b><b>house, in </b><b><i>this</i></b><b> exact market, with </b><b><i>highly specific goals and actual money on the line</i></b><b> are the buyer and me.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I always tell my clients they’re absolutely allowed to bring in outside opinions. In fact, I expect it and encourage it. Sometimes father really does know best. <b>When faced with such a big, expensive, and emotionally-laden decision, it’s human nature to crowdsource some reassurance.</b> But what my buyer and I are going to do together is run that advice through a professional filter.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let me be crystal-clear here: what goes viral online is rarely what works consistently. What worked once—especially fifteen damn years ago—does not automatically guarantee success again. Markets are hyper-local and the timing changes strategy. Guess what? <b>Buyers behave differently depending on inventory, interest rates, and emotion, yet none of that fits neatly into a thirty-second video. </b>So that one TikTok with a billion views is hardly one-size-fits-all.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When a client brings me a suggestion they’ve heard elsewhere, I don’t shut it down. I know, it’s awfully tempting to get defensive. <b>Truth is, our best defense against outside advice is to get curious. </b>Ask your client what outcome they’re hoping that advice will get them. Nine times out of ten, the goal makes perfect sense, whether they want less stress or they’re looking for more protection. Plus, it’s human nature to want to feel smart and not get taken advantage of. All of that is valid. It’s usually just the method that needs adjusting. And that’s our job. <b>We’re not here to override instincts so much as translate them into a strategy that actually works in the real world.</b> Our role isn’t to win an argument or prove that we’re right. (I mean, we likely are right, but…)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The way I see it, our best and highest purpose is to protect our buyers from expensive mistakes that sound logical online but don’t hold up once they actually walk through the door. </b>The internet (and really, the whole world) is full of confident advice from people who hold no stakes in the outcome. But we are and we do. It’s our names on the yard sign. We’re the ones who are reading the room in real time. When our clients want to act on bad advice, I like to quote Taylor Swift: “<i>I think I’ve seen this film before, and I didn’t like the ending</i>.”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So here’s what I say to clients: <i>“Please, ask anything.” </i>Hell, they can question <i>everything</i>. They can send me the TikTok, the screenshot, the group text from their family chat. If Aunt Margaret has thoughts, I’m all ears. <b>My pledge is that I’ll look at every bit of advice calmly and without my ego getting in the way. Then I’ll give them an honest, unvarnished opinion on whether it applies to their house, their timing, and their goals.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The best results in real estate rarely come from following the loudest voice in the room, or the clip with the most views. </p><blockquote class="tiktok-embed" cite="https://www.tiktok.com/@theworldwidewealth/video/7325562118009392430" data-video-id="7325562118009392430"><section><a target="_blank" title="@theworldwidewealth" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theworldwidewealth?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=if-you-want-my-advice" rel="noreferrer"> @theworldwidewealth </a><p>At this rate, 7 raspberries will cost $2 million in 2069 😵‍💫 #boomers</p></section></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDAISM</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Today’s Words of Wisdom </h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDA BAKER & ASSOCIATES</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="this-ones-a-keeper">Green with Envy</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Welcome to West Highlands living at its <i>greenest</i>—and I mean that in every sense of the word. This corner-lot Craftsman at <a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/1784-hollingsworth-boulevard-nw-atlanta-ga-us-30318-10610659?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=if-you-want-my-advice" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1784 Hollingsworth Boulevard NW, Atlanta, GA,</a> sits right in the sweet spot of the neighborhood, where style meets convenience. Everything y’all love about city living is just minutes away! </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Inside, the open layout flows effortlessly, but it’s the kitchen that really makes you green with envy: sage green shaker cabinets, quartz countertops, and a clean, modern vibe that feels fresh without trying too hard. Step outside and you’re moments from West Midtown, the Upper Westside, breweries, Topgolf, pickleball, The Works, major highways, and even the airport. I’m talking easy in, easy out, no drama. With community green spaces, a pool, dog park, and that coveted lock-and-leave lifestyle, this home proves that going green isn’t just about color; it’s about living smarter, easier, and closer to everything.</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/ba5f3a6c-6afa-4445-85a7-6d0786a7c809/IMG_7891.jpeg?t=1770146700"/><div class="image__source"><a class="image__source_link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/1784-hollingsworth-boulevard-nw-atlanta-ga-us-30318-10610659?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=if-you-want-my-advice" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><span class="image__source_text"><p>1784 Hollingsworth Boulevard NW, Atlanta, GA</p></span></a></div></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/44f268a9-c5c9-474d-9cda-c97fd96d91d2/IMG_7892.jpeg?t=1770146716"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/58f34ae9-358d-4078-8435-302021252cb2/IMG_7893.jpeg?t=1770146737"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/69d15948-1a5a-436d-8311-cf1a83191ab9/IMG_7894.jpeg?t=1770146751"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/6a86fbe3-234a-41ac-b676-2f0e4c0f6514/IMG_7895.jpeg?t=1770146766"/></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=52a189fe-c7d7-4a14-be8e-5358ff96e14b&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=her_real_estate">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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  <title>MOVING FORWARD WHEN YOU DON&#39;T KNOW WHICH WAY IS UP</title>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/669d3fa6-9ba3-4145-9b14-1db8a736d72b/viabbz18.png?t=1761938459"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome">WELCOME</h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">Hello and welcome. Not sure where in the world you are, but wherever you are, I hope you’re warm, safe, and dry. Mercifully, the big storm seems to have missed us here in Atlanta. We were so forewarned that I took every precaution. Now I currently have so much food on hand that I could open my own Waffle House. (Trust me, that is not a complaint.)</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">As much as I try to stay in my pink Glennda bubble, news of the world occasionally penetrates. So, if you’re struggling, I hear you. I’d planned on talking about content creation strategies this week. Instead, I want to discuss how to move forward when you’re distracted or depressed. </span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">Even though we’re not together in person, I want y’all to feel my hug. Let’s get started.</span></p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/02d84c7c-f4e3-4772-8b5f-f5076d5ca3f3/kermit.jpg?t=1769554655"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">STORYTIME WITH GLENNDA</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="taking-a-test-drive-real-estatestyl">The Very Special Episode</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When I was growing up, when something serious was happening on a show that was normally lighthearted, they called it a Very Special Episode. Like maybe one of the girls on <i>The Facts of Life</i> had a friend who took drugs, or the friendly bike shop owner on <i>Diff’rent Strokes </i>turned out to be a predator. So that’s what today’s Storytime with Glennda is going to be. We’re serving up a touch more gravitas.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>I’ve had a lot of conversations lately where people are saying, </b><i><b>“I know I need to show up, Glennda, but I just don’t have it in me.”</b></i><b> </b>If that’s where you are right now, guess what? You’re not alone. There are times when the noise can feel louder than normal. And maybe your energy is waning. The idea of the things you normally handle so diligently, whether it’s creating content, calling a client, or even opening your laptop, feels a million times more difficult than usual. <b>So, I want you to listen to me carefully when I tell you that </b><i><b>you are not broken</b></i><b>. </b>You’re not lazy. You’re definitely not failing. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You know what you are? <i>Human.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now here’s the truth I’ve learned over the years: real estate doesn’t stop just because we’re having a hard go of it. <b>People still need our help.</b> I mean, families are still moving and life is still happening. I don’t say this to sound cold, because that’s certainly not who I am. Instead, I want this knowledge to ground you because knowing this fact is what helps ground me. When you feel depressed or beaten down, the answer isn’t to disappear or to pretend you’re fine. <b>What will bring you up again is to shift your focus away from yourself and back to your impact.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Years ago, I heard a woman speak on a stage. This was back in the ‘90s, when nobody talked openly about mental health. The speaker’s name was Erma, and she was a real estate agent in Alabama. She stood in front of a room full of agents and talked openly about her depression, especially how hard January was for her. Between the gray, bleak weather, and her totals resetting to zero, she struggled. She shared what she did when she felt herself slipping into that existential angst.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Erma didn’t look at her awards or tally her commissions. She didn’t power-pose in front of a mirror and give herself affirmations. No, ma’am. <b>Instead, her strategy was to drive by all the houses she had sold. </b>She didn’t do this to pat herself on the back. Rather, this was her way of reminding herself of the role she’d played in people’s lives.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">For example, Erma talked about a young couple she helped buy a modest home. The wife was pregnant when they closed. The family was able to bring their newborn home from the hospital to that house. Owning a home made them feel settled, like they were real adults, and ergo could finally be parents. When she drove by, she remembered the small basket she dropped off when that baby was born and all the joy that couple was experiencing. They couldn’t believe they finally had their own place, where they could mark heights in doorways as their daughter grew. They talked about how they looked forward to watching her play in the backyard. It was so much more than just four walls for those people. <b>The impact of how Erma helped change that family’s life pulled her back into the right mindset.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Erma’s story stayed with me for a reason. What I can tell y’all is that <b>when money is your motivator, it’s never enough. But when people are your motivator, you never run out of purpose.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Sit with that for a second.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When you’re feeling beaten down, I want you to stop asking, “How do I get myself motivated?” and start asking, “Who do I help because I do this work?”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Please understand that you aren’t required to put out high-energy content on those days when you’re not feeling it. You don’t have to give a TED Talk on Instagram Live. All you have to do is to stay connected. That might look like answering one message or checking in on one past client. Maybe just share a simple reminder that you’re here and paying attention.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>In our job, we simply do not have the luxury—emotionally or financially—to let the outside noise pull us off course. </b>Not because we’re supposed to be tough all the time, but because our work matters to people who need us steady.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Please never forget that your quiet consistency builds far more trust than your loudest, flashiest moments ever will. <b>If you still show up, even when it’s hard, you’re not denying your humanity. Instead, you’re honoring your responsibility.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So, if you’re feeling low right now, don’t you dare worry about aiming for greatness. Just aim for presence. Aim for a little reminder of why you do this work in the first place. That’s how you find your way forward when you don’t know which way is up.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Because I promised this week would be about content, I want to leave a small take-away. When you’re low, don’t concern yourself with a big idea or perfect lighting. Your only goal is to stay connected. If today’s a bad day, here are a few ways to show up without forcing it:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Answer one question you get all the time. </b>This is simple, helpful, and rooted in service.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Check in with one past client. </b>You don’t need an agenda. A “thinking of you” message will do nicely.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Share a reminder, not a performance. </b>A sentence you’d say to a friend is enough.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Post something useful, not personal. </b>This could be a market note, a timing tip, or a quick clarification people appreciate.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Re-share something that still matters.</b> Listen, if it helped someone once, it can help someone again.</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Consistency doesn’t mean constant output. Instead, consistency means people know you’re still here, no matter what. I promise y’all that when times are tough, this is enough.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">(I did not mean to end this on a rhyme, but here we are.)</p><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/f3f367c5-d902-434d-a99e-eea0a5c66c55/2__2_.png?t=1763517071"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Social media isn’t optional anymore, y’all - it’s where clients decide if they want to work with you. If you’re not growing online, you’re invisible. That’s why I recommend the Estate Social Growth Program. You spend just a couple of hours filming, and the team turns it into polished, optimized content that builds your brand and gets you seen by the right clients. If you’re ready to show up the way you should, this is where you start.</p><div class="button" style="text-align:center;"><a target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow noreferrer" class="button__link" style="" href="https://estateagentgrowth.co/?utm_source=herrealestate&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=estate_growth_program&utm_content=cta"><span class="button__text" style=""> Schedule your free consultation </span></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndas-guru">GLENNDA’S GRANDMA HOUSE</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome-chad">Big Feelings on Paint</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here’s what’s happening with the grandma’s house I bought! While I was in Turks & Caicos, a team of magical elves was hard at work in the rental property. (Please do not tell my contractor I called him a magical elf.) I was so pleased to see that the power was on and that we’d gotten new recessed lights in the kitchen!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The bad news was that once the cabinets were properly illuminated, I realized the oak’s color was worse than I thought. Those cabinets stood out like a sore thumb, yet my dilemma was that they were in fine condition. So I took to Instagram to take everyone’s temperature on whether or not I should paint them, given that it would run about $3,000 and I am not made of money.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let me just say this—in a country that can’t agree on a single thing, y’all have come together to say unequivocally that I must paint the damn cabinets. Message received. Next up, what color should we paint them?</p><blockquote align="center" class="instagram-media"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/DT55njgkQax/?igsh=MXduNzE5emdsNnRsNw%3D%3D&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=moving-forward-when-you-don-t-know-which-way-is-up"><p dir="ltr" lang="en"> Instagram post </p></a></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndas-guru">GLENNDA’S GURU</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome-steve-shull">Welcome, Steve Shull!</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now, my guru today is <a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/steveshullperformancecoaching/?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=moving-forward-when-you-don-t-know-which-way-is-up" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Steve Shull.</a> Steve has been coaching agents and business owners for nearly 30 years, which means he was doing it way back before coaching was trendy or polished. Steve’s the founder of Performance Coaching, which was the very first real estate coaching program of its kind! </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What I love about Steve is that he understands pressure from every angle. I kid you not, he’s basically Captain America. He’s worked on Wall Street and he played four years in the NFL with the Miami Dolphins… including serving as a Super Bowl co-captain!! Today he’s a principal at luxury brokerage Teles Properties in Beverly Hills. But what really matters is that Steve helps people build businesses <i>that actually support their lives</i>. I promise y’all, that perspective has <i>never </i>been more needed than it is right now, so please enjoy!</p><iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="true" class="youtube_embed" frameborder="0" height="100%" src="https://youtube.com/embed/GHpnpEZIJbQ" width="100%"></iframe><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Thanks so much, Steve!</p><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDAISM</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Today’s Words of Wisdom </h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDA BAKER & ASSOCIATES</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="this-ones-a-keeper">Lock It, Leave It, Love It</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">For anyone looking for that unicorn property, I have one that’s easy, elegant, and makes real life simpler. This condo at <a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/200-river-vista-drive-505-atlanta-ga-us-30339-10674031?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=moving-forward-when-you-don-t-know-which-way-is-up" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">200 River Vista Drive, #505, in Atlanta, GA,</a> is perfect for downsizing without giving anything up, whether that means a beautiful, secure place for your mom where you know she’s truly taken care of, or a lock-and-leave home you can enjoy without the upkeep. This place is luxury without complication: gated, concierge-level amenities, and a smart layout that works just as well as a primary residence, a crash pad, or a pied-à-terre. You can travel, come and go, host family when you want, and not worry for a second when you’re away. Easy, elevated living like this (especially at this price point) is rare, and that’s what makes this such a terrific opportunity!</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/63ab32f8-8d65-485f-b9bf-823c994bca1e/condo1.jpg?t=1769559487"/><div class="image__source"><a class="image__source_link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/200-river-vista-drive-505-atlanta-ga-us-30339-10674031?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=moving-forward-when-you-don-t-know-which-way-is-up" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><span class="image__source_text"><p>200 River Vista Drive, #505, Atlanta, GA</p></span></a></div></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/a6b8047e-68bc-4d07-af6f-b4d4db4f900a/condo_5.jpg?t=1769559547"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/04920bce-ef21-45b3-9624-1d0e4806416b/condo_2.jpg?t=1769559531"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/80c8e8d8-f0db-427f-978c-337a05d94d9b/condo_3.jpg?t=1769559570"/></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=e602423c-1936-4cf9-8d62-ac3f07303cff&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=her_real_estate">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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  <title>TRUST ME... I&#39;M A REAL ESTATE AGENT</title>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 21 Jan 2026 14:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
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I’m with a group of brilliant and dynamic women and we’re learning about what’s possible when we rise together. I’m so excited to tell everyone about it when I get back! (That I’ll have a nice tan is simply an added bonus.)</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">Anyway, while I’ve been down here, I’ve had a lot of people ask me about my content. While creating content has been a game-changer for me, that’s not what’s at the heart of my success in real estate. Instead, I credit that to something so much more simple… and it doesn’t require a boom mic or a ring light. So let’s get right to it!</span></p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/7dc17206-5dc7-490a-bc34-c65f8adc9cb8/tanya-guillory-erbh0VzctyE-unsplash.jpg?t=1768951716"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>Is this real life? Photo by <a class="link" href="https://unsplash.com/@sweet_eyes_la?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: rgb(118, 118, 118)">Tanya Guillory</a> on <a class="link" href="https://unsplash.com/photos/green-trees-near-blue-sea-under-blue-and-white-cloudy-sky-during-daytime-erbh0VzctyE?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: rgb(118, 118, 118)">Unsplash</a></p></span></div></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">STORYTIME WITH GLENNDA</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="taking-a-test-drive-real-estatestyl">Build Your Business on Trust</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Y’all know I’m a huge advocate for creating content. I will sing the praises of creating content day and night because that’s what took my business to another level. I love content creation and I am such an evangelist for it. However, I need to make something clear:<b> posting more isn’t what’s going to help you build </b><i><b>trust </b></i><b>with your audience. </b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Yes, you’ll create awareness, and of course, that awareness can be a game-changer. <b>But I want to point out that awareness does not equal trust. </b>Plus, a lot of agents are just exhausted from trying to “perform” professionalism online, while it may not even be landing because those consumers are quietly tuning out. What your buyers and sellers really want—even if they can’t articulate it—is trust.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Here’s what no one tells you: trust is built in private moments. </b>Yes, it’s fun to see those big, splashy videos on your FYP. (And going viral can be a bit of a thrill, NGL.) <b>But views don’t equal trust.</b> Trust is built on the phone calls no one else hears. Trust comes from giving a thorough explanation that takes an extra five minutes. Trust is fostered in that follow-up that doesn’t directly lead to a sale. Trust stems from when someone says, <i>“Glennda, I feel so much better after talking to you.”</i> I promise y’all this: clients are never going to walk away from an interaction saying, <i>“Did you see how many likes she got?”</i> They’ll walk away thinking, <i>“Whew, I’m so relieved now that she explained it all!”</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>That</i> is the work that matters. (And it doesn’t come with analytics.)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">There’s a lot of emphasis in this business on charisma. <b>Charisma may be what catches a client’s attention, but it’s your consistency that gets you hired.</b> Clients want to know that when things get complicated, your energy doesn’t change. They need you to respond the same way on a good day as you do on a bad one. Consistency is quiet, but oh my stars, is it powerful. <b>Consistency is what makes people trust you with something as emotional and expensive as buying a home.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Right now, it’s easy to confuse activity with effectiveness, especially when so much of the industry rewards visibility. But clients remember <i>how you made them feel</i> far more than how you positioned yourself. They’ll remember whether you returned their call quickly. They’ll remember whether you explained things without talking down to them. Every time you stay present when the deal gets stressful, you’re reinforcing that trust you’re building.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>One of the fastest ways to build trust is to tell people what’s coming before it happens. </b>Uncertainty creates anxiety. When anxiety creeps in, confidence leaks out. So if you can explain the next step clearly (even if it&#39;s just about waiting), you take pressure off your client’s nervous system. When they understand that nothing’s being hidden and nothing’s being left to chance, you make the process so much less scary. It’s like how pilots (agents) see turbulence. They know it’s no big deal and they see it all day long and twice on Sunday. But the first-time flyer (buyer) may be sweating bullets in their seat, suddenly discovering religion. How much better would that anxious person feel if the pilot came on and explained what was happening, and how beverage service will resume in six minutes?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Another trust builder is being early instead of being urgent. </b>If a client sees you scramble, you’re going to spike their cortisol. It doesn’t matter if you manage to miraculously pull things together at the last second. The “save” won&#39;t be what they remember. Instead, they’re going to sit in the part where they felt uneasy and uncomfortable. Sure, we love seeing the hero save the day in the movies, but in real life, we gravitate toward boring. (That’s why your tax attorney is the least exciting person you know <i>by design</i>.) So, if you can flag a potential issue or proactively address a small concern, you’re demonstrating your competence. <b>You build trust when your client sees that you’re paying attention, and they’ll appreciate that you’re thinking a few steps ahead on their behalf.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Now, here’s something I learned the hard way: tell your clients the truth without being dramatic and without minimizing the problem. </b>You don’t need to sugarcoat reality. Instead, I’ve learned that factual honesty builds confidence. Clients trust agents who stay grounded, especially when the situation isn’t ideal.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>One of the best ways to reinforce that trust is to do what you say you’re going to do.</b> If you promise it, you’d damn well better deliver on that promise. Anyone (and everyone) can promise results. But your clients will remember if you did the little things you said you would do; it’s just that simple. Trust lives in those margins. When you follow through consistently, you build a reputation that speaks for itself.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Ultimately, trust isn’t built by saying the right things. Nope. Trust is built by behaving the same way every time.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The truth is, if you want to build your business, it’s not imperative that you post more. (Although if you want to post more, I can certainly teach you how to do so effectively.) My message today is that you don’t need to keep up with anyone else to build and strengthen that trust. <b>What will propel you forward more than anything is to be consistent. To be clear. And to show up in a way that makes people feel steady and supported. </b>Because real trust doesn’t come from being seen everywhere… it comes from being <i>there </i>when it counts.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But if you do want to talk about creating content, we’ll do that next week! For now, here’s a little taste:</p><blockquote class="tiktok-embed" cite="https://www.tiktok.com/@glenndabaker/video/7270161849822252330" data-video-id="7270161849822252330"><section><a target="_blank" title="@glenndabaker" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@glenndabaker?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=trust-me-i-m-a-real-estate-agent" rel="noreferrer"> @glenndabaker </a><p>Nothing accelerates credibility faster than proof! #GlenndaBaker #RealEstate #AtlantaRealEstate #credibility #GoogleGlennda #GlenndaTok</p></section></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/f3f367c5-d902-434d-a99e-eea0a5c66c55/2__2_.png?t=1763517071"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Social media isn’t optional anymore, y’all - it’s where clients decide if they want to work with you. If you’re not growing online, you’re invisible. That’s why I recommend the Estate Social Growth Program. You spend just a couple of hours filming, and the team turns it into polished, optimized content that builds your brand and gets you seen by the right clients. If you’re ready to show up the way you should, this is where you start.</p><div class="button" style="text-align:center;"><a target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow noreferrer" class="button__link" style="" href="https://estateagentgrowth.co/?utm_source=herrealestate&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=estate_growth_program&utm_content=cta"><span class="button__text" style=""> Schedule your free consultation </span></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndas-guru">GLENNDA’S GURU</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome-chad">Welcome, Chad</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I have eight billion reasons why y’all are going to want to hear my chat with <a class="link" href="https://www.instagram.com/chadcarroll/?hl=en&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=trust-me-i-m-a-real-estate-agent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: rgb(70, 120, 134)">Chad Carroll</a>! When people talk about a true “power broker“ in real estate, Chad is exactly who they mean. <b>He’s the rare agent who understands every side of the deal—real estate, finance, contracts, negotiation—and knows how to bring it all together in a way that gets clients exactly where they want to be!</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Chad built his career the hard way, rising to the top of the industry after moving to Miami during the aftermath of the mortgage crisis. With (eight) billions in sales, Chad has set a standard that’s damn hard to touch. <b>What I love most is that for all the numbers and accolades, his business is still deeply personal. He’s all about concierge-level service, constant availability, and a genuine commitment to his clients long after the closing table. </b>He’s the kind of agent you want in your corner, and I’m thrilled for y’all to get to know him!</p><iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="true" class="youtube_embed" frameborder="0" height="100%" src="https://youtube.com/embed/sNLDafcgr4s" width="100%"></iframe><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Thanks, Chad!</p><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDAISM</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Today’s Words of Wisdom </h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDA BAKER & ASSOCIATES</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="this-ones-a-keeper">Craft(sman) Your Own Story</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This Craftsman at <a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/1429-lakeview-road-grayson-ga-30017-3a81e9e3605016c18c0c08b4ab875f66?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=trust-me-i-m-a-real-estate-agent" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1429 Lakeview Road in Grayson, GA</a>, is for the buyer who wants <i>freedom</i>, not fine print. Set on a storybook 1.7-acre lot with a peaceful pond, it offers the rare combination of timeless character and real, usable space, both inside and out. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The home has been thoughtfully restored, <b>preserving its original hardwoods, millwork, and pocket doors</b> while pairing them with a modern, open kitchen that actually works for today’s life. The finished walk-out basement is a true flex space, complete with a kitchenette, workshop, and durable flooring. It’s absolutely ideal for a creative studio, guest suite, or multi-generational living! Outside, the property delivers serious utility with ample parking, a carport, and storage for boats, RVs, or equipment. With major systems already updated and <b>no HOA restrictions</b>, this is a place where you can live, build, and breathe… on your own terms! </p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/cd06557d-d543-44cb-9f3e-16bcea3d1182/IMG_7720.jpeg?t=1768954612"/><div class="image__source"><a class="image__source_link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/1429-lakeview-road-grayson-ga-30017-3a81e9e3605016c18c0c08b4ab875f66?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=trust-me-i-m-a-real-estate-agent" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><span class="image__source_text"><p>1429 Lakeview Road, Grayson, GA</p></span></a></div></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/811cc1eb-ed5a-48d8-b892-bfb4eb01183e/IMG_7721.jpeg?t=1768954632"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/942ab5f0-8c85-417e-9410-7e7230f874a1/IMG_7722.jpeg?t=1768954660"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/8ec03990-84ef-40ab-969f-0dd786e6b207/IMG_7723.jpeg?t=1768954679"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/cea72d0c-1e47-49da-889a-4826998acc21/IMG_7724.jpeg?t=1768954710"/></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=7a43a524-8aaf-4d72-ae2a-b310dbca33f6&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=her_real_estate">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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  <title>WE CAN&#39;T SPELL &quot;EASIER&quot; WITHOUT AI</title>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/669d3fa6-9ba3-4145-9b14-1db8a736d72b/viabbz18.png?t=1761938459"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome">WELCOME</h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">Hello from California! I am out here having meetings and attending conferences, and it has been just the most incredible experience. Every time one of y’all introduces yourselves, I feel like an angel gets its wings.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">Now, I don’t have a separate section this week on the grandma house update, as I am currently comparing bids. What’s making my decision process a million times easier is using AI to parse those bids. So before you get all bunged up about, </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;"><i>“Oh, Glennda, AI is so terrible,”</i></span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;"> I want y’all to hear me out on why it can be your greatest resource. That’s why it’s our topic today!</span></p><blockquote align="center" class="instagram-media"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTdCKhDkfjl/?igsh=enY3dmszY3RreG12&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=we-can-t-spell-easier-without-ai"><p dir="ltr" lang="en"> Instagram post </p></a></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">STORYTIME WITH GLENNDA</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="taking-a-test-drive-real-estatestyl">Using Tools Isn’t Evil; It’s Smart</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let me state two things to start—first, I use AI to make my life easier and you should, too. Second, I am <i>thisclose </i>to being fully dependent on AI. Before y’all judge me, let me explain. I’m not using AI because I don’t know how to do my job. That is not now, nor has it ever been, an issue. <b>In fact,</b> <b>I’m using AI because I </b><i><b>do </b></i><b>know how to do my job.</b> That is why I’m not interested in wasting one ounce of energy on things that don’t move the needle.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">We’ll start off with the macro view, meaning that <b>AI doesn’t and can’t replace my relationships, my instincts, or my experience. Instead, it replaces a hell of a lot of busywork and wheel-spinning. </b>AI keeps me from repeating myself and forgetting details. AI has shown me that I don’t have to keep doing things the hard way just because that’s how I’ve always done it. I may not be the youngest dog, but I am all about learning the new tricks.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So today I’m going to walk you through the real, everyday ways I’m using AI to make my life easier. And all of you can do the same without feeling overwhelmed or left behind.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>AI Is Not a Toy</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Can you use it to have some fun and see what your dog would look like as a Disney princess? Yes. But I use it as an assistant, and it’s the best assistant I’ve ever had. <b>I don’t use AI to collect </b><i><b>intimate </b></i><b>information, but for </b><i><b>intelligent</b></i><b> information. </b>This is an important distinction. If I need to know why a seller is moving, what matters emotionally, what their fears are, that’s a human conversation and that’s <i>intimate </i>information. But if I need to know which way a house faces, or the pros and cons of five listings, or what I’ve forgotten to consider in a bid, that’s where AI shines. The data is the data and nothing handles said data better than AI.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Let AI Do the Deep Dive</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This is where most agents are underusing AI’s homerun swing, and that is data. Let’s say I’m working with Bobby and Susie. I can look at a house and immediately know if it’s right for them, but AI helps me go several layers deeper, faster. <b>It helps me reverse engineer who the buyer actually is—where they are in life, what matters to them right now, where they spend time online, what they’re searching for, and how they’re most likely to find a home like this.</b> The more specific I get, the better it works.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">We were trained to keep searches wide so we didn’t miss anything, but AI works in the opposite way. Narrow is powerful and efficient… because narrow gets houses sold.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>List the Pros and Cons</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If I’m showing buyers five houses, I can ask AI to list the pros and cons of each one, comparing them side-by-side. And I can have it flag things we might not be thinking about. For example, when I’m selling in Indian Hills, I know exactly who the buyers will be. I know how old their kids are, and that they’re old enough to be on the second floor alone, with a primary suite on the first floor. I know what they likely have elderly family from out of the country who may come stay for 3-6 months at a time, so a <i>second</i> first floor bedroom is key. I know that they’re going to want a home that faces east. AI can remind and tell me all of this in an instant.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>So, instead of me having to call five agents about eastern exposure, waiting for callbacks, and then having 20-minutes of chit-chat to get that one piece of information, I get answers immediately.</b> It’s just so efficient and allows me to save the phone calls for the conversations that actually matter.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Document, Document, Document</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I record my seller conversations (with transparency and intention, of course), then I use AI to:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Pull out highlights</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Summarize what matters most</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Identify action items</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Create a clear, sequenced game plan</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That means I can turn around and say: “Here’s exactly what we’re doing to get your house on the market. Here’s what you’re responsible for. Here’s what I’m handling. Here’s when each thing happens.” Oh, my stars and stripes, I cannot tell y’all what a blessing this has been. This keeps me organized and keeps everyone aligned.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>AI Is My Secret Weapon</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you’re trying to grow your business, <b>AI can help you spot opportunities you’re already sitting on.</b> For example, at the Mastermind dinner a couple of days ago, I spoke with an agent who’s capturing business from those agents who are leaving the business. I told him, “Here’s exactly how I’d use AI to find those people,” and I listed off:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Pull agents whose transactions are declining</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Identify agents likely aging out of the business</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Find licensed agents who don’t actively sell but have deep community ties</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That’s all <i>information.</i> Now, the intimate knowledge he has to bring to the table is understanding that those people don’t want to “fail out” of real estate. They want dignity, income, and trust. So, AI helps you identify <i>who</i> to talk to, and then you still handle the relationship. AI doesn’t replace the relationship, but it tells you exactly where to look so you’re not guessing. That’s how referral pipelines are built.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>AI and Bids, Estimates, Etc.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Anytime I’m looking at bids, estimates, or renovation decisions, I upload them and create a prompt that says:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Compare these side by side</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What am I missing?</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What questions should I ask?</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Which option makes more sense for resale?</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It’s like having a second brain that doesn’t get tired and doesn’t miss details when I’m juggling a hundred other things. <b>It doesn’t make decisions for me, but it makes my decisions better.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Your Takeaway</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now, this is not a massive sea change in that you don’t need a new platform, and you don’t need to reinvent your business. <b>This is not another, “Oh, God, now what do I have to learn?” kind of moment. </b>You don’t need to become “techy.” Hell, you don’t even have to type well when you can do this all with voice prompts. ChatGPT is serious about the chat part. Your bot can speak to you in plain language, so you can even spitball ideas while you’ve got both hands on the wheel.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What I’m trying to do is give you permission to stop doing things the hard way.</b> AI is never going to replace great agents. But great agents who use AI will absolutely replace agents who don’t. When you use it for your research, your organization, for clarity, for speed, and for strategy, YOU get to stay right in the center of the most important thing: the relationships.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">And that will always be where the magic resides.</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/15d2a47d-49d9-412f-ba89-2fd020f7ccce/I_bought_Grandma_s_house.png?t=1768336052"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">(Yes, this is last week’s graphic but I’m including it because made it on ChatGPT in .5 seconds, and it would have taken even less time if I hadn’t been fussing with my bangs in it.)</span></p><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/f3f367c5-d902-434d-a99e-eea0a5c66c55/2__2_.png?t=1763517071"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Social media isn’t optional anymore, y’all - it’s where clients decide if they want to work with you. If you’re not growing online, you’re invisible. That’s why I recommend the Estate Social Growth Program. You spend just a couple of hours filming, and the team turns it into polished, optimized content that builds your brand and gets you seen by the right clients. If you’re ready to show up the way you should, this is where you start.</p><div class="button" style="text-align:center;"><a target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow noreferrer" class="button__link" style="" href="https://estateagentgrowth.co/?utm_source=herrealestate&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=estate_growth_program&utm_content=cta"><span class="button__text" style=""> Schedule your free consultation </span></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDAISM</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Today’s Words of Wisdom </h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDA BAKER & ASSOCIATES</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="this-ones-a-keeper">MCM? Y-E-S</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let me just tell you, this house is special. I am not kidding. The home at <a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/1791-breckenridge-drive-ne-atlanta-ga-30345-c3a836b11643a7d44a14ffd366d5f8e3?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=we-can-t-spell-easier-without-ai" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1791 Breckenridge Drive NE in Atlanta</a> is the kind of special you feel the second you walk in. <b>Built in 1964 by Robert Green, the last apprentice of Frank Lloyd Wright, this is true mid-century modern done the </b><i><b>right</b></i><b> way, where the architecture actually talks to the land instead of fighting it. </b>The central glass atrium is the showstopper here, flooding the home with light and creating those gorgeous geometric shadows that change all day long, and every detail, from the stone and brick to the walls of glass, feels intentional and timeless. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What I love is that it’s been thoughtfully updated by designer Wesley Williams, so you get all the soul and authenticity of mid-century design with the comfort and polish today’s buyers want. Set on a lush, private lot just minutes from the city, this isn’t just a house—it’s living art, and opportunities like this in Atlanta don’t come around often at all.</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/5e2e85d1-d21d-4682-90f3-d698228c5ab3/IMG_7640.jpeg?t=1768338327"/><div class="image__source"><a class="image__source_link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/1791-breckenridge-drive-ne-atlanta-ga-30345-c3a836b11643a7d44a14ffd366d5f8e3?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=we-can-t-spell-easier-without-ai" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><span class="image__source_text"><p>1791 Breckenridge Drive NE, Atlanta, GA</p></span></a></div></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/aea3e334-f56f-40ca-a43a-0d929183a202/IMG_7646.jpeg?t=1768338381"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/576ad56a-c570-40ec-b67e-b0b294bcd91c/IMG_7642.jpeg?t=1768338400"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/5aaa1220-f340-4d7f-b6f0-d412284a3ca4/IMG_7643.jpeg?t=1768338419"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/01ed08c3-85dd-4734-8e87-8df57dfc4bf4/IMG_7645.jpeg?t=1768338439"/></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=517b94d1-bf28-4dba-8183-93de32e4fc5c&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=her_real_estate">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/669d3fa6-9ba3-4145-9b14-1db8a736d72b/viabbz18.png?t=1761938459"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome">WELCOME</h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">Happy New Year! I hope everyone rang it in exactly the way they wanted to, whether that was a big night out, or a big night in with Anderson and Andy. </span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">Now the good news is, I’m going to get real used to writing the “2026” date on checks real quick (yes, I still write checks). In fact, I’m about to start writing a whole lot of them. So, today’s topic is about how I don’t just offer real estate advice, but I also follow it. I always tell everyone to buy Grandma’s house, and that’s exactly what I just did. GLENNDA BOUGHT GRANDMA’S HOUSE will be an ongoing series as I work to bring online what will be a rental house. I’ll be talking everyone through it every step of the way because I want y’all to grasp easily and tightly to how easy this is. </span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">Grab your hardhat and sledgehammer, because we’re about to build some wealth!</span></p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/faa1b7c9-90f0-449f-aa2c-81ac15bf87b4/I_bought_Grandma_s_house.png?t=1767723264"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">STORYTIME WITH GLENNDA</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="taking-a-test-drive-real-estatestyl">They’re Not Making Any More Land</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I get asked all the time why I love what I call a “grandma house.” <i>Why not new construction, Glennda? Why not something shiny and Instagram-ready? Why not invest in a perfect flip that already looks like a magazine spread? </i>My answer is always the same. <b>And that is because generational wealth isn’t built by buying what everyone else wants. You build that wealth by buying what other people overlook, improving it with intention, and holding it while time does the heavy lifting.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let me be real clear here: a grandma house is not sexy on day one. Generally, it’s the opposite of sexy. The house might smell like cigarettes. (More on that in a minute.) That house might have carpet that has <i>seen things</i>. Grandma’s house might have appliances from the Clinton administration—if you’re lucky.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The Rationale</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here is what a grandma house almost always has: good bones, because Grandma didn’t buy a McMansion with vinyl siding that will blow over the first time it rains too hard. <b>Grandma bought back when houses were meant to last. Grandma comes from an age when quality was king. </b>Plus, Grandma understands that the critical systems need to be maintained, so Grandma has a solid roof. Her floor plan made sense when it was built and still makes sense today. Grandma did not live without plentiful hot water and heat. Yes, she may have been fine with worn out cabinets and wallpaper that makes you twitch, but the fundamentals are there. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Fundamentals are what matter when you’re building a portfolio that lasts.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This is why I always tell people not to be afraid of the house that needs some TLC and a Pinterest page. The details are the fun parts to fix up! You can replace carpet, paint over nicotine, and update light fixtures. These are checks you don’t mind writing. (The check to replace a roof <i>hurts</i>, I promise y’all that.)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What you cannot easily replace is location, lot, layout, and land. They’re not making any more of those things. </b>When you buy a tired house in a great area, you’re making an investment in something that time will reward. You’re buying tomorrow’s desirability at yesterday’s price.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So when I say I bought a grandma house (and I just did), I’m not being cute. I am being strategic. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The Details</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I paid $262,500 for a four bedroom, two bath split level in East Cobb, Marietta. Oh, my stars, this is such a desirable area. The house is on a corner lot… with a pool and a party deck! Plus, it sits nextdoor to another house I already own, which means I now control contiguous land in a location I already believe in. Replacement cost on this house is roughly $433,000, so let me be clear that I did not buy a problem. No, ma’am. I bought a <i>spread</i>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What you may not have guessed is that I financed it. <b>Yes, even though I could have paid cash, I’m not afraid of a 6.5% interest rate. What does scare me is the notion of tying up all my liquidity because I’m fiscally conservative.</b> I know what lean times feel like. God forbid I don’t sell a house in a given year. But if that happens, I want cash reserves. My motto is to pray for the best and plan for the worst, as that’s how you stay in the game long term.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The house came to me in a way that almost feels like fate, but is actually just preparation meeting opportunity. The agent who was going to list it looked at the tax records, saw my name on the place next door, and he walked into my office. He said, “I’m about to list a house you might want.” </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let me be clear. Everyone says that to me (and I am flattered). But then he added, “It’s next door to one you already own.” That got my attention. I went to see it at lunch and by dinnertime, I’d already written a contract on it.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>People always ask how I decide so quickly. The truth is, I do enough research that by the time I walk in the door, I already know the numbers. </b>Then I listen to my gut. While it sounds a little woo-woo, I pay attention to the energy of a house. I’ve passed on plenty that looked good on paper but felt wrong in person. This one did not.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Full disclosure: Grandma’s house needs work. There was heavy smoking in the house. No lie, Grandma smoked three packs a day for thirty years. That alone will scare off most buyers. However, years ago, I was married to a paint contractor. I’d listed a place in Austin Lake and I was so worried about all the smoke there, but he assured me it could be eradicated. While he may have been wrong about a lot of stuff (that’s a whole other story), he was spot on about the smoke. Two coats of the right primer on every surface and it is gone! (I bought that one, too.)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>This house has a lot going for it, in that there’s no structural damage, nor is it in a flood plain. At no point will I ever need a canoe to reach the front door. (I wish this weren’t a true story about another property.)</b> There’s nothing that compromises the integrity of the house. All its problems are cosmetic, so this is manageable. If there’s a problem, dated and smoky are the kinds that I can easily solve. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The Math</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">My principal and interest payment is about $1,250 a month. With taxes and insurance, I’m budgeting an all-in payment of around $1,650. When it’s finished, I’ll rent it for approximately $3,000 a month—and I already know the exact avatar of the family who’s going to want to rent it. But back to the math. <b>That is a positive cash flow of roughly $1,300 to $1,400 per month. </b>Over time, my renovations get paid back, someone else is paying down my mortgage, and the property is appreciating in a market that has proven itself over decades.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Could I flip it? Absolutely. <b>If I went in, cleaned it up, and sold it quickly, I could probably make $50,000 to $75,000. Which sounds pretty damn good, right? But here’s the truth most people don’t want to hear. Deals like this don’t come around every day. </b>This was the deal of the year. A four bedroom, two bath in East Cobb on a corner lot with a pool for $262,500 is not something I can easily duplicate every day and twice on Sunday. So I’m not giving that up for a one time payday when the long term return is so much more powerful.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This is where patience becomes a real asset. My last purchase was about a year ago. In that time, there were other houses I could have bought. Instead, I left funds in a high yield savings account earning about 4% and I waited. When this opportunity appeared, I was ready. Ready with capital, ready with vendors, and ready with a plan of attack. That’s less about luck and more about discipline.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The Project</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Right now, I’m gathering estimates in anticipation of writing “2026” on a whole bunch of checks. I have one contractor quote and I’m getting another. Some of the work I’ll farm out to individual trades I trust. I already have a painter I love, and I have a deck guy whose house I sold. <b>I believe in doing business with people who do business with me. </b>The basement needs more involved work because of some water damage and a wall that has to be rebuilt, so I want the right person on that. I have no doubt I’ll find them.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Under normal circumstances, I’d have had all pricing locked before closing. In this case, the seller was mentally overwhelmed and it was difficult to get people in and out, so I concentrated on helping her get to assisted living. My point is, the deal itself was so strong that I moved forward anyway. I closed on January 2, which also allowed me to keep the seller’s senior tax exemption through 2026. Instead of property taxes being about $5,000 a year, they are $871. That is not a detail; that is real cash money.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Work will start within the next couple of weeks. <b>I expect the renovation to take about 60 days, but I’m not rushing it to market. Even if it were ready in February, I’d likely wait. Why? Because </b><i><b>presentation matters</b></i><b>.</b> By March and April, the grass will be green, the pool will be inviting, and families will be thinking about summer. When your product looks great, you attract a great tenant. When your product looks like a piece of junk, you attract problems. I’m building a rental that I’d be proud to live in.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>So, I’m taking y’all with me through every step.</b> I’ll show you the estimates. I’ll show you how I sequence the work. I’ll ask everyone to vote on things like whether we keep the cabinets or paint them. I’ll get everyone’s feedback on what light fixtures belong in each room. I’ll use AI to speed up design decisions, as I’ll upload photos of each room and ask for ideas on finishes, layouts, and fixtures. Why not save time and money while getting clarity?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The Most Important Part</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I’m not documenting this to show off.<b> I’m documenting it to prove that I walk the walk. </b>I’m not selling theory. Instead, I’m showing reality. I want Logan in Lawrenceville, who’s 28 years old, to see this and think, <i>Whoa. I could do that</i>. I want Susie in Sarasota to realize that with a low down payment loan, a little sweat equity, and maybe a roommate, she could buy a tired house, live in it, fix it up, and in a few years have her first investment property. <b>I want people to understand that owning property is not reserved for developers or people with trust funds.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In fact, it’s easier for a first-time buyer than it is for me! I’ve got to buy as an investor and put down 25%. A new buyer can use an FHA loan, put 3% down, live in the home, and let time do the work. That’s how wealth is built quietly, consistently, and without gambling on trends.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>I’m not a coach for the same reason Michael Jordan isn’t a coach. He used to get so mad when people would solicit his advice—and not listen to it! I’m here to show you what I do and why it works and how you can do it, too. </b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now, if you watch this process and choose not to act, certainly that’s your choice. But I want to make it crystal clear that the path is not complicated. Even if you’ve sold a million houses, you may have been reticent to take this step and I get it. Because this requires patience and planning. <b>This requires the willingness to buy what is not perfect and make it better, which is why people often hesitate to make that leap. But I’m here to show you that </b><b><i>if you leap, you will fly</i></b><b>.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So this is why I buy grandma houses, and this is why I’m sharing this one. This is why I’ll keep showing you every step of the journey. Because the best investments are rarely the prettiest on day one, but they are the ones that change your future. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So buckle up as we go on an adventure I’m calling the Bungalow on Barnsdale!</p><blockquote align="center" class="instagram-media"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTA4DLAERto/?igsh=bGdrOWxxcHNmNmky&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=i-walk-the-walk"><p dir="ltr" lang="en"> Instagram post </p></a></blockquote><hr class="content_break"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/f3f367c5-d902-434d-a99e-eea0a5c66c55/2__2_.png?t=1763517071"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Social media isn’t optional anymore, y’all - it’s where clients decide if they want to work with you. If you’re not growing online, you’re invisible. That’s why I recommend the Estate Social Growth Program. You spend just a couple of hours filming, and the team turns it into polished, optimized content that builds your brand and gets you seen by the right clients. If you’re ready to show up the way you should, this is where you start.</p><div class="button" style="text-align:center;"><a target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow noreferrer" class="button__link" style="" href="https://estateagentgrowth.co/?utm_source=herrealestate&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=estate_growth_program&utm_content=cta"><span class="button__text" style=""> Schedule your free consultation </span></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDAISM</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Today’s Words of Wisdom </h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDA BAKER & ASSOCIATES</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="this-ones-a-keeper">Space: The Final Frontier</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You know what? Sometimes bigger is better. So if<span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;"> space is what you’ve been praying for, this home answers every single time. </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;"><a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/2742-bob-bettis-road-marietta-ga-us-30066-10566988?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=i-walk-the-walk" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">2742 Bob Bettis Road in Marietta, GA</a></span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">, is the largest floor plan in the neighborhood, offering nearly 3,300 square feet of light-filled, beautifully designed living. </span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">Six true bedrooms, four full baths, multiple living areas, and flexible spaces mean there’s room for everyone to live, work, gather, and grow without ever feeling cramped. From the soaring two-story foyer to the expansive family room, oversized kitchen, and dreamy primary suite with its own sitting area, every inch of this home was built to breathe. Add in a private, fenced backyard and an oversized lot, and what you have is not just a house, it is the kind of space that lets life unfold the way it’s meant to. This isn’t just big. It’s </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;"><i>thoughtfully</i></span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;"> big.</span></p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/a85e34f3-c1ef-42a1-b33e-bf08469f68e2/IMG_7458.jpeg?t=1767727491"/><div class="image__source"><a class="image__source_link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/2742-bob-bettis-road-marietta-ga-us-30066-10566988?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=i-walk-the-walk" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><span class="image__source_text"><p>2742 Bob Bettis Road, Marietta, GA</p></span></a></div></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/bd8dd608-85fd-4c6c-ba18-00701c0f1000/IMG_7459.jpeg?t=1767727534"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/404f3be0-2d6e-433d-a0e8-e365b93db3b6/IMG_7460.jpeg?t=1767727549"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/464bb129-d67a-4533-b166-02c4c8cf6572/IMG_7461.jpeg?t=1767727567"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/9241ae14-ccd1-421b-b9e3-6fa62163cbbb/IMG_7462.jpeg?t=1767727586"/></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=7a9028d4-a3d5-4d80-8b6f-5abcf56904cf&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=her_real_estate">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/669d3fa6-9ba3-4145-9b14-1db8a736d72b/viabbz18.png?t=1761938459"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome">WELCOME</h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">Oh, my stars, did this year fly by! I can’t believe we’re already looking at the tail end of 2025. I hope everyone is having a wonderful holiday season!</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">Now, I’ve been thinking a lot about how opportunity rarely shows up the way we expect it to. Opportunity doesn’t always walk in wearing a name badge. Sometimes opportunity is sitting right next to you, whether it’s at a bar, in a carpool line, or in a conversation you </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;"><i>almost</i></span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;"> didn’t have. So, this week, we’re talking about the power of presence, curiosity, and the small moments that can quietly open big doors in real estate… if you’re paying attention.</span></p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/9fa651de-de7b-4c72-9f8b-3b79dff5131d/IMG_7396.jpeg?t=1767121201"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>And don’t let me hear otherwise!</p></span></div></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">STORYTIME WITH GLENNDA</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="taking-a-test-drive-real-estatestyl">Sometimes, All You Need Is a $9 Glass of Wine</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I want to close out the year by telling y’all one of my favorite real estate stories. I love it because it perfectly captures something this business has taught me, and I am deeply grateful for it.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Back in the day, whenever I had an appointment in Buckhead, I’d try to schedule it for the late afternoon. That way, I could stop at the Ritz-Carlton on the way home. I have always liked sitting at the bar to eat because the people there are there to welcome conversation. (If they don’t want to talk, they get a table and pull out a book or their phone.)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now, here’s where last week’s post on gratitude rears its head again: I am so grateful to be in an industry where it doesn&#39;t matter where you came from. <b>It doesn&#39;t matter how poor you are. It doesn&#39;t matter what your circumstances are, because you can make an unlimited amount of income on your own terms, on your own time.</b> I don&#39;t care what anybody says, being a real estate agent gives you limitless possibilities. You don&#39;t have to speak English. You can sell only to your community. You don&#39;t have to be the smartest person in the room because you can surround yourself with people who are smarter than you. You can live in some shithole and sell a million-dollar home. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">People don&#39;t always capitalize on what the real estate industry can do for them, and that&#39;s a mistake. They&#39;re so busy listening to the negative people who say, “Oh, you&#39;re never going to sell a house in your first 30 days.” Or, “You live in an apartment. You don&#39;t have anybody that you can farm,” and they let others’ words limit them. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Listen to me: I want y’all to ignore the naysayers. If you have a gym membership, if you have enough money for a glass of water and a salad, you can go to the nicest restaurant in Atlanta (or your city) for lunch and sit there for two to three hours at the bar and find a client.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So, there I was, back in 1993, just a baby agent living in a sad apartment. I was sitting at the bar at the Ritz Carlton having that nine-dollar glass of wine, and I started talking to the woman next to me. Literally, this gal said, “What do you do?” And I said, “I&#39;m a real estate agent.” And she goes, “Really? I&#39;m fixing to sell my condo.” Again, I am nine dollars deep into my marketing efforts at this point, and about three months into my career.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>Of course</i> I said, “I can help you with that.” I didn’t even hesitate. Then I asked, “Where are you moving to?” She told me she was moving to New York. I asked her, “Why would you leave Atlanta and go to New York?” (I may be a little biased about my fair city.)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">She said she was leaving for New York because she said she couldn’t make any money in Atlanta. So I asked her, “What do you do?” Turns out, she was an <i>escort</i>. Oh, my stars! </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now, this is where some folks would shut down and get real uncomfortable. This is where they’d decide this conversation “isn’t relevant” or “isn’t their world.” But even though Jesus and I were both babies at the time, <b>I already knew that</b> <b>every person has a story, and every conversation matters.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I didn’t judge her; I just listened because I had never (knowingly) met anyone in her line of work. I had <i>a whole lot</i> of questions. I was curious and I was present. Basically, I was myself and I treated her like a human being. (Sometimes, I think this is a lost art.) She said to me, “I can&#39;t make any money here because the women in Atlanta give it away for free. In New York, they expect to pay.”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So no lie, I’d been selling real estate for all of three months when I sat down at the lobby lounge of the Ritz Carlton Buckhead. And the escort I chatted with had me sell her $300,000 condo in 1993 dollars, which is more like $700,000 in what’s about to be 2026 dollars. I literally made $9,000 over that glass of wine!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Real estate isn’t built on giant gestures. It’s built on </b><b>small moments of connection, </b><b>on being willing to sit down, spend nine dollars, and actually talk to someone without an agenda.</b> I’m grateful that this business taught me to value those moments.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Because here’s the truth: you can spend thousands of dollars on marketing and never build a single real relationship. Or you can spend an hour listening to someone and open an entirely new world. That escort was a reminder that opportunity doesn’t always come wrapped the way you expect. It doesn’t always walk into an open house holding a pre-approval letter. Sometimes it sits next to you at a bar and waits to see if you’re paying attention.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Understand that </b><b>time is the real investment. </b>Conversation is the currency. Curiosity will open that door. Too many agents are so focused on the next lead that they miss the human sitting right in front of them. They’re scrolling/pitching/performing instead of connecting. So if you’re out celebrating tonight, I want you to remember this: just start a conversation and see where it goes.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That night was an early lesson that I didn’t need a fancy script or a massive budget. I needed presence. I needed to show respect. I needed the willingness to see people where they are, not where I thought they “should” be. I think about that story whenever agents tell me they’re discouraged or burned out or feel like nothing is working.<b> My advice is always the same: go live your life. </b>Go have a glass of wine at the bar. Go talk to someone you wouldn’t normally talk to. Stop trying so hard to “work” real estate and start <i>being</i> in it. This business doesn’t reward hustle alone; it rewards awareness.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So I want to end this year by saying I am profoundly grateful that real estate taught me that the smallest investments, whether it’s nine dollars, an open mind, or a genuine conversation, can sometimes yield the biggest returns.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You just have to be willing to show up and listen. Now go make me proud tonight!</p><iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="true" class="youtube_embed" frameborder="0" height="100%" src="https://youtube.com/embed/2G4npALgwU0" width="100%"></iframe><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDAISM</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Today’s Words of Wisdom </h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDA BAKER & ASSOCIATES</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="this-ones-a-keeper">Are You Seeking Redemption?</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">I remember the very first time I saw this home at </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;"><a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/1274-redemption-dr?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=grab-a-seat-at-the-bar" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">1274 Redemption Drive in Lawrenceville, GA</a></span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">. I actually said out loud, “Oh, my stars, this cannot be the Atlanta suburbs!” And that is where the </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;"><i>redemption</i></span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;"> begins. Because just when you think you know what suburban living looks like, this property quietly rewrites the story! Tucked away on a peaceful cul-de-sac on 3.14 private, wooded acres along the Alcovy River, this home feels less like a house and more like a sanctuary. This is a full reset from the noise of everyday life. </span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">From treetop views and covered porches to sun-filled living spaces and a finished terrace level built for real life, this is the kind of home that restores you body and soul, from the moment you pull into the drive.</span></p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/cb6768b9-6f7d-438c-8dc4-204e114736d7/IMG_7397.jpeg?t=1767122790"/><div class="image__source"><a class="image__source_link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/1274-redemption-dr?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=grab-a-seat-at-the-bar" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><span class="image__source_text"><p>1274 Redemption Drive, Lawrenceville, GA</p></span></a></div></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/b60f9fa8-4e60-4988-a2ae-e62db6f901cb/IMG_7398.jpeg?t=1767122803"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/e964a266-b1ac-47d2-90b1-f380ed8045e1/IMG_7401.jpeg?t=1767122822"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/c605dbf9-853e-4c08-a1cc-3ef568ac0c47/IMG_7399.jpeg?t=1767122835"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/d1dcabda-664f-49a4-a452-500803bc68a9/IMG_7400.jpeg?t=1767122850"/></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=3acb291e-da42-4513-8a1d-01f4836a2af7&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=her_real_estate">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/669d3fa6-9ba3-4145-9b14-1db8a736d72b/viabbz18.png?t=1761938459"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome">WELCOME</h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Happy happy and merry merry, y’all! This time of year always slows me down in the best possible way. I am so excited for Christmas and I have it planned to a tee, where I’m making nothing but Instagram recipes. And because it’s Christmas, I’m doing what I love best: not serving green vegetables. (I believe salad is a waste, but that’s a topic for a different newsletter.)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Anyway, the lights are twinkling, the calendar is full of fun plans, and before we all charge into a brand-new year, I like to pause and take stock. That’s why I want to discuss gratitude. For me, gratitude isn’t just a warm-and-fuzzy feeling. Oh, no. It’s a whole <i>strategy</i>. Gratitude is how I stay grounded in a business that can be unpredictable, emotional, and (let’s be honest) sometimes crazy-making. When I look back at what real estate has given me, from the people to the opportunities, I credit gratitude as what keeps me showing up with clarity, confidence, and heart. So that’s our topic this week!</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/42d63bff-b474-402b-8fdd-99a5328af99e/IMG_7362.jpeg?t=1766426699"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>Photo by <a class="link" href="https://unsplash.com/@thebeardbe?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: var(--link-text-color)">Filip Bunkens</a> on <a class="link" href="https://unsplash.com/photos/yellow-pendant-lights-on-tree-9YDaCFmuoug?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: var(--link-text-color)">Unsplash</a></p></span></div></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">STORYTIME WITH GLENNDA</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="taking-a-test-drive-real-estatestyl">Gratitude Is a Gift That Keeps on Giving</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This isn’t always the most wonderful time of the year, regardless of what that song says. The holidays can be a trying time for people, whether they’re having issues with their families, their health, their work (or lack of), etc. I guess that’s why I’ve had gratitude on my mind lately, because I understand how blessed I am. Now, I’m not talking about gratitude as a platitude. (I know I rhymed, but let’s move past that.) I mean the real kind of gratitude that shows up after you’ve been knocked around a little. I mean the kind you earn in a trial by fire. The kind that comes from the folks who stick by you through all the highs and lows.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>In the beginning, if I had to guess what real estate would give me, I’d have said, “Probably some financial freedom, flexibility, and a career I can build on my own terms.” </b>And I was right; real estate <i>has</i> given me all of that. But it’s given me so much more, too.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Of course, I didn’t know what I didn’t know back then. Baby Glennda had no clue that real estate would give me confidence before I knew I needed it. Real estate would give me a voice before I realized how powerful my story could be. It gave me the chance to be in front of people I couldn’t imagine, in rooms I was never supposed to be in. And then? <i>Then</i> it asked me to speak up once I got there! On top of it all, it gave me these amazing friendships. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Maybe the most important thing is that real estate has given me perspective on </b><b><i>why</i></b><b> I should be grateful. It’s so easy to default to thinking about what’s wrong, and not what’s right. </b>So I want to be crystal clear to the universe that I’m grateful for the team I get to work alongside every day. I’m grateful for the trust people place in me during some of the biggest, most emotional decisions of their lives. I don’t take that duty lightly and I never have.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I’m also grateful for the fact that I’m excited about this business. After all these years, I still believe in it. I still believe in agents. I still believe in the process. I still believe there’s a right way to do this work, meaning with integrity, transparency, and heart.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>But let’s be honest: that gratitude didn’t come without cost.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Some of the things I’m most grateful for today were forged during the hardest seasons of my career.</b> I’m talking about the market shifts and those times when deals fell apart at the finish line over something as petty as nail holes or TV stands. And I mean those when times I questioned whether I was doing enough, whether I was enough, or where I’d even gotten the nerve to enter the rooms I’d found myself in. <b>Those seasons taught me resilience and how to trust my gut. The hard times taught me how to stand my ground when something didn’t feel right.</b> </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now, the lesson I never asked for was humility. <i>That</i> showed up like a lump of coal in my damn stocking. I swear, it doesn’t matter how long you’ve been in this business, the market will always be ready to remind you who’s <i>really</i> in charge. (I know the quote is, “Man plans and God laughs,” but it sometimes feels like it’s real estate who’s doing the laughing.)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">One of the unexpected byproducts of those tough years was being invited into bigger conversations about the industry itself. That’s how I found my way into spaces where leaders, innovators, and decision-makers were wrestling with where real estate was headed, and how it needed to evolve. <b>I didn’t get there because I had all the right answers. Hell, I got there because I’d </b><i><b>lived</b></i><b> the wrong answers to the questions.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I’m deeply grateful for the mistakes that helped forge my career and my perspective. I’m so very grateful to have had a seat at the table. I’m grateful to be able to speak not just for myself, but for agents everywhere who are in the trenches every single day. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Gratitude, for me, isn’t passive. It’s something I actively practice each day. </b>Every morning, before the emails and the texts and the chaos of the day kicks in, I take a few minutes to ground myself. I thank my mother and my Lord for guidance. Before I even open my eyes, I name what’s working in my life. I remind myself who I’m thankful for. I tell myself that even on the busiest days (especially on the busiest days) this career is a gift. And no matter what, I speak kindly to myself. It doesn’t matter what I’ve done—whether I’ve given myself a good hair day or I’ve gotten the Wordle in three tries—I am sure to give myself those words of affirmation. <b>When you speak affirmatively to yourself, you rewire those neural pathways in your brain. That means you’re literally speaking yourself into greatness, your truth into power.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That’s not to say that things never feel heavy. When they do, I am armed with the gratitude that I’ve survived worse, I’ve learned from it, and I’m still standing. So if you’re an agent reading this and feeling discouraged this time of year, completely out of gratitude to grasp tightly to, let me speak directly to you for a moment. If you’re frustrated, pause, but don’t lose faith. This business has seasons and some of them are wildly rewarding. Sometimes the pendulum swings back and it can be punishing. <b>But none of this experience is wasted because it’s all a lesson. You are building up to something, even when it doesn’t feel like it. </b>You are learning skills that will serve you for the rest of your life. You are becoming stronger, wiser, and more capable than you were last year, even if your numbers don’t reflect it yet.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>That’s why I want y’all to understand that gratitude doesn’t mean ignoring the hard stuff. It means acknowledging how far you’ve come despite it all. </b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">As we move through the holidays, my hope for everyone is that we don’t rush past the good. That we don’t overlook what we’ve learned in lieu of what we’ve lost. Please take a moment to honor the lessons, the growth, the relationships, and the unexpected gifts this career keeps offering us. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Please keep going. You’re doing better than you think.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">And just as a reminder that there can be a silver lining, here’s me at my most ignominious:</p><iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="true" class="youtube_embed" frameborder="0" height="100%" src="https://youtube.com/embed/zAN7SKaKS3o" width="100%"></iframe><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDAISM</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Today’s Words of Wisdom </h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDA BAKER & ASSOCIATES</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="this-ones-a-keeper">Be Alone… Together</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">One of the things I love most about this home at </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;"><a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/2792-achillea-way-sw-marietta-ga-us-30064-10649535?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=tis-the-season" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">2792 Achillea Way SW in Marietta, GA</a></span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">, is how brilliantly it solves real life. The fully independent in-law suite gives you the gift of togetherness </span><i>and</i><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;"> privacy—something that’s incredibly rare to find done this well. </span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">Whether it’s parents, adult kids, long-term guests, or even a roommate you actually like, everyone gets their own space, entrance, and rhythm, while still being close enough for dinners, holidays, and everyday connection! This home is the absolute best of both worlds: under one roof, but not on top of each other. And once you live with that kind of flexibility and freedom, you’ll wonder how you ever lived without it!</span></p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/7fa4f1e2-5241-43b4-89ea-2ed007d5f76e/IMG_7363.jpeg?t=1766431927"/><div class="image__source"><a class="image__source_link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/2792-achillea-way-sw-marietta-ga-us-30064-10649535?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=tis-the-season" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><span class="image__source_text"><p>2792 Achillea Way SW, Marietta, GA</p></span></a></div></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/d4992f3b-6d46-461c-89d7-0fb436e88c66/IMG_7365.jpeg?t=1766432022"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/333a9f3f-9551-46c2-b939-0ff396ce5b79/IMG_7364.jpeg?t=1766432043"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/8260a285-4759-41b6-9612-057209adc5eb/IMG_7368.jpeg?t=1766432065"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>Apart, but together.</p></span></div></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=b3051a3a-8f83-4571-90fa-6dafe51c598f&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=her_real_estate">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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  <title>YOU DON&#39;T WIN ALONE</title>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/669d3fa6-9ba3-4145-9b14-1db8a736d72b/viabbz18.png?t=1761938459"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome">WELCOME</h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Hello and welcome! Oh, my stars, if I’ve ever needed proof that this life is about people first and everything else second, let me tell y’all about my birthday! I got to celebrate another trip around the sun surrounded by the folks who make my world go round! I’m talking family, friends, teammates, and clients who’ve become friends. I feel so blessed to have created the kind of community that reminds me why I do what I do in the first place. There is nothing better than laughing, hugging, telling the old stories, and looking around the room thinking, <i>How did I get so damn lucky?</i> The older I get, the more I realize that success means nothing if I don’t have people to share it with.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now this brings me straight to this week’s topic. I’ve been thinking a lot about Taylor Swift, because <i>of course</i> I inhaled the first two episodes of the documentary (as well as the all-new tour footage). When I wasn’t sniffling into my Kleenex, I was thinking about the machine behind the magic because nobody does it alone. Not Taylor. Not you. Not me. Here’s the truth we’re going to dive into this week: we are only as powerful as those we nurture. The way we show up for others is where the real leverage is. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So let’s talk about the ecosystem that doesn’t just support your success, but multiplies it.</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/3c5fdc6f-cd3f-4517-98a6-27b3f623c967/image0__8_.jpeg?t=1765908914"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>The Life of a ShowGlennda</p></span></div></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">STORYTIME WITH GLENNDA</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="taking-a-test-drive-real-estatestyl">The <span style="text-decoration:line-through;">Big</span> Finely Tuned Machine</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>You Don’t Build an Empire Alone</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What struck me about the new Taylor Swift documentary is how clear she is that there is no Taylor Swift without her team. She is the sum of all of the parts, including the dancers, the musicians, and the unsung crew that we never see, whether they’re stringing lights or laundering costumes. She says it out loud over and over: “This only works because <i>we</i> work.”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I think that&#39;s a lesson worth slowing down and really sitting with, especially if you&#39;re a business owner, a team leader, or someone who&#39;s trying to grow something bigger than yourself. <b>If you want not just success, but staying power, your people have to feel seen, paid, protected, and supported, every single day.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Pulling Focus Isn’t a Threat; It’s the Whole Point</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">One of my favorite things about Taylor’s show is that she&#39;s not afraid to let her dancers pull focus away from her. Actually, what I love is that she <i>wants</i> them to do it. She builds moments when the spotlight moves away from her on purpose. <b>Taylor understands that when her team sparkles, her whole operation shines brighter. </b>(You could say it’s kind of like a <i>mirror ball</i>.) Related note: yes I rewound and tried to read Kam&#39;s lips when he read about the life-changing bonus she gifted to all her dancers. (I suspect it was $750K, especially considering she awarded $197M in bonuses over the course of the tour.) Taylor&#39;s philosophy has been that because her tour was successful, those who contributed to that success deserved to share in the rewards. Every PA. Every truck driver. Every last person.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That philosophy lives at the core of how I run my business. <b>My Diamond Squad doesn&#39;t work for me. They work </b><b><i>with</i></b><b> me. </b>There are no secrets or any mystery math. Everybody is on the same split. Everybody knows what things cost. There&#39;s no leaderboard, no competition, no “coffee is for closers.” I don&#39;t pit people against each other and call it motivation. Instead, we build trust together. Because band-aids don’t fix bullet holes and culture problems don’t resolve themselves.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The $10 Million Call</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let me tell y’all a story that perfectly explains how this works in real life. One day, a call came in. It was supposed to go to Evelyn, but the way it worked out, Elizabeth was there to answer it. Elizabeth could have kept that lead for herself. She could have said, “Well, you weren’t here and I had the phone,” and no one would have blamed her. Instead, Elizabeth said, “Let’s work it together!”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That single call turned into a $600,000 purchase. Then that turned into a $2.5 million purchase. Then another $2.5 million purchase, and like that old shampoo commercial, they told two friends and so on. When all was said and done, that single call and moment of generosity turned into $10 million in volume. Not once did those two argue about the money. They split it evenly and happily every time.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>That&#39;s what happens when people trust each other. That&#39;s what happens when you build a team where no one is worried someone else is stealing from them. </b>That&#39;s how it shakes out when you create a culture that says, “We win together or not at all.” Bad blood? Not on my watch.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What One for All Actually Looks Like</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here’s the part that people don&#39;t always see. When someone on my team needs time for whatever reason, everybody jumps in. If someone has to be away for a week, business still gets handled. Listings still get serviced, and buyers still get taken care of. No one sends an invoice to a teammate for helping out.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">We are an autonomous unit, meaning we role-play hard conversations before making them. We brainstorm together. We always talk through every scenario to make sure that no one ever feels alone or exposed. <b>The psychological safety of how we run our business matters just as much as the paycheck. “You’re on your own, kid” is not a leadership strategy.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>When It Goes Wrong (And It Has)</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I’d be lying if I said every team story has a happy ending. There was a time when someone close to me didn&#39;t feel seen. She didn&#39;t feel appreciated, and she didn&#39;t feel like she was paid what she believed she deserved. Instead of talking to me about it, she left suddenly. No warning, she just quit by text. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The experience was a devastating, not just professionally, but personally. My team is everything to me. I mean, they were seated at the table with me on my birthday, along with my family. So this was a hard way to learn that even when I thought I was doing everything right, alignment still has to be mutual. <b>Transparency only works if both sides are willing to see the full picture. I&#39;m not talking just about the top line revenue, but also the risk, the expenses, and the responsibility to come with running the whole operation. </b>That lesson changed how I protect my business and my heart.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The Real Takeaway</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Taylor Swift pays her people well. She makes sure they&#39;re taken care of. (You could say that she protects the family.) <b>And just as importantly, she gives them credit out loud and on the bottom line. </b><i>This</i> is what leadership looks like.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So, if y’all want to build something that lasts, look inside yourselves and ask:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Do the people around me feel seen?</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Do they understand how they’re paid and why?</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Do they feel protected when life happens?</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Do they feel supported, not just professionally, but personally?</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Because I have been doing this job since Jesus was a baby, I know for a fact that the magic onstage doesn’t happen alone. The ecosystem around you is the true alchemy.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When you get that part right, then everything else falls into place… like dominoes.</p><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndas-guru">GLENNDA’S GURU</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="more-with-jason-waugh">More With Jason Waugh!</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In my last conversation with <a class="link" href="https://anywhere.re/leadership/jason-waugh/?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=you-don-t-win-alone" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Jason Waugh</a>, we covered so much great stuff that I couldn’t put it all into one video. So I could not be more pleased to bring you <i>more</i> with Jason, who y’all know likely better as the CEO of Coldwell Banker Affiliates. What you may not know is how he thinks and what inspires him, so I’m delighted to share more of our conversation!</p><iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="true" class="youtube_embed" frameborder="0" height="100%" src="https://youtube.com/embed/DL7TdusF674" width="100%"></iframe><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Thanks again, Jason!</p><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDAISM</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Today’s Words of Wisdom </h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDA BAKER & ASSOCIATES</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="this-ones-a-keeper">Choose Your Own Adventure</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">Here’s what I love about this home at </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;"><a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/3803-manor-view-alpharetta-ga-30004-93dc1de3a26654136ac8392aa99964d4?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=you-don-t-win-alone" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">3803 Manor View in Alpharetta, GA</a></span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">: you get to choose your own adventure! Want to plant roots and make it yours? It’s ready. Need a gorgeous, low-maintenance place to land while life figures itself out? It works beautifully for that, too!</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">Whether you’re buying or renting, this end-unit townhome in gated Deerfield Landing gives you flexibility without sacrificing style or location. This townhome is tucked inside a quiet, beautifully-kept community, but it’s only minutes from Avalon, Halcyon, GA-400, and some of the best schools in Alpharetta. I am talking luxury lock-and-leave living at its finest, with its wide-plank hardwoods, an open floor plan, a true owner’s retreat, and a private patio that’s just enough outdoor space without the upkeep. Upscale, secure, and right where you want to be! This is one of those homes that meets you exactly where you are and lets you decide what comes next.</span></p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/1f00dc07-877b-413e-a958-eb30bdabc44d/IMG_7350.jpeg?t=1765915575"/><div class="image__source"><a class="image__source_link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/3803-manor-view-alpharetta-ga-30004-93dc1de3a26654136ac8392aa99964d4?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=you-don-t-win-alone" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><span class="image__source_text"><p>3803 Manor View, Alpharetta, GA</p></span></a></div></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/54e73076-b373-4845-8de4-235e600510da/IMG_7352.jpeg?t=1765915590"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/f0ae5909-4b88-4266-bed1-19b44e72a472/IMG_7353.jpeg?t=1765915609"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/007ad4dc-2e0c-49f7-9752-01b5a22a9c2e/IMG_7351.jpeg?t=1765915624"/></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=a529242a-9756-41a9-b468-39bad308ef80&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=her_real_estate">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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That would be excessive.)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I kicked things off exactly the way any self-respecting birthday gal with a flair for the dramatic should: at the hibachi grill with my whole family. Nothing says “another trip around the sun” like a chef flinging shrimp at your face while your grandbabies cheer and create core memories. The only thing better than a birthday week is being surrounded by everyone I love, so I am feeling truly blessed! </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now here’s the thing—nights like that remind me why connection matters so much. Not the quick, transactional “just checking in” kind of contact, but the steady, genuine, keep-showing-up kind. And that’s exactly what we’re diving into today: why <b>continual connection</b> beats plain old follow-up every single time</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/9fd5ec80-fae8-4a10-91ce-e6b4db425aa6/gift-habeshaw-9Isvnq7yVDU-unsplash__1_.jpg?t=1765310811"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>Oh, my stars, it’s my week! Photo by <a class="link" href="https://unsplash.com/@gift_habeshaw?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: rgb(118, 118, 118)">Gift Habeshaw</a> on <a class="link" href="https://unsplash.com/photos/round-cake-on-stand-9Isvnq7yVDU?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" style="color: rgb(118, 118, 118)">Unsplash</a></p></span></div></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">A QUICK REMINDER</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="my-birthday-wish">My Birthday Wish</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It’s my birthday, so I can get away with another quick reminder that I’m fundraising in support of the <b>Alzheimer’s Association</b>. My goal is to raise <b>$75,000 by </b><span style="color:currentcolor;"><b>April 1, 2026</b></span>, which is when I strap on my dancing shoes and put on a show.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you’re feeling moved to give, your contribution will fuel care, support, research, and hope for families navigating this devastating disease. Because there’s nothing more precious than memories and our goal is help people hold onto theirs longer.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b><a class="link" href="https://act.alz.org/site/TR/Gala/GA-Georgia?pg=personal&px=25632269&fr_id=19246&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=continuous-connection" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">👉 </a></b><b><a class="link" href="https://act.alz.org/site/TR/Gala/GA-Georgia?pg=personal&px=25632269&fr_id=19246&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=continuous-connection" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Donation Link</a></b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Every dollar truly makes a difference, y’all. And I could not thank everyone more for their generosity.</p><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">STORYTIME WITH GLENNDA</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="taking-a-test-drive-real-estatestyl">Let’s Connect</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let me start with a confession: I, Glennda Baker, Queen of Real Estate and Queen of Getting Things Done, am absolutely terrible at follow-up. Oh, my stars, if real estate handed out report card and “Follow-Up” was a subject, I would get one of those N’s for “Needs Improvement.” My saving grace is that I usually close the deal right at the appointment. But circling back days later, nudging, reminding, checking in? I will admit this is not my strong suit.</p><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="task-vs-relationship">Task Vs. Relationship</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But here’s the twist... even though I fail at being the Follow-Up Fairy, I’m a die-hard believer in something far more powerful. And that is continuous connection.<b> Follow-up, at its core, is a task. </b>It’s a reminder you set, a box you check, a line item on a to-do list. I admit that I do not love a task. <b>Continuous connection, though; that’s a relationship.</b> I love a relationship because relationships are alive. They <i>breathe</i>. They expand and contract with your client’s life. I promise you, that makes all the difference.</p><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="elizabeth-the-relentless-connector">Elizabeth: The Relentless Connector</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Nobody does it better than Elizabeth, my Diamond Squad teammate, who’s just a force of nature when it comes to staying in people’s lives. She doesn’t fool around with the “Just checking in to see if you’re thinking about selling” nonsense. She calls everyone because she genuinely cares. She asks how your mama’s doing, how your holiday plans shook out, how the new job is going. <b>She’s always in the know. Because she’s so relentlessly present, she becomes the first person people think of the moment life shifts.</b> Life’s turning points are where the magic happens in real estate. We all know real estate decisions follow the 5 Ds of life events: diamonds, diapers, divorce, death, and disparity. (Obviously, the ones with rings and babies are the most fun.)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A few years back, Elizabeth reached out to a past buyer in December, just a warm holiday-season hello. She had no script, and there was nothing salesy about her genuine effort to connect. That woman told Elizabeth, “Actually… I’m getting married.” Diamonds! Then came the news that she and her fiancé were going to sell his house and buy a new one together. A casual December call turned into a $1.4 million listing. Later, the same client shared that she was pregnant. Diapers!! And immediately, they needed a bigger house. <b>The power of connection puts you in the right place at the right time without ever needing to push or prod.</b></p><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="the-one-that-got-away">The One That Got Away</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now, not every story has that happily-ever-after element to it. A few years ago, I went on a listing appointment for a home worth about $6M. Everything felt like a slam dunk. The sellers were nodding and excited. They were practically asking where to sign. However, life stopped them in their tracks when a medical emergency delayed their timeline. In that pause before I reconnected, someone else reached out to them first, and I lost the listing. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I’d be lying if I said I didn’t still smart over that loss. A million times, I’ve asked myself, <i>Would a simple automated home-value update have kept me top of mind?</i> <i>Should I have invited them to client events? Could a thoughtful check-in have kept the relationship warm?</i> The answer is yes to all of it. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>That loss taught me something valuable: even when the relationship feels solid, you must intentionally nurture it.</b> Real estate isn’t target practice. You don’t just fling a handful of darts and hope you hit something. You ask, you listen, and you have to tailor your communication to what people <i>want,</i> rather than what you <i>assume</i>. When I sit with clients now, I find out how they prefer to be kept in the loop. That might be weekly updates, monthly check-ins, market data, texts, emails, or calls. <b>Most agents shoot in the dark, but continuous connection starts by turning on the lights.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This is why I say that 2026 is the year of relentless implementation. Not shot-in-the-dark follow-up attempts, but more thoughtful, more intentional connection. There has never been a better time to embrace this practice than the holiday season! The holidays give you the ultimate excuse to reach out to people for absolutely no reason other than kindness. Call them and ask what they’re doing for Christmas. See if they’re hosting family or flying solo. For once, reach out without trying to sell a thing. Trust me, people can tell the difference. <b>A genuine holiday hello matters far more than another templated real estate email.</b></p><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="invite-them-in">Invite Them In</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">One of the most powerful ways to build that connection is to bring clients into your world. <b>Something shifts when someone sets foot inside your home. And the more you invite them, the more they move from client to friend. </b>That’s why I host events throughout the year: Thanksgiving pie pickups, summer celebrations, movie nights, even a potential Cinco de Mayo party next year. You wouldn’t take food from a stranger, right? Well, once you give people food, they stop being strangers!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">After they’ve been to my house, I like to give them a little reminder of that time we spent together. For example, after the event, I’ll pop by with a framed Santa photo from the Sweets with Santa event. There’s no logo, no branding, nothing about <i>me</i> on it. Just a memory they’ll keep in their home. Yet I’ll wager that every time they look at it, they think of the person who gave it to them.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That gift is the perfect example of how connection works. It isn’t about plastering your name everywhere or inserting yourself into people’s inboxes until they cry, “Uncle!” <b>Connection is about giving something real, something meaningful, something unforced. </b>Connection isn’t loud or pushy. Instead, it’s steady and warm. Because real connection is earned.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">While I may be terrible at follow-up, I am a champion of connection. <b>Follow-up reminds people what you </b><i><b>want</b></i><b>. Connection reminds them </b><i><b>who you are</b></i><b>. Follow-up keeps you in the inbox. Connection keeps you in their life.</b> In real estate, the agents who build relationships (not databases, not pipelines) are the ones who thrive. So this season, I hope you put down the script and pick up the phone. Call someone because you care. This is an opportunity to be warm and present. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The truth is, success doesn’t come from the follow-up. Real success is the relationship you’re brave enough to keep building, long after the paperwork is done</p><blockquote class="tiktok-embed" cite="https://www.tiktok.com/@glenndabaker/video/7558464148502301982" data-video-id="7558464148502301982"><section><a target="_blank" title="@glenndabaker" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@glenndabaker?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=continuous-connection" rel="noreferrer"> @glenndabaker </a><p>When it’s all said and done, I don’t want to be remembered for the houses I sold, I want to be remembered for how I made people feel. If y... 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(Why, yes, this </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;"><i>is </i></span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">the same Johns Creek rated the</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;"><b> #1 Best Place to Live in America</b></span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;"> by </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;"><i>U.S. News & World Report</i></span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">!)</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">This is a light-filled charmer, tucked inside the coveted gated community of Abberley Township. (Who doesn’t love a gate?) This beautifully maintained, move-in-ready home lives easy and elegant, offering over 2,600 square feet of thoughtful updates and timeless details, from scraped hardwoods to a chef’s kitchen that opens to your own private fenced courtyard—perfect for morning coffee or evening grilling. </span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">Upstairs, the spacious primary suite feels like a true retreat, with soaring ceilings, a sitting area, and a spa-like bath. With major systems replaced in the last five years and unbeatable proximity to Avalon, Halcyon, Downtown Alpharetta, premier parks, top-rated schools, and the Big Creek Greenway, this lock-and-leave home delivers comfort, convenience, and Johns Creek living at its absolute finest!</span></p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/ff0b866f-9fe8-461b-af6a-c3766a61a5f3/IMG_7271.jpeg?t=1765314998"/><div class="image__source"><a class="image__source_link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/4807-abberley-lane-johns-creek-ga-us-30022-10652872?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=continuous-connection" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><span class="image__source_text"><p>We’re #1! 4807 Abberley Lane, Johns Creek, GA</p></span></a></div></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/d7311806-3788-4771-aa63-13ba1df105ff/IMG_7272.jpeg?t=1765315076"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/548df5f7-8866-49bf-916e-cb6ebf0bf5c9/IMG_7273.jpeg?t=1765315093"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/2fdd4ab7-655c-4a80-84f6-c4016aa67a6f/IMG_7274.jpeg?t=1765315106"/></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=6097dc15-0798-400a-8704-0ec939076b4d&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=her_real_estate">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/669d3fa6-9ba3-4145-9b14-1db8a736d72b/viabbz18.png?t=1761938459"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome">WELCOME</h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">Good morning! I hope you’ve got your coffee and your cozy spot ready, because today we’re going somewhere tender. </span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">This last week would have been my mother’s birthday. Every year when this date rolls around, I can’t help but think about all the ways she shaped who I am. So today, I want to talk about the lessons Mommy baked into my bones. I’m talking about the ones she taught me when she was sitting on that bench at Lenox Mall. The ones she taught by loving big and observing bigger. The ones that still guide me in every aspect of my life as a daughter, a mother, a friend, a partner, and as a real estate agent. </span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:medium;">Y’all may not know it, but my mother has always been on my shoulder, whispering in my ear for every deal, every negotiation, and every connection I make. And I am so grateful for that presence, so let’s get into it!</span></p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/465673c5-ebd7-442d-9969-5da2ef4b1f7b/IMG_7117.jpeg?t=1764706683"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>Betty Baker: beautiful, inside and out.</p></span></div></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">THE REALITY OF <span style="text-decoration:line-through;">REAL ESTATE </span>MAKING A DIFFERENCE</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="giving-tuesday-wednesday">Giving <span style="text-decoration:line-through;">Tuesday</span> Wednesday</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">As we enter this season of gratitude and giving, I want to share something deeply personal with you. This year, I’m fundraising in support of the <b>Alzheimer’s Association</b>, a mission that means more to me than I can put into words. My goal is to raise <b>$75,000 by </b><span style="color:currentcolor;"><b>April 1, 2026</b></span>, and by <b>December 1st</b>, I am supposed to be at <b>$25,000</b>. Right now, I’m at <b>$14,000, </b>so I’m reaching out for your support.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you feel moved to give, whether personally or <i>in the spirit of giving this season, </i>your contribution will fuel care, support, research, and hope for families navigating this devastating disease.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://act.alz.org/site/TR/Gala/GA-Georgia?pg=personal&px=25632269&fr_id=19246&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=dreams-from-my-mommy" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>👉 </b></a><a class="link" href="https://act.alz.org/site/TR/Gala/GA-Georgia?pg=personal&px=25632269&fr_id=19246&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=dreams-from-my-mommy" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>Donation Link</b></a></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Every dollar truly makes a difference, y’all. And with <b>December 2nd marking the annual Day of Giving</b>, this is the perfect moment to include the Alzheimer’s Association in your end-of-year generosity.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">From the bottom of my heart, thank every last one of you for being part of my community, for the love you show, and for standing with me in a cause that touches so many lives!</p><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">STORYTIME WITH GLENNDA</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="taking-a-test-drive-real-estatestyl">The Lessons That Last a Lifetime</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">There are people whose influence feels like wallpaper. What I mean is that you don’t always notice that influence, but it’s right there, covering every inch of your life. </span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">Let me say this clearly: </span><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);"><i>my mother was not wallpaper</i></span><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">. Oh, my stars, no. Mommy was brilliant neon. She was bold and bright and unforgettable. She poured so much love, attention, curiosity, and fire into me that it’s impossible to separate the woman I am today from the woman who raised me.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">I want to talk about her today because every single day in this business (and in my life), whether I’m negotiating an inspection, sitting across from a nervous first-time buyer, or talking a seller off a ledge, I hear her in my head. In tribute to her, I want to share the lessons she taught me and how they still show up in my real estate world.</span></p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="love-people-big-but-believe-them-wh"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">Love People Big, But Believe Them When They Show You Who They Are</span></h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">Mommy loved with her whole entire soul. When she loved you, it was loud and obvious and unconditional. But if you crossed her? Well, that was </span><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);"><i>it</i></span><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">. She believed that people show you who they are, and your only job is to pay attention. </span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">In real estate, this concept is everything.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">If a lender is always “running behind,” if a co-op board is dragging its feet on purpose, if a contractor flashes you that cheesy “would I lie to you, hon?” grin that gives you a pit in your stomach, she taught me to trust my gut. People tell you the truth through their behavior long before they say it out loud.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">Now, the flip side is just as true: </span><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);"><b>when a client gives you their trust, their vulnerability, and their excitement? You give that love right back to them. </b></span><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">You go big, you go loud, and you go all in.</span></p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="be-a-master-observer-the-real-work-"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">Be a Master Observer: The Real Work Happens in the Listening</span></h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">My mother was the Forrest Gump of Lenox Mall. I mean that in the best possible way, too. Sit her on a bench, and suddenly she’d be best friends with anyone who sat beside her. I am not kidding. Whether she was shooting the breeze with Dominique Wilkins’ mother or chatting up Katarina Witt when she was in town during the ‘96 Olympics, Mommy was holding court like she was born for it. But here’s the thing: people talked to her because she </span><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);"><i>listened</i></span><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);"> to them. She treated every stranger like they were the only person in the room. </span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);"><b>In real estate, listening is the superpower nobody teaches you.</b></span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">Clients will tell you everything... if you give them the space to do so. They&#39;ll share what they fear and what they hope. If you let them, they&#39;ll confide what they can’t say directly because they don’t want to look foolish. They&#39;ll let you know what&#39;s really motivating their move.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">My mother taught a master class in being heard. She knew that when someone feels heard, they also feel safe. Clients make their best real-estate decisions from a place of emotional safety. </span><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);"><b>Mommy didn’t just listen to words; she listened to </b></span><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);"><b><i>people.</i></b></span><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);"><b> And every great agent I know does the same.</b></span></p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="connect-the-dots-because-thats-wher"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">Connect the Dots Because That’s Where the Magic Lives</span></h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">My mother could take a scrap of information and build a bridge from it straight into someone’s heart. You like basketball? Oh, well, she happens to know a lady whose son plays for the Hawks. You’re in town for the Olympics? Well, now you’re sitting next to her on a mall bench, making lifelong memories. (Again, these are true stories!) She made tiny pieces of information feel like destiny the way she tied it all together to fill in the blanks. </span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">That is the </span><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);"><i>exact</i></span><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);"> job in real estate. We’re not just matching beds and baths. Oh, no. As agents, we&#39;re connecting human stories to the right homes, neighborhoods, schools, and futures. For example, when I introduce a relocating family to a neighbor who’s also from Chicago? Or when I pair a nervous seller with a stager who instantly puts them at ease? Or when I remember that a client’s father has mobility issues and I steer them toward a ranch instead of a two-story? </span><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);"><b>In each case, that&#39;s my mother’s voice in my head saying, “Punkin, listen close enough, and the dots connect themselves.”</b></span></p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="treat-everyone-with-dignity-no-matt"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">Treat Everyone With Dignity, No Matter Their Station, Style, or Story</span></h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">My mother lived through the pre-Civil Rights South. She had zero tolerance for people who didn&#39;t treat others well. When racists at the Alabama gas station refused to fill her tank because she was traveling with my babysitter, Mama Eva, my mother was furious. Furious enough to drive on fumes before she’d let hate win. </span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">In real estate, respect isn’t optional. Respect is the whole damn job. You treat the luxury buyer and the $200K buyer with the same warmth. You treat the agent on the other side of the deal like a partner, not a rival. You treat inspectors, appraisers, and lenders as professionals whose work matters. </span><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);"><b>Real estate has ego traps everywhere, and Mommy taught me to sidestep every single one.</b></span></p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="be-curious-knowledge-is-power-and-p"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">Be Curious: Knowledge Is Power (and Professionalism)</span></h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">My mother read the entire newspaper, every day, cover to cover, even the parts she didn’t care about. She believed in knowing things simply because the world required it of you. We&#39;re in a business that’s constantly evolving. In a blink, interest rates can shift. Zoning can change, and market conditions can pivot after one damn day in the stock market. You can’t be a great agent if you aren’t a great student of what&#39;s happening. Being curious about our industry is part of our fiduciary duty.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);"><b>Mommy didn’t do “uninformed.” And neither should we.</b></span></p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="own-your-decisions-but-dont-chain-y"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">Own Your Decisions, But Don’t Chain Yourself to the Bad Ones</span></h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">Mommy was bold. She was the original exclamation point of a person. She made decisions (some brilliant, some not) and owned them all. But she never believed you had to </span><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);"><i>die</i></span><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);"> by a bad decision. She believed in course-correcting and moving forward if something went off the rails.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">In real estate, we have to recalibrate. Sometimes we price a house too high or we trust the wrong lender. Sometimes we say yes to a client when our gut is screaming, &quot;No!&quot; But she taught me that it&#39;s fine to pivot and start over.</span></p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="confidence-comes-from-someone-belie"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">Confidence Comes From Someone Believing in You First</span></h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">Mommy believed in me with a force that could have moved mountains. That belief became the foundation for my entire career. When I walk into any room, she&#39;s still in my head saying, </span><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);"><b>“Glennda Baker, you are capable. You are worthy. Stand up straight and go do it.”</b></span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">She taught me what confidence is. She is why I can pour that confidence into my clients. People make better decisions when they feel supported. And if I can be for them what my mother was for me, then I’m doing my job right.</span></p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="the-legacy-she-left-me-and-the-one-"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">The Legacy She Left Me, And the One I Try to Leave in Every Deal</span></h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">There isn’t a single part of my real estate career that isn’t shaped by my mother’s love, her fire, and her curiosity. She taught me to see people, to hear them, and to love them enough to tell them the truth. Because that’s what real estate really is: </span><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);"><b>the business of people. </b></span><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">Every contract, every showing, every open house, it&#39;s people.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(14, 16, 26);">Thanks to Mommy, I know exactly how to show up for every single one of them.</span></p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/9a8bcb0e-98b8-4791-9e62-e3eec9143e45/IMG_7118.jpeg?t=1764711115"/></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="storytime-with-glennda">GLENNDA’S GURU</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="welcome-jason-waugh">Welcome, Jason Waugh!</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I am <i>so</i> excited to welcome <a class="link" href="https://www.instagram.com/mrjasonwaugh/?hl=en&utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=dreams-from-my-mommy" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Jason Waugh</a> this week! Many of y’all already know that Jason is the president of Coldwell Banker Affiliates. But if you’re not familiar, he leads the marketing, franchise sales, and operations teams that support more than <b>100,000 agents in 2,700 offices across 39 countries.</b> (OMS!) Before that, he grew one of the top Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices brokerages from 600 to over 1,000 agents in just four years. So believe me when I say that this man understands growth, leadership, and strategy on a level most of us only dream of.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What I love so much about Jason is that he’s not just a big-title guy. No, ma’am. He’s a <i>people-first</i> leader who truly understands what brokers and agents need to succeed in any market. He’s smart, he’s grounded, and he’s super passionate about giving our industry the tools to thrive. And that is why I’m thrilled to have him as this week’s guru!</p><iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="true" class="youtube_embed" frameborder="0" height="100%" src="https://youtube.com/embed/LN1nRVOjVds" width="100%"></iframe><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Thank you, Jason!</p><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDAISM</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="todays-words-of-wisdom">Today’s Words of Wisdom </h3><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="glenndaism">GLENNDA BAKER & ASSOCIATES</h2><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="this-ones-a-keeper">Space, the Final Frontier</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If there’s one thing I want you to know about this home at <a class="link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/2792-achillea-way-sw-marietta-ga-us-30064-10649535?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=dreams-from-my-mommy" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">2792 Achillea Way SW in Marietta, GA</a>, it’s this: <b>she is spacious in all the ways that matter.</b> </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You’re not squeezing around corners or wondering where to put people. Oh, no. This house <i>breathes.</i> From the moment you step into that soaring two-story foyer, you feel it. The rooms are oversized, the sightlines are long, and everything flows the way real life actually works. You’ve got space for working, space for gathering, space for guests on the main level, and then (OMS!) you’ve got an entire terrace suite that lives like a second home. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In a world where so many houses feel cramped or compromised, this one gives you room to live boldly, comfortably, and expansively every single day!</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/11d22fa1-bede-4d4f-b718-2f158c3fa226/IMG_7119.jpeg?t=1764712120"/><div class="image__source"><a class="image__source_link" href="https://glennda.net/properties/2792-achillea-way-sw-marietta-ga-us-30064-10649535?utm_source=herrealestate.beehiiv.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=dreams-from-my-mommy" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><span class="image__source_text"><p>2792 Achillea Way SW, Marietta, GA</p></span></a></div></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/404998f9-6bf4-4652-b19e-abe346f41ffb/IMG_7120.jpeg?t=1764712134"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/ed92a6aa-efe6-46d0-8c9d-815708c44da1/IMG_7121.jpeg?t=1764712148"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/4259b5db-2d82-434b-b98d-ea27f5a6531b/IMG_7122.jpeg?t=1764712163"/></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/083064ed-d09e-4c19-8f6d-f95b94ef84a2/IMG_7123.jpeg?t=1764712177"/></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=eef1c050-4fb0-4cfc-8beb-c6ec8b0e8147&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=her_real_estate">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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