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  <title>&quot;Can you fill the CEO&#39;s spot on the panel?&quot;</title>
  <description>Credible by association–another way to connect. </description>
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Our goal is to recognize the patterns of other&#39;s breakthrough moments so we can inspire to take action on our own.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Real <i>connections</i> (the relationships between people, ideas, and technology) cannot be linearly planned–only understood backward, when the dots finally connect in retrospect.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Each week, I&#39;ll share: </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">➤ <b>The Moment</b> — A pivotal scene in the course of someone&#39;s life<br>➤ <b>The Insight</b> — The psychological principle at work<br>➤ <b>The Breakthrough</b> — The contrarian belief that transformed their life</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>Speaking of which...</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let me tell you about Pablo, who went from fearing for his stable job to having five people line up to hire him—all in 45 minutes.</p></div><div id="meet-the-ai-connector" class="section" style="background-color:#FFFFFF;border-color:#d2d7ff;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:20.0px 20.0px 20.0px 20.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:#3a4e84;">. </span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:#ffffff;">THE STORY </span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:#3a4e84;">.</span></span></h4><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="#section" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px 10px 10px 10px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px 1px 1px 1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/bcd5de74-ff2d-4a3b-8b56-5cd9b04ebdb1/123.png?t=1757953955"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Pablo was afraid of getting laid off. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Yet there he was–standing behind three microphones, staring at 100 strangers. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">He was the Director of Sustainability of a Miami construction company, working under new leadership who didn&#39;t quite understand the value of his work: “<i>What does a sustainability director actually do?&quot; </i>his CEO recently asked him.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Not exactly what you want to hear from your boss. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">However, his elusive role is what got him on stage. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The CEO was supposed to speak on a Smart Cities panel in front of Miami&#39;s Economic Development Agency. The CEO&#39;s last minute realized: he did not know enough about smart cities <i>and</i> was not a big fan of public speaking. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">&quot;You&#39;re the sustainability guy, and you do all those public speaking things. Can you fill his spot?&quot; asked someone from the leadership team.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So there Pablo was. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Sitting between: <br>➤ The head of the World Bank&#39;s Smart Cities Initiative<br>➤ The head of Latin America for Cisco Systems<br>➤ And him—<i>a guy afraid of getting laid off the next day</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">For 45 minutes, he spoke about his passion.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When he stepped off that stage? Five people lined up to speak with him.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">“How can we partner with your team?”<br>&quot;What&#39;s it take to get a guy like you to work for me?&quot;<br>“I want you as a mentor. I want to be like you.” (that was Will, who became a lasting connection)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Pablo had spoken publicly before through nonprofit work, but never had a line of people waiting to talk to him afterward.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That&#39;s when it hit him—</p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/d17967ce-785c-4674-9790-6c674d8267f5/__Connections_Content_Break-.png?t=1757192554"/></div><div id="meet-the-ai-connector" class="section" style="background-color:#FFFFFF;border-color:#d2d7ff;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:20.0px 20.0px 20.0px 20.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:#3a4e84;">. </span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:#ffffff;">THE INSIGHT </span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:#3a4e84;">.</span></span></h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The brain explains what it sees.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Pablo&#39;s proximity to high-level leaders elevated his status.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Therefore— </p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/d17967ce-785c-4674-9790-6c674d8267f5/__Connections_Content_Break-.png?t=1757192554"/></div><div id="meet-the-ai-connector" class="section" style="background-color:#FFFFFF;border-color:#d2d7ff;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:20.0px 20.0px 20.0px 20.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(58, 78, 132);">. </span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">THE BREAKTHROUGH </span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(58, 78, 132);">.</span></span></h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The right stage positions you better than any credential.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Most people believe: </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">➤ Wait for credentials before claiming expertise</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">➤ Your title determines your positioning</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">➤ You need official invitations to belong</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">However, with Pablo&#39;s experience, a new truth emerges:</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Proximity + one&#39;s own authority = magnetic positioning.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Surround yourself with the right people in your space for others to position you amongst the powerful, like-minded individuals for you to own your own stage. </p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/d17967ce-785c-4674-9790-6c674d8267f5/__Connections_Content_Break-.png?t=1757192554"/></div><div id="meet-the-ai-connector" class="section" style="background-color:#FFFFFF;border-color:#d2d7ff;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:20.0px 20.0px 20.0px 20.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(58, 78, 132);">. </span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">THE RESULT </span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(58, 78, 132);">.</span></span></h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Today, Pablo Gonzalez has dedicated his life to being a category leader in the community-building space for B2B businesses. His experiences taught him the power of proximity + authority by building stages through his proprietary framework of POV → Content → Online Events → Live Events → Community-as-a-Service. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Pablo&#39;s recent transformative clients include JWB Real Estate, Vendoroo, and Lenovo.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you would like to connect with Pablo, you can find him on <a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/pablotheconnector/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=can-you-fill-the-ceo-s-spot-on-the-panel" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">LinkedIn</a>.</p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/d17967ce-785c-4674-9790-6c674d8267f5/__Connections_Content_Break-.png?t=1757192554"/></div><div id="our-playlist" class="section" style="background-color:#FFFFFF;border-color:#d2d7ff;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:20.0px 20.0px 20.0px 20.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#d1447f;"> </span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(58, 78, 132);">. </span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">SPONSOR </span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(58, 78, 132);">.</span></span></h4><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="finally-a-portfolio-thats-autoupdat">Finally, a portfolio that&#39;s auto-updating, and creates backups of your work.</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://authory.com/?utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_medium=VersionA&utm_source=beehiiv&_bhiiv=opp_9b05faed-6caf-4cb9-a5bd-c2c3336d9c5a_feaefb67&bhcl_id=8aafba3a-7006-40b8-b622-31ef87400882_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/81bccc45-aed0-46cf-8a13-c482360457d6/Ad_square_1.png?t=1752254879"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you&#39;re a writer, journalist or content marketer, you are probably familiar with these struggles:</p><ol start="1"><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Spending hours updating your portfolio page to keep it fresh.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Losing your work samples due to site shutdowns.</p></li></ol><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The good news? <a class="link" href="https://authory.com/?utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_medium=VersionA&utm_source=beehiiv&_bhiiv=opp_9b05faed-6caf-4cb9-a5bd-c2c3336d9c5a_feaefb67&bhcl_id=8aafba3a-7006-40b8-b622-31ef87400882_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Authory</a> has you covered.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It automatically pulls in your content and creates a stunning portfolio that updates itself every time you publish.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Plus, it backs up all your work, so you never have to worry about losing anything.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Ready to impress potential clients and employers?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://authory.com/?utm_campaign={{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_medium=VersionA&utm_source=beehiiv&_bhiiv=opp_9b05faed-6caf-4cb9-a5bd-c2c3336d9c5a_feaefb67&bhcl_id=8aafba3a-7006-40b8-b622-31ef87400882_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Get your free portfolio today</a></p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/d17967ce-785c-4674-9790-6c674d8267f5/__Connections_Content_Break-.png?t=1757192554"/></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#FFFFFF;border-color:#d2d7ff;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:20.0px 20.0px 20.0px 20.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Hey friends,</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This year, I&#39;ve reflected on something uncomfortable.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">While I&#39;ve been building an <a class="link" href="https://letterlaunched.com/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=can-you-fill-the-ceo-s-spot-on-the-panel" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">email marketing business</a>, I&#39;ve neglected the consistency required in my newsletter. Most advice I received said to <i>&quot;ignore it, don&#39;t say anything to your readers, and just start again.&quot;</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But I believe ignoring the connection I have with you is antithetical to everything I stand for.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Therefore, I acknowledge it—and return with a compromise: a new newsletter structure.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Just as I advise my clients, a <a class="link" href="https://www.bain.com/insights/the-win-scale-model-scaling-a-repeatable-model-fm-blog/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=can-you-fill-the-ceo-s-spot-on-the-panel" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">repeatable</a> yet <a class="link" href="https://hbr.org/2011/11/the-great-repeatable-business-model?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=can-you-fill-the-ceo-s-spot-on-the-panel" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">differentiated</a> structure is the defining factor that separates a newsletter from a blog, and is therefore the secret to foundational growth.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Therefore, the Connections newsletter will now focus on:</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The stories behind leaders who&#39;ve connected the dots of their lives to build their authentic vision. </b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Tell me what you think of this new newsletter style in the poll below.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:'Times New Roman',Baskerville,Georgia,serif;"><i>Sincerely,</i></span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:'Times New Roman',Baskerville,Georgia,serif;"><i>Lauren and the Connections team</i></span></p></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=e8d855e8-4e6e-469d-9e93-5b9d2e4c5801&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=connections_by_lauren">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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  <title>Plot twist: I was the broken connection.</title>
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  <pubDate>Sun, 07 Sep 2025 15:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
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    <dc:creator>Lauren Gibson</dc:creator>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div id="section" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#3a4e84;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/52cc56a7-4642-4203-93a2-f776d6772b10/Connections_Headers.png?t=1743795719"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>Issue 032</p></span></div></div></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#cbcbcb;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:20.0px 20.0px 20.0px 20.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(58, 78, 132);">_</span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">THE SHORT STORY</span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(58, 78, 132);">_</span></span></h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#222222;">I hired two people in July. By the end of August, I let them both go. </span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#222222;">Here&#39;s what I learned from this process, and how you can avoid the same mistakes by focusing on building the right connections: the ones between your vision, your systems, and the people who help bring them to life.</span></p><h6 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#3a4e84;"><i>➜ Hey! This newsletter is brought to you by </i></span><span style="color:#3a4e84;"><i><a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/linkwithlauren/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=plot-twist-i-was-the-broken-connection" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Lauren Gibson</a></i></span><span style="color:#3a4e84;"><i>. Reply here for Q&#39;s (this is my personal email).</i></span></h6></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/d17967ce-785c-4674-9790-6c674d8267f5/__Connections_Content_Break-.png?t=1757192554"/></div><div id="section" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#cbcbcb;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:20.0px 20.0px 20.0px 20.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(58, 78, 132);">. </span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:#ffffff;">LIFE NOTES</span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(58, 78, 132);"> .</span></span></h4><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The numbers are in—<a class="link" href="https://www.reuters.com/business/us-unemployment-rate-near-4-year-high-labor-market-hits-stall-speed-2025-09-05/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=plot-twist-i-was-the-broken-connection" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">unemployment</a> nears 4-year high. Can <a class="link" href="https://fortune.com/2025/09/05/ai-makes-it-harder-to-land-a-job-automation-openai-building-jobs-platform-to-help-you-get-one/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=plot-twist-i-was-the-broken-connection" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">OpenAI</a> save us?</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I&#39;ve been tracking my hours spent online. It&#39;s way too fun with <a class="link" href="https://rize.io?code=622244&utm_source=refer&name=Lightning" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Rize</a>.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">“Freedom is <a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/posts/linkwithlauren_true-story-freedom-is-not-freedom-in-the-activity-7367572557690060800-RDH6?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop&rcm=ACoAABOkpboBditldQfM5xj3JSehepPwphBjsN4" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">not Freedom</a> in the beginning of starting a business”</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I ordered this “timeless <a class="link" href="https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/stund-the-watch-that-makes-you-feel-time?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=plot-twist-i-was-the-broken-connection#/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">watch</a>” 2 years ago… it (finally) arrived <a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/posts/linkwithlauren_i-finally-got-my-adhd-friendly-gadget-thank-activity-7369350195643424769-YgZS?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop&rcm=ACoAABOkpboBditldQfM5xj3JSehepPwphBjsN4" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">last week</a></p></li></ul></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/d17967ce-785c-4674-9790-6c674d8267f5/__Connections_Content_Break-.png?t=1757192554"/></div><div id="meet-the-ai-connector" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#cbcbcb;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:20.0px 20.0px 20.0px 20.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(58, 78, 132);">_</span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:#ffffff;">THE FULL STORY</span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(58, 78, 132);">_</span></span></h4><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:10px 10px 10px 10px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px 1px 1px 1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#3a4e84;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/2ac6bed4-e40c-4a8d-bfd8-731f84909e4f/ChatGPT_Image_Sept_6_2025_from_potential_client.png?t=1757210111"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Back in early July, I&#39;d finally secured a solid MRR. I could hire someone. So I did. Two, actually. My net profit dropped from 97% to 82%. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Both contractors were from the Philippines.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Roxy was hire #1 at 5 hours a week. My business buddy Peter (name changed) worked with and trained her on sales processes. I followed Peter&#39;s suggestion and created a ChatGPT bot, trained on my brand voice and résumé, to assist me in applying to Upwork project proposals. Her sole job was to apply to Upwork projects on my behalf. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I spent the first two weeks learning how to delegate to someone new, and create the right SOPs. Three weeks in, I saw she was applying to one job… per hour. I told her this was unacceptable. However, it wasn&#39;t her fault; she was simply following the SOP and the guidance of Peter. She had been working with him for 4 months, and had never closed a single deal for Peter. As this is the point of sales, I reconsidered whether this person would be right for my business. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">“<i>Did I make a mistake?” </i>I thought. Yet I gave her another chance. One month later, I closed 1 deal because of her efforts, and I even gave her a bonus of 5% of that deal. However, I realized her work would not be the main revenue driver for my business. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Bree was hire #2. She was creative and artistic; however, she lacked the organizational skills required for someone to work 20 hours a week under my limited bandwidth. Early on, I was training her on her strengths: design. I wanted to create LinkedIn <a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/posts/linkwithlauren_the-ways-i-use-ai-activity-7364314050366722051-RWWF?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop&rcm=ACoAABOkpboBditldQfM5xj3JSehepPwphBjsN4" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">carousels</a> and <a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/feed/update/urn:li:activity:7366130649159663618/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=plot-twist-i-was-the-broken-connection" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">cheatsheets</a> like those.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Yet I realized I was spending too much time with her. Every Monday and Thursday, I was online with her between 9-11pm. My days dragged on into the &quot;hustle” territory of 11 hour computer screentime. I know this was true because I use <a class="link" href="https://rize.io?code=622244&utm_source=refer&name=Lightning" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Rize</a> to track my hours (friends love it <a class="link" href="https://rize.io?code=622244&utm_source=refer&name=Lightning" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">try one month free here</a>).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Her designs were increasingly fantastic—but I realized I had not built the systems necessary to maintain one designer at 20 hours a week. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In the startup scene, you often hear that “starting a company is like jumping off a cliff and <a class="link" href="https://www.entrepreneur.com/leadership/how-to-think-like-an-entrepreneur-according-to-reid-hoffman/365727?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=plot-twist-i-was-the-broken-connection" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">building an airplane</a> on the way down,” and I fully agree with this. What you don&#39;t realize is, when you hire someone, you&#39;ve then bought into the fact that you could crash them, too. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">As a former laid-off startup employee, that hits. Hard. </p></div><div id="meet-the-ai-connector" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#cbcbcb;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:20.0px 20.0px 20.0px 20.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:#3a4e84;">_</span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:#ffffff;">LESSONS LEARNED</span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:#3a4e84;">_</span></span></h4><ol start="1"><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Hiring is not</b> just a goal to achieve. </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Hiring is</b> a process that requires careful consideration. Especially because your hires become an extension of you and your business.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Hiring happens</b> when you find connection and alignment with your revenue, work, and systems.</p></li></ol><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Next time I hire, <b>I&#39;m running through these steps:</b></p><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><b>Step 1: Audit Your Time</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">“<i>Once you see where your time really goes, the hiring decision becomes clearer</i>,” Brendan, an entrepreneur I met at <a class="link" href="https://creatorhublive.com/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=plot-twist-i-was-the-broken-connection" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">CreatorHubLive</a>, told me. He runs 17 businesses generating $1.7M/month (seemed like someone I could learn from).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">He encouraged me to first create a <b>detailed list of my current tasks</b>. So these were mine in August:</p><div style="padding:14px 20px 14px;"><table class="bh__table" width="100%" style="border-collapse:collapse;"><tr class="bh__table_row"><th class="bh__table_header" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Category Combined</b></p></th><th class="bh__table_header" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Avg Hours per Week</b></p></th><th class="bh__table_header" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>% of Week</b></p></th></tr><tr class="bh__table_row"><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">meetings </p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">7.6</p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">18.5%</p></td></tr><tr class="bh__table_row"><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">documenting (clients)</p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">6.4</p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">16%</p></td></tr><tr class="bh__table_row"><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">comms (clients/sales)</p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">5</p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">12.5%</p></td></tr><tr class="bh__table_row"><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">productivity (Ai tools)</p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">4.9</p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">12.3%</p></td></tr><tr class="bh__table_row"><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">social media (biz dev)</p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">3.6</p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">9%</p></td></tr><tr class="bh__table_row"><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Personal content (mktg)</p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">3.4</p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">8.1%</p></td></tr><tr class="bh__table_row"><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">design</p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">2.6</p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">6.5%</p></td></tr><tr class="bh__table_row"><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">email</p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">2.5</p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">6.3%</p></td></tr><tr class="bh__table_row"><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">admin</p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">1.8</p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">4.5%</p></td></tr><tr class="bh__table_row"><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">scheduling</p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">1.3</p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">3.3%</p></td></tr><tr class="bh__table_row"><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">task management</p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">1.2</p></td><td class="bh__table_cell" width="33%"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">2.2%</p></td></tr></table></div><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><b>Step 2: Filter With the Right Rules</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Brendan shared four philosophies that reframed my thinking on hiring: </p><ol start="1"><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Pay for Experience Over Training Time</b><br><i>“It would take me more time to develop someone with your expertise from Georgetown. If you can, it’s better to hire someone with proven experience than spend months training someone up. The extra cost saves you time, which is ultimately more valuable.” </i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><br></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>When You’re Maxed Out, Pay More</b><br><i>“If you’re fully maxed out on bandwidth, it’s cheaper in the long run to pay more for someone who can jump in immediately, and not waste your time with delegation.”</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><br></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Eliminate → Automate → Delegate</b><br>Before you ever hire, run through this filter:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Eliminate:</b> Do you actually need to do this task?</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Automate:</b> If no, can a tool or system handle it?</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Delegate:</b> If not, can you hand this off to a human with an SOP?</p></li></ul></li></ol><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">Step 3: Buy Back Your Time</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Dan Martell, the author of <a class="link" href="https://www.amazon.com/Buy-Back-Your-Time-Unstuck/dp/059342297X?sr=8-1&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=plot-twist-i-was-the-broken-connection" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Buy Back Your Time</a>, has this philosophy: </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Your <b>first hire should be an Executive Assistant (EA)</b>. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Why? Because the job of an EA isn’t to generate revenue—it’s to <i>give you back the hours</i> that free you up to <i>focus</i> on the work that <i>does</i>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Tim Ferriss echoed this in <a class="link" href="https://www.amazon.com/4-Hour-Workweek-Escape-Live-Anywhere/dp/0307465357?sr=8-1&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=plot-twist-i-was-the-broken-connection" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The 4-Hour Workweek</a> when he said, “<i>if you’re still buried in scheduling, inbox chaos, or admin tasks, you’re not truly running your business—you’re trapped inside it.</i>”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The key lessons from Step 3:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Don’t hire someone to “make you more money” right away.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Hire someone to <b>remove the friction</b> in your day-to-day so you can focus on your highest-value work—strategy, sales, relationships, creativity. </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The right assistant pays for themselves by buying back the most precious resource you have: <i>time.</i></p></li></ul></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/d17967ce-785c-4674-9790-6c674d8267f5/__Connections_Content_Break-.png?t=1757192554"/></div><div id="our-playlist" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#cbcbcb;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:20.0px 20.0px 20.0px 20.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(58, 78, 132);">_</span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">PLAYLIST</span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(58, 78, 132);">_</span></span></h4><table width="100%" class="bh__column_wrapper"><tr><td width="45%" class="bh__column"><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/connections-the-playlist/pl.u-76oNPb3IWWj3d4?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=plot-twist-i-was-the-broken-connection" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:rgb(58, 78, 132);" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/3f4678cb-3d0f-4e6b-acc7-40703ddc38a3/Untitled_design_presentation.png?t=1725628795"/></a></div></td><td width="10%" class="bh__column"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"> </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"> </p></td><td width="45%" class="bh__column"><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5dkFQ32Lj4Q3jb3Ni7tlfH?si=muKKhvpiSI-TPY5fHiA6Fw&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=plot-twist-i-was-the-broken-connection" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:rgb(58, 78, 132);" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/5a328c4d-405e-4eff-b3b1-25b92c47de69/Presentation_design__6_.png?t=1725628805"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></td></tr></table></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/d17967ce-785c-4674-9790-6c674d8267f5/__Connections_Content_Break-.png?t=1757192554"/></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#cbcbcb;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:20.0px 20.0px 20.0px 20.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(58, 78, 132);">_</span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">REFLECTION</span></span><span style="background-color:#3a4e84;"><span style="color:rgb(58, 78, 132);">_</span></span></h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Letting two people go in the same month was really a mirror into my own subconscious.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What I saw reflected back was someone who thought hiring would win the next achievement award. Someone who, despite preaching about connections, had failed to create the right ones within her own business. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The hardest part? </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Admitting that I was the broken connection. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Not Roxy. Not Bree. Me. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I wasn&#39;t connected to my own vision clearly enough to need the hires. <br>I wasn&#39;t connected to systems that could support growth. <br>And I certainly wasn&#39;t connected to the uncomfortable truth that I was creating more problems by hiring, instead of solving them through hiring. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Here&#39;s what I&#39;m carrying forward:</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Before I hire again, I need to ask myself the hard questions:</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>What am I </b><i><b>actually</b></i><b> trying to fix?</b> <b>→</b> Time? Revenue? Fulfillment?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Am I hiring to grow</b><i><b> </b></i><b>the team or the </b><i><b>business</b></i><b>?</b> <b>→</b> Focus on ROI output.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Have I built systems / SOPs yet?</b> <b>→</b> Or am I asking someone to help me figure it out? </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The people we bring into our work become extensions of our intentions. If our intentions aren&#39;t clear, the connection breaks.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>And maybe that&#39;s the real lesson here.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Business isn&#39;t just about profit margins and productivity. It&#39;s about the quality of connections we create—with our work, our systems, and our hires.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The right hire will come when I&#39;ve done the deeper work of connecting with what I&#39;m actually building, systems and all.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Until then, I&#39;m learning to sit with the discomfort of doing it myself.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:'Times New Roman',Baskerville,Georgia,serif;"><i>Sincerely,</i></span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:'Times New Roman',Baskerville,Georgia,serif;"><i>Lauren and the Connections team</i></span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">P.S Always include this.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=10ebfe6e-34c0-4541-84ea-9cb0e76a60f8&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=connections_by_lauren">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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  <title>5 Steps: Employee → Owner Mindset</title>
  <description>Reflections on an owner mindset from 15,000 feet in the air</description>
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The background has a swirling expanse of pink and blue hues, represents limitless possibilities." class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/83c4bec4-ba6e-4cb5-ae39-6d2b9a036ad8/ChatGPT_Image_Aug_16_2025_Digital_Illustration.png?t=1755373329"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here’s the scene:</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I’m on a plane, heading to Philly for a festival. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I open my Remarkable 2 tablet to the $100M Offers PDF by Alex Hormozi. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I decide to re-read the most important section in the book.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It was the Value Equation.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Dream Outcome X perceived likelihood of achievement divided by Time Delay X Effort and Sacrifice. </p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/be72a596-5b35-45a5-bf06-a4bf54037f5a/value.png?t=1755368874"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Many online business owners I’ve met recommend this book because of this equation.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I flipped to the next page and was reminded of this exercise after the Value Equation: </p><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#3a4e84;"><i>List all the problems in your industry and all the solutions that could solve it. </i></span></h3><hr class="content_break"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">“Alright,” I thought, “let’s see what I wrote down…”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Well the funny thing is, instead of seeing my notes of problems and solutions I could solve, I saw a big star. </p><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:center;">⭐️ Fill out LLC forms by June 1!!!</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Hm. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This wasn’t a gold star for “well-done.”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This was a reminder to do something that didn&#39;t solve a problem…</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You see, a year ago I was so focused on the operations-focused, short-term outcome, that I never actually did what the outcome meant to solve… </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Build a business. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Help people.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I wanted to help people through a business.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But all I cared about was <i>having</i> a business. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The truth is: Starting a business is not a to-do list.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The goal is to SOLVE a bigger problem, not create an even bigger problem. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Because with a business, you have:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">paperwork to file..</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">invoices to chase...</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">contractors to pay…..</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">software to upgrade…..</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A year ago, still in the employee mindset, I cared more about creating rather than solving. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But… I was creating the wrong things. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I was creating a problem. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">And I think that’s what early-stage entrepreneurs do.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">We still exist in the employee mindset, not the owner mindset.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">99% of education is built around the employee mindset.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I think about this John D Rockefeller quote:</p><div class="image"><img alt="I don&#39;t want a nation of thinkers. I want a nation of workers." class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/3f5d3d00-c043-4f23-88ce-c3d94a9a7820/IMG_5791.jpg?t=1755370497"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Sure, a nation of workers <span style="text-decoration:underline;"><i>worked</i></span> back then. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But that was 100 years ago. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Today, in the future of work… the age of the worker is <i>dying.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">We are being forced to <i>think</i>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Because AI and automation are taking over the working class. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The white-collar, desk workers are first. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Does that sound scary to you?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It does to me too. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here&#39;s what I wish people told me about building a business in the age of AI:</p><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#3a4e84;">1. If you haven&#39;t started yet—it&#39;s </span><span style="color:#E74689;"><b>O</b></span><span style="color:#222222;"><b>-</b></span><span style="color:#E74689;"><b>K</b></span><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);"><b>-</b></span><span style="color:#E74689;"><b>A</b></span><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);"><b>-</b></span><span style="color:#E74689;"><b>Y</b></span><span style="color:#3a4e84;">.</span></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It took me TWO YEARS from layoff (seriously, exactly 24 months ago!) to today—now earning 81% of my prior income a month. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This is nothing to brag about. Some people may say that I’ve &quot;failed.” </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But I like to think of it as never giving up. And this is your calling too.</p><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(58, 78, 132);">2. Your motivation comes after starting.</span></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);">Someone recently told me this interesting comparison: </span><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);"><b>think of motivation like </b></span><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);"><i><b>sleep</b></i></span><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);">. “You know when you sleep? You don&#39;t wait to sleep. You pretend to sleep… </span><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);"><i><b>then</b></i></span><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);"> you fall asleep.”</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);">This is the 2nd biggest piece of advice I&#39;d share with anyone looking to start.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);">People stuck “waiting” for motivation are still stuck in the employee mindset.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34);">If you&#39;re thinking like this person, reconsider your objectives:</span></p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/85ee44fc-1d60-48d9-bfd1-06841728206f/IMG_5245.jpg?t=1755370787"/></div><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(58, 78, 132);">3. 100% execution isn&#39;t human.</span></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I tell myself weekly: “Don&#39;t be so hard on yourself, you&#39;re working 10 hours on your computer a day!” </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">(this is true, I use <a class="link" href="https://rize.io?code=622244&utm_source=refer&name=Lightning" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Rize</a> to measure <i>exactly </i>what I am doing every workday)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">We are not built like robots. Take a breather, enjoy the journey.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Those who last see the big picture will be the ones to “succeed” </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Whatever that means!</p><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(58, 78, 132);">4. Start a business to work 10 hours a day. </span></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Freedom? Yeah right. Your first year working will be <i>brutal</i>. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">And honestly… if you want to scale every year, it won&#39;t get easier. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><b>You</b></i> will get <span style="text-decoration:underline;">tougher</span>. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So start a business because you <i>enjoy</i> working 10 hours a day. 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</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I help my clients build that reputation. I know all it comes down to is your <b>Brand Voice</b>. In the age of AI, your personal brand will be the <i>only</i> reason your business stands out. Gary Vee <a class="link" href="https://youtu.be/mRIfVKES0Qo?si=g8_szFD-Xvgyj2JT&t=265&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=5-steps-employee-owner-mindset" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">says this</a> about the ai-future of work. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The problem is, some people don&#39;t know how to create their personal brand. When they stare into a camera or they sit in front of the blank box of the “Post” button, we freeze. We have analysis paralysis for the unknown.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But you already <i><b>do</b></i> know your personal brand. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It&#39;s locked in your voice. It&#39;s hidden in every conversation you have with friends, family, clients, and your dog (like my puppy Zoë). And personally? I realized…. I can help people unlock this.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Two weeks ago I announced, I&#39;m offering <b>10 Free Brand Voice Analysis</b> Interviews in the month of August. You get a detailed, strategic yet reflective analysis of your Brand Voice to use in creating assets that bring your leads <i>to </i>you.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But the truth is… </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I&#39;m overbooked. The 10 calls are taken. And it&#39;s August 16th.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But I know… I can <i>still</i> <span style="text-decoration:underline;">make</span> time to <b>add value</b>. That&#39;s what I want to do for you. 45-minute interview. 30 minute review.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Are you ready?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Reply to this email.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I&#39;ll send you time to book. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:'Times New Roman',Baskerville,Georgia,serif;"><i>Sincerely,</i></span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:'Times New Roman',Baskerville,Georgia,serif;"><i>Lauren and the Connections team</i></span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">P.S Here&#39;s why to take advantage of this <a class="link" href="https://widget.senja.io/widget/fd83e9a7-c74d-4b15-bc7a-00f4581aea6e?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=5-steps-employee-owner-mindset" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">limited offer</a>. 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  <title>Say goodbye to the knowledge economy 🪦</title>
  <description>Say hello to the Vibe Worker: The new era of human skills is back to the basics.</description>
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  <pubDate>Fri, 01 Aug 2025 15:10:00 +0000</pubDate>
  <atom:published>2025-08-01T15:10:00Z</atom:published>
    <dc:creator>Lauren Gibson</dc:creator>
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</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This is the question many of my friends of upper-level education are asking themselves, as they find their job prospects shattered by the simple fact that either they need to take a role at ½ their paygrade or risk being “outbid” by someone with 2x the experience…. also taking a job at ½ their paygrade.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This is the reality for several Georgetown MBAs I know</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Therefore, I write this newsletter towards my colleagues, and for anyone experiencing this same frustration. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">First, we must reframe the question about AI.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The real question is, &quot;<i>How do I become irreplaceable in a world where knowledge is free and abundant</i>?&quot;</p><hr class="content_break"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">For decades, we&#39;ve operated under a simple assumption: knowledge is power.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">➜ Get the right degree. <br>➜ Accumulate expertise. <br>➜ Build your technical skills. <br>➜ Climb the ladder.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This model worked when knowledge was expensive to acquire and difficult to distribute. A Harvard MBA meant something because not everyone could access those insights. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">AI is blowing up this entire framework.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When ChatGPT can write code, analyze data, and synthesize research in seconds, knowledge becomes abundant. When answers are free, the shift turns to the <i><b>message</b></i>, the <i><b>angle</b></i>, and the <i><b>meaning</b></i> behind the answer. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">AI artificially (by name) creates meaning for us.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">We can mostly tell when something is written by AI when there is little context behind it. Take this example: </p><hr class="content_break"><table width="100%" class="bh__column_wrapper"><tr><td width="50%" class="bh__column"><h5 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#E74689;"><b>Prompt 1</b></span><span style="color:#E74689;">: </span></h5><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#3a4e84;">Write roughly 50-words web copy for a video production service.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></td><td width="50%" class="bh__column"><h5 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#E74689;"><b>Prompt 2: </b></span></h5><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#3a4e84;">Write roughly 50-words web copy for a video production service.</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#3a4e84;">Make the copy visual. We offer video production for short-form luxury clothing brands. What we do is: we take what&#39;s on your mind and we twist it into the visual reality you seek. We make our clients go &quot;ahhh, that feels right&quot; and makes their customers say, &quot;oooh I want more of that!&quot;</span></p></td></tr></table><table width="100%" class="bh__column_wrapper"><tr><td width="50%" class="bh__column"><h5 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#E74689;"><b>Prompt 1 Result:</b></span></h5><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Bring your vision to life with cinematic-quality video production. From brand stories to social media content, we craft compelling visuals that capture attention and drive results. With expert direction, editing, and storytelling, we help you stand out and connect deeply with your audience—frame by frame.</p></td><td width="50%" class="bh__column"><h5 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#E74689;"><b>Prompt 2 Result:</b></span></h5><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">We translate your creative spark into stunning short-form visuals that <i>feel</i> just right. Think silk in motion, shadows that whisper, light that breathes luxury. Our videos make your audience say, “oooh, I want more of that.” You bring the vision—we sculpt the sensory masterpiece.</p></td></tr></table><hr class="content_break"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Do you <i>feel </i>the difference? </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The first one focuses on everything the video production service does, but the second one focuses on the <i>feeling </i>the service evokes.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you were a luxury clothing brand, which would you buy from? </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">(Side note — if you&#39;d say “neither,” this is why you still need a copywriter. Good outputs are never one-and-done prompts) </p><hr class="content_break"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What we call “expertise” is a downward hill. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Anyone can create code, art, or copy with AI. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The new <a class="link" href="https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbesbooksauthors/2024/09/23/moat-builder-defend-your-startup/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=say-goodbye-to-the-knowledge-economy" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">moat</a> is more human. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The differentiation factor for most companies will no longer be knowledge itself, but <i>how knowledge is connected</i>. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In other words: <b>the message. the angle. the purpose.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">As AI commoditizes knowledge work, a new tier emerges: <span style="color:#E74689;"><b><i>the vibe worker</i></b></span>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Vibe workers aren&#39;t experts.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Vibe workers are mile wide and inch deep.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">They choose aspects of seemingly unconnected ideas, design them into puzzle pieces, and form their own Rubik&#39;s Cube.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Vibe workers are excellent curators. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">They focus on the vision, rather than the execution (let AI handle that). </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In the current reality, knowledge workers focus on <i>what</i> they know. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Vibe workers focus on <i>how</i> they make people feel.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Vibe workers create a new class of meaning, new colors in a seemingly unrelated palette.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Vibes connect people. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The value of vibe workers comes <i>not</i> from what they know, but instead from what they feel is right for their target audience and ideal outcome.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here&#39;s how to signal your way into this tier:</p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#3a4e84;"><b>Make Your Value Expensive</b></span><span style="color:#3a4e84;"> </span></h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A peacock&#39;s tail is valuable precisely because only a strong bird can afford the energy to grow a magnificent one. However, in reality, it&#39;s ‘inefficient’.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In your career, this means making choices that others can&#39;t or won&#39;t make. Turning down the &quot;safe&quot; consulting job to join an unknown startup. Spending years developing expertise in a field you see potential in before it becomes trendy. </p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#3a4e84;"><b>Build Through Relationships</b></span><span style="color:#3a4e84;"> </span></h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Knowledge can be Googled. Judgment can&#39;t be replicated. But both are amplified through relationships.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The person who gets the promotion isn&#39;t always the smartest in the room. They&#39;re often the most connected. They know who to ask. They understand the unwritten rules. They can navigate organizational dynamics.</p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#3a4e84;"><b>Practice High-Level Curiosity</b></span><span style="color:#3a4e84;"> </span></h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Ask questions that require time, effort, and intellectual courage. Questions that challenge accepted truths. Questions that others are afraid to ask.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The point is not to become a contrarian. We ask high-level questions to develop a reputation of seeing what others miss. When you do that, you are above AI, because only you can see the forest through the trees. </p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/0bfd9312-532a-4e2c-b0c9-d5d8a5bf869d/__Connections_Content_Breaks2.png?t=1750535771"/></div><div id="our-playlist" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#535353;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:20.0px 20.0px 20.0px 20.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">🎶 <span style="color:#e74689;">OUR PLAYLIST</span></h4><table width="100%" class="bh__column_wrapper"><tr><td width="50%" class="bh__column"><div class="embed"><a class="embed__url" href="https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/connections-the-playlist/pl.u-76oNPb3IWWj3d4?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=say-goodbye-to-the-knowledge-economy" target="_blank"><div class="embed__content"></div><img class="embed__image embed__image--right" src="https://beehiiv-images-production.s3.amazonaws.com/uploads/asset/file/3f4678cb-3d0f-4e6b-acc7-40703ddc38a3/Untitled_design_presentation.png?t=1725628795"/></a></div></td><td width="50%" class="bh__column"><div class="embed"><a class="embed__url" href="https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5dkFQ32Lj4Q3jb3Ni7tlfH?si=muKKhvpiSI-TPY5fHiA6Fw&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=say-goodbye-to-the-knowledge-economy" target="_blank"><img class="embed__image embed__image--left" src="https://beehiiv-images-production.s3.amazonaws.com/uploads/asset/file/5a328c4d-405e-4eff-b3b1-25b92c47de69/Presentation_design__6_.png?t=1725628805"/><div class="embed__content"></div></a></div></td></tr></table></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/0bfd9312-532a-4e2c-b0c9-d5d8a5bf869d/__Connections_Content_Breaks2.png?t=1750535771"/></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I&#39;m currently offering a <b>FREE Brand Voice Analysis Guide</b> to anyone in August. You get a detailed, strategic yet reflective analysis of your Brand Voice to use in creating social media content, scripts, or web copy. What will happen is we will have 2 calls: One interview and one follow-up review. <br></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here&#39;s a recent testimonial:</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E74689;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/941042c0-0a42-41c4-a888-474fdc11f40b/Image_7-30-25_at_10.28_AM.jpeg?t=1753885750"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Reply to this email, and I&#39;ll send you time to book the interview. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:'Times New Roman',Baskerville,Georgia,serif;"><i>Sincerely,</i></span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:'Times New Roman',Baskerville,Georgia,serif;"><i>Lauren and the Connections team</i></span></p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=9731f06c-180b-4fce-839f-01a10fa09d37&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=connections_by_lauren">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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  <title>How to Build Your Own Luck 🍀</title>
  <description>5 Connection Habits That Make &#39;Lucky&#39; Breaks Inevitable</description>
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href="https://www.linkedin.com/feed/update/urn:li:activity:7324009818149531648/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=how-to-build-your-own-luck" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/ad454fa8-3456-4929-8159-57b172f7b467/Image_5-3-25_at_1.44_PM.jpeg?t=1746294300"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This post may sound like a one-shot wonder. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But I&#39;m here to tell you—it&#39;s far from that. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Instead, I&#39;ll share 5 connection strategies that got me here, ideally to help you manufacture success in your own life.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div id="section" class="section" style="background-color:#FFFFFF;border-color:#575757;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:15.0px 15.0px 15.0px 15.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">🔖<span style="color:#465a92;"> </span><span style="color:#E74689;">BOOKMARKS THIS WEEK</span></h4><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#222222;"><b>Vibing</b></span><span style="color:#222222;">: this YouTube </span><span style="color:#222222;"><a class="link" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I3-cT3oHx2s&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=how-to-build-your-own-luck" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Productivity Playlist</a></span></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#222222;"><b>Listening</b></span><span style="color:#222222;">: A Shaolin monk teaches how to </span><span style="color:#222222;"><a class="link" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=atejm2w2jWY&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=how-to-build-your-own-luck" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">break a brick</a></span><span style="color:#222222;"> with your mind</span></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#222222;"><b>Implementing</b></span><span style="color:#222222;">: how to </span><span style="color:#222222;"><a class="link" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y1VJC7UPoNo&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=how-to-build-your-own-luck" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">audit any website</a></span><span style="color:#222222;"> with Claude</span></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#222222;"><b>Reading</b></span><span style="color:#222222;">: </span><span style="color:#222222;"><a class="link" href="https://aiwithallie.beehiiv.com/p/ai-agents-are-the-new-buyers?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=how-to-build-your-own-luck" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">AIO</a></span><span style="color:#222222;"> is the new SEO</span></p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div id="meet-the-ai-connector" class="section" style="background-color:#FFFFFF;border-color:#535353;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:15.0px 15.0px 15.0px 15.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">🫱🏻‍🫲🏽<span style="color:#E74689;"> LUCKY PEOPLE DON&#39;T ACT ALONE</span></h4><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="#section" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/2eb38733-5ef6-4227-a1f8-56fa6cc6cd55/Minimalist_Gym_Girl_Design_May_3_2025__1_.png?t=1746302990"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I don&#39;t believe luck is a random cosmic lottery system.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">There are patterns.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I answered a call at the gym that landed me my first service biz gig.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But this call came after months of cultivating relationships, hosting 10 online networking events, sharing my thought process almost daily on LinkedIn, and positioning myself as a leader (<i>or influencer?</i>) online.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I had been planting the seeds for months.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I went viral on LinkedIn Lunatics on Reddit from <a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/posts/laur3n-gibson_mba-startups-socialmedia-activity-7153777877270876160-bnFp?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop&rcm=ACoAABOkpboBditldQfM5xj3JSehepPwphBjsN4" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">this post</a>, I posted <a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/posts/laur3n-gibson_linkedin-video-insights-activity-7196493822200029184-h5J7?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop&rcm=ACoAABOkpboBditldQfM5xj3JSehepPwphBjsN4" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">cringeworthy</a> videos, and I <a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/posts/laur3n-gibson_the-truth-is-i-did-not-know-what-2024-would-activity-7279929318892351489-yqtV?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_ios&rcm=ACoAABOkpboBditldQfM5xj3JSehepPwphBjsN4" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">failed</a> to launch an online paid community.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What? You mean success is not all sunshine and rainbows?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Correct. No growth comes from a magical 0 to 10 manifestation. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But when I look at successful people in my network, I see the same story repeating: </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The Georgetown alum making $30k/month from 4 hour/week Ai copywriting? He spent 2 years working 10+ hour days perfecting the style while <i>working with dozens of clients</i>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The friend who grew his instagram from 4k to 19k+ organic followers (not bots)? He dove into 100+ hours of growth content, started engaging daily <i>replying to 100+ stranger posts and comments</i>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Notice anything?</p><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">Luck Is a Connections Game</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What we call &quot;luck&quot; is actually about the connections you make with others.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The more connections you create—with people, with ideas, with technology—the more pathways you build for opportunity to find you.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When I started with the idea of a business two years ago, I spent almost 2 years watching educational content to discover the “secret” formula to success. Some magical sequence of steps I&#39;d eventually unlock if I just found the right course or mentor.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But after five months of building in public, I&#39;ve realized something crucial: the &quot;luckiest&quot; people aren&#39;t necessarily the smartest or most talented.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">They&#39;re the ones who make more connections.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">They connect with more people. They connect more ideas. They connect themselves to more opportunities.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">And because they create so many potential pathways, winning opportunities eventually find them.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It really is that simple.</p><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">Five Ways to Manufacture Your Own Luck</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When you&#39;re ready to increase your luck, here are five approaches that have transformed my business:</p><h5 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">1. Answer More Calls (Literally and Figuratively)</h5><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That Miami gym phone call? I almost didn&#39;t answer. Usually my phone is on silent. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But something told me to pick up. And that single connection led to my first client, who introduced me to my second, whose work influenced my posts on LinkedIn, connecting me to my third.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Literally answer the call. Even when it&#39;s inconvenient. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That Georgetown guy who makes $30k/month? His biggest advice to me was that he regretted niching down too soon. He told me to jump into action at any opportunity in the begining.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That leads me to—</p><h5 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">2. Do Adjacent Work</h5><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The first contract wasn&#39;t my dream project. It wasn&#39;t even in my target niche, but the action was what I wanted.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I wouldn&#39;t be doing sales strategy or customer discovery, I was <i>writing</i>. That&#39;s what I wanted. I realized that the act of putting words to paper (screen?) is what lights me up. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So the more work you do around your target goal, the more you create a gravitational pull around the far-out objective. Eventually, you attract exactly what you want.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Do work that&#39;s close enough, and use it as a bridge.</p><h5 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">3. Create More Connection Points</h5><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Every time you:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Share an idea publicly</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Help someone solve a problem</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Introduce two people who should know each other</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You&#39;re creating a potential connection point for luck to find you.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Think of everything you do as something that should <i>at least</i> help two people: you and your ideal client. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I&#39;ve noticed my &quot;luckiest&quot; opportunities come through the most unexpected channels. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">One of the best ways to connect the dots between you and another is to — </p><h5 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">4. Publish Your Thinking</h5><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It could be a Github deploy, an artistic design, or a LinkedIn post.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When you share your ideas online, they can reach people you&#39;ve never met, in places you&#39;ve never been, while you&#39;re sleeping or working on something else entirely.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">My entire business is built on the fact that I started publishing my writing—my <i>thinking</i>—one year ago.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">And never forget—</p><h5 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">5. Connect Others Generously</h5><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">One of my friends, who inspired me to start my email marketing business, is someone I recently connected to a prospective client. That client referred him to a $5k/month retainer. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">“We <i>gotta</i> celebrate!”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When your friends win, you win. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When you help others connect, they remember. And they usually look for ways to help you too.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The goal is to create a network that actively works to create opportunities for you.</p><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">The Compound Effect of Connection</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The beautiful thing about these luck-creating activities is they compound over time.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Human relationships and connection is the most important gear to create that flywheel effect, to kick your system—whatever you&#39;re creating—into overdrive.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I&#39;m not special. I&#39;m not the most talented writer or the most natural networker. There are countless things I could improve.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But over the last five months, I&#39;ve been consistently answering calls, doing adjacent work, creating connection points, publishing my thinking, and connecting others.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That&#39;s the entire &quot;secret&quot; behind my business growth.</p><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">What&#39;s Your Next Connection?</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So here&#39;s my question: Which of these five luck-creating activities will you commit to this week?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I&#39;d love to hear which one resonates most with you. Reply to this email and let me know.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div id="our-playlist" class="section" style="background-color:#FFFFFF;border-color:#535353;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:15.0px 15.0px 15.0px 15.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">🎶 <span style="color:#e74689;">PLAYLIST OF THE WEEK</span></h4><table width="100%" class="bh__column_wrapper"><tr><td width="33%" class="bh__column"><div class="embed"><a class="embed__url" href="https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5dkFQ32Lj4Q3jb3Ni7tlfH?si=muKKhvpiSI-TPY5fHiA6Fw&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=how-to-build-your-own-luck" target="_blank"><img class="embed__image embed__image--top" src="https://beehiiv-images-production.s3.amazonaws.com/uploads/asset/file/5a328c4d-405e-4eff-b3b1-25b92c47de69/Presentation_design__6_.png?t=1725628805"/><div class="embed__content"></div></a></div></td><td width="33%" class="bh__column"><div class="embed"><a class="embed__url" href="https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/connections-the-playlist/pl.u-76oNPb3IWWj3d4?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=how-to-build-your-own-luck" target="_blank"><img class="embed__image embed__image--top" src="https://beehiiv-images-production.s3.amazonaws.com/uploads/asset/file/3f4678cb-3d0f-4e6b-acc7-40703ddc38a3/Untitled_design_presentation.png?t=1725628795"/><div class="embed__content"></div></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></td><td width="33%" class="bh__column"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></td></tr></table></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div class="section" style="background-color:#FFFFFF;border-color:#222222;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:15.0px 15.0px 15.0px 15.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Remember: Lucky people don&#39;t act alone. They build connection systems that multiply their opportunities.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">And you can too.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><i>Sincerely,</i></span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><i>Lauren and the Connections team</i></span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">P.S. I updated the brand style, and I&#39;d love to know — </p></div></div><div class='beehiiv__footer'><br class='beehiiv__footer__break'><hr class='beehiiv__footer__line'><a target="_blank" class="beehiiv__footer_link" style="text-align: center;" href="https://www.beehiiv.com/?utm_campaign=149796ea-cf77-4b37-9b97-d7795a966cd0&utm_medium=post_rss&utm_source=connections_by_lauren">Powered by beehiiv</a></div></div>
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  <title>The Monetization Trap</title>
  <description>Is Your Greatest Gift, Your Business Model?</description>
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  <pubDate>Fri, 14 Feb 2025 16:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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    <dc:creator>Lauren Gibson</dc:creator>
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Perhaps. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But the question here is not as it relates to my health, but as it relates to my relationships with others. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Unfortunately, I have been a bit MIA with my relationships. And some people have noticed. The irony writing this issue is not lost on me. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So this week, I want to talk about it. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This week, let&#39;s explore the delicate balance between business and maintaining authentic relationships, why some aspects of relationship-building should remain sacred, how to navigate the authenticity paradox, and most importantly, how to keep your connections genuine when everything else is turning into a metric.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">P.S. If I&#39;ve been slow to respond to your messages lately, now you know why. But I&#39;m working on finding that balance.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">📌<span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;"> If you happen to find this in your Spam, please place this email in your ‘Primary’ inbox [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;"><b>Gmail</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;">], ‘VIPs’ [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;"><b>Apple</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;">], or ‘Safe Sender’ list [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;"><b>Outlook</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;">]. Thank you for helping our deliverability!</span></p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div id="section" class="section" style="background-color:#FFFFFF;border-color:#575757;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">🔖 BOOKMARKS THIS WEEK</h4><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://challengingcoaching.co.uk/the-authenticity-paradox-can-we-be-too-authentic/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-monetization-trap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Can you be too authentic? </a></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://hbr.org/2015/01/the-authenticity-paradox?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-monetization-trap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Authenticity Paradox</a> — HBR Article</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://www.youtube.com/shorts/Fze1bgKxp1M?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-monetization-trap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The quickest way to destroy your love is to turn it into</a> — Chris (YouTube)</p></li></ul></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div id="meet-the-ai-connector" class="section" style="background-color:#FFFFFF;border-color:#535353;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">🫱🏻‍🫲🏽 THE MONETIZATION TRAP: IS IT ALL TRANSACTIONAL?</h4><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="#section" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="A minimalist illustration of a woman entrepreneur with mid-length hair sitting at a dimly lit desk at 12:47 AM, pausing mid-email, deep in contemplation. The laptop screen glows softly, reflecting a simple, abstract message. She is dressed casually, hovering over the delete key, conflicted. The background is minimal with subtle outlines of notes and a vision board. The color palette is dominated by shades of pink (#e74689), white, and soft neutrals, creating a modern and thoughtful atmosphere. The composition is clean and artistic, emphasizing the balance between authenticity and business." class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/4940496d-6406-4644-86d8-581a4b1a3036/Connections_Newsletter_Banners.png?t=1739545333"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Last night at 12:47 AM, I caught myself drafting an email to a longtime connection. Halfway through, I realized something that made me pause— I was writing it like a pitch deck. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Complete with value propositions. Bullet points. A clear call to action.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I deleted the whole thing. Scheduled a text (great new Apple feature).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">And I reflect: as my newsletter service business grows, I&#39;m faced with an interesting dilemma: the very thing that made me good at building genuine connections (that natural, unhurried, authentic approach) is now competing with the pressures of running a business.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You start seeing every interaction through a business lens, and suddenly, your genuine connections begin feeling like entries in a CRM.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let&#39;s talk about this tension.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Authenticity—is it real?</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here&#39;s what nobody tells you about monetizing your passion: the very qualities that make you good at building that passion—for me, it&#39;s relationship building— might clash with business imperatives.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I&#39;m learning this firsthand. As my newsletter service grows, I find myself categorizing relationships:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Potential clients</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Strategic partners</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">&quot;Just&quot; friends</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The moment you start categorizing people in a CRM, you&#39;ve already lost something precious.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But here&#39;s what I&#39;m learning: </p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Efficiency Kills Magic</b></p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The more I try to streamline relationship-building, the more it loses its spark. Those serendipitous moments, like a random GIF exchange that leads to a deep conversation, can&#39;t be templated.</p></li></ul></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Time Isn&#39;t Always Money</b></p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Learning this first-hand with a client who has clearly gone overtime in their requests, due to their inability to take time to do the work on their own. </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Rather than make a hard stop, the intention is always to value the relationship above all else. And use it as a lesson in your business to update your offer, not a time to get angry.</p></li></ul></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The Magical Check-In</b></p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When I follow up because my CRM tells me to, the conversation feels forced. When I follow up because something genuinely reminded me of someone, magic happens. </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">People (mostly) want to be treated like a person. Not like a machine. So figure out ways to incorporate magical serendipity into the conversations. Here are <a class="link" href="https://www.forbes.com/sites/alisacohn/2021/12/20/5-surprising-ways-to-make-your-own-serendipity/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-monetization-trap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">a few ways to create that magic</a>.</p></li></ul></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Metrics can Mislead</b></p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Someone with 100,000+ &quot;connections” on LinkedIn may only have a few people to rely on. </p></li></ul></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The Trust Timeline</b></p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You can&#39;t rush trust. The moment you try to accelerate relationship-building for business purposes, people feel it. </p></li></ul></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What I&#39;m discovering is that some aspects of connection need to remain pure. Untouched by metrics. Free from conversion goals.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This newsletter is my sacred space. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here&#39;s how I&#39;m navigating this in a world where transactions are necessary, but never the end-all:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Have a clear offer</b></p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When your offer is clear, you don&#39;t need to cold sell. People overtly know. I&#39;ve heard transparent pricing, like on a website, is an upward trend.</p></li></ul></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Don&#39;t sell first</b></p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Wait for the offer to be sold to. If someone asks, &quot;What do you do?” or if someone sends a connection request and they happen to meet your ICP. Mention your service, but don&#39;t oversell.</p></li></ul></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Transparency</b></p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Ok, the opportunity may come to you through a LinkedIn connection request. And it&#39;s too good to be true. If you need to wear your business hat, say so. People appreciate clarity more than cleverly disguised pitches.</p></li></ul></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The 70/30 Rule</b></p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">70% of relationship-building activities should have no direct monetary goal. This is an arbitrary number, but the goal is to not make it a minority. This keeps your network genuine and your intentions clear. </p></li></ul></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Ask, “Where do My Leads Come From?” </b></p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This is a question that needs to be asked as we build a business. Honestly, you may not have the skills to hard sell effectively without losing the trust of your prospect. If that’s true, lean into what works already, perhaps it&#39;s referrals. If that, then you know how important relationships are to build a client base.</p></li></ul></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>A Confession</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I&#39;ve been slacking on building Connections ✣. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Growth-skyrocketing is not in my game plan, because this is a business about building a powerful network. And powerful networks aren&#39;t built from a place of short-term gains. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So I&#39;ve decided to allow this as a space to remain wonderfully, purposefully inefficient. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Because relationships are a lifelong endeavor. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What aspects of your professional relationships do you keep sacred? I&#39;d love to hear your thoughts (and no, this isn&#39;t a lead-in to a pitch, promise :)</p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div id="our-sponsor" class="section" style="background-color:#FFFFFF;border-color:#535353;border-radius:10px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">📣<span style="color:#7f95d1;"> </span><span style="color:#e74689;">PRESENTED BY 1440 MEDIA</span></h4><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">Receive Honest News Today</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://l.join1440.com/bh?utm_source=beehiiv&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign={{publication_name_param}}_{{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_content=prospecting_critical_thinkers&_bhiiv=opp_6b3f060a-3995-4f2a-af4a-e80964259e72_1b75ca79&bhcl_id=1feada1d-d663-4218-ab1d-23ea1eb98a2f_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img class="image__image" style="border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/b58a0446-83d9-4fc1-9d41-77b9932a56f9/02b522900c4ea44e4d1ea3090c3b4390.jpg?t=1715814841"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Join over 4 million Americans who start their day with 1440 – your daily digest for unbiased, fact-centric news. 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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div id="section" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#575757;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/79e64b50-1c26-4b6c-9bca-20aca920e881/Header-newsletter_Connections.png?t=1733502658"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Ever walked into a room, scanned the crowd, and thought… <i>Where do I even start?</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I’ve been there.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">From attending the most exclusive prep school in Jacksonville, to teaching English to Tunisian parliamentarians, to networking with DC’s upcoming finance professionals, I’ve had to figure out, <i>fast</i>, how to enter conversations that felt out of reach.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So this week, I’m breaking down how to enter a group conversation at a networking event without looking awkward, without overthinking, and in a way that elevates your presence instantly.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You can play it <b>bold</b>, or you can play it <b>smooth</b>. 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Simply lean into the mood you’re feeling and continue.</p><hr class="content_break"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:center;">✣<b> Choose Your Group</b></h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Find the most engaged listener:</b> Every group has one—the person nodding along, reacting, but not speaking much. That’s your in. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="background-color:#8cff6e;"><b>The Power Player</b></span><b>: Take Control of the Moment</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This is for when you’re feeling bold, confident, and ready to make an entrance that commands attention. Step into the group with purpose.</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Enter with a statement.</b> Instead of waiting for an opening, add value immediately. If they’re discussing a business trend, say something sharp like:<br><i>“I couldn’t help but overhear—interesting take on AI in hiring. I’ve actually seen a friend I know implement a similar model with surprising results.”</i></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Make eye contact with everyone. </b>Do <i>not</i> focus on the most talkative. The ones who speak the least may have the most influence. Acknowledge everyone’s existence.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Use confident body language.</b> Stand tall, nod as others speak, and don’t fidget. Your presence should signal that you belong.</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Contribute, without interrupting.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="background-color:#ffdb6d;"><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);"><b>The Smooth Operator</b></span></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);"><b>: </b></span><b>Ease Your Way In</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Not every moment calls for a power move. Maybe the conversation is intense, or you want to feel the dynamic before jumping in.</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Enter with curiosity. </b>Instead of inserting yourself right away, react to the conversation naturally—nod, smile, or give a quick verbal cue like <i>“That’s a fascinating perspective, how are you seeing this play out in your work?”</i></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Engage the least occupied person first.</b> Find the <b>engaged listener</b>—the one who is nodding along but not speaking much. A simple, <i>“This is a great discussion. What’s been the most interesting point so far?”</i> instantly brings you in.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Allow space for the group to acknowledge you.</b> When the dominant speaker reacts to you, they invite you into the flow of conversation without you forcing it.</p><hr class="content_break"></li></ul><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:center;">✣ Establish Your Presence</h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Introduce yourself to <b>everyone individually</b>. That’s correct. Repeat everyone’s names as you shake their hands. Use everyone’s name every chance you get. By remembering names, you show you care, and in effect, they care more about you.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="background-color:#8cff6e;"><b>The Power Player</b></span><b>: Own Your Spot</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Make your presence felt by anchoring yourself in the conversation.</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Insert a well-timed question.</b> The easiest way to be remembered? <b>Ask something thought-provoking.</b><br><i>“That’s an interesting perspective—do you think this shift is temporary or a long-term trend?”</i></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Address the group, not just one person.</b> Speak in a way that invites multiple responses. This keeps the conversation flowing around you rather than excluding you or a single individual.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Use strategic pauses.</b> A short, confident silence after you speak signals that what you said is worth processing.</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Great networkers <b>shape conversations.</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="background-color:#ffdb6d;"><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);"><b>The Smooth Operator</b></span></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);"><b>: </b></span><b>Build a Bridge</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Ease into the discussion by connecting ideas.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">How to execute:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Echo and extend.</b> <i>“That reminds me of what Alex was saying earlier—there seems to be a pattern emerging here.”</i> This makes you a connector, which, we believe especially, is <b>a power move in disguise.</b></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Validate and redirect.</b> If someone makes a great point, acknowledge it before shifting the topic slightly. <i>“That’s a solid take on creator economy trends. How’d you come about to this idea?”</i></p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">With this approach, you <b>earn trust</b> without saying much<b>.</b></p><hr class="content_break"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:center;"><b>✣</b> Make a Lasting Impression</h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Read the exit cues:</b> Is the conversation naturally winding down? Are people shifting topics? Do you want to stay engaged?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="background-color:#8cff6e;"><b>The Power Player</b></span><b>: Close Strong</b></p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Offer a sharp insight before leaving.</b> <i>“Oh! I actually just wrote an article about that. I’d love to share that with you now, then I gotta run.”</i></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Introduce a next step.</b> <i>“Also, are you going to [event] later? Would love to continue this chat.”</i></p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="background-color:#ffdb6d;"><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);"><b>The Smooth Operator</b></span></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);"><b>: </b></span><b>Leave Them Wanting More</b></p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Wrap up on a high.</b> <i>“Wow, this has left me with quite a bit to think about. I’ve really enjoyed this conversation. I’m going to circulate a bit but this has been lovely.”</i></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Choose one person to connect with.</b> If you think connecting with everyone is overwhelming, select one person, <i>“Hey I really enjoyed your ideas and would like to keep in touch. 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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div id="section" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#575757;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/79e64b50-1c26-4b6c-9bca-20aca920e881/Header-newsletter_Connections.png?t=1733502658"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Earlier this week I had a call with one of my new clients (if you’re not aware, I’m writing founder-led newsletters now). Part of what got me excited to work with this person is although he works at the bleeding edge of technology and business operations… he also sees this truth — the future is in relationships. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So let’s let AI agents like <a class="link" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A3AsVAZ7wIs&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-fomo-trap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Operator build our businesses</a>, and let’s focus on the people.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This week, we&#39;re tackling something I learned the hard way after saying &quot;yes&quot; to too many things last year — the power of a strategic &quot;no&quot; and how it actually strengthens your network, not weakens it.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">📌<span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;"> If you happen to find this in your Spam, please place this email in your ‘Primary’ inbox [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;"><b>Gmail</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;">], ‘VIPs’ [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;"><b>Apple</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;">], or ‘Safe Sender’ list [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;"><b>Outlook</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;">]. Thank you for helping our deliverability!</span></p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div id="meet-the-ai-connector" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#535353;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">🎯 THE COUNTERINTUITIVE POWER OF &quot;NO&quot;</h4><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.boardy.ai/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-fomo-trap" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="just don&#39;t . . " class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1596493032867-88fc1ad71105?crop=entropy&cs=tinysrgb&fit=max&fm=jpg&ixid=M3w0ODM4NTF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxfHxzYXlpbmclMjBub3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3MzgzODU5ODl8MA&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&q=80&w=1080&utm_source=beehiiv&utm_medium=referral"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Last quarter, I found myself triple-booked: several ‘potential’ speaking gigs, a ‘potential’ spot on a one-time event team, a ‘potential’ collab with a community leader, and a ‘potential’ job offer. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">None of these opportunities came through.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here&#39;s the thing about <i>potential</i> — it&#39;s seductive. <br>It whispers &quot;what if?&quot; in your ear and keeps you playing the same hand of uno reverse in a 2-person game.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In reality, returning back to your hand over and over in a game of professional UNO does not make a very fun game. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">People in professional settings approach you when they <i>need a decision</i>. If you’re in a state of figuring it out, own that. But don’t let indecision erode your reputation.</p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;"><b>Own Your Uncertainty.</b></h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you’re uncertain about your path, say so confidently. People respect clarity, even if that clarity is, <i>I’m figuring it out.</i> Instead of vague responses like &quot;Maybe, let me think about it,&quot; try:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>Thank you for the opportunity, but I’m exploring a different direction right now.</i></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>I’m in a transition period and don’t want to take on anything new just yet.</i></p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Earlier today I was speaking with a friend who hated people saying, “I’m figuring it out.” I hear you.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But what people hate more is wishy-washy “Yes!” acceptances of everything under the sun. By owning your uncertainty, you take control of your narrative rather than letting others dictate it.</p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">Saying No Strengthens Relationships.</h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Leaving every door propped open distracts the mind. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I used to fear saying no because, especially as a woman, I depended on people’s acceptance of me. In the same light, some professionals fear saying no because they believe it will damage relationships. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">However over the years, I’ve learned the opposite is true. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The people <i>I </i>care about accept my No more wholeheartedly. Setting firm boundaries also establishes yourself as someone who:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Values their own time and commitments.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Can be trusted to follow through when they do say yes.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Respects the time and expectations of others.</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If someone takes your &#39;no&#39; personally, that says more about them than it does about you. People who respect you will respect your boundaries. Being decisive actually strengthens professional relationships. People respect clarity, even if it&#39;s not the answer they wanted.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Every time you “waffle” on a decision to preserve a relationship, you&#39;re actually weakening it. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Would you trust someone who couldn&#39;t give you a straight answer about their availability or interest? Would you trust someone who says yes and does not fulfill their duties? </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Likely, no. Especially in a professional setting, you may never refer that person or hire them.</p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">Maybe Mode is the Enemy.</h4><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Every no makes space for the right yes. A few guiding questions:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Does this opportunity move you toward your larger goals?</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Are you excited by this, or just afraid of missing out? (FOMO)</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Will saying yes stretch you in ways you want to grow, or in ways that drain you?</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">By filtering decisions through these lenses, you create room for the right ‘yes’—one that aligns with your skills, goals, and values.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">For further reading, here’s a book rec:</p><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://amzn.to/40IQCoX?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-fomo-trap" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:rgb(3, 7, 18);" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/7a1e2ca2-cc04-446b-93c8-6c154c24d669/Hell_Yeah_or_No_Book_Cover.jpg?t=1738385234"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you’re in a listening mood, open up HBR IdeaCast on <a class="link" href="https://hbr.org/podcast/2025/01/how-to-make-better-decisions-under-pressure?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-fomo-trap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Decision Making under Pressure</a> and if you don’t know how to say ‘No’ politely, check out <a class="link" href="https://hbr.org/podcast/2025/01/how-to-make-better-decisions-under-pressure?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-fomo-trap" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">this TedX</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Remember: Your clarity is currency. 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  <title>✣ 📝 Case Study #1: Beelieve It</title>
  <description>HBD Vibes &amp; Buzzing about Customer Relationships</description>
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  <pubDate>Fri, 24 Jan 2025 16:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
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    <dc:creator>Lauren Gibson</dc:creator>
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Coincidence?! 😄</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I want to offer a very special treat for you all. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Last week, I got<a class="link" href="https://www.newsletter.joinconnections.co/p/24-bad-blood-is-bad-business?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=case-study-1-beelieve-it" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"> vulnerable</a>. This week, we’re changing it up with a case study. According to our survey, that’s one of the most highly requested types of content you all are asking for. So without further ‘ado’ (<i>what does that mean anyway</i>?), this week I want to reveal a buzzing case study in relationship-first company building. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This company has done so well with their relationship-building tactics that I was an immediate purchaser of their software (which you’re reading from). </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Gone are the days of Company brands. The days of Personal Brands (sometimes inside Companies) are here to stay. Don’t just take it from me, <a class="link" href="https://www.mckinsey.com/capabilities/growth-marketing-and-sales/our-insights/a-better-way-to-build-a-brand-the-community-flywheel?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=case-study-1-beelieve-it" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">read it from McKinsey</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">📌<span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.6rem;"> If you happen to find this in your Spam, please place this email in your ‘Primary’ inbox [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.6rem;"><b>Gmail</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.6rem;">], ‘VIPs’ [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.6rem;"><b>Apple</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.6rem;">], or ‘Safe Sender’ list [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.6rem;"><b>Outlook</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.6rem;">]. Thank you for helping our deliverability!</span></p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div id="meet-the-ai-connector" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#535353;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">🐝 <span style="color:#E74689;">HOW A MISSPELLED BRAND GOT PEOPLE TO CARE</span></h4><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:6px 6px 6px 6px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px 1px 1px 1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/3cb32862-9442-4f87-b843-830d2bba1889/Beehiiv_Thumbnail.png?t=1737569377"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You know what&#39;s fascinating about the creator economy? It&#39;s not just about what you build—it&#39;s about who builds with you.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let me introduce you to Beehiiv (yes, two i&#39;s), a newsletter operating system that&#39;s turning customers into raving fans, much less a community, through intentional relationship building.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">And I&#39;m not just saying this because I use their platform (which, full transparency, I do!). I took 12+ hours analyzing their relationship-first customer strategy to share it all today with you.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So if you enjoyed this version of Connections, please tell me in the poll at the bottom!</p><hr class="content_break"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">What’s the buzz?</h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Beehiiv is a newsletter creator toolkit. It has cool features like the ad network (thank you for clicking on those ads!💰), a self-hosted website, and 3D analytics. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But come on, what really won me over was their relationship-building strategy. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Relationships are the new growth engines.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Beehiiv’s Go-To-Market (GTM) strategy blends personal branding, fostering meaningful connections, and empowering creators to scale.</p><hr class="content_break"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">Who runs this thing?</h4><ol start="1"><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The “Build in Public” Founder</b> 🏗️ - Tyler Denk</p></li></ol><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The <a class="link" href="https://www.entrepreneur.com/science-technology/building-in-public-how-tech-companies-master/359180?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=case-study-1-beelieve-it" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">“build in public” (BID) movement</a> embodies modern-day entrepreneurs. As mostly a B2C company, Beehiiv takes some of these lessons to heart to share the up’s and down’s of building a newsletter business in <a class="link" href="https://mail.bigdeskenergy.com/p/august-2022?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=case-study-1-beelieve-it" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Tyler’s investor letters</a>.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What makes the BID approach powerful?</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Shares both wins <i>and</i> struggles</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Responds to users directly </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Makes technical updates feel like exciting milestones we&#39;re all part of</p></li></ul><ol start="2"><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The Wild Card Employee</b> 🃏 - Daniel Berk</p></li></ol><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Enter Daniel, their sales lead who&#39;s cracked the code on LinkedIn engagement in the most unexpected way: by being wonderfully, <a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/posts/danielberk_the-ban-we-want-but-dont-deserve-activity-7286942508696100866-MR3g/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=case-study-1-beelieve-it" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">strategically chaotic</a>. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">His strategy?</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:rgb(3, 7, 18);" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/207e48d0-2f23-415e-ace8-e91ecb8e673d/image.png?t=1737601755"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">His personal brand works because it breaks through the LinkedIn monotony while making newsletter tech feel... human. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You find yourself thinking, &quot;Who lets this guy post like this?&quot; </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">And then you realize—that&#39;s exactly the point. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">More than that, in one of many of his viral LinkedIn posts, Daniel shared a real-time customer story about Beehiiv’s agility. At 9:10 PM, a creator texted him with a problem, and Daniel responded with a solution before midnight. Alright, maybe <a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/posts/danielberk_last-night-at-910pm-i-got-a-text-from-a-activity-7282058092295376896-twVE?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">it was a bit creepy</a>. However, this anecdote is more than a great customer support story—it’s a testament to Beehiiv’s commitment to creators. </p><ol start="3"><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>The Community Amplifier</b> 📣🐝 - The Brand behind the Bee</p></li></ol><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Their <a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/bellarosemortel/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=case-study-1-beelieve-it" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">head of social media</a> is wonderful at making customers feel seen:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Actively resharing customer wins (<a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/posts/laur3n-gibson_futureofwork-ugcPost-7272982945353646080-wzgE/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=case-study-1-beelieve-it" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">they shared my newsletter too</a>!)</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Celebrating <a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/posts/beehiiv_a-few-social-media-posts-11k-newsletter-ugcPost-7256672416913924096-wBmX/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=case-study-1-beelieve-it" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">user milestones</a> like they&#39;re company achievements</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Creating a feedback loop where customer success = platform success</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The New Growth Engine: Making People Feel Welcome 💫</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">What Beehiiv understands is this: in 2025, features don&#39;t win markets—relationships do. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">They&#39;ve turned their platform into a community by:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Treating customers like partners in their journey</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Building in public so everyone feels part of the story</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Making technical support feel like friend support (truly)</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Creating multiple touchpoints for engagement (not just support tickets)</p></li></ul><hr class="content_break"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When customers feel like insiders, they become natural ambassadors. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I mean, look at me—I&#39;m literally writing a whole newsletter about them! That&#39;s not because they asked me to; it&#39;s because they made me feel part of something bigger than just another SaaS subscription.</p><div class="image"><img alt="Season 3 Bee GIF by Nanalan&#39;" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media4.giphy.com/media/1Amx2qYXjxgEkO7iqe/giphy-downsized.gif?cid=2450ec30y257tvrz31jodzjppx24qkiq9o7zbbg2c0rqtt1m&ep=v1_gifs_search&rid=giphy-downsized.gif&ct=g"/></div><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">How You Can Apply Beehiiv’s Lessons</h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Beehiiv’s success offers valuable lessons for operators looking to scale their own businesses or communities:</p><ol start="1"><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Leverage Personal Branding:</b> Whether you’re a CEO or in sales, your story is your biggest asset. Use it to drive sales—which today, means building trust and credibility.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Focus on Connections:</b> Your audience isn’t just customers—they’re potential advocates. Invest in building meaningful relationships. Loyalty wins.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Leveraging Word-of-Mouth:</b> Deliver exceptional value and actively promote your customer’s success stories, turn users into evangelists.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Create a Community:</b> A product is great, but a community is better. Beehiiv has a dedicated Slack channel. Foster connections among your users to create a network effect for point #3.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Adapt Rapidly:</b> Listen to your users and respond quickly. Your responsiveness will set you apart from competitors.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Help your customers win</b>: Share insights about growth within your industry arena. This helps position you as a thought leader, not a salesman.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Build your own box:</b> Perhaps the &quot;unprofessional&quot; approach is the most professional move you can make (<a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/posts/danielberk_how-i-roll-up-to-the-linkedin-timeline-to-activity-7288028085558382594-3pCs?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">oh, Daniel</a>)</p></li></ol><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">Conclusion</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Beehiiv isn’t just a newsletter platform—it’s a connection engine, a growth accelerator, and a champion for creators. Through a relentless focus on personal branding, fostering connections, and listening to its users, Beehiiv has carved out a unique position in its own industry inside the creator economy.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The Beehiiv strategy shows us that in the age of AI and automation, genuine human connection isn&#39;t just nice to have—it&#39;s a competitive advantage.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">And maybe that&#39;s why they spell their name with two i&#39;s. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Because in relationship building, <br>it&#39;s not about &quot;me&quot; — it&#39;s about &quot;we&quot; 👁️👄👁️</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">(Okay, that was cheesy, but you get the point!)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Interested in creating an account with Beehiiv? <a class="link" href="https://www.beehiiv.com?via=Lauren-Gibson&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=case-study-1-beelieve-it" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Get a 30-day free trial and 20% off the first 3 months here</a>.</p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div id="our-playlist" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#535353;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">🎷 <span style="color:#e74689;">OUR SUPPORT THIS WEEK</span></h4><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">Receive Honest News Today</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://l.join1440.com/bh?utm_source=beehiiv&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign={{publication_name_param}}_{{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_content=prospecting_critical_thinkers&_bhiiv=opp_fa647aaa-7546-4754-8462-2fd225975f5c_1b75ca79&bhcl_id=319298b8-511c-43b8-8206-6c77b610ac9e_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img class="image__image" style="border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/b58a0446-83d9-4fc1-9d41-77b9932a56f9/02b522900c4ea44e4d1ea3090c3b4390.jpg?t=1715814841"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Join over 4 million Americans who start their day with 1440 – your daily digest for unbiased, fact-centric news. 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  <title>✣ Bad Blood is Bad Business </title>
  <description>How to Turn Frosty Relations Into Opportunities That Spark Growth</description>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div id="section" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#575757;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/79e64b50-1c26-4b6c-9bca-20aca920e881/Header-newsletter_Connections.png?t=1733502658"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>ISSUE 024</p></span></div></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Welcome back to <i>Connections</i>, where we explore the art of building meaningful networks and turning them into your greatest asset. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you’re a regular subscriber you may have noticed—no email last week. And for that, I apologize! I got a little carried away in responsibilities with my newest newsletter clients (woot! but also… a lot of work!)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let’s get into a dirty topic this week, ‘cause we’re diving into enemies.<br>But before we get into it — </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Two weeks ago, we asked you: <b>Who would be your dream connection in 2025?</b><br>Here’s what you shared:</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#575757;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/fcbf3b92-b4fb-4e5c-87f6-0d714e04ba9d/image.png?t=1737167036"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Looks like we’ve got a 4-way tie!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You guys are business-minded, finance-focused, and innovative am I right?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now, onto our regular scheduled programming.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">📌<span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.6rem;"> If you happen to find this in your Spam, please place this email in your ‘Primary’ inbox [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.6rem;"><b>Gmail</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.6rem;">], ‘VIPs’ [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.6rem;"><b>Apple</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.6rem;">], or ‘Safe Sender’ list [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.6rem;"><b>Outlook</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.6rem;">]. Thank you for helping our deliverability!</span></p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div id="meet-the-ai-connector" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#535353;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">🏂 <span style="color:#E74689;">KEEP YOUR ENEMIES CLOSE</span></h4><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:6px 6px 6px 6px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px 1px 1px 1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/6645db65-c492-41a5-a1dd-112e0bc9c029/Newsletter_23.png?t=1737138143"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Have you ever opened a social media platform to discover — </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Someone unfollowed you?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Last week, I noticed that a former colleague—let&#39;s call them Alex—had removed our connection on LinkedIn. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I wanted to refer Alex to a web3 networked connection, who was considering the company Alex worked for in their professional next step.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Alex and I had worked together for a year on several high-stakes projects. <br>Well, here’s what happened. The last mini-conversation I asked of them on LinkedIn was the question—why’d they extend their work at our former employer by 2 months? The context is we were both let go on the same day; as well as ½ the company.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I tried to lead with curiosity, but perhaps it came across differently. (And apparently, this wasn&#39;t unique to Alex—several other former colleagues had also extended their resumes online).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The disconnection realization stung.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But it taught me something powerful about professional relationships that I hadn&#39;t considered before.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Well, not everyone in your professional network needs to be your cheerleader.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">And let’s face it, I guess we’re enemies now. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">(This is harsh and untrue, but let’s go with it for the sake of copy)</p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">The Hidden Value of &quot;Enemies&quot;</h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here&#39;s something counterintuitive: The people who challenge us most often drive our greatest improvements. They:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Force us to strengthen our arguments and convictions</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Help us develop resilience in professional settings</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Push us to question our assumptions and biases</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Make us more adaptable and strategic</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Think about it: Would you rather have 500 connections who always agree with you, or 5 who push you to grow?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">‘Enemy’ professional relationships carry a unique weight. They force us to confront uncomfortable truths about professional bonds.</p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">The Complex Nature of Professional Relationships</h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When companies downsize, it&#39;s not just jobs that get restructured—it&#39;s entire relationship networks. The question I asked Alex was more than curiosity, it was about understanding a deeper layer of our connection to each other in the context of the industry we worked in. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Why? At that time, I was struggling with my place in ‘Web3’ and I wanted to speak to someone I respected, who also was an A-Player at our former workplace.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Every professional connection represents:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Future collaboration possibilities</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Access to different market insights</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Potential referral pathways</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Career opportunities</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But when we let emotions drive disconnection, we&#39;re not just losing a LinkedIn contact—we&#39;re closing doors we might need later.</p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">Bad Blood for Business</h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here&#39;s a hard truth: The professional world is smaller than we think. That person you&#39;re avoiding today might be connected to your dream opportunity.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Smart professionals know: Burning bridges doesn&#39;t just eliminate one connection—it can impact entire networks.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The key is to keep emotions in check and stay focused on professional value.</p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">The Professional Growth Paradox</h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The people who challenge us most often drive our greatest improvements. They:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Force us to strengthen our arguments</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Push us to question our assumptions</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Help us develop thicker skin</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Make us more adaptable</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Looking back at my interaction with Alex, I missed an opportunity. Instead of asking about their extended stay, I could have just shut up and kept the connection ‘professional,’ albeit likely still a bit cold.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That way, once tensions of our mutual layoff subsided, I could have continued the warm network handshake to someone in my network.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Alright, so let’s review.</p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">The Professional’s Perspective</h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Ask yourself:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Who in your professional life do you consider an &quot;enemy&quot;?</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">How can you reach out to them to check in (politely)?</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">How can you transform that friction into fuel for growth?</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Sometimes, the people who challenge us most are actually giving us a gift—the gift of growth, self-awareness, and resilience.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Not every professional relationship needs to be positive to be valuable. Sometimes, the most growth comes from the connections that make us most uncomfortable.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">And who knows? </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Today&#39;s &quot;enemy&quot; might become tomorrow&#39;s ally. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But even if they don&#39;t, they&#39;ve already given you something valuable: a chance to grow.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In business, there are no permanent enemies—only temporary misalignments of interest. 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Plus, we&#39;ll share 5 lessons from an infamous relationship quote that can create new connections in 2025. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">As you map out your goals for the year, think less about <i>what</i> you want to achieve and more about <i>who</i> you want to grow alongside.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In this same mindset…</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">📌<span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.6rem;"> If you happen to find this in your Spam, please place this email in your ‘Primary’ inbox [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.6rem;"><b>Gmail</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.6rem;">], ‘VIPs’ [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.6rem;"><b>Apple</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.6rem;">], or ‘Safe Sender’ list [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.6rem;"><b>Outlook</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.6rem;">]. 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Social media floods with promises of a “new me” mantras, gym memberships spike, and affirmation planners fly off the shelves.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But how do you commit to this mantra?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Unpopular opinion: </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It&#39;s thanks to your network. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">New years are not about becoming a completely new person. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Real transformation lies in surrounding yourself with the people who:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">inspire you </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">support you </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">challenge your ideas</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">keep you accountable</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">have complementary strengths </p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You’ve probably heard the saying: “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with” by <a class="link" href="https://www.businessinsider.com/jim-rohn-youre-the-average-of-the-five-people-you-spend-the-most-time-with-2012-7?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-new-you-doesn-t-work" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Jim Rohn</a>. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This idea isn’t just motivational fluff; <a class="link" href="https://www.psychology24.org/are-you-really-the-average-of-the-five-people-you-spend-most-time-with/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-new-you-doesn-t-work" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">it’s rooted in psychology</a>. Your closest connections influence your mindset, habits, and trajectory. Their energy, ideas, and support—or lack thereof—play a pivotal role in shaping who you are.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The people we surround ourselves with have the biggest influence on our behaviors, our attitudes, and our results. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Take this from Darren Hardy, former publisher of <a class="link" href="https://www.success.com/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-new-you-doesn-t-work" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i>SUCCESS</i></a><i> </i>magazine:</p><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>According to research by social psychologist Dr. David McClelland of Harvard, [the people you habitually associate with] determine as much as 95 percent of your success or failure in life.</i></p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"> Darren Hardy, <a class="link" href="https://amzn.to/4a7r6hw?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-new-you-doesn-t-work" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i>The Compound Effect</i></a></figcaption></blockquote></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So, as we step into a new year, let’s pivot away from the pressure to reinvent ourselves. Instead, let’s focus on evolving through our networks.</p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">Action Steps</h4><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Audit Your Circle:</b> </p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Reflect on your closest relationships. Are they aligned with the person you want to become? If not, (please do not tell them &quot;goodbye”) — intentionally message someone who you want to be part of your inner circle this month.</p></li></ul></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Actively Construct Your Bubble</b>:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Don&#39;t be limited by proximity or serendipity.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Consider the attitudes and life philosophies you want to surround yourself with in your 2025 social environment.</p></li></ul></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Set Connection Micro-Goals: </b></p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Reconnect with 3 old contacts this month. People who have inspired you.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Attend 1 networking event where you can meet like-minded individuals. Check out the best skill when networking in letter #20: <a class="link" href="https://www.newsletter.joinconnections.co/p/020-kill-your-assumptions?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-new-you-doesn-t-work" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Kill Your Assumptions</a>, to prepare for in-person meetups.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Cultivate one deeper relationship with a peer, mentor, or friend.</p></li></ul></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Be the Person You Want to Attract:</b> Relationships are reciprocal. Be a source of positivity, curiosity, and value for others.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Create a Habit Stack:</b> Pair your goals with existing habits. For example, message a new connection while drinking your morning coffee. That&#39;s what <a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/feed/update/urn:li:activity:7150561885505916929/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-new-you-doesn-t-work" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Avni Barman does every morning</a>.</p></li></ul><hr class="content_break"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now you&#39;ve likely heard the phrase, “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let&#39;s break it down in 5 lessons: </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Lesson #1:</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Keep your critics around. You need to have a devil&#39;s advocate—not a negative person, but someone who causes you to rethink decisions before making a move. This one was the most difficult for me to understand!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Lesson #2:</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Join online communities to find people who you can relate to your situation; such as ADHD business owners or parents navigating freelancing. Create your own mastermind group. Or (!) join one of our upcoming Connections networking hours—you can be subscribed to <a class="link" href="https://lu.ma/connections?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-new-you-doesn-t-work" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">the Connections Lu.ma page</a> to stay updated.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Lesson #3:</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Control who you spend time with, and identify anyone who brings you down or has a negative influence on you. Be intentional. Quality over quantity every time.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Lesson #4:</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Avoid surrounding yourself with negative people. Don&#39;t let your social environment solely depend on how it has always been in the past. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Lesson #5:</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Be one of the 5 people to someone else! Teach what you know and help others improve their lives. In order to be respected by others, first respect yourself and hone in on your strengths.</p><hr class="content_break"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Now ask yourself: </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Are the people you spend the most time with the same people that you admire?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This one was difficult for me to come to terms with. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In the middle of December, I had to protect my time from a childhood friend to whom I consistently said &#39;yes&#39;—and always felt confused and demotivated afterward. This individual is against AI and self-development concepts, which are at the core of my life. So, I had to decline a meeting and suggest that we meet up in a group setting one day instead of one-on-one. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Although it can be difficult, 2025 is a year for prioritizing growth-minded individuals.</p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#535353;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">📚 <span style="color:rgb(231, 70, 137);"><b>CONNECTIONS IN HISTORY</b></span><br><span style="font-size:0.8rem;"><i>Where we share a powerful connection that changed the world.</i></span></h4><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px 5px 5px 5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px 1px 1px 1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/e96d0017-2bc3-48f4-ad50-7e010e2a6092/Oprah_Winfrey_Gayle_King.jpg?t=1735953449"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>Gayle King and Oprah (right) in a Best Friend Cover Shoot</p></span></div></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Oprah Winfrey and Gayle King&#39;s friendship highlight the power of collaboration in business partnerships. Oprah built a media empire while Gayle became a respected journalist and advisor, consistently supporting each other’s careers. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Their complementary skills—Oprah’s visionary storytelling and Gayle’s detailed journalism—deepened their bond.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Takeaway:</b> Foster relationships with those who challenge, support, and complement you in achieving success.</p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div id="our-playlist" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#535353;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">🎶 <span style="color:#e74689;">OUR PLAYLIST, UPDATED WEEKLY</span></h4><table width="100%" class="bh__column_wrapper"><tr><td width="50%" class="bh__column"><div class="embed"><a class="embed__url" href="https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/connections-the-playlist/pl.u-76oNPb3IWWj3d4?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-new-you-doesn-t-work" target="_blank"><div class="embed__content"></div><img class="embed__image embed__image--right" src="https://beehiiv-images-production.s3.amazonaws.com/uploads/asset/file/3f4678cb-3d0f-4e6b-acc7-40703ddc38a3/Untitled_design_presentation.png?t=1725628795"/></a></div></td><td width="50%" class="bh__column"><div class="embed"><a class="embed__url" href="https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5dkFQ32Lj4Q3jb3Ni7tlfH?si=rk9Y_lYdRp2jUDuDcTD8vw&pt=ec99037a281a258003da1d22f8e72492&pi=u-st4SEZiRRraQ&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=new-year-new-you-doesn-t-work" target="_blank"><img class="embed__image embed__image--left" src="https://beehiiv-images-production.s3.amazonaws.com/uploads/asset/file/5a328c4d-405e-4eff-b3b1-25b92c47de69/Presentation_design__6_.png?t=1725628805"/><div class="embed__content"></div></a></div></td></tr></table></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Got more feedback or want to get in touch? 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  <title>✣ Be Their 1st Thought in 2025</title>
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  <pubDate>Sat, 28 Dec 2024 00:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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    <dc:creator>Lauren Gibson</dc:creator>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div id="section" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#575757;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/79e64b50-1c26-4b6c-9bca-20aca920e881/Header-newsletter_Connections.png?t=1733502658"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>ISSUE 022</p></span></div></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Welcome to the awkward couple of days between Christmas (Hannukah too!) and New Year’s. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">There is no better time than now to stand out in the minds of your network—<i>I mean</i>, to express gratitude to your 2024 connections. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Gratitude messages can be equally self-serving, scientifically, and of course socially beneficial (read the science of gratitude in <a class="link" href="https://www.newsletter.joinconnections.co/p/018-the-gratitude-economy?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=be-their-1st-thought-in-2025" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">our Thanksgiving issue here</a>). </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This week is not about the science. This week is for tactics. Scroll below for plug-and-play messages for 10 different connections you may have made this year.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Choose 2 of these and see what happens. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let’s create those ripple effects in 2025.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">📌<span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;"> If you happen to find this in your Spam, please place this email in your ‘Primary’ inbox [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;"><b>Gmail</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;">], ‘VIPs’ [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;"><b>Apple</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;">], or ‘Safe Sender’ list [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;"><b>Outlook</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;">]. Thank you for helping our deliverability!</span></p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div id="meet-the-ai-connector" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#535353;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">🖥️ <span style="color:#e74689;">TACTICAL THANK YOU MESSAGES TO END THE YEAR</span><br><span style="font-size:0.8rem;"><i>Thank me later, thank them now.</i></span></h4><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:6px 6px 6px 6px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px 1px 1px 1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/0cb72c67-bc30-43e9-a690-e27b0d856b3d/Newsletter_Banners__1_.png?t=1735312209"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You have made an incredible number of connections in 2024. All of these individuals have led to where you are today. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It’s important to thank your connections for their efforts. Reciprocity can lead to significant benefits over time.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">However, you may also be exhausted from the stress of the holidays. I get it! </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So let’s make this easy—</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here are plug-and-play templates you can use for different relationships you made in 2025.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">(Anyone remember <a class="link" href="https://amzn.to/4gvRq79?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=be-their-1st-thought-in-2025" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Mad Libs</a>?)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Just fill in the blanks and hit send!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">⬇️</p><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">1. <b>For a Coffee Chat ☕️</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">“Hi [Name],</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I’m reflecting on the meaningful conversations I had in 2024, and our coffee chat in [month] stands out. Thank you for taking the time to share your insights on [topic discussed]. Your advice on [specific advice] has already made a difference in [specific way]. Wishing you a fantastic start to 2025!”</p><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">2. <b>For a Client Relationship 🤹🏼‍♂️</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">“Dear [Name],</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">As 2025 begins, I wanted to take a moment to express my gratitude for working together on [specific project]. Your collaboration and expertise were invaluable in achieving [specific result]. Looking forward to more success at [company] this year.”</p><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">3. <b>For a Job Referral </b>💼</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">“Hello [Name],</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Happy New Year! I’m so grateful for the referral you provided to [Company/Contact Name]. [<i>Share what happened from that experience, either you got the job or didn’t, the process ideally helped open doors or gave you insights</i>]. Thank you for believing in my potential and supporting my career journey. Wishing you all the best in 2025!”</p><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">4. <b>For a Mentor 👴🏽</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">“Hi [Name],</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">As we move into 2025, I’ve been reflecting on the people who had the biggest impact on my growth last year. Your guidance during [specific experience] has been a cornerstone of my development. Thank you for always challenging and supporting me. Here’s to another year of growth and learning!”</p><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">5. <b>For a Team Member 👦🏻</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">“Hi [Name],</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Happy 2025! I want to thank you for your hard work on [specific project/task]. Your dedication and creativity made a real impact, and I’m so grateful to have you as part of the team. Looking forward to more successes together this year!”</p><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">6. <b>For a Networking Connection 🙋🏼‍♀️</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">“Hi [Name],</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I’m reaching out to say thank you for connecting with me this past year. Our conversation on [specific topic] was truly inspiring, and it’s connections like these that make my work meaningful. Wishing you a wonderful start to 2025!”</p><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">7. <b>For an Industry Peer 🧑🏽‍🚀</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">“Hi [Name],</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">As we enter 2025, I wanted to thank you for your insights during [specific event or discussion] have truly helped me understand [specific topic] better. Looking forward to collaborating and learning more from you this year. Wishing you great success in 2025!” </p><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">8. <b>For a Conference Speaker </b>🎤</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">“Hi [Name],</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I wanted to thank you for your impactful presentation at [specific conference/event]. Your talk on [specific topic] gave me actionable insights that I’ve already started to implement. Wishing you continued success and looking forward to staying connected in 2025!”</p><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">9. <b>For a Service Provider or Vendor 🏷️</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">&quot;Dear [Name],<br>As we kick off 2025, I wanted to extend my gratitude for your support with [specific service/project]. Your reliability and quality of work were instrumental in helping us meet our goals. Looking forward to continuing our partnership this year!&quot;</p><hr class="content_break"><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">10. <b>For a Professional Group or Organization Leader 🏘️</b></h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">&quot;Hi [Name],<br>I’m reaching out to express my appreciation for the leadership you’ve shown in [specific group or organization]. Being part of [organization] has been incredibly rewarding, and your guidance in [specific event/initiative] has been inspiring. Looking forward to what 2025 brings!&quot;</p><hr class="content_break"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Choose 2 which you’d like to send right now.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Customize it to your liking, but take the sentiment with you when you press Send. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Your connections will thank you. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">And remember you in 2025! </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"></p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#535353;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">💬 <span style="color:rgb(231, 70, 137);"><b>BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS</b></span><br><span style="font-size:0.8rem;"><i>Let’s kickstart 2025 with tools to build your creativity and connections.</i></span></h4><table width="100%" class="bh__column_wrapper"><tr><td width="50%" class="bh__column"><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://amzn.to/3PfMqYA?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=be-their-1st-thought-in-2025" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:rgb(3, 7, 18);" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/995d83ac-d538-4ee2-b496-95b9d4dbb23f/The_2-Hour_Cocktail_Party.jpg?t=1735343711"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><b><a class="link" href="https://amzn.to/3PfMqYA?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=be-their-1st-thought-in-2025" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The 2-Hour Cocktail Party</a></b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><i>The best way to expand your network is to host your own parties! The author </i><a class="link" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FOOQPBTQTKc&t=302s&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=be-their-1st-thought-in-2025" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><i>Nick Gray is a serial entrepreneur</i></a><i>… (and an introvert!) with a knack for getting people together. </i></p></td><td width="50%" class="bh__column"><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://amzn.to/3PcMcB8?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=be-their-1st-thought-in-2025" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="The greatest book to change your 2025" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/5cb56ec3-c2c5-4935-a268-e5b00d3d9510/image.png?t=1735343847"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><a class="link" href="https://amzn.to/3PcMcB8?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=be-their-1st-thought-in-2025" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><b>The Artist’s Way</b></a></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><i>Successfully recommended this book to no less than 6 people in 2024, ½ of whom said it changed their life. If you love workbooks, then this book will challenge you to unlock your creativity in the new year. Comes highly recommended from entrepreneurs like Tim Ferriss, Codie Sanchez, and Noah Kagan.</i></p></td></tr></table><table width="100%" class="bh__column_wrapper"><tr><td width="50%" class="bh__column"><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://amzn.to/4gzcB8k?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=be-their-1st-thought-in-2025" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="The Ultimate Guide to Finding Peace with Your Relationships" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:rgb(15, 17, 17);" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/cafb74a9-2824-4ab0-9e2c-5af6864c5207/The_Four_Agreements_Book_Cover.jpg?t=1735344353"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><a class="link" href="https://amzn.to/4gzcB8k?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=be-their-1st-thought-in-2025" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Four Agreements</a></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><i>This is a book I’ve gifted to friends over the years because it’s 1) inexpensive, 2) short, and 3) packed with wisdom on how to interact with others. This book could change how you see interactions with yourself and with others.</i></p></td><td width="50%" class="bh__column"><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://amzn.to/40cUgsf?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=be-their-1st-thought-in-2025" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/fb7ee3fd-0e94-44a7-83f5-755dcde43c3f/Never_Split_the_Difference_Book_Cover.jpg?t=1735344561"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><a class="link" href="https://amzn.to/40cUgsf?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=be-their-1st-thought-in-2025" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Never Split the Difference</a></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><i>People are not always easy to manage, especially when it comes to financial matters. This book helped me avoid a lawyer (long story) and get my invoices paid from a client in early 2024. If that resonates in any way, check out this book from a Georgetown professor and former FBI officer.</i></p></td></tr></table><hr class="content_break"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Let me know if you snag any of these books. </p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#535353;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">📚 <span style="color:rgb(231, 70, 137);"><b>CONNECTIONS IN HISTORY</b></span><br><span style="font-size:0.8rem;"><i>Where we share a powerful connection that changed the world.</i></span></h4><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px 5px 5px 5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px 1px 1px 1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/87c352db-c113-45ab-a5b6-662ea182dfbd/Plato_and_Socrates.jpg?t=1735308359"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>Socrates (left) and Plato (right)</p></span></div></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If it were not for <a class="link" href="https://ryanholiday.net/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=be-their-1st-thought-in-2025" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Ryan Holiday</a>, we would not have modern stoic thinking. But if it were not for Plato, we would not have had this wisdom written down. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">[Speaking of which, Holiday’s newest book of 2024, <a class="link" href="https://amzn.to/4fGUM5X?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=be-their-1st-thought-in-2025" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Right Thing, Right Now</a> has been recommended to me as an excellent look into the virtues to be upheld in relationships]</p><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"></blockquote></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Plato and Socrates’ wisdom would not have existed without the other.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Socrates—for his mentorship and teachings, and Plato—for the writing down of Socratic thought, and the expansion of ancient philosophy. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Great connections support each other through shared knowledge. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">As you nurture your connections, consider the legacy you can build together.</p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div id="our-playlist" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#535353;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">🎶 <span style="color:#e74689;">OUR PLAYLIST, UPDATED WEEKLY</span></h4><table width="100%" class="bh__column_wrapper"><tr><td width="50%" class="bh__column"><div class="embed"><a class="embed__url" href="https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/connections-the-playlist/pl.u-76oNPb3IWWj3d4?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=be-their-1st-thought-in-2025" target="_blank"><div class="embed__content"></div><img class="embed__image embed__image--right" src="https://beehiiv-images-production.s3.amazonaws.com/uploads/asset/file/3f4678cb-3d0f-4e6b-acc7-40703ddc38a3/Untitled_design_presentation.png?t=1725628795"/></a></div></td><td width="50%" class="bh__column"><div class="embed"><a class="embed__url" href="https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5dkFQ32Lj4Q3jb3Ni7tlfH?si=rk9Y_lYdRp2jUDuDcTD8vw&pt=ec99037a281a258003da1d22f8e72492&pi=u-st4SEZiRRraQ&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=be-their-1st-thought-in-2025" target="_blank"><img class="embed__image embed__image--left" src="https://beehiiv-images-production.s3.amazonaws.com/uploads/asset/file/5a328c4d-405e-4eff-b3b1-25b92c47de69/Presentation_design__6_.png?t=1725628805"/><div class="embed__content"></div></a></div></td></tr></table></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Got more feedback or want to get in touch? 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  <title>021 | Respect their Space</title>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div id="section" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:rgb(3, 7, 18);border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/79e64b50-1c26-4b6c-9bca-20aca920e881/Header-newsletter_Connections.png?t=1733502658"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>ISSUE 021</p></span></div></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Yesterday I met an older businessman in Jacksonville, with the backstory of your typical New Yorker. Investment banker. Has <a class="link" href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ringo_Starr?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=021-respect-their-space" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Ringo</a>’s phone number. Produced a TV show. Entering Ai now. However, what I found most interesting about his AI go-to-market agency was that he played a little game with his business partner: who can land the most leads?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">His partner was the DM type—uses LinkedIn Sales Navigator to </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Him—the networker. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Who consistently wins? You guessed it. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The networker—he not only closes more clients, but he also has the shortest time to signature. Now that’s important! </p><hr class="content_break"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Friends, I’m asking you this one more time to gather the right data!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">📌<span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;"> If you happen to find this in your Spam, please place this email in your ‘Primary’ inbox [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;"><b>Gmail</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;">], ‘VIPs’ [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;"><b>Apple</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;">], or ‘Safe Sender’ list [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;"><b>Outlook</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;">]. Thank you for helping our deliverability!</span></p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div id="meet-the-ai-connector" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:rgb(3, 7, 18);border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">🖥️ <span style="color:#e74689;">RESPECT THEIR SPACE</span></h4><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/90c6ab66-eec9-4990-b092-c89bdae9e0ff/Newsletter_Banners_Canva__1_.png?t=1734713468"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A connection thrives on mutual understanding—and <a class="link" href="https://www.strategy-business.com/article/How-healthy-boundaries-build-trust-in-the-workplace?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=021-respect-their-space" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">it dies without boundaries</a>. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A friend of mine has been dealing with someone who just won’t take no for an answer. They keep pushing for an opportunity that doesn’t align with his work, and while he’s been polite, the persistence is draining him.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It’s a reminder of how vital it is to respect someone’s boundaries—especially during the holidays.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This time of year is already overwhelming. People are juggling work, family, and personal goals. I know I’ve felt it. I haven’t even had the chance to sit down and write the gratitude Christmas letters I usually write every year. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Pushing someone who’s already stretched thin doesn’t build connection—it creates frustration. Instead, the most thoughtful thing you can do is honor their space.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">We’ve all been there: eager to connect, help, or collaborate, only to push too far without realizing it. Sometimes, the most important lesson in building meaningful relationships is recognizing when to step back.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here’s what to learn:</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">❌ <b>No isn’t maybe.</b> A polite decline is not an invitation to negotiate. Respecting someone’s &quot;no&quot; shows you value their autonomy more than your agenda.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">✨ <b>Silence speaks.</b> If someone doesn’t respond, it’s not always a green light to follow up endlessly. Sometimes, <a class="link" href="https://psychcentral.com/relationships/silent-communication?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=021-respect-their-space" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">silence is their way of saying, “Not now.”</a></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">🌿 <b>Space nurtures trust.</b> Giving someone room to breathe creates the possibility for future connection. Forcing the issue erodes trust faster than any misstep.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So, how can we navigate this gracefully?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">1️⃣ <b>Pause and reflect.</b> Before pushing further, ask yourself: Am I respecting their boundaries, or am I acting out of my own need?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">2️⃣ <b>Lead with empathy.</b> Acknowledge their decision without judgment. Example: “I understand. If it makes sense later, I’d still love to review this proposal in 2025.”</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">3️⃣ <b>Move on gracefully.</b> Not every connection will happen, and that’s okay. Shifting your energy elsewhere creates space for relationships that are ready to flourish.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">True connection doesn’t come from persistence. It comes from understanding.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Because the best way to strengthen a relationship is to honor the other person’s boundaries.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">And what happens when you do give up?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You’ll find that sometimes, <a class="link" href="https://stratsolutions.net/5-reasons-setting-boundaries-builds-success/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=021-respect-their-space" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">respecting a “no” leads to a more meaningful “yes”</a> down the road. </p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:rgb(3, 7, 18);border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">💬 <span style="color:rgb(231, 70, 137);"><b>COMMUNICATION TIP</b></span><br><span style="font-size:0.8rem;"><i>Where you get an experimental prompt for human conversations.</i></span></h4><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:6px 6px 6px 6px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px 1px 1px 1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/fc1fe2a4-99bd-4ed1-b860-28e779760692/Newsletter_Banners_Canva.png?t=1734712416"/></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>When trying to meet someone, instead of: </b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">❌<b> </b><i>&quot;What time works for you?&quot;</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Try this...</b></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">✅<b> </b><i>&quot;Do you have 30min availability on Monday the 23rd between 2-4pm EST?” </i><br><i>​</i><br><i>​</i><i><b>Remember to...</b></i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Be proactive! Instead of going<i> back and forth</i> over email, suggest some times and give folks something to work with.<br>I personally love using <a class="link" href="http://tidycal.com?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=021-respect-their-space" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">TidyCal;</a> it’s more cost-effective than Calendly.</p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#222222;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">📚 <span style="color:rgb(231, 70, 137);"><b>CONNECTIONS IN HISTORY</b></span><br><span style="font-size:0.8rem;"><i>Where we share a powerful connection that changed the world.</i></span></h4><div class="image"><img alt="Paul Allen (L) and Bill Gates (R) in 1981" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px 5px 5px 5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px 1px 1px 1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/566bf906-f04f-4ee5-bdb3-db706adad2dc/Gates_Allen_1981_Reunion.png?t=1734707929"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>Paul Allen (L) and Bill Gates (R) in 1981</p></span></div></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In the halls of Lakeside School in Seattle during the late 1960s, Paul Allen and Bill Gates crossed paths in a small, exclusive computer club. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Two teens. A shared obsession with computers. A meeting that almost didn’t happen.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Allen, the quiet visionary, showed Gates, the highly competitive analyst, the infinite possibilities of programming. Although different by nature, together, they clicked. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">By 1975, that serendipitous connection birthed <b>Microsoft</b>—a company that transformed the world of technology forever.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Their story is proof: a one-chance meeting can spark a partnership that changes everything.</p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div id="our-playlist" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#222222;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">🎶 <span style="color:#e74689;">OUR PLAYLIST, UPDATED WEEKLY</span></h4><table width="100%" class="bh__column_wrapper"><tr><td width="50%" class="bh__column"><div class="embed"><a class="embed__url" href="https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/connections-the-playlist/pl.u-76oNPb3IWWj3d4?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=021-respect-their-space" target="_blank"><div class="embed__content"></div><img class="embed__image embed__image--right" src="https://beehiiv-images-production.s3.amazonaws.com/uploads/asset/file/3f4678cb-3d0f-4e6b-acc7-40703ddc38a3/Untitled_design_presentation.png?t=1725628795"/></a></div></td><td width="50%" class="bh__column"><div class="embed"><a class="embed__url" href="https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5dkFQ32Lj4Q3jb3Ni7tlfH?si=rk9Y_lYdRp2jUDuDcTD8vw&pt=ec99037a281a258003da1d22f8e72492&pi=u-st4SEZiRRraQ&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=021-respect-their-space" target="_blank"><img class="embed__image embed__image--left" src="https://beehiiv-images-production.s3.amazonaws.com/uploads/asset/file/5a328c4d-405e-4eff-b3b1-25b92c47de69/Presentation_design__6_.png?t=1725628805"/><div class="embed__content"></div></a></div></td></tr></table></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Got more feedback or want to get in touch? 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  <title>020 | Kill your Assumptions</title>
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  <pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2024 16:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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    <dc:creator>Lauren Gibson</dc:creator>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div id="section" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#a08867;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/79e64b50-1c26-4b6c-9bca-20aca920e881/Header-newsletter_Connections.png?t=1733502658"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>ISSUE 020</p></span></div></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Last night I attended an event hosted by <a class="link" href="https://www.meetup.com/jax-tech-meetup/events/301446511/?eventOrigin=group_events_list&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=020-kill-your-assumptions" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Jax Tech</a> on the EV and autonomous vehicle industry. With so many unknown faces walking around, I was reminded how <i>awkward </i>in-person networking can be—even for people like myself! I guess that’s why an open bar helps (although I don’t partake).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I much prefer online networking because there are time constraints, and you can use an app like <a class="link" href="https://fathom.video/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=020-kill-your-assumptions" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Fathom</a> to help you remember the important parts. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">As a digital-first networker, I would highly recommend <a class="link" href="https://blinq.me/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=020-kill-your-assumptions" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Blinq</a> for your in-person networking needs (<a class="link" href="https://apps.apple.com/us/app/blinq-digital-business-card/id1324102258?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=020-kill-your-assumptions" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">iPhone App</a>).</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">At this event, it also struck me how important the information in these newsletters would be on a different day of the week—to prepare for those in-person networking events or video calls for the rest of the week. Which is why I am considering the day which these letters will go out!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So I’d love to ask you in this December rebrand poll,</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">📌<span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;"> If you happen to find this in your Spam, please place this email in your ‘Primary’ inbox [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;"><b>Gmail</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;">], ‘VIPs’ [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;"><b>Apple</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;">], or ‘Safe Sender’ list [</span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;"><b>Outlook</b></span><span style="color:rgb(3, 7, 18);font-family:"Noto Sans", Roboto, "Open Sans", Arial, sans-serif;font-size:0.8rem;">]. Thank you for helping our deliverability!</span></p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div id="meet-the-ai-connector" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#a08867;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">🎩 <span style="color:#e74689;">NETWORKING TIP</span></h4><div class="image"><img alt="A minimalist black-and-white illustration showing a man wearing a top hat, sitting at a modern city bar. The scene features clean geometric shapes, a counter with bar stools, and large windows revealing a subtle cityscape in the background." class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/4ef07d46-e721-4309-972e-9f480d347d29/Newsletter_Banners__1_.png?t=1734094621"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>Curiosity cracked the D.C. code</p></span></div></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When I first moved to Washington, D.C., I encountered something I hadn’t experienced so strongly anywhere else. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Conversations here came with a built-in assumption: that you already <i>knew. </i><br>The acronyms, the policy jargon, the inside ”<a class="link" href="https://www.mlb.com/nationals?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=020-kill-your-assumptions" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Nationals</a>” references. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Well, the DMV <i>is</i> the <a class="link" href="https://www.fox5dc.com/news/dc-maryland-and-virginia-people-are-among-the-top-5-most-educated-in-america?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=020-kill-your-assumptions" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">most well-educated area</a> in the USA. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">People weren’t being rude. It was just how they communicated. <br>They assumed you were part of the club, and the unspoken rule was: <br><i>Always add more input. Don’t ask questions.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">For a while, I nodded along, adding more and more value per the norm. <br>But the truth is, pretending to understand only builds walls, while curiosity breaks them down. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So, I tried something different.<br>I started asking:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>Can you explain that term? I’m not familiar.</i></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>What inspired that perspective?</i></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>How does this fit into the bigger picture?</i></p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">And you know what happened?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Honestly, some people were shocked. <br>But most others opened up more, eager to share their knowledge.<br>Connections deepened because I wasn’t afraid to admit what I didn’t know.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here’s what I’ve learned:<br>Ignorance—of the curious kind—opens doors that assumptions close.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Instead of guessing what someone brings to the table, ask:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>What excites you about your work? </i></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>What’s been on your mind lately? </i></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>What brought you to this project/event/conversation? </i></p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Curiosity turns a passing interaction into a meaningful relationship. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It’s strategic, too. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I remember this well from the book <a class="link" href="https://www.amazon.com/How-Win-Friends-Influence-People/dp/0671027034?adgrpid=1340305240846745&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Qgn-N_y0ZylQLOnQEdlfb5C30JGWwu2rmmPhEX8dFdn3znp6Ptw-Ip7T8UmBf5UuORmyN8dHGJu6KZmpza5NIPXfdWBktOjigbL2dA3OhzogYBHuvn5RCHTXvuQbL3IMEr5BL4udNGjxPsHAyi1JaH5swo7tcr0-Pd8JnfZgjXSDdOMvNpeEB9yE5EhOCSf0MjkquSFBV5qQSxOZhze-OYcCagcTMwEZId1GCqQ6kIE.LOQUE_7ZcDgdagQjbHCoPeAqpbSO9kbBNbk8qRCH-qs&dib_tag=se&hydadcr=15586_10501289&keywords=how+to+win+friends+and+influence+people+book&qid=1734095458&sr=8-1&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=020-kill-your-assumptions" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">How to Win Friends and Influence People</a>, recommended early in my career by my dad. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">When you ask thoughtful questions, you follow Carnegie’s principles of showing genuine interest and making others feel valued. This approach fosters goodwill and creates lasting impressions that lead to deeper, more meaningful connections.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Strategically, curiosity helps you:</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">➤ <b>Build rapport effortlessly</b>: People love to talk about themselves. Asking questions makes them feel heard and appreciated.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">➤ <b>Find common ground</b>: By being genuinely interested, you discover shared interests or goals that can lead to collaboration.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">➤ <b>Unlock hidden opportunities</b>: Curiosity uncovers motivations, challenges, and ideas that might otherwise go unnoticed. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Showing interest in others is one of the simplest yet most effective ways to win trust. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Trust wins you a connection.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">And connections? They win you opportunities.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So the next time you’re tempted to assume, remember this: curiosity isn’t just polite—it’s powerful.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Ask the questions others won’t. Show interest where others don’t.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Because when you lead with curiosity, you don’t just build relationships. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You build bridges. 🌉</p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#a08867;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">💬 <span style="color:rgb(231, 70, 137);"><b>CONVERSATION STARTER OF THE WEEK</b></span><br><span style="font-size:0.8rem;"><i>Where you get an experimental IRL prompt for human conversations.</i></span></h4><div class="image"><img alt="An isometric minimalist illustration of two men on a video call in separate, distant rooms. Each room features a desk with a laptop, simple furniture, and subtle details such as a plant and a lamp. The scene is brought to life with a vibrant gradient palette, creating a warm and modern atmosphere. A glowing line visually connects the two screens, symbolizing their virtual interaction." class="image__image" style="border-radius:6px 6px 6px 6px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px 1px 1px 1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/837f7d8c-6994-4fcc-8800-7b12547cb935/Newsletter_Banners__2_.png?t=1734097840"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>You don’t have to feel stuck in the dreaded Zoom call</p></span></div></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">On your next group call while everyone is waiting for others to roll on it, ask that one person in the room: </p><div class="blockquote"><blockquote class="blockquote__quote"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you could trade lives with someone for a week, who would it be and why?</p><figcaption class="blockquote__byline"></figcaption></blockquote></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Why it works:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It unlocks values, dreams, and interests.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It catches people off guard in the best way.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">It sparks storytelling which invites engaging follow-up conversation.</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The secret to great conversations is all in how you start. ✨ </p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#a08867;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">📚 <span style="color:rgb(231, 70, 137);"><b>CONNECTIONS IN HISTORY</b></span><br><span style="font-size:0.8rem;"><i>Where we share a powerful connection that changed the world.</i></span></h4><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:5px 5px 5px 5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px 1px 1px 1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/80bf45ab-3e86-4426-a2e4-cf782feec763/Paul_McCartney_John_Lennon.jpg?t=1734098255"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>Paul McCartney and John Lennon</p></span></div></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">McCartney had the melodic genius; Lennon had the lyrical edge. Together, they formed The Beatles, shaping the sound of modern music and leaving a legacy that still inspires generations.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Proof that the right connection can change culture forever.</p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div id="our-playlist" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#a08867;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">🎶 <span style="color:#e74689;">OUR PLAYLIST, UPDATED WEEKLY</span></h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">👇🏻 Choose your platform👇🏾</p><table width="100%" class="bh__column_wrapper"><tr><td width="50%" class="bh__column"><div class="embed"><a class="embed__url" href="https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/connections-the-playlist/pl.u-76oNPb3IWWj3d4?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=020-kill-your-assumptions" target="_blank"><div class="embed__content"></div><img class="embed__image embed__image--right" src="https://beehiiv-images-production.s3.amazonaws.com/uploads/asset/file/3f4678cb-3d0f-4e6b-acc7-40703ddc38a3/Untitled_design_presentation.png?t=1725628795"/></a></div></td><td width="50%" class="bh__column"><div class="embed"><a class="embed__url" href="https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5dkFQ32Lj4Q3jb3Ni7tlfH?si=rk9Y_lYdRp2jUDuDcTD8vw&pt=ec99037a281a258003da1d22f8e72492&pi=u-st4SEZiRRraQ&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=020-kill-your-assumptions" target="_blank"><img class="embed__image embed__image--left" src="https://beehiiv-images-production.s3.amazonaws.com/uploads/asset/file/5a328c4d-405e-4eff-b3b1-25b92c47de69/Presentation_design__6_.png?t=1725628805"/><div class="embed__content"></div></a></div></td></tr></table></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Got more feedback or want to get in touch? 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  <pubDate>Sat, 07 Dec 2024 01:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
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    <dc:creator>Lauren Gibson</dc:creator>
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Just a quick reminder—I’m <a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/laur3n-gibson/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=019-ai-powered-connector-incoming" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Lauren</a>, previously the author of Bread & Rose Work Club, now rebranded to Connections the Letter. After thoughtful consideration, I realized that the future of work is in <i>people. </i>Look around, and there are many Ai newsletters. We aim to be the alter-ego here, where we focus on the parts we love about AI (productivity, profit, efficiency), but apply them to the connection realm.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">That said, the content you see will be evolving—and I need <b>your</b> input! Over the last few weeks of December, I’ll be asking a poll a week to revamp for 2025.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Also, check out that new domain we’re emailing you from 😎 </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">📌<span style="font-size:0.8rem;"> If you happen to find this in your Spam, please place this email in your ‘Primary’ inbox [</span><span style="font-size:0.8rem;"><b>Gmail</b></span><span style="font-size:0.8rem;">], ‘VIPs’ [</span><span style="font-size:0.8rem;"><b>Apple</b></span><span style="font-size:0.8rem;">], or ‘Safe Sender’ list [</span><span style="font-size:0.8rem;"><b>Outlook</b></span><span style="font-size:0.8rem;">]. Thank you for helping our deliverability! </span></p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div id="meet-the-ai-connector" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#a08867;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">🖥️ <span style="color:#e74689;">MEET YOUR NEXT BEST CONNECTOR </span></h4><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://www.boardy.ai/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=019-ai-powered-connector-incoming" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img alt="Boardy Ai connector" class="image__image" style="border-radius:500px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/39612685-f0de-4453-903f-32dad472611c/image.png?t=1733499885"/></a><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>Monsieur Boardy</p></span></div></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This week I found someone who may be the next best connector in your life.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Well, maybe not someone—some<i>thing?</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Meet <a class="link" href="https://Boardy.ai?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=019-ai-powered-connector-incoming" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Boardy.ai</a>, an Ai assistant that listens to your needs and connects you with the perfect collaborator, investor, or client. The voice is so real, you’ll forget it’s Ai. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I got on a call with Boardy, who has an Australian male accent, and it repeated back info on my LinkedIn profile. But the call was so lifelike, that I gave it even more information about myself (including the rebrand pivot), and it connected me with more people I would not have considered otherwise.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The downside? It recommended someone I already knew well (<a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/patmccrann/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=019-ai-powered-connector-incoming" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Patrick McCrann</a>) and only managed to suggest 3 new connections. Right now, the database feels limited, and it needs more users like us to unlock its full potential. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/boardy/posts/?feedView=all&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=019-ai-powered-connector-incoming" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Message Boardy on LinkedIn</a> today to claim a spot in their database and unlock doors to more relationships. </p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div id="our-sponsor" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#a08867;border-radius:10px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">📣<span style="color:#7f95d1;"> </span><span style="color:#e74689;">PRESENTED BY 1440 MEDIA</span></h4><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="receive-honest-news-today">Receive Honest News Today</h3><div class="image"><a class="image__link" href="https://l.join1440.com/bh?utm_source=beehiiv&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign={{publication_name_param}}_{{publication_alphanumeric_id}}&utm_content=prospecting_critical_thinkers&_bhiiv=opp_08e19e44-45af-428b-bb77-c19a2e9493b0_1b75ca79&bhcl_id=8eec7322-1c26-4ae2-8a34-910b48dcb036_{{subscriber_id}}_{{email_address_id}}" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><img class="image__image" style="border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;border-style:solid;border-width:0px 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#E5E7EB;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/b58a0446-83d9-4fc1-9d41-77b9932a56f9/02b522900c4ea44e4d1ea3090c3b4390.jpg?t=1715814841"/></a></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Join over 4 million Americans who start their day with 1440 – your daily digest for unbiased, fact-centric news. 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Together, they turned a garage project into Apple, revolutionizing technology and design forever. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Proof that the right connection can change the world. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So who’s your Wozniak (or Jobs)?</p></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div id="our-playlist" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#a08867;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:5.0px 5.0px 5.0px 5.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">🎶 <span style="color:#e74689;">OUR PLAYLIST, UPDATED WEEKLY</span></h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">👇🏻 Choose your platform👇🏾</p><table width="100%" class="bh__column_wrapper"><tr><td width="50%" class="bh__column"><div class="embed"><a class="embed__url" href="https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/connections-the-playlist/pl.u-76oNPb3IWWj3d4?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=019-ai-powered-connector-incoming" target="_blank"><div class="embed__content"></div><img class="embed__image embed__image--right" src="https://beehiiv-images-production.s3.amazonaws.com/uploads/asset/file/3f4678cb-3d0f-4e6b-acc7-40703ddc38a3/Untitled_design_presentation.png?t=1725628795"/></a></div></td><td width="50%" class="bh__column"><div class="embed"><a class="embed__url" href="https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5dkFQ32Lj4Q3jb3Ni7tlfH?si=rk9Y_lYdRp2jUDuDcTD8vw&pt=ec99037a281a258003da1d22f8e72492&pi=u-st4SEZiRRraQ&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=019-ai-powered-connector-incoming" target="_blank"><img class="embed__image embed__image--left" src="https://beehiiv-images-production.s3.amazonaws.com/uploads/asset/file/5a328c4d-405e-4eff-b3b1-25b92c47de69/Presentation_design__6_.png?t=1725628805"/><div class="embed__content"></div></a></div></td></tr></table></div><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/17130ab1-b035-405d-acdf-6c19766d7004/Content_Break_-_Connections.png?t=1733348746"/></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Hey! If you’re a true fan of this letter, then you may remember voting for our rebrand name <a class="link" href="https://www.newsletter.joinconnections.co/p/015-change-happens-in-connections?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=019-ai-powered-connector-incoming" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">in this letter</a>. As you well know, none of those names were selected. I do want to thank you all for voting and so if you are one of the 17 individuals who voted, expect a special letter from me! </p><hr class="content_break"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Got more feedback or want to get in touch? 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  <title>018 | The Gratitude Economy</title>
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</style><div class='beehiiv__body'><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Dear readers, </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A Happy Thanksgiving to all! I am so grateful to have this space where we can connect through the written word and expand our minds in what matters most in this life: our relationships. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Good relationships make health and wealth come easy. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So this week in the Harvest spirit, let&#39;s learn why one relationship-driven practice can help increase our capacity for connection — leading to far-reaching benefits.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So as you read the following, please ask yourself,<b> what are you grateful for</b>?</p></div><hr class="content_break"><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">What&#39;s Coming Up</h2><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="#this-weeks-links" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">🔗 This Week&#39;s Links</a></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="#018-the-gratitude-economy" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">📓 018 | The Gratitude Economy</a></p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="#the-science-of-gratitude-why-it-wor" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">✣ The Science of Gratitude: Why It Works</a></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="#turn-relationships-into-revenue" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">✣ Turn Relationships into Revenue</a></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="#an-effective-gratitude-practice" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">✣ An Effective Gratitude Practice</a></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="#why-gratitude-is-profitable" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">✣ Why Gratitude Is Profitable</a></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="#gratitude-in-action" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">✣ Gratitude in Action</a></p></li></ul></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="#playlist" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">🎶 Playlist </a></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="#sponsor" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">📣 Sponsor </a></p></li></ul></div><hr class="content_break"><div id="this-weeks-links" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">🔗 This Week&#39;s Links</h1></div><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KVjfFN89qvQ&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=018-the-gratitude-economy" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Science of Gratitude</a> [Andrew Huberman, YouTube]</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://www.health.harvard.edu/healthbeat/giving-thanks-can-make-you-happier?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=018-the-gratitude-economy" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Giving thanks can make you happier</a> [Harvard Health]</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_gratitude_changes_you_and_your_brain?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=018-the-gratitude-economy" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">How Gratitude Changes You and Your Brain</a> [Berkeley]</p></li></ul><hr class="content_break"><div id="018-the-gratitude-economy" class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">📓 018 | The Gratitude Economy</h2></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Come join me down a rabbit hole into <i>The Gratitude Economy.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Thanksgiving reminds us of the power of gratitude—not just as a personal virtue, but as a professional superpower. In this season of thankfulness, let’s explore how gratitude can be more than a fleeting emotion. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">A deliberate gratitude practice can strengthen your relationships, improve your mental well-being, and because of these improvements — drive professional growth.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Here’s how.</p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="the-science-of-gratitude-why-it-wor">✣ The Science of Gratitude: Why It Works</h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Research proves that gratitude has transformative effects on the brain, body, and relationships:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Strengthens Bonds</b>: Studies show expressing gratitude to another activates neural circuits associated with trust and connection in both individuals, making relationships more resilient—and reminding people of your existence (great for <i>referrals</i>).</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Boosts Motivation</b>: Gratitude practices increase activity in brain areas tied to reward and motivation. When you express thanks, people are more likely to help you in the future.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Reduces Stress and Improves Health</b>: Gratitude reduces anxiety and lowers cortisol (stress hormone) levels and inflammation in the body. Less stress leads to clearer thinking and better decision-making—critical for building meaningful professional connections. </p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Boosts Physical Health</b>: Reduces the time it takes to fall asleep and improves sleep quality—which makes you a nicer individual for those morning meetings.</p></li></ul><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="turn-relationships-into-revenue">✣ Turn Relationships into Revenue</h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Gratitude can therefore be seen as a financial driver in your professional life in the following ways:</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>1 - Fosters Loyalty</b><br>People who feel appreciated are more likely to stick with you—whether they’re clients, collaborators, or team members. Retention, not acquisition, is often where businesses see the greatest ROI.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><b>Example</b></i>: Send a handwritten thank-you note to every client after a project. The result? Higher rates of repeat work and word-of-mouth referrals.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>2 - Increases Referrals</b><br>Gratitude cultivates goodwill, and goodwill generates opportunities. When you express genuine thanks, people remember it—and recommend you.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><b>Pro Tip</b></i>: After a networking event, send personalized thank-you messages to people you connected with. A simple “I really appreciated your insights” can lead to unexpected opportunities.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>3 - Opens the Door to Collaboration</b><br>Gratitude is a shortcut to trust. Trusted relationships lead to partnerships, deals, and co-created opportunities.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i><b>Example</b></i>: In your next LinkedIn post, publicly thank someone who’s helped your career. It not only strengthens that relationship but shows your network that you value collaboration. </p><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="an-effective-gratitude-practice">✣ An Effective Gratitude Practice</h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">According to neuroscientist <a class="link" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KVjfFN89qvQ&utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=018-the-gratitude-economy" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Andrew Huberman</a>, this is the most effective gratitude practice you can perform to reap all the benefits of gratitude on neuroplasticity and thus professional relationships. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="background-color:#dec8b6;"><b> 1 - Ground Yourself in a Narrative </b></span></p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Focus on a genuine story where either:</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You received gratitude.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">You observed someone receiving gratitude.</p></li></ul></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Capture key elements of the story, such as emotional states before and after the gratitude exchange. </p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="background-color:#dec8b6;"><b> 2 - Create a recall process </b></span></p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Write brief bullet points summarizing the story for quick recall.</p></li></ul><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="background-color:#dec8b6;"><b> 3 - Feel the Gratitude </b></span></p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Spend 1-5 minutes, three times a week, deeply reflecting on the gratitude experience.</p></li></ul><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="why-gratitude-is-profitable">✣ Why Gratitude Is Profitable</h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The key to a thriving professional network is simple: people work with those they know, like, and trust. Gratitude fuels all three.</p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">☑️ <b>Know</b>: Expressing thanks keeps you top of mind in your network.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">☑️ <b>Like</b>: A grateful person is seen as approachable and authentic.</p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">☑️ <b>Trust</b>: People who feel valued will go the extra mile to support you.</p></li></ul><h4 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="gratitude-in-action">✣ Gratitude in Action</h4><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This week, I want to thank you. Your continued commitment to this letter during this rebrand inspire me to keep building and sharing strategies to grow meaningful and prosperous connections. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I encourage you to extend your gratitude into your professional lives. It might just lead to your next breakthrough collaboration, deal, or opportunity.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman, Baskerville, Georgia, serif;"><i>Sincerely,</i></span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:'Times New Roman',Baskerville,Georgia,serif;">LG</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:'Times New Roman',Baskerville,Georgia,serif;">Your Connection Activator</span></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>P.S.</b> Let me know how gratitude has impacted your life or business—I’d love to hear your stories!</p><hr class="content_break"><h1 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="playlist">🎶 Playlist </h1><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Every week, an updated playlist with 5 new songs. 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  <title>017 | What I learned from Connecting 99 People Online</title>
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    <dc:creator>Lauren Gibson</dc:creator>
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If you&#39;re following along, you may notice the discrepancy<a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/posts/laur3n-gibson_futureofwork-activity-7257922403966554112-vDea?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=017-what-i-learned-from-connecting-99-people-online" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"> between 98 and 99 from this post</a>. What I now realize is — I was the 99th! A good lesson here is to remember your work affects you too. </p></div><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;margin:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;">What&#39;s Coming Up</h2><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="#017-what-i-learned-from-connecting-" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">📓 017 | What I learned from Connecting 99 People …</a></p><ul><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="#lesson-1-friends-first" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Lesson 1: Friends, First </a></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="#lesson-2-after-close-connections-cu" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Lesson 2: After Close Connections, Curation Begins …</a></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="#lesson-4-the-power-of-vulnerability" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Lesson 4: The Power of Vulnerability</a></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="#lesson-5-people-want-to-be-nudged" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Lesson 5: People Want to be Nudged</a></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="#final-thoughts" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Final Thoughts</a></p></li></ul></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="#updates" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⚡️ Updates </a></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="#playlist" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">🎶 Playlist </a></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="#sponsor" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">📣 Sponsor </a></p></li><li><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><a class="link" href="#suggestions" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">📥 Suggestions </a></p></li></ul></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="017-what-i-learned-from-connecting-">📓 017 | What I learned from Connecting 99 People Online</h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The idea arrived from a phrase: &quot;<i>I love connecting people!” </i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This simple phrase is one that I have said quite often to others, after 2 people usually exchange great energy and thank me for the connection. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So when I listened to business podcasts discussing building something you are good at, I thought, why not this? Build a place and time for connections to take place, but where the effort in making the connection comes more from the individuals themselves rather than from me (although much effort came from my own actions and those are shared below). </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The goal: hold space where likeminded people can have 1-on-1s in short sprints. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">After several iterations, this took the form of the following agenda: </p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/ccf7f195-b487-43a0-9afc-18de9c289e46/Newsletter_Thumbnails_1200x630__6_.png?t=1732289673"/><div class="image__source"><a class="image__source_link" href="https://gatheround.com/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=017-what-i-learned-from-connecting-99-people-online" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><span class="image__source_text"><p>Screenshot of my agenda from Gatheround</p></span></a></div></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">10 events, 9 different time zones, and 99 connections later, the events became a product and a service at the same time. The product being the 9+ new LinkedIn connections you would receive, the service being the space to have conversations with others. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Whether you&#39;re creating an online product or service involving relationships, here&#39;s what you should know:</p><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="lesson-1-friends-first">Lesson 1: Friends, First </h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>Build for your friends. Demo with your friends.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Friends here is a loose term. I mean those who are closest to your ideal customer but who you would also invite to your birthday party. For myself, this meant business professionals—connections on LinkedIn. I did not invite any of my connections on a platform like Instagram, until later.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">So the first two iterations of the Connection Power-Hours were invitations from my close connections. These people were able to give me the feedback I needed to polish the product.</p><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="lesson-2-after-close-connections-cu">Lesson 2: After Close Connections, Curation Begins </h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>The magic happens after you&#39;ve iterated on the first couple of demonstrations. </i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">After the first 2 events, I realized if I were to continue this 8 more times, I needed to sell people on the outcome. Business people don&#39;t want to network based on an arbitrary connection, they care about specifics. I designated these specifics to be: role, industry, and interest. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I used LinkedIn to search people in those areas and curate the connections based on metrics in their profile. </p><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="lesson-2-people-mesh-differently">Lesson 3: People Mesh Differently </h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>People respond to structure and guidance differently. That&#39;s awesome (usually).</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Not everyone networks the same. Although I aimed to provide clear direction through the prompts in each session: some people ignored them and some followed them <i>too</i> rigorously<i> </i>(basically, it was awkward). </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The beauty of the prompts is you can take ‘em or leave ‘em. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This experience taught me that it’s not about forcing everyone to conform to a single method—it’s about creating a space where all approaches can coexist and complement each other. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In this way, I learned an incredible amount about ways people want to connect with others professionally—ways that I&#39;m bringing to future events in 2025!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">P.s. the ‘usually’ reference is due to one session where an individual went rogue in hijacking the conversation</p><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="lesson-4-the-power-of-vulnerability">Lesson 4: The Power of Vulnerability</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>Those who followed the prompts received a self-created surprise—new knowledge.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Imagine having an intro call with someone and being asked: “Who has inspired your journey?” or “What&#39;s a project roadblock you&#39;re experiencing?” or “What&#39;s a skill you&#39;re developing?” </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The answers open up a deeper level of conversation which resulted in new connections not only between you and the opposite individual—but also inside your mind. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">People told me “this is unlike any networking event I&#39;ve attended,” one person calling it a ‘networking gym’ because of the opportunity to be vulnerable in this setting. </p><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="lesson-5-people-want-to-be-nudged">Lesson 5: People <i>Want</i> to be Nudged</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><i>Message everyone 1 to 12 hours before the event.</i></p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This shows the individual: they matter. You remember them. People rely on people to attend any sort of event which involves the mingling of others. Especially the introverts. A calendar event blocked off in their calendar and an automated reminder email does not mean they will attend. People want to feel wanted. As an event host or service provider or product evangelist, it&#39;s your job to push the event&#39;s importance out. After all, none of this would be possible without the people involved. Make them feel important, seen, and heard. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><b>Top tip</b>: Message people where the deepest connection lies. For most, I messaged on LinkedIn. For others, by WhatsApp, Instagram DM&#39;s, or text message. This also adds another layered touchpoint for them to remember you.</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/56e41bbe-cb1d-4a1a-a4e5-fcaf12cddb43/IMG_3581.jpeg?t=1732281252"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>Photo from the hotel room finishing up Power Hour #10!</p></span></div></div><h3 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="final-thoughts">Final Thoughts</h3><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">There is no one size-fit-all approach to building relationships. Everyone has different power, authority, personality, perspective, opinions, background, upbringing, education, trauma, emotions, and values. All we can do is reference stories and lessons like I&#39;m providing in this newsletter to help push you forward towards cultivating those relationships that matter. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Did this resonate? I&#39;d love to know. Reply to this email with what stuck out to you!</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Sincerely,</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">LG</p><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="updates">⚡️ Updates </h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Want to join an upcoming networking hour?</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Well you&#39;re in luck, and about to feel less lonely this Thanksgiving — join an upcoming online hour of networking and fun games in partnership with Ilias Anwar and Tapped Ai:</p><div class="section" style="background-color:transparent;border-color:#CC4A6B;border-radius:5px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;margin:10.0px 10.0px 10.0px 10.0px;padding:0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><div class="embed"><a class="embed__url" href="https://lu.ma/28typ3ms?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=017-what-i-learned-from-connecting-99-people-online" target="_blank"><div class="embed__content"><p class="embed__title"> thxgiving 🦃 networking hour · Luma </p><p class="embed__description"> Don&#39;t feel so lonely this Thanksgiving, join us for a networking hour of deep connection with others. 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This week, the results. </p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/1a751945-4d36-4da6-9d9e-67f705e7e49e/image.png?t=1731686343"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>Results from last week&#39;s poll</p></span></div></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Thank you to everyone for your votes! Amazing to see a clear winner.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This gives me a clearer picture of the vibe of the future of this newsletter and collective group. I&#39;m really liking the X part of NetworX as well. </p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I&#39;m excited to share more updates when they come! For now, please enjoy this q&a between this letter and myself to keep things moving while the wheels are turning in the background.</p><h5 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="qa-why-the-rebrand"><b>× </b>Q&A:<b> </b>Why the rebrand?<b> </b></h5><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The community has grown beyond what I originally envisioned and with this I have unlocked information about myself and what I enjoy doing and discussing. The future of work will always be core to my vision, but now I recognize the plethora of ways the future of work can be implemented. Therefore, I choose to focus on a niche need for this future: the evolution of professional relationships and online communities. </p><h5 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="qa-what-will-be-different-after-the"><b>× </b>Q&A: What will be different after the rebrand?</h5><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">The biggest change will be in newsletter topics. Expect more dives into online communities, thoughtful questions to ask in your next networking call, and strategies to unlock hidden potential within our relationships to others and ourselves. </p><h5 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="qa-what-if-i-came-here-for-the-futu"><b>× </b>Q&A: What if I came here for the Future of Work content? </h5><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">First off, I want to thank you for being here in the beginning. I iterate that the Future of Work requires online community building. As we move more online and outsource more of our tasks to automation and Ai, the relationships we share with each other will be at the core of our success in the future of work. So stick with us if that resonates!</p><h5 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="qa-when-can-we-expect-the-new-name-"><b>× </b>Q&A: When can we expect the new name to be announced?</h5><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I’m putting the final touches on it now and aiming to share it with you in the next two weeks. I want to make sure it reflects the essence of this new vision and resonates with what we’re building together in this new future.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Until then, stay tuned, and thank you for being a part of this journey.</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In loving connection,</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Lauren</p><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="updates">⚡️ Updates</h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Yesterday I had the pleasure to attend the pre-launch event for <a class="link" href="https://ps27foundation.org/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=016-in-between-the-rebrand" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">PS27 Venture&#39;s Female Founder&#39;s Forum</a>. Last year I was able to volunteer for this event — the largest international women&#39;s day event in Florida. If you check out that link, you may be able to spot me in the photo wearing a blue PS27 shirt :)</p><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Pictured below are two of my amazing female power-house friends, Fuada and Alla.</p><div class="image"><img alt="" class="image__image" style="border-radius:1px;border-style:solid;border-width:1px;box-sizing:border-box;border-color:#222222;" src="https://media.beehiiv.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=scale-down,format=auto,onerror=redirect,quality=80/uploads/asset/file/4a54b9fc-387f-408a-96d3-d8044cbe39dc/IMG_4061.jpg?t=1731687257"/><div class="image__source"><span class="image__source_text"><p>Female Founders Forum Pre-Event Meetup at Kendra Scott in Jax, FL</p></span></div></div><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Plus, join me in a special Thanksgiving Networking Hour I&#39;m co-hosting with <a class="link" href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/iliasanwar/?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=016-in-between-the-rebrand" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Ilias Anwar</a>, founder of Tapped Ai and NYC Creator Week.</p><div class="button" style="text-align:center;"><a target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow noreferrer" class="button__link" style="" href="https://lu.ma/28typ3ms?utm_source=%28direct%29&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=016-in-between-the-rebrand"><span class="button__text" style=""> Register Here! </span></a></div><hr class="content_break"><h2 class="heading" style="text-align:left;" id="playlist">🎶 Playlist </h2><p class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Every week, an updated playlist with 5 new songs. 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